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What a classy guy. No wonder Melania wants to stay in Manhatten. (Original Post) RandySF Jan 2017 OP
OMG! Are you kidding me? Is this photo real? Unbelievable! skylucy Jan 2017 #1
It's real. Here's the video Yavin4 Jan 2017 #11
Notice that Pres. OBAMA takes her hand and helps her up the steps. nt tblue37 Jan 2017 #13
The Obamas are so warm with one another, and it spills over to others. Michelle held out her hand... Hekate Jan 2017 #17
Here's the contrasting video side-by side pkdu Jan 2017 #21
The Video Proves Beyond A Shadow of Doubt.... LovingA2andMI Jan 2017 #23
In the vid, you can hear Obama telling where to stand dixiegrrrrl Jan 2017 #31
A lumbering fucking oaf Stinky The Clown Jan 2017 #36
Notice the difference in the way Pres. Obama and VP Biden treated their wives tblue37 Jan 2017 #15
I have never been one who cares if the man opens Doreen Jan 2017 #2
This is a special circumstance, too. yardwork Jan 2017 #30
A retired General on CNN madaboutharry Jan 2017 #3
Good points. elleng Jan 2017 #9
That's what I was thinking. He was excited for himself. So, it's all about himself. C Moon Jan 2017 #19
"situational awareness" ...excellent point.... dixiegrrrrl Jan 2017 #27
But he definitely makes sure he's always in front of 15 American flags lunatica Jan 2017 #29
What an ultrmaroon ornotna Jan 2017 #4
Was Mr.Manners brought up in a barn? democratisphere Jan 2017 #5
That is so, so bad. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2017 #6
that is so sad I almost feel sympathetic nt msongs Jan 2017 #7
What an asshole. Kath2 Jan 2017 #8
What a dick! smirkymonkey Jan 2017 #10
I saw a video of him leaving her behind like that when walking to a rally, too, tblue37 Jan 2017 #12
He always walks ahead of her as well malaise Jan 2017 #14
I will admit that when I first thought of her as being a foreign born First Lady colorado_ufo Jan 2017 #16
I agree. Duppers Jan 2017 #22
There is the language barrier, as well. colorado_ufo Jan 2017 #24
My brightest bulb comment Duppers Jan 2017 #32
LOL! I thought you were referring to her colorado_ufo Jan 2017 #33
All of the above actually. Duppers Jan 2017 #38
Indeed. What a classy guy. calimary Jan 2017 #18
Heres the contrasting side-by side video...no words pkdu Jan 2017 #20
Wow colorado_ufo Jan 2017 #25
"Free Melania!" Sparkly Jan 2017 #26
Jerk Achilleaze Jan 2017 #28
There's another one where Obama and Trump are standing on steps and the wives approach their Baitball Blogger Jan 2017 #34
He'd probably have his arm around Ivanka, near her butt. Buckeye_Democrat Jan 2017 #35
LOL...in the vid around 24 seconds Barack is telling Michelle.. Bengus81 Jan 2017 #37
"The woman who marries for money... alterfurz Jan 2017 #39

Hekate

(90,784 posts)
17. The Obamas are so warm with one another, and it spills over to others. Michelle held out her hand...
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:49 AM
Jan 2017

...to Melania, gave her the European kiss on both cheeks, as did President Obama.

The person who said Twitler has no situational awareness is right. That, and he is cold as ice to his wife.

LovingA2andMI

(7,006 posts)
23. The Video Proves Beyond A Shadow of Doubt....
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 04:47 AM
Jan 2017

There is NO LOVE in that "fake marriage" of Cheeto and Melania. No love at all. Melania is just a prop. Likely Hope Hicks is the "real" Ms. Trump.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
31. In the vid, you can hear Obama telling where to stand
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 12:05 PM
Jan 2017

and saying "I'm always on the left"...little Presidential etiquette that will probably not take root with Trump.

tblue37

(65,483 posts)
15. Notice the difference in the way Pres. Obama and VP Biden treated their wives
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:46 AM
Jan 2017

in 2009 when Bush welcomed them to the White House.

The Bidens are at 1:27; the Obamas at 2:26. Both men go around the car to join their wives and then climb the steps with them.

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Doreen

(11,686 posts)
2. I have never been one who cares if the man opens
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 02:11 AM
Jan 2017

the door for me but I DO like it when he waits and walks up WITH me. What an ass.

yardwork

(61,702 posts)
30. This is a special circumstance, too.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 12:03 PM
Jan 2017

The symbolism here is much more important than whether or not Melania actually needed physical assistance.

madaboutharry

(40,219 posts)
3. A retired General on CNN
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 02:12 AM
Jan 2017

this evening said Trump has no "situational awareness" and isn't a leader.

Trump lives in Trump world. Everyone else is there for his convenience.

For all the luxury, her life probably sucks.

elleng

(131,081 posts)
9. Good points.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 02:44 AM
Jan 2017

This likely won't be the last time we see such (but for the fact she won't be in DC much, for a while anyway.)

The Secret Service will treat her much better than he will, for sure.

C Moon

(12,221 posts)
19. That's what I was thinking. He was excited for himself. So, it's all about himself.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 04:06 AM
Jan 2017

He also may have been nervous, but I highly doubt that.
I saw when they pulled up, Obama gave him a thumbs up, and you can see Trump giving a thumbs up back—but he looks like a 10-year-old, "Oh, there they are!"

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
27. "situational awareness" ...excellent point....
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 11:59 AM
Jan 2017

His head is so full of Me-Me-Me and want-want-want and attack-attack-attack there is no room for manners.
I watched the greeting and giving of that box bit, Trump just barged between Melania and Michelle, forcing Obama to walk around Melania to take the box and hand it off. So awkward.


lunatica

(53,410 posts)
29. But he definitely makes sure he's always in front of 15 American flags
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 12:01 PM
Jan 2017

His mind is always about image. Thus he rarely walks among his people, but instead stands at a podium with a dozen flags behind him.

Otherwise he just looks like a floundering fish out of water. And I'm sure that's the lack of 'situational awareness' the general was talking about.

tblue37

(65,483 posts)
12. I saw a video of him leaving her behind like that when walking to a rally, too,
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:37 AM
Jan 2017

during the primaries. That is exactly who he is.

colorado_ufo

(5,737 posts)
16. I will admit that when I first thought of her as being a foreign born First Lady
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:48 AM
Jan 2017

I was somewhat taken back by the idea. But she is honestly the only likeable one of the bunch! (With the exception of Tiffany - the unknown daughter.) Melania never wanted a political life and was thrown into it, and I think she was actually "thrown under the bus" when it came to that speech that stole from Michelle Obama: Someone had to have written it, forced her to say that SHE wrote it, and set her up - if only to tweak the Democrats.

Trump just treats her like another one of his possessions, something to show off and brag about - even after they had a son together. There is no love apparent there, and the way he treats her is shameful.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
22. I agree.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 04:26 AM
Jan 2017

Anyone notice how Pres. Obama kissed Michelle's hand when she was escorted to join him at the ceremony but Trump just threw a glancing nod at Melania. Saw the clip posted on FB as just another example of the difference in the two men.

I tire of people calling Melania a slut. I think she did what some other poor women do when stuck in poverty - make really bad decisions about how to get out. Poor thing is obviously not the brightest bulb in that crystal chandelier.


colorado_ufo

(5,737 posts)
24. There is the language barrier, as well.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 11:46 AM
Jan 2017

This will sometimes make a person seem not as bright as he or she actually is. Plus, I think he intimidates the living hell out of her.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
32. My brightest bulb comment
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 12:11 PM
Jan 2017

Was aimed at her choosing a soft porn career. But..but it got her noticed, so I take it back.

And I agree that she's intimidated. She has my sympathy.



Duppers

(28,125 posts)
38. All of the above actually.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:04 PM
Jan 2017

I was indeed thinking of her marrying him but also her porn ("modeling&quot career preTrump. Don't know why I just mention that.



calimary

(81,450 posts)
18. Indeed. What a classy guy.
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 03:58 AM
Jan 2017

I actually feel sorry for her.

And she never looks happy when she makes public appearances.

That photo's tell-tale for sure. It's always all about him. And everybody/anybody else is just "meh." Another thing he owns.

Selfish, thoughtless, world-class JERK!

Baitball Blogger

(46,757 posts)
34. There's another one where Obama and Trump are standing on steps and the wives approach their
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 12:56 PM
Jan 2017

husbands. Obama and Michelle lock hands and Melanie's little hand brush against her husband's hand goes ignored.

Bengus81

(6,932 posts)
37. LOL...in the vid around 24 seconds Barack is telling Michelle..
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 01:15 PM
Jan 2017

Heh he...I got an idea,lets just walk back in and LOCK the doors to the WH. Michelle leans closer and say WHAT?? She says we can't do that! At about 37 he's saying YES WE CAN. Then Michelle kind of shrugs like hell...let's GO FOR IT! Then she goes oh stop it,we have to let them in.

alterfurz

(2,474 posts)
39. "The woman who marries for money...
Sun Jan 22, 2017, 05:41 PM
Jan 2017

...works hard for it everyday."

The Happy Couple post-inauguration, at the Capital Luncheon

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