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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Thu Aug 4, 2016, 05:01 PM Aug 2016

Elderly lesbian woman abused by retirement home ...

Elderly lesbian woman abused by retirement home residents for being gay, staff 'ignores' pleas.

Lambda Legal filed a federal lawsuit on July 28 against a senior housing facility for allowing alleged discrimination and verbal abuse from other residents against one of its LGBT residents.

Marsha Marie Wetzel lives at the for-profit Glen St. Andrew Living Community in Niles, IL., where she says her fellow tenants have sought her out taunting her, calling her names and even becoming physical because she is a lesbian.

Wetzel’s story is told through a video released by Lambda Legal (included in link). In it she says the love of her life, Judy, died from cancer after being together for 30 years.

Judy’s family, unsympathetic to the women’s relationship, seized all of their daughter’s assets including her home, and subsequently evicted Wetzel.

Read more at:
http://sdgln.com/news/2016/08/02/elderly-lesbian-woman-abused-retirement-home-residents-being-gay-staff-ignores-pleas

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Elderly lesbian woman abused by retirement home ... (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Aug 2016 OP
This can't drop to the bottom JustAnotherGen Aug 2016 #1
Judy should have done a will and wrote the family out of it. roamer65 Aug 2016 #2
Sounds like she's been through enough hell ... lpbk2713 Aug 2016 #3
Ugh. Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #4
This is truly terrible, SheilaT Aug 2016 #5
I want to remind everyone who says they'll never vote for Hillary... BeeBee Aug 2016 #6

JustAnotherGen

(31,834 posts)
1. This can't drop to the bottom
Thu Aug 4, 2016, 05:13 PM
Aug 2016

This is why the civil rights movement has to charge. Losing her home with her spouse (30 years makes her a spouse) and certainly being abused is why we have to fight.

She should have had the same rights my parents (mixed race couple in 1969) had. Her Judy should have had the same security in leaving her in a good place my dad had. Shame on us.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
5. This is truly terrible,
Thu Aug 4, 2016, 05:23 PM
Aug 2016

but you have to wonder why the two women didn't take the appropriate legal steps to protect each other.

This sort of thing -- the family taking everything and evicting the partner who is not a spouse -- likewise happens with heterosexual couples who think a marriage license is an unimportant piece of paper, and also don't make out wills. I'm aware of several such couples, lived together for decades, didn't marry, and then one of them dies, no will, nothing in writing. It's beyond dumb.

So to everyone reading this, get yourself to a lawyer and draw up a will. You won't regret it.

BeeBee

(1,074 posts)
6. I want to remind everyone who says they'll never vote for Hillary...
Thu Aug 4, 2016, 05:29 PM
Aug 2016

that Trump has pledged to appoint Supreme Court Justices who will overturn marriage equality.

If these two ladies would have been married this never would have happened.

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