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11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
2. When I was younger, I served as an escort at clinics in NOVA.
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 05:41 PM
Nov 2016

I qualify for Medicare now, but I'm feeling the urge to get involved once again. I'll be carrying my old K-Bar

MADem

(135,425 posts)
3. From what I understand, the idea of the pin is to let others know you aren't an asshole.
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 06:04 PM
Nov 2016

If you're getting the side eye because someone thinks you are a Trumphumper, the safety pin is supposed to alert people that you aren't one of those jerks.

There are a LOT of racists/sexists/homophobes/other assorted bigots out there, and some of 'em aren't real obvious at first blush.

You could wear the hatpin for defense, and the safety pin for empathy.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
6. I live in a blue city, but work in a red county.
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 06:32 PM
Nov 2016

Believe me, nobody has the faintest idea what a safety pin might mean.

I don't pay that much attention to people's clothes, jewelry etc.

Silly idea.

alfie

(522 posts)
7. Some that I have met know what it means.
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 07:45 PM
Nov 2016

The ones who don't will ask and it gives me a minute to educate them.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
9. If I saw a safety pin on someone's clothes, I wouldn't say a word (before I knew this silly practice
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 08:27 PM
Nov 2016

I'd assume they had a wardrobe malfunction.

This will have as much effect as the twitter storm over the missing girls.

Nothing. It's silly.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/dear-white-people-your-safety-pins-are-embarassing_us_58278b9de4b02b1f5257a36a

meow2u3

(24,774 posts)
10. There's some history behind the hatpin for self-defense
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 08:30 PM
Nov 2016

On the afternoon of May 28, 1903, Leoti Blaker, a young Kansan touring New York City, boarded a Fifth Avenue stagecoach at 23rd Street and settled in for the ride. The coach was crowded, and when it jostled she noticed that the man next to her settled himself an inch closer to her. She made a silent assessment: elderly, elegantly dressed, “benevolent-looking.” The horse picked up speed and the stage jumped, tossing the passengers at one another again, and now the man was touching her, hip to hip, shoulder to shoulder. When he lifted his arm and draped it low across her back, Leoti had enough. In a move that would thrill victim of modern-day subway harassment, she reached for her hatpin—nearly a foot long—and plunged it into the meat of the man’s arm. He let out a terrible scream and left the coach at the next stop.

“He was such a nice-looking old gentleman I was sorry to hurt him,” she told the New York World. “I’ve heard about Broadway mashers and ‘L’ mashers, but I didn’t know Fifth Avenue had a particular brand of its own…. If New York women will tolerate mashing, Kansas girls will not.”

Newspapers across the country began reporting similar encounters with “mashers,” period slang for lecherous or predatory men (defined more delicately in Theodore Dreiser’s Sister Carrie as “one whose dress or manners are calculated to elicit the admiration of susceptible young women”). A New York City housewife fended off a man who brushed up against her on a crowded Columbus Avenue streetcar and asked if he might “see her home.” A Chicago showgirl, bothered by a masher’s “insulting questions,” beat him in the face with her umbrella until he staggered away. A St. Louis schoolteacher drove her would-be attacker away by slashing his face with her hatpin. Such stories were notable not only for their frequency but also for their laudatory tone; for the first time, women who fought back against harassers were regarded as heroes rather than comic characters, as subjects rather than objects. Society was transitioning, slowly but surely, from expecting and advocating female dependence on men to recognizing their desire and ability to defend themselves.



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panader0

(25,816 posts)
11. It seems about as relevant as carrying around a Chia Pet.
Wed Nov 16, 2016, 08:33 PM
Nov 2016

I guess fads like that don't make out here to the boonies.

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