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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsCalifornia waiter refused to serve 4 Latina women until he saw proof of residency
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2017/03/19/a-california-waiter-refused-to-serve-4-latina-women-until-he-saw-proof-of-residency/?utm_term=.4005c9eba19c&wpisrc=nl_&wpmm=1It was girls day out, and Diana Carrillo had abandoned her desire to eat healthy well before she, her sister and two friends got to the Southern California restaurant. The destination: Saint Marc, an upscale spot in the seaside city of Huntington Beach, where Carrillo had been once before.
As the waiter walked up to the table, Carrillo figured shed splurge on the grilled-cheese sandwich and pay the $2 up-charge to add some of the restaurants signature bacon. To start, maybe shed share a watermelon and cheese plate with her sister and friends.
But the mood soured quickly after the waiter appeared. Before he could serve the four Latina women, he said, they needed to show proof of residency. I need to make sure youre from here, he said.
Flummoxed, the four women handed over their IDs. But as what was happening sank in, they fumed. I looked at my sister and [my friend], and I said, did he really just say that?
A few moments later, they walked over to the manager and told him what had happened. He offered them a separate section and his business card to make things right but they had already decided to leave.
Still livid a few hours later, Carrillo, a 24-year-old business analyst from Orange County, Calif., posted about the incident on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/diana.carrillo.969/posts/10211955070859929?pnref=story
tenderfoot
(8,438 posts)Saint Marc Pub-Cafe, Bakery & Cheese Affinage This very unfortunate incident has been handled internally through the termination of the employee at fault. We also contacted the guest and plan to donate 10 percent of this weekends sales to the charity of her choice, Orange County Immigrant Youth United. In no way are the actions of this former employee representative of the Saint Marc brand nor are they reflective of the opinions of anyone else on our team, including executive management. We have always celebrated being part of the diverse Huntington Beach community, which means valuing all guests and treating every individual with respect.
https://www.facebook.com/SaintMarcUSA/photos/a.956773064353071.1073741829.956682897695421/1488852344478471
dalton99a
(81,635 posts)Submariner
(12,511 posts)Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Galileo126
(2,016 posts)Sorta like moving to northern Idaho and saying you hate racists.
or somptin'.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,209 posts)Believe it or not.
JI7
(89,276 posts)There just are waayyy more democrats in the state.
tanyev
(42,632 posts)Dumbass.
Boomerproud
(7,968 posts)Isn't it amazing how we are conditioned to obey people? At least the manager did the right thing.
JI7
(89,276 posts)In the moment they didn't fully process it but once they did they didn't stand for it.
TeamPooka
(24,262 posts)spot in front of the women and told them their lunch was on the house.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)Alice11111
(5,730 posts)Scene... Suck it up and not ruin everyone else's evening.
Fuck it. I guess it's time to become UN-conditioned!
pansypoo53219
(21,004 posts)did he expect a nice tip too?
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)At least, Sheriff Apaio was defeated. I don't live there, but I have friends there, and I went there for the election.
Very racists, but the AZ Republic endorsed Hillary.
pansypoo53219
(21,004 posts)ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)and hate legislation.
dalton99a
(81,635 posts)ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)he was doing his "patriotic duty". What is it about fascist dictators that makes their followers feel like they, too, can be fascists?
dalton99a
(81,635 posts)JI7
(89,276 posts)dalton99a
(81,635 posts)Blue_Warrior
(135 posts)Thrill
(19,178 posts)Where someone was from
Alice11111
(5,730 posts)a drunk woman yelling at Muslims. A Chinese Latina American took her on in Spanish and English. Wow!
She should get some sort of metal to emphasize, here is how to handle these situations. We, the people, must speak up, because our repressive government is silent, worse than silent.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)and could humiliate POC at his job with no reprisal...
BuddhaGirl
(3,611 posts)nini
(16,672 posts)But it is very odd the management never explained it that way.
It's in Orange County.. big surprise.
dalton99a
(81,635 posts)He said "I need to make sure you're from here before I serve you"
nini
(16,672 posts)I'm not defending them.
Skittles
(153,212 posts)if I take my pet to the vet, the vet doesn't verify where I am from before he agrees to treat my pet
47of74
(18,470 posts)And be complaining how all the "politically correct" types got him fired from his job, and having all sorts of excuses as to why he can be a racist douche nozzle.
infidelsavant
(31 posts)Stupid people like to emulate stupid behavior.