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brooklynite

(94,603 posts)
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 09:36 PM Feb 2017

Boyfriend's comment about girlfriend's 'OK' spaghetti dinner leads to hours-long standoff with N.H.

New York Daily News:

Jodi Ecklund of Merrimack, N.H., barricaded herself inside her apartment with a Glock .9-mm and a M4 assault rifle after her live-in boyfriend told her that her spaghetti dinner was "OK," NH1 reports.

Before fleeing the apartment and calling police, Jason Martin was allegedly punched in the face and arm by his girlfriend, who locked the door once he left.

When officers with the Merrimack Police Department arrived, Ecklund allegedly warned officers she would kill them if they entered her residence.

As the standoff continued Saturday afternoon, the piqued provider of pasta began destroying items inside the apartment, even going so far as to launch some of Martin's possessions out a window to the parking lot below.


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Boyfriend's comment about girlfriend's 'OK' spaghetti dinner leads to hours-long standoff with N.H. (Original Post) brooklynite Feb 2017 OP
"...the piqued provider of pasta." yallerdawg Feb 2017 #1
Ramen! irisblue Feb 2017 #22
Meecy micey... pinboy3niner Feb 2017 #2
wow that's one pretty pissy pasta provider! nt steve2470 Feb 2017 #3
holy crap. DesertFlower Feb 2017 #4
Damn ... 6 felonies for this?! Really?! ... some things uponit7771 Feb 2017 #5
There's a whole culture of violence out there. Baitball Blogger Feb 2017 #6
What an artistic way 90-percent Feb 2017 #7
Wow, kind of over the top. n/t Zing Zing Zingbah Feb 2017 #8
Glad it doesn't begin with "A Florida man...: svpadgham Feb 2017 #9
me too lol nt steve2470 Feb 2017 #10
Florida has 20 million people thereabouts. Plenty of Blue_true Feb 2017 #19
Rule #1: Never piss off the cook. democratisphere Feb 2017 #11
Good sauce should not be taken lightly. Trust Buster Feb 2017 #12
not to condone, but..... pepperbear Feb 2017 #13
her personal choices have nothing to do with any boyfriend nt msongs Feb 2017 #15
she has extreme issues Skittles Feb 2017 #17
I wonder how her chile tastes? yortsed snacilbuper Feb 2017 #14
Just like her spaghetti, I hear. It's all she knows how to make! randome Feb 2017 #20
My husband even knows to never ever say that something I prepare is "not bad!" eleny Feb 2017 #16
New Hampshire Woman DavidDvorkin Feb 2017 #18
It wasn't al dente. Historic NY Feb 2017 #21

90-percent

(6,829 posts)
7. What an artistic way
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 09:49 PM
Feb 2017

for a woman to ruin her life! I give her one news cycle! As the pinnacle achievement of her misdirected life.

-90% Jimmy

pepperbear

(5,648 posts)
13. not to condone, but.....
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 10:02 PM
Feb 2017

of course she over-reacted, to put it mildly, but could this could this have been the result of a history of severe under-appreciation and neglect on the part of the boyfriend?

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
17. she has extreme issues
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 10:19 PM
Feb 2017

the press trivializes mental illness when they claim such ridiculous reasons are the cause

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
20. Just like her spaghetti, I hear. It's all she knows how to make!
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 11:17 PM
Feb 2017

She puts spaghetti on cakes. She has spaghetti with milk on it for breakfast. Spaghetti & mustard sandwiches for lunch! She's like Lisa Douglas, only with spaghetti instead of hotcakes.

eleny

(46,166 posts)
16. My husband even knows to never ever say that something I prepare is "not bad!"
Thu Feb 9, 2017, 10:09 PM
Feb 2017

.................... ....................

I say that there's a long history of contention over meals in that household. He finally plucked her last nerve. But she should have just dumped the whole dinner into the trash and walked out. Grabbing a weapon?

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