And I'm not saying that as if they were dumb or anything... it wouldn't be worth their while to try to persuade me to become a Republican, either. I'm just as set in my ways as they are.
Facts and information (e.g. about economics and federal payments to the red states, not even about cultural things like Darwinism or LGBTQ tolerance or anything like that) haven't had an impact so far. Most of those people (correct me if I'm wrong, but this is how it seems from everything I've been reading lately, and also from visits with my grandparents) are insular and like it that way. And that's fine! I like a sense of community, history, shared cultural experiences, etc, too. So efforts should be focused on where they will do the most good. We unfortunately just have to come to terms with the fact that there are two Americas, red and blue. I wish it were otherwise, but that's the way it probably is for at least the foreseeable future.
TL;DR: yeah, I agree with you... especially since you know whereof you speak.