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MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:02 PM Feb 2017

A common greeting in some tribal areas in Africa is "I see you."

It's a greeting that is far more significant than most people recognize. Here in the United States, we often fail to "see" others. When you say, "I see you," you are saying far more than "Hi," or "Hello." You are saying that you recognize the existence of someone other than yourself. By "seeing" someone, you acknowledge that person's presence without any judgment at all.

I would like it very much if we started "seeing" the people we encounter and letting them know they have been "seen." Seeing is not the same as "looking at." It implies recognition. When you begin "seeing" the people around you, it is much harder to hate them or fear them.

That is why the makers of the film "Avatar" incorporated that greeting into the language of the people of Pandora.

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A common greeting in some tribal areas in Africa is "I see you." (Original Post) MineralMan Feb 2017 OP
Namaste SticksnStones Feb 2017 #1
There you go! MineralMan Feb 2017 #2
That's probably true! SticksnStones Feb 2017 #3
That would creep me right the fuck out. bunnies Feb 2017 #4
That's really unfortunate. MineralMan Feb 2017 #5
I lived for years dealing with a stalker who would send me notes with similar phrasing. bunnies Feb 2017 #7
Hmm. I'm sorry about that. However, "I see you" is not the same as MineralMan Feb 2017 #8
The response to "I see you" is "I am here" in those languages. MineralMan Feb 2017 #6
Interesting Bayard Feb 2017 #9
Hmmm... Interesting... Blue_Tires Feb 2017 #10
 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
4. That would creep me right the fuck out.
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:11 PM
Feb 2017

I can't say exactly what my response would be if some strange guy said "I see you" to me out of nowhere. But I guarantee that he'd get stone-cold silence and I'd have pepper spray at the ready.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
5. That's really unfortunate.
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:17 PM
Feb 2017

Makes me sad, really. However, it's not a common greeting in this country, so you're unlikely to encounter that fearsome situation. More's the pity.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
7. I lived for years dealing with a stalker who would send me notes with similar phrasing.
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:44 PM
Feb 2017

I'm sure that has something to do with how I perceive such statements these days.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
8. Hmm. I'm sorry about that. However, "I see you" is not the same as
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:49 PM
Feb 2017

"I am watching you." Very different intent.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
6. The response to "I see you" is "I am here" in those languages.
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 12:34 PM
Feb 2017

I'm learning a little Hmong, since about a third of my block's homes are owned by Hmong families. The standard greeting in the Hmong language translates literally to "Live well." If you ask how someone is, the Hmong phrase translates to "How do you live?" The polite response translates to, "I live well, and you?"

English is not so different. "Hello" is really just a shortened version of "Hail to you." Most people don't know that, but our standard greeting is also a recognition and acceptance of another.

Bayard

(22,123 posts)
9. Interesting
Tue Feb 28, 2017, 01:20 PM
Feb 2017

I thought it was original to Avatar. That's how I greet all my animals in the morning when I go out to feed. Love that movie. I agree, it conveys so much more than a simple hello, but don't see it gaining ground with the general populace here. We are so superficial.

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