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(22,758 posts)brace for the abuse
yardwork
(61,712 posts)yardwork
(61,712 posts)Trump isn't a boyfriend. The idea that a bad woman - a bad mother - is at the heart of all problems is a deeply sexist myth.
In fact, we had a wonderful mother running for president. Trump isn't her boyfriend.
mac56
(17,574 posts)Good OP, mac56. Some perspectives are frustratingly difficult to follow. Have a good day and thanks for your post.
yardwork
(61,712 posts)I'm really fed up with this stupid casual sexism. It's bullshit.
mac56
(17,574 posts)sarah FAILIN
(2,857 posts)Not Clinton or the mom. At least imo..
DK504
(3,847 posts)It's always the woman that doesn't have the strength to stand up to an abuser. It's kinda old.
DetlefK
(16,423 posts)The "mother" is clearly the US, not Clinton.
yardwork
(61,712 posts)What is this bullshit.
DetlefK
(16,423 posts)Because Obama is a man and Trump is a man. That's why he is the creepy boyfriend.
The joke doesn't work if you reverse the genders, because then it would be mommy leaving daddy and daddy's lying, dick-grabbing, shady girlfriend moving in. And apart from the joke not working anymore because the characters have become unregognizable, there would be ONE HELL OF A PANTIES-IN-A-TWIST OVER-REACTION HERE ON DU because someone dared to portray a female character as a bad person.
So, which female character do you prefer? The mother with the creepy boyfriend or the trashy dickgrabber?
pangaia
(24,324 posts)randr
(12,417 posts)sarah FAILIN
(2,857 posts)I don't see that.
progressoid
(49,999 posts)It's the premise of the joke.
Bucky
(54,087 posts)so much forehead, so little palm...
sarge43
(28,946 posts)It's just as sexist and false to imply women don't. We're human beings; we can fuck up just like the guys and do.
In fact, the analogy had nothing to do with Hillary Clinton.
Butterflylady
(3,550 posts)Exactly what I was thinking.
sarge43
(28,946 posts)A pedestal is a very restrictive environment.
Welcome to DU. Keep your arms inside the car at all times.
PatrickforO
(14,593 posts)pangaia
(24,324 posts)It makes ME, as an American, the 'mom,'
Bucky
(54,087 posts)(mom is a metaphor for the whole country)
niyad
(113,594 posts)yardwork
(61,712 posts)You seem to be the only one who gets it. This is one reason why Hillary Clinton lost. There is a lot of casual sexism even among so-called progressives. And they really get mad when it's pointed out.
niyad
(113,594 posts)sexist but because we are principled" or some variant thereof.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)I just passed it onto some like minded people. Ignore those who are always looking for something to be outraged about.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)"and I just want to go live with grandpa" memes that were populating FB during the election....
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,129 posts)demmiblue
(36,898 posts)to Joe Biden!
The Polack MSgt
(13,200 posts)I will miss Uncle Joe so much
progressoid
(49,999 posts)Ligyron
(7,639 posts)Ignore idiots
great analogy...nothing sexist about it.
niyad
(113,594 posts)PatrickforO
(14,593 posts)randr
(12,417 posts)and they move into your room
Iggo
(47,572 posts)Except his kids were nice.
Still, Young Iggo didn't have his own room anymore.