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Cattledog

(5,919 posts)
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 01:57 PM Mar 2017

California waiter refused to serve 4 Latina women until he saw proof of residency

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2017/03/19/a-california-waiter-refused-to-serve-4-latina-women-until-he-saw-proof-of-residency/?utm_term=.4005c9eba19c&wpisrc=nl_&wpmm=1

It was girls’ day out, and Diana Carrillo had abandoned her desire to eat healthy well before she, her sister and two friends got to the Southern California restaurant. The destination: Saint Marc, an upscale spot in the seaside city of Huntington Beach, where Carrillo had been once before.

As the waiter walked up to the table, Carrillo figured she’d splurge on the grilled-cheese sandwich and pay the $2 up-charge to add some of the restaurant’s signature bacon. To start, maybe she’d share a watermelon and cheese plate with her sister and friends.

But the mood soured quickly after the waiter appeared. Before he could serve the four Latina women, he said, they needed to show proof of residency. “I need to make sure you’re from here,” he said.

Flummoxed, the four women handed over their IDs. But as what was happening sank in, they fumed. “I looked at my sister and [my friend], and I said, did he really just say that?”

A few moments later, they walked over to the manager and told him what had happened. He offered them a separate section and his business card to make things right — but they had already decided to leave.

Still livid a few hours later, Carrillo, a 24-year-old business analyst from Orange County, Calif., posted about the incident on Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/diana.carrillo.969/posts/10211955070859929?pnref=story
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California waiter refused to serve 4 Latina women until he saw proof of residency (Original Post) Cattledog Mar 2017 OP
The employee has been sacked tenderfoot Mar 2017 #1
He's probably already found employment at a suitably Aryan establishment dalton99a Mar 2017 #8
Head Waiter Mar A Lago Submariner Mar 2017 #26
Good response by the restaurant Alice11111 Mar 2017 #27
And just why does this waiter live in my beloved California? Galileo126 Mar 2017 #2
Because plenty of racist and crazy people live in California Tommy_Carcetti Mar 2017 #4
as ted cruz said, there are more republicans in California than must solid red states JI7 Mar 2017 #11
So that waiter wouldn't serve tourists? tanyev Mar 2017 #3
As soon as he asked for I.D. I would have asked for the manager. Boomerproud Mar 2017 #5
they were at a restaurant so probably used to showing id for drinks JI7 Mar 2017 #12
Yep. dalton99a Mar 2017 #18
No the manager didn't do the right thing. The right thing would have been to fire the waiter on the TeamPooka Mar 2017 #14
Exactly. nt Blue_true Mar 2017 #24
I agree about being conditioned, not wanting to make a Alice11111 Mar 2017 #29
SHOW ME YOUR PAPERS! is this amerika or EAST GERMANY? pansypoo53219 Mar 2017 #6
Phoenix is WWII Germany Alice11111 Mar 2017 #30
the GOP florida. pansypoo53219 Mar 2017 #32
This is what you get with hate speech ProudLib72 Mar 2017 #7
Monkey see, monkey do dalton99a Mar 2017 #9
Probably thought ProudLib72 Mar 2017 #10
It's basically gang behavior, and bullying is known to be socially contagious dalton99a Mar 2017 #20
maybe someone angry that a group of latina women can afford to go there JI7 Mar 2017 #13
Yep, jealousy and white privilege dalton99a Mar 2017 #21
Scumbag Blue_Warrior Mar 2017 #15
I can't understand why a waiter would even give a shit Thrill Mar 2017 #16
Just a fucking racist. Did you see the subway video of Alice11111 Mar 2017 #31
Probably because he thinks he's better than them Blue_Tires Mar 2017 #33
Sickened that this happened in my hometown! BuddhaGirl Mar 2017 #17
I read that this restaurant offers deals for locals on certain days nini Mar 2017 #19
He didn't say "I need to make sure you're from here before I can give you a discount" dalton99a Mar 2017 #22
I know that nini Mar 2017 #34
not sure how it's his business Skittles Mar 2017 #23
I'm guessing some time in the very near future he will play the official GOP Victim Card 47of74 Mar 2017 #25
You can thank Trump for this bad behavior infidelsavant Mar 2017 #28

tenderfoot

(8,438 posts)
1. The employee has been sacked
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:04 PM
Mar 2017

Saint Marc Pub-Cafe, Bakery & Cheese Affinage This very unfortunate incident has been handled internally through the termination of the employee at fault. We also contacted the guest and plan to donate 10 percent of this weekend’s sales to the charity of her choice, Orange County Immigrant Youth United. In no way are the actions of this former employee representative of the Saint Marc brand nor are they reflective of the opinions of anyone else on our team, including executive management. We have always celebrated being part of the diverse Huntington Beach community, which means valuing all guests and treating every individual with respect.

https://www.facebook.com/SaintMarcUSA/photos/a.956773064353071.1073741829.956682897695421/1488852344478471

Galileo126

(2,016 posts)
2. And just why does this waiter live in my beloved California?
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:27 PM
Mar 2017

Sorta like moving to northern Idaho and saying you hate racists.

or somptin'.



JI7

(89,276 posts)
11. as ted cruz said, there are more republicans in California than must solid red states
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:28 PM
Mar 2017

There just are waayyy more democrats in the state.

Boomerproud

(7,968 posts)
5. As soon as he asked for I.D. I would have asked for the manager.
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 02:45 PM
Mar 2017

Isn't it amazing how we are conditioned to obey people? At least the manager did the right thing.

JI7

(89,276 posts)
12. they were at a restaurant so probably used to showing id for drinks
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:31 PM
Mar 2017

In the moment they didn't fully process it but once they did they didn't stand for it.

TeamPooka

(24,262 posts)
14. No the manager didn't do the right thing. The right thing would have been to fire the waiter on the
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:35 PM
Mar 2017

spot in front of the women and told them their lunch was on the house.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
29. I agree about being conditioned, not wanting to make a
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 10:31 PM
Mar 2017

Scene... Suck it up and not ruin everyone else's evening.
Fuck it. I guess it's time to become UN-conditioned!

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
30. Phoenix is WWII Germany
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 10:35 PM
Mar 2017

At least, Sheriff Apaio was defeated. I don't live there, but I have friends there, and I went there for the election.
Very racists, but the AZ Republic endorsed Hillary.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
10. Probably thought
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 04:27 PM
Mar 2017

he was doing his "patriotic duty". What is it about fascist dictators that makes their followers feel like they, too, can be fascists?

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
31. Just a fucking racist. Did you see the subway video of
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 10:40 PM
Mar 2017

a drunk woman yelling at Muslims. A Chinese Latina American took her on in Spanish and English. Wow!
She should get some sort of metal to emphasize, here is how to handle these situations. We, the people, must speak up, because our repressive government is silent, worse than silent.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
33. Probably because he thinks he's better than them
Mon Mar 20, 2017, 02:59 PM
Mar 2017

and could humiliate POC at his job with no reprisal...

nini

(16,672 posts)
19. I read that this restaurant offers deals for locals on certain days
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 05:05 PM
Mar 2017

But it is very odd the management never explained it that way.

It's in Orange County.. big surprise.

dalton99a

(81,635 posts)
22. He didn't say "I need to make sure you're from here before I can give you a discount"
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 05:16 PM
Mar 2017

He said "I need to make sure you're from here before I serve you"

Skittles

(153,212 posts)
23. not sure how it's his business
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 05:33 PM
Mar 2017

if I take my pet to the vet, the vet doesn't verify where I am from before he agrees to treat my pet

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
25. I'm guessing some time in the very near future he will play the official GOP Victim Card
Sun Mar 19, 2017, 10:21 PM
Mar 2017


And be complaining how all the "politically correct" types got him fired from his job, and having all sorts of excuses as to why he can be a racist douche nozzle.
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