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This entire election is a trigger. (Original Post) boston bean Oct 2016 OP
Yup. I can't imagine that there are many women The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2016 #1
Agree a thousand times over !! boston bean Oct 2016 #2
me too! kpete Oct 2016 #19
Amen. I have retreated to HGTV and the Food Network. Laurian Oct 2016 #3
I hear you Laurian! (hugs) boston bean Oct 2016 #4
gaslighting, negging, stalking, bullying obamanut2012 Oct 2016 #5
(((hugs))) obamanaut. boston bean Oct 2016 #6
Best to you, me too. uppityperson Oct 2016 #9
Yup. After being together 20 yrs, my partner learned about my past that I'd never talked about. uppityperson Oct 2016 #7
I understand the never talking about it. (((Hugs))) boston bean Oct 2016 #8
I had a huge anxiety attack yesterday and have been sleeping poorly. Starry Messenger Oct 2016 #10
So sorry, Starry!!! (((hugs))) boston bean Oct 2016 #11
Consider that one-third of women are assaulted or raped Ilsa Oct 2016 #12
I think more than 1/3 of women have been groped as we call it... boston bean Oct 2016 #15
My anger is triggered by his denial, dismissiveness, and Ilsa Oct 2016 #13
It's been exhausting undergroundpanther Oct 2016 #14
(((hugs))) boston bean Oct 2016 #16
Hang in there. Ilsa Oct 2016 #17
yes, I have been thinking this too.. having been raped, ellenrr Oct 2016 #18

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
1. Yup. I can't imagine that there are many women
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 08:16 PM
Oct 2016

who haven't been subjected to the sort of predatory, assaultive behavior we're hearing Trump inflicted on women (apparently many women). We hear about these actions and know exactly how it feels to be on the receiving end of them. Any woman who still supports him has to be in a deep state of denial.

obamanut2012

(26,080 posts)
5. gaslighting, negging, stalking, bullying
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 08:46 PM
Oct 2016

Trump and his campaign are so triggering my PTSD about my abusive ex.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
7. Yup. After being together 20 yrs, my partner learned about my past that I'd never talked about.
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 09:12 PM
Oct 2016

The reason why was to let them know it's not just Those Other Women but me.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
12. Consider that one-third of women are assaulted or raped
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:09 PM
Oct 2016

Or had sexual battery committed against them in their lifetime. I bet one-fourth of women voters feel a trigger hearing these stories. It is bound to affect their opinion of drumfp. It does mine.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
13. My anger is triggered by his denial, dismissiveness, and
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:11 PM
Oct 2016

sexual abuse of women. I've been angier than usual at him at those that make excuses for him.

undergroundpanther

(11,925 posts)
14. It's been exhausting
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 12:23 AM
Oct 2016

And difficult for me .not eating much or sleeping,headahes,triggets,tired. It's been really rough. I hope trump loses so bad his ego implodes . Hope all the other survivors out there tale Care of themselves and each other.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
17. Hang in there.
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 08:38 AM
Oct 2016

Maybe find some time to unplug or read some easy, fun fiction.

It's so frustrating and aggravating, just for starters. I'm glad we have each other to vent to.

ellenrr

(3,864 posts)
18. yes, I have been thinking this too.. having been raped,
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 10:18 AM
Oct 2016

and groped, and humiliated, and put down, etc etc etc.

as so many women have -- I can no longer listen to quotes from that '05 tape, which are played incessantly.

I am glad it came out, and I am glad people know the content.
I am not advocating that it should be censored-- but there comes a point where some people appear to be playing it and playing it and playing it for its prurient value.

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