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boston bean

(36,224 posts)
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 08:35 PM Sep 2016

so is there any denial about the misogyny being the driving factor in most

criticisms of Hillary?

The woman can't even work through pneumonia without assholes tearing her down. Boy there are some really lame assed people out there, huh?

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so is there any denial about the misogyny being the driving factor in most (Original Post) boston bean Sep 2016 OP
No more than there is about racism fueling birtherism. Oldem Sep 2016 #1
bs Skittles Sep 2016 #4
Thank you. senseandsensibility Sep 2016 #19
Very sorry to offend, Oldem Sep 2016 #34
understood Skittles Sep 2016 #37
as racism affected Obama's term I fear misogyny will limit Clinton's irisblue Sep 2016 #2
Someone on Hardball last week wheniwasincongress Sep 2016 #3
My abusive ex told me he believed for years that women never get sick Tsiyu Sep 2016 #5
Not for nothing but my wife never gets sick Egnever Sep 2016 #24
I know, for god's sake! Human beings get sick! smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #6
I know. At least HRC will get well. Laffy Kat Sep 2016 #7
Exactly! smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #8
I prefer the word dildo--as in plastic, not real, imitation. niyad Sep 2016 #11
Well...no one in your office has their finger on the nuclear button davidn3600 Sep 2016 #13
Get ready for 4 years of this... TipTok Sep 2016 #14
Secretary of State wasn't a nine-to-five job, either, but she's not a robot. Real people get sick. deurbano Sep 2016 #17
She's getting more attention with this because of her past medical issues davidn3600 Sep 2016 #18
Bush was merely lampooned for fainting in Japan, yet no one was actually concerned he was unfit LanternWaste Sep 2016 #32
Wait what? She is not a robot? Egnever Sep 2016 #25
I think they need to be real careful as to how much they want to attack her for getting sick. Warren DeMontague Sep 2016 #16
I mean, its not like she choked on a goddamn pretzel or anything. smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #20
you mean "choked" on a "pretzel"? Warren DeMontague Sep 2016 #21
*snort* smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #22
Right again BB.. Texasgal Sep 2016 #9
Fact! sheshe2 Sep 2016 #10
most of us know that misogyny is at the heart of most of the crap against HRC, no matter niyad Sep 2016 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author HellNoKitty Sep 2016 #23
According to a couple posts in this very thread ismnotwasm Sep 2016 #15
+1000 brer cat Sep 2016 #29
From day one. baldguy Sep 2016 #26
I've known it for years. See the most recent primary battle. It is universal. nt LexVegas Sep 2016 #27
Because she's a woman, most criticism is just misogyny? The2ndWheel Sep 2016 #28
Post removed Post removed Sep 2016 #30
LOL kwolf68 Sep 2016 #31
winning the Smith debate club <> winning the election foo_bar Sep 2016 #33
People not voting for Clinton in this election have no shame. NCTraveler Sep 2016 #36
Sure there is. NCTraveler Sep 2016 #35
Friends and I overheard 2 guys talking last weekend Ruby the Liberal Sep 2016 #38

Skittles

(153,227 posts)
4. bs
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 09:15 PM
Sep 2016

sexism is far more pervasive than racism

there has never been a female president and WE ARE OVER HALF THE POPULATION

Oldem

(833 posts)
34. Very sorry to offend,
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 12:37 PM
Sep 2016

but it was unintentional. I was attempting to point out that both are base and damnable motives. As a newbie, I foolishly assumed that we all shared the same values.

Skittles

(153,227 posts)
37. understood
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 05:44 PM
Sep 2016

but Hillary has been attacked for DECADES and make no mistake - if she had a non-USA born parent her birth certificate would be yet another bullshit 'scandal'

irisblue

(33,039 posts)
2. as racism affected Obama's term I fear misogyny will limit Clinton's
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 08:55 PM
Sep 2016

Unless Dems get the House and/or Senate, I fear the ugliness of Reps and conservatives.

wheniwasincongress

(1,307 posts)
3. Someone on Hardball last week
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 08:59 PM
Sep 2016

said the discussion around Hillary's health is related to questions of fertility, of a woman being infertile. In other words, yes, it's misogyny.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
5. My abusive ex told me he believed for years that women never get sick
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 09:19 PM
Sep 2016

because his mother never seemed to, so women must have special secret powers.

The truth is his father didn't even know how to find a spoon in the kitchen, and he expected his wife to do everything without wavering. And she was one of those women who said "okie dokie" because that's what their generation did.

There still seems to be this idea among the mouthbreathers that women aren't supposed to get sick. But it's perfectly fine if men in positions of power suffer illnesses. They're the "stronger sex" but somehow they're allowed to be weaker than women because of it?

I just keep hoping Trump drops from exhaustion soon, so we can see the true misogyny in action.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
24. Not for nothing but my wife never gets sick
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 02:56 AM
Sep 2016

Pisses me off

Kids come home with the crud all the time and I get waylaid and it just passes her by. Meh

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
6. I know, for god's sake! Human beings get sick!
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 09:23 PM
Sep 2016

Particularly when they are under stress and illnesses are flying around all over the place. It is not a personal weakness. It make me sick how Trump and the MSM is trying to turn this in to a character weakness. Half the people in my office are sick right now. Should they all be fired?

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
8. Exactly!
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 09:46 PM
Sep 2016

She'll be better in a few days, but he'll always be a major effing asswipe. There is NO curing that!

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
13. Well...no one in your office has their finger on the nuclear button
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 10:25 PM
Sep 2016

The President of the United States is the highest office of the land. They have to do press conferences (something Hillary obviously doesn't like doing). They have to give speeches. They have to lead the country and form policy. They have to meet foreign leaders.

This isn't a 9-5 desk job. At any second of the day the President could be called upon to make life and death decisions. If there is an illness that could effect their decision-making or distract from their duties, that is very important to voters to know. Ronald Reagan had Alzheimer's in latter year of his presidency. And it was being hidden from the public. That's very bad for obvious reasons. But even John McCain was questioned heavily concerning the skin cancer he had in the past. Hillary couldnt even get herself in the van on Sunday without people dragging her in as fast as they could so the cameras can't see. Then they don't even go to the hospital. People are obviously going to ask questions.

The campaign even admits they handled it wrong.

deurbano

(2,896 posts)
17. Secretary of State wasn't a nine-to-five job, either, but she's not a robot. Real people get sick.
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 12:40 AM
Sep 2016

She's had more experience than almost anyone on the planet in meeting foreign leaders and giving speeches. (Yes, she doesn't like press conferences.) People faint-- or almost faint-- all the time, without having to go to the hospital, especially if they know the reason. I (and my children) tend to have blood pressure a little on the low side, and we can start to faint when we are a little dehydrated and/or standing up first thing in the morning. I completely collapsed and briefly passed out several times in my childhood--- when it was hot and I had to stand a long time (like when I was singing in a choir), and no one ever took me to a hospital. (In fact, during another choir performance, three other kids passed out, and it was regarded as more amusing than anything else.) Besides, Clinton-- like Bush, when he fainted after choking on the pretzel-- had immediate access to good medical care without having to visit a hospital. "Couldn't even get herself in the van?" That's what happens when people faint or start to faint. "Dragging her in as fast as they could so the cameras can't see?" Should the people trying to help her into the van have let her fall on the ground in order to satisfy inquiring minds? When Bush, Sr. threw up and fainted at a public dinner, of course they tried to give him as much privacy as possible as he regained his composure:

http://abcnews.go.com/Archives/video/jan-11-1992-president-bush-sick-japan-9357727

Here is Petraeus, who was either fainting-- or starting to faint-- and he was sitting down! (Clinton was grilled for 11 hours in a much more hostile environment without exhibiting any health issues.) He wasn't rushed to the hospital, either.



And of course, Kerry also "hid from the public" his own similar case of mild pneumonia when he was running for president:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12512413575

It sure seems the standards are different for Clinton.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
18. She's getting more attention with this because of her past medical issues
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 01:33 AM
Sep 2016

You are not really comparing apples to apples here. You are acting as if a male candidate was never scrutinized with the medical history. Yes they have been...John McCain was at first. But he was medically healthy and his cancer had cleared.

In the past, it was easier to hide medical problems. Voters didnt even know the extend of FDR's inability to walk. No one had any idea of JFK's pain problems. But that's not because of "male privilege." It's because back then information didnt travel as fast. It was easier to conceal. And the media wasn't quite as cut-throat. Before the 1960 elections, presidential debates were not even televised. It was over the radio. Medical technology also wasn't as advanced.

Today, these candidates are in front of the cameras EVERY SINGLE DAY in high definition. Every little bump on the face is scrutinized. If FDR was running for president today instead of the 1930s, he wouldnt have a chance of winning.

On DU, we make fun of Trump's orange-ish color to his skin. We laugh when a naked statue is made of him or when "little hands" jokes are made. He's criticized and mocked constantly just as Hillary is. It's just the way it is now.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
32. Bush was merely lampooned for fainting in Japan, yet no one was actually concerned he was unfit
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 11:16 AM
Sep 2016

Bush was merely lampooned for fainting in Japan, yet no one was actually concerned he was unfit for office due to that. No one is

You're rationalizing excuses.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
16. I think they need to be real careful as to how much they want to attack her for getting sick.
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 11:05 PM
Sep 2016

Like you say, everyone gets sick.

niyad

(113,640 posts)
12. most of us know that misogyny is at the heart of most of the crap against HRC, no matter
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 10:24 PM
Sep 2016

how much denial goes on.

Response to niyad (Reply #12)

ismnotwasm

(42,021 posts)
15. According to a couple posts in this very thread
Wed Sep 14, 2016, 11:01 PM
Sep 2016

There is clearly deep denial. Jesus this shit is disgusting

brer cat

(24,628 posts)
29. +1000
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 09:59 AM
Sep 2016

We certainly can't have her making decisions if she has pneumonia; that's just as bad as alzheimer's, you know. Her staff simply must issue a press release if she gets a hang nail, rush her to ER to have it fixed, then have the doctor make a full report to the media so we know if it reached the cuticle and might impact her ability to hit the nuclear button. Thank god she is older or they would be demanding to see her menstrual cycle noted on the official calendar!

I guess we should just keep on electing white males since females and Blacks face so much obstruction! Surely it isn't worth the effort if they don't have full cooperation. And it's not misogyny or racism, so don't you say that!!!!!

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
28. Because she's a woman, most criticism is just misogyny?
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 07:45 AM
Sep 2016

In general, that doesn't seem fair. Too big of a shield against any criticism for a strong independent woman.

She's running for President. People tear candidates down all the time. For anything and everything. Any little thing. Male or female. Trump's hair is weird. Nixon isn't as good looking as Kennedy. I'm sure the list is quite long for the stupid things people have gotten criticized for. It comes with the job.

Response to boston bean (Original post)

kwolf68

(7,365 posts)
31. LOL
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 10:53 AM
Sep 2016

YES, there is a cross-section of radical righties who think she should be baking cookies, but many people have other reasons for not liking her. What worries me is she doesn't have great appeal. Even when she's speaking on things important to me and she's saying good things, she just doesn't resonate with me at all. I am politically active and would NEVER vote Republican under any scenario, but for people less dedicated to left wing causes they may just opt to note vote or worse, vote for the Con Man.

I guess we can keep the meme going .....if Clinton loses it will show this nation a backwards, sexist nation....and will have nothing to do with the candidates own appeal.

foo_bar

(4,193 posts)
33. winning the Smith debate club <> winning the election
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 11:23 AM
Sep 2016

You might be right on some level, but shaming people into voting for Hillary isn't going to work and tends to backfire I'd presume.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
36. People not voting for Clinton in this election have no shame.
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 12:50 PM
Sep 2016

No one can be shamed into voting for her.

Edit: I can see why some would stay home. I think it's foolish but I get it. I'm talking between the only two people who matter. Trump/Clinton.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
38. Friends and I overheard 2 guys talking last weekend
Thu Sep 15, 2016, 06:29 PM
Sep 2016

Both were in their late 50s or so. One said to the other, "I welcome a woman president, I just don't want THAT one".

It got our attention so we asked who they would prefer over Hillary and he said "Elizabeth Warren". Everyone in the conversation laughed and said, "well yeah".

We ended up where I assume they started, which was talking about the alternative (Drumpf).

It isn't always about misogyny.

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