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niyad

(113,370 posts)
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 01:51 PM Aug 2016

The term 'crazy' shouldn't be thrown around lightly – ask any woman

The term 'crazy' shouldn't be thrown around lightly – ask any woman
Arwa Mahdawi


The ‘crazy woman’ trope stretches from Plato to Plath. Perhaps the rise of the craziest man in the 21st century will force a rethink

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Crazy appeal … Sylvia Plath, as played by Gwyneth Paltrow in the film Sylvia.



Women are crazy. This isn’t me being hysterical; it’s historical. The trope of the crazy woman stretches from Plato to Plath to popular culture. Women, we have been told in thousands of ways for thousands of years, are simply more emotional and more irrational than men.
Madness-as-womanness is something we were first sold by the Ancient Greeks. The problem with women, they decided, was that they had wandering wombs. So, thanks to a few wise men, half the world’s population was diagnosed with a sex-specific disorder: hysteria. As medicine progressed, the definition of hysteria evolved until it was eventually discredited. Nevertheless the idea that women were biologically wired for instability became engrained in culture. What’s more, women started actively buying into the idea. The crazy woman began taking on a crazy appeal.

. . . . .

There are many types of “crazy woman”, each fulfilling slightly different roles. In the taxonomy of crazy women, Plath’s protagonist, Esther Greenwood, is the doomed heroine, the woman that society wants to keep as a girl. While Esther gave crazy character, a majority of “crazy women” are caricatures of female sexuality. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, and history has a lot of scorned women: Miss Havisham, the psychotic spinster in Great Expectations; the bunny boiler, made famous by Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction; the psychopathically sexual Amy Dunne in Gone Girl. What all these characters have in common, however, is that over time they have become more than a trope; they have become a cultural norm. The “crazy woman” has become a kneejerk way to put women in their place and remind them that, no matter what they achieve, they are inherently flawed.

. . . .




“Is Donald Trump just plain crazy?” asked the Washington Post. “During the primary season, as Donald Trump’s bizarre outbursts helped him crush the competition, I thought he was being crazy like a fox,” the article explained. “Now I am increasingly convinced that he’s just plain crazy.” It wasn’t just that particular journalist who gave Trump the benefit of the doubt at the start of his campaign. Initially, his eccentricities were largely explained away. Trump was a man, so he wasn’t mad – he was a maverick. He was crazy like a fox. Now, however, people are starting to wonder whether he is crazy like, you know, a woman.

. . . .

Call me crazy, but women are painfully aware of this. Perhaps the ultimate irony is that in thousands of years of dismissing crazy women, it will take one of the craziest men of the 21st century to make us rethink how we’ve used and abused the word.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/commentisfree/2016/aug/07/term-crazy-shouldnt-be-thrown-around-lightly-ask-any-woman

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The term 'crazy' shouldn't be thrown around lightly – ask any woman (Original Post) niyad Aug 2016 OP
There are more precise words to describe DT loyalsister Aug 2016 #1
and your list is only a small (and fairly mild) list of words that describe him. niyad Aug 2016 #2
. . . . niyad Aug 2016 #3
So if I said White Chocolate-Covered Macadamia Nuts were "Crazy Good"... cherokeeprogressive Aug 2016 #4
you know the discussion referred to using that term about people. niyad Aug 2016 #5
Obvious and simple context can be a difficult obstacle for many, many people LanternWaste Aug 2016 #6
Hey, I'm a woman and I KNOW I can be crazy at times Seeking Serenity Aug 2016 #7
as did he!! niyad Aug 2016 #8
Awww Seeking Serenity Aug 2016 #9

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
1. There are more precise words to describe DT
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 03:10 PM
Aug 2016

Obstinant, self-entitled, immature, ignorant, over confident, and too lazy to learn about policy or to consider that anything beyond his bubble and fans has any real relevance.
His behavior is a natural result of creating a reality of extreme self importance. Under the affluence. How is he so far from young men who have used their privilege as an excuse for rape?
His followers aren't only a bunch of bigots. They want to be wealthy, and be able to say whatever they want without consequences.

For some reason some people feel empowered by being crude, hateful, and even just having bad manners. They respect people who are because they have the impulses to say what this guy said.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
4. So if I said White Chocolate-Covered Macadamia Nuts were "Crazy Good"...
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 12:22 AM
Aug 2016

that would be a bad thing?

This shit gets more confusing by the day.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
6. Obvious and simple context can be a difficult obstacle for many, many people
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 12:39 PM
Aug 2016

Obvious and simple context can be a difficult obstacle for many, many people, and the inability to overcome that obstacle would (I presume) certainly make "shit" get more confusing by the day.

There's a wonderfully informative book by Andrew Hinton called 'Understanding Context: Environment, Language, and Information Architecture.' A book I'd suggest to anyone who has trouble with this elementary concept.

Seeking Serenity

(2,840 posts)
7. Hey, I'm a woman and I KNOW I can be crazy at times
Fri Aug 12, 2016, 01:18 PM
Aug 2016

Just ask my poor, dear, sweet, long-suffering, patient almost to a fault DH, who ever so kindly puts up with my crap as I go through hormone withdrawals, aka menopause.

I got lucky as hell. No, let me rephrase that. I chose wisely.

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