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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:18 AM Jun 2012

Man shot in road rage upset that prosecutor won’t file charges

A motorcyclist who was shot in the chest by a motorist during a road rage incident in O’Fallon, Mo., spoke out Tuesday, asking for a grand jury to hear the case and criticizing the St. Charles County prosecutor for not filing charges.

“But for the grace of God, I would be a dead man,” the motorcyclist, Keith Randell, 49, of St. Ann, said Tuesday, reading from a statement at his attorney’s office in Clayton.

“This is the result of an aggressive driver,” Randell said. “He chose to shoot me when he was not in fear of any serious injury.”

St. Charles County prosecutor Jack Banas said Monday he would not file criminal charges against the motorist, adding the man was justified in shooting because the motorcyclist first reached into his car and punched him.

On Tuesday, Banas said his decision was final, unless police presented new evidence.


Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/2012/06/13/3655984/man-shot-in-road-rage-upset-that.html#storylink=cpy

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Man shot in road rage upset that prosecutor won’t file charges (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan Jun 2012 OP
Maybe Randall should have raps Jun 2012 #1
Since you are new; greiner3 Jun 2012 #94
Ummm.. dubient Jun 2012 #97
I think so and I think he hoped like I do that the first commenter Maraya1969 Jun 2012 #139
There's a lot of people out there that need anger managment class. L0oniX Jun 2012 #140
That is a very realistic point of view. FarPoint Jun 2012 #156
Hear hear. All road rage will get you is dead - from a heart attack if not from being shot. yellowcanine Jun 2012 #205
Another reason to reconsider these type gun laws. Hoyt Jun 2012 #2
Lessons learned: stay on your bike and don't assault someone first. nt hack89 Jun 2012 #3
I'm mystified by this notion alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #4
Over 700 people a year are murdered by "hands, fists or feet" hack89 Jun 2012 #13
I get your point alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #31
I am now a 50 year old man with physical disablities hack89 Jun 2012 #35
From what I read in article, guy could have driven off. I think prosecutor nailed it. Hoyt Jun 2012 #38
The guy on the bike made the choice to violently assault someone. hack89 Jun 2012 #43
Still could have driven off. And it doesn't sound like the shooter was "beaten" close to death. Hoyt Jun 2012 #44
And you know for a fact that he could have driven away? Show me. nt hack89 Jun 2012 #46
Read the article, bike was behind him. And driver left the scene of the shooting after he shot him. Hoyt Jun 2012 #49
He left because he didn't know it the guys wife SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #53
I don't care why he left, he did. Should have done it before pulling his gun. And he shouldn't Hoyt Jun 2012 #56
Your were not there Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #59
Neither were you. DA said he thinks it is wrong, but he has no choice under state's gun laws. Hoyt Jun 2012 #63
Did you even read the article? SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #70
This is what he said, if you read to the bottom of the article: Hoyt Jun 2012 #72
In this situation SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #78
It's the law in MO. Car is same as house. If someone unlawfully enters, you are allowed Honeycombe8 Jun 2012 #143
Yes ...we all should wait until we are seconds away from dying before using a gun. L0oniX Jun 2012 #147
Yeah, I guess alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #45
Not everyone is into macho feats of physical violence like you are. hack89 Jun 2012 #50
I agree SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #55
Possessing and pulling a gun when you can drive away is also a "macho" action. Hoyt Jun 2012 #64
Bullshit SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #71
How come the biker didn't ride off? Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #186
Eh, I can see both positions as having an element of macho swagger to them alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #65
I do not share your perverted sense of fairness. hack89 Jun 2012 #68
I don't share the extremely low value you place on human life alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #114
My life is more important then the guy trying to kill me. hack89 Jun 2012 #117
That is an excellent way to describe both positions. jp11 Jun 2012 #84
I'm in the same boat, EXCEPT FrodosPet Jun 2012 #127
I have loved ones that depend on me hack89 Jun 2012 #131
Why should you gamble that your injuries be minor? Maraya1969 Jun 2012 #141
In my concealed carry class SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #146
You could do that with pepper spray. You don't have to kill Maraya1969 Jun 2012 #148
Pepper spray doesn't always work SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #149
Wow I would sit and think about your views on human life if I were you. Maraya1969 Jun 2012 #171
Thats utter bullshit SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #175
So if I understand correctly sarisataka Jun 2012 #177
I would sit and think about what could happen with a visually impaired driver... Clames Jun 2012 #194
Pepper Spray would have worked. But not "macho" enough for gun culture. Hoyt Jun 2012 #150
Why Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #154
+1 sadbear Jun 2012 #158
If he used pepper spray he likely would not have been able to drive off sarisataka Jun 2012 #151
I'd rather my child experience a little pepper spray sadbear Jun 2012 #159
You have apparently sarisataka Jun 2012 #160
I have and wasn't scarred for life sadbear Jun 2012 #161
First time I have heard sarisataka Jun 2012 #163
You obviously have no idea what you are talking about SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #162
It takes a trial to figure those things out sadbear Jun 2012 #164
And you have no idea how our justice system work SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #165
I'm the one who doesn't understand our justice system? sadbear Jun 2012 #168
Are you really that obtuse? SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #170
I have nothing against people defending themselves sadbear Jun 2012 #172
Ok your right SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #176
Exactly. Right on target. Hoyt Jun 2012 #166
No - I want them incapable of hurting me hack89 Jun 2012 #178
I'm a small woman Aerows Jun 2012 #21
I'm mystified by the idea that you have some right to beat up a 65 y.o. man in public. Romulox Jun 2012 #29
A blow to the head can kill you SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #36
Don't initiate violence 4th law of robotics Jun 2012 #62
Where do you get the idea that it's permissible to go around punching people? JVS Jun 2012 #77
um, somebody just punched a child rapist to death magical thyme Jun 2012 #85
Well said. SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #89
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2012 #101
+1000000 L0oniX Jun 2012 #142
It's not like TV! 1 hit can kill ...expecially if it knocks someone over to the ground... L0oniX Jun 2012 #134
Espicially if the person getting punched SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #135
I'm a female Dorian Gray Jun 2012 #199
The motorcyclist deserved to be shot.. Johnyawl Jun 2012 #5
The driver of the car almost ran the motoryclist's wife off the road do to careless driving. Ikonoklast Jun 2012 #6
Not according to the prosecutor. hack89 Jun 2012 #79
I'm surprised more hasn't been said about the motorcyclist's wife KansDem Jun 2012 #112
If you deliberately try to drive my wife, friend or myself off the road with your car, MadHound Jun 2012 #7
sounds like an argument for stand your ground laws. leftyohiolib Jun 2012 #14
Sound more like a case for the prosecutor to do his job, MadHound Jun 2012 #19
Right On bahrbearian Jun 2012 #24
big bad motorcyclist who "had it coming". WOW the prosecutor said that? leftyohiolib Jun 2012 #27
This idiot DID have it coming. He confronted the driver. And got his dumb ass shot.... Logical Jun 2012 #123
I do not see where it is claimed sarisataka Jun 2012 #86
Where in the hell do you see "deliberately" in this story. It was a mistake.... Logical Jun 2012 #121
Ugh. Sick of the gun humping cowards. If you are gonna get violent, use your damn fists, like men. phleshdef Jun 2012 #15
Some of us are no Meiko Jun 2012 #23
Then don't be trying to run people off the road. phleshdef Jun 2012 #26
I remember reading the story SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #42
I always try to be careful Meiko Jun 2012 #52
Yes, living in NYC I rarely drive anymore, but when I lived in Florida this happened a lot stevenleser Jun 2012 #81
Preach that horse shit to a woman Spoonman Jun 2012 #69
+1 L0oniX Jun 2012 #138
Oh right, because attempting rape is the same thing as a road rage induced squabble. phleshdef Jun 2012 #180
YOUR "horse shit" of "false equivalancy" Spoonman Jun 2012 #183
This entire thread is about a road rage incident. phleshdef Jun 2012 #191
Oh ...so using fists is what a real man does huh? L0oniX Jun 2012 #136
I am a scrawny little dude. I'm 5'9 125 lbs. phleshdef Jun 2012 #181
Your choice SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #184
You don't have to give a flying fuck. It doesn't change the fact that its cowardice. phleshdef Jun 2012 #190
If thats what makes you sleep better at night SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #192
I don't believe carrying a concealed weapon makes someone a coward. phleshdef Jun 2012 #201
Nice reframe. L0oniX Jun 2012 #187
Is that the best you got? I guess I better back off before you try to shoot me. phleshdef Jun 2012 #189
I wouldn't have rolled my window down in the first place Major Nikon Jun 2012 #197
Maybe they're both idiots ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #8
Bingo. Bake Jun 2012 #18
+1 proud2BlibKansan Jun 2012 #39
Absolutely. jp11 Jun 2012 #54
"...the motorcyclist first reached into his car and punched him...." slackmaster Jun 2012 #9
More details, MadHound Jun 2012 #10
deliberately? the driver wasnt very smart in revealing that leftyohiolib Jun 2012 #11
There were witnesses who said it looked like a deliberate action MadHound Jun 2012 #12
so deliberately is just hearsay or opinion leftyohiolib Jun 2012 #16
No, actually there are witnesses, MadHound Jun 2012 #17
no witness could state, as a fact, what the intentions of the driver were. there are alot of people leftyohiolib Jun 2012 #20
As lawyers like to frequently state... MicaelS Jun 2012 #32
Link? proud2BlibKansan Jun 2012 #40
Where are you getting this? Dr. Strange Jun 2012 #185
The proper response is to call the police, then. You don't get to beat people in revenge. Romulox Jun 2012 #30
Let's assume for the sake of discussion that it was a deliberate attempt to run the woman off slackmaster Jun 2012 #37
The prosecutor appears to disagree with you hack89 Jun 2012 #76
According to some meat head morons he should have been man enough to punch the biker back ....pffft L0oniX Jun 2012 #137
Right and Wrong in road rage in crazy times? ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #22
Sounds like a toss up....all the more reason to be humble ileus Jun 2012 #25
The motorcyclist is angry because he brought fists to a gun fight. nt Javaman Jun 2012 #28
looks like the guy in the car was in the right belcffub Jun 2012 #33
I don't like the idea of not bringing charges at all treestar Jun 2012 #34
Exactly. Hoyt Jun 2012 #41
Bullshit SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #47
I'm leaning in that direction myself proud2BlibKansan Jun 2012 #57
Whether it is clear or not treestar Jun 2012 #110
Fair question SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #118
It will be interesting if Randall tries to file a civil suit treestar Jun 2012 #179
I don't think he can SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #182
That sounds like the Fla. law treestar Jun 2012 #193
This is MO SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #195
The DA should have let a jury decide. sadbear Jun 2012 #120
What bullshit SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #122
What do you have against juries? sadbear Jun 2012 #124
What part of no law was broken? SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #125
"The elderly man was in fear of his life..." sadbear Jun 2012 #126
No its not SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #128
"How can you have a trial if no laws were violated?" sadbear Jun 2012 #129
The police and DA both determined, after an investigation with plenty of SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #130
I hope no one shoots you... sadbear Jun 2012 #132
I hope not either SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #133
It happens all the time - that's why they write laws in the first place hack89 Jun 2012 #80
My parents live in this county justiceischeap Jun 2012 #48
No your not all good SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #51
Provoke them how? By sitting in the car with your wife and grandson? Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2012 #58
Especially an elderly person SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #61
Laying a gun on your lap and shooting someone when you can drive away, deserves at least trial. Hoyt Jun 2012 #66
And what actions would be on trial? OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #73
That's the problem 1/10, law allows one with a gun to shoot people when they could have left. Hoyt Jun 2012 #74
Your really flailing here Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #83
Oh, so now you can shoot an unarmed man and say you didn't know if he were armed? Hoyt Jun 2012 #87
Once again Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #92
The motorcyclist could have driven off too. Kaleva Jun 2012 #91
And he should have, but that doesn't give a man with a gun the right to shoot an unarmed person Hoyt Jun 2012 #96
Stick around until he gets so tired from punching that he collapses in exhaustion? Cave_Johnson Jun 2012 #98
And don't shoot unarmed people who may have "punched" once (and that is in question). Hoyt Jun 2012 #104
So your true colors finally come out , eh, Hoyt? SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #106
How many times should I get beaten before I am allowed to defend myself? Cave_Johnson Jun 2012 #111
In this situation roll up windows, mash the accelerator and leave. Hoyt Jun 2012 #115
You got one thing right... Cave_Johnson Jun 2012 #116
One thing about Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #119
The fact that people carry guns scares criminals and big mussel bound fist users ...and L0oniX Jun 2012 #145
The anti gun agenda is obvious ...all over DU. L0oniX Jun 2012 #144
How big was he? Do you know? Hoyt Jun 2012 #152
Alot bigger than the elderly man SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #155
How do you know that? Gun shooter did something immoral. Hoyt Jun 2012 #169
Gun ownership is not my concern. Gun toting and this case is. Hoyt Jun 2012 #153
You really are something else SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #157
People will recognize "your agenda" at some point. Hoyt Jun 2012 #167
Ha Ha Ha thats funny Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #174
Perhaps he did not realize the guy would be assaulting him. OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #103
Well if that were the assumption, why did driver/shooter pull his gun and place it in his lap first? Hoyt Jun 2012 #105
I can't say... Personally, I just keep mine in the open between the two front seats. OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #107
Poor tactical choice to assault older people. OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #67
What do you mean this guy isn't into macho crap -- he carried and pulled a gun first when he could Hoyt Jun 2012 #75
Nice job of totally mis-representing the facts there Hoyt SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #93
What did I misrepresent? Rather than leaving, driver pulled his gun before cyclist got to his car. Hoyt Jun 2012 #95
Apparently your not reading what I have wrote SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #99
This is a common misconceptoin I've seen you and many other anti's state... OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #100
Deep down I think he knows that SGMRTDARMY Jun 2012 #102
That's the weird part... Cave_Johnson Jun 2012 #113
I agree with the prosecutor's decision not to file charges rollin74 Jun 2012 #60
I don't feel any sympathy for the 49 year old at all. Kaleva Jun 2012 #82
Neither do I, and it just occurred to me that the subject line conveys a simple but obvious irony slackmaster Jun 2012 #109
He should spit on the DA and punch him n/t Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #88
Coming up #6 on Shocking American Shoot Outs....! Evasporque Jun 2012 #90
“But for the grace of God, I would be a dead man,” JVS Jun 2012 #108
"when any silly driving situation turns into a shooting?" flvegan Jun 2012 #173
I hate to say it, but Randell should just be thankful he's alive Blue_Tires Jun 2012 #188
we don't have all the details dsc Jun 2012 #196
It may be the law, but I'm still having trouble wrapping my head around that sadbear Jun 2012 #200
Hitting someone one can kill or severely injure them. hack89 Jun 2012 #202
We're talking about someone sitting in their car getting hit by someone standing outside of it. sadbear Jun 2012 #203
Google "one punch kills man" and this is a sample of what you get hack89 Jun 2012 #204
Keep your hands on the handbars or on wrapped around the steering wheel and there Raine Jun 2012 #198
 

raps

(34 posts)
1. Maybe Randall should have
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:26 AM
Jun 2012

never gotten off his motorcycle and been comfortable knowing that nothing bad came of the poor driving. When you go looking for trouble by approaching someone in an intense emotional state you should always expect trouble in return. So, what did we learn today? Be happy with what you have when you come out of a bad accidental life situation unscathed and don't go looking to blame someone else for something that no longer matters.

 

greiner3

(5,214 posts)
94. Since you are new;
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:28 PM
Jun 2012

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Maraya1969

(22,494 posts)
139. I think so and I think he hoped like I do that the first commenter
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:42 PM
Jun 2012

was being sarcastic. But I don't think he was.

yellowcanine

(35,701 posts)
205. Hear hear. All road rage will get you is dead - from a heart attack if not from being shot.
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 04:53 PM
Jun 2012

Road rage can be controlled. Uncontrolled it increases stress which is unhealthy.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
2. Another reason to reconsider these type gun laws.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:27 AM
Jun 2012

The prosecutor went on to say: He pointed out that he is bound to uphold the state statute. "It’s a very difficult case, and I don’t necessarily agree that he should be able to use that much force in this situation, but the statute gives him that, and that’s what we’re left with.”
 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
4. I'm mystified by this notion
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:37 AM
Jun 2012

I simply don't understand this idea that if somebody is punching you, you can shoot them in the chest, or head, or whatever. Maybe it's just the way I grew up - where there were frequent fistfights. You see enough fistfights, you realize that mostly, people don't even get badly hurt in one. If you've been in enough fistfights, you realize this, too, even if you lose badly to somebody much bigger. You can take an "L" and not be all that badly injured.

It just seems disproportional.

Granted, on very rare occasions somebody is "punched to death," but it is very, very, very rare.

Granted, for some demographic groups, being on the losing end of a fistfight is less severe than for others. Fine, I get that an 80 year old woman or someone like that might be far more vulnerable to serious injury from punching. OK, fine.

But still. The idea that if somebody starts punching at you, you get to shoot them is just weird to me. It seems, I dunno, weak. Scared and weak. I mean, we used to hold people in contempt for things like throwing sand at a dude when losing a fight. It was weakling stuff, poor form. These gun folks shoot a guy who's kicking their ass? It's weak. Maybe I'm missing something. I don't get it.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
13. Over 700 people a year are murdered by "hands, fists or feet"
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:16 AM
Jun 2012

And I am sure many more are seriously injured, crippled or maimed.

If I am assaulted by someone, why should I gamble that my injuries will be minor? Why should I pay the price for guessing wrong?

http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/2010/crime-in-the-u.s.-2010/tables/10shrtbl08.xls

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
31. I get your point
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:02 PM
Jun 2012

I still think that 700 is very very very rare relative to the number of unarmed assaults or fights total.

Yeah, you don't wanna gamble on what's probably less than 1%, and maybe even less than 1/10 of 1%. Fine. It still strikes me as disproportional and kinda weak. You were in the Navy, right? You even have combat training. It just seems like kinda, well, I dunno how to say it. As teenagers we'd just scrunch our noses up and turn away. It's dishonorable, I guess.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
35. I am now a 50 year old man with physical disablities
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:23 PM
Jun 2012

getting severely hurt in a fight I wanted nothing to do with is not honorable. Stupid is the proper word.

You seem to think getting assaulted is some kind of mutual activity where both sides must adhere to some schoolyard code of ethics. I view it as a violent crime and I will defend myself anyway I see fit.









 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
38. From what I read in article, guy could have driven off. I think prosecutor nailed it.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:29 PM
Jun 2012

"It’s a very difficult case, and I don’t necessarily agree that he should be able to use that much force in this situation, but the statute gives him that, and that’s what we’re left with.”

Sorry, to use that much force when there are other options is criminal, immoral, and downright wrong. And I'm no friend of someone on an unmuffled motorcycle.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
43. The guy on the bike made the choice to violently assault someone.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:32 PM
Jun 2012

an assault with the potential to seriously hurt or even kill. He is lucky he didn't pay a higher price for his stupidity.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
44. Still could have driven off. And it doesn't sound like the shooter was "beaten" close to death.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:39 PM
Jun 2012

To shoot someone in chest when you can push a button and roll up the window and drive off is wrong.

I know the gun culture wants few restrictions on when a guy with a gun can shoot or intimidate people, but this is ridiculous.

Plus the driver pulled the gun first, laying it on his lap.
 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
49. Read the article, bike was behind him. And driver left the scene of the shooting after he shot him.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:48 PM
Jun 2012

Go out to your car and see how hard you can "punch" the seat while standing outside your car. The driver pulled his gun first, escalating things, and the driver could have driven off without further incident. Instead, he shot the guy in the chest.

And he ran away -- like a common criminal -- after shooting the guy. Heck, even Zimmerman stuck around after shooting unarmed teenager.
 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
53. He left because he didn't know it the guys wife
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:58 PM
Jun 2012

had a gun or not. He took himself and his wife away from the danger zone, which was the correct thing to do. Your flailing here Hoyt. A blow to the head can kill someone, especially an elderly person. If I saw someone bigger than me approaching me in anger, I too would pull my gun and put it on my lap.

If Randall had not approached him and then punched him, none of this would have happened. Your bias is really clouding your judgement.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
56. I don't care why he left, he did. Should have done it before pulling his gun. And he shouldn't
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:04 PM
Jun 2012

have gone home. Drive up the road, drive to the police station, whatever.

If gun carrier had driven off, none of this would have happened.

In fact, I'll go as far to say that if shooter didn't have a gun, he would have driven off before ever being punched. Just like Zimmerman would never have gotten out of his car to pursue and shoot an unarmed teen.

Driver is just another bully with a gun, ready to use it at the first opportunity. The right wing NRA backed gun laws help folks like that.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
59. Your were not there Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:11 PM
Jun 2012

you don't know what went on. Bottom line is that Randall should never have gotten off his bike and assaulted the man.
And the police and DA say it was self defense.
I'll defer to them rather than you.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
63. Neither were you. DA said he thinks it is wrong, but he has no choice under state's gun laws.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:27 PM
Jun 2012

That's the point that you keep missing. These laws encourage this stuff.

If this shooter were not protected by the right wing NRA gun laws, he would be prosecuted and the next guy in that situation would not feel free to blast away.
 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
70. Did you even read the article?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:43 PM
Jun 2012

Nowhere does the DA say he thinks it is wrong but he has no choice under the state's gun laws. Also, the driver left because he was in fear of his, his wife's, and his 9yo grandson's life, he drove them home and then went to the nearest police station and turned himself in.
And, unless he is charged and convicted, he can't be civilly sued under MO. law.

Next time try reading the article first before making statements that can be checked out and shown to be untrue.
Bottom line, AGAIN, Randall was an asshole for getting off of his bike, approaching the car, reaching in and punching a senior citizen.
Randall is fucking lucky he's not being charged with violence on a senior citizen. He's also lucky to be alive to bitch and moan.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
72. This is what he said, if you read to the bottom of the article:
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:47 PM
Jun 2012

“It’s a very difficult case, and I don’t necessarily agree that he should be able to use that much force in this situation, but the statute gives him that, and that’s what we’re left with.”

I think the way I paraphrased it is correct. But, please show me where I am wrong.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
78. In this situation
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:57 PM
Jun 2012

he's not saying that he disagrees with the law in general.
And you called the driver of the car a criminal, when that is patently false, he got himself and his family out of danger, took them home and then turned himself in to the police, does that sound like a criminal?

Your very obvious bias towards gun owners has so clouded your judgement that you can't be fair about self defense shooting even when it is clearly justified.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
143. It's the law in MO. Car is same as house. If someone unlawfully enters, you are allowed
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:55 PM
Jun 2012

under MO law to protect yourself using deadly force, just as if they entered your home.

So it was a legal thing.

This is also why you can carry a gun in your car. It's the same as having a gun in your house.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
147. Yes ...we all should wait until we are seconds away from dying before using a gun.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:03 PM
Jun 2012


Just call 911 and wait for the cops ...works out so well.
 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
45. Yeah, I guess
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:40 PM
Jun 2012

You gun guys have won the argument nationally. Anything can now be justified by fear of grievous injury, so more power to you. Congratulations. I just can't help but to find such behavior contemptible. Usually, I'm just glad these discussions go on in the gungeon.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
50. Not everyone is into macho feats of physical violence like you are.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:51 PM
Jun 2012

I don't want to live in a world where I have no choice but to let people violently assault me. Don't want to get shot - don't threaten my life. Pretty simple.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
64. Possessing and pulling a gun when you can drive away is also a "macho" action.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:31 PM
Jun 2012

Go look at some gun advertisements. They aren't promoting peace, they are promoting carrying a "piece" makes you god -- especially when your state's gun laws encourage you to blast away when other alternatives are readily available.
 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
71. Bullshit
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:46 PM
Jun 2012

State gun laws DO NOT encourage people to "blast away" when other alternatives exist.
Why do you post this crap when you darn well know better?
It makes you look foolish.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
65. Eh, I can see both positions as having an element of macho swagger to them
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:33 PM
Jun 2012

So, when I see your position (and that of your partner in arms there) it looks very macho swaggery at the point of execution (no pun): it's this "fuck around, lay around," "if you fuck with me I'll fucking KILL you," or, more eloquently, "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" sort of machismo. But it's certainly premised on a deep and fearful sense of vulnerability, which is in some sense the opposite of macho swagger.

My position, on the other hand, can be seen as an attempt to find (or retrieve) some sense of reasonable or proportional response, not having to destroy anything that comes at you. At the same time, you're right that it's premised on a sense of (at least projecting) invulnerability that was the certainly macho "code" I grew up with and that still inflects the way I look at these events.

Both positions have their own macho swagger, it seems to me. And both have their own reasonableness.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
68. I do not share your perverted sense of fairness.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:38 PM
Jun 2012

My position is "threaten my life at your own peril". I refuse to accept your position that I must endure a potentially deadly criminal assault simply out of some perverted sense of fairness.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
114. I don't share the extremely low value you place on human life
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:03 PM
Jun 2012

Since we're inventing strawmen about each other...

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
127. I'm in the same boat, EXCEPT
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:19 PM
Jun 2012

A) I would never have a gun in the first place and B) I have accepted the fact that is someone wants to kill me then it is my time to die. I may fight to save an innocent's life, but I could not live with myself if I were to kill another human being, regardless of the circumstances.

Maraya1969

(22,494 posts)
141. Why should you gamble that your injuries be minor?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:47 PM
Jun 2012

In other words if you are going to hit back you want them dead right? Not just stopped or shown a lesson, dead?

Geeze.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
146. In my concealed carry class
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:01 PM
Jun 2012

we were taught to shoot until the threat is no longer a threat, which is apparently what this elderly man did, he shot one round, and then left to take himself and his family away from immediate danger. He did exactly what he was supposed to do.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
149. Pepper spray doesn't always work
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:33 PM
Jun 2012

and if someone is trying to do me bodily harm, I would shoot until the threat is stopped, if the perp dies in the process, too fucking bad, shouldn't have attacked me in the first place. I am under no obligation to worry about whether I kill the POS or not.
Afterwards I would feel remorse for taking another human life, but at least I would be alive to feel remorse.

Maraya1969

(22,494 posts)
171. Wow I would sit and think about your views on human life if I were you.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:47 AM
Jun 2012

You don't seem to give much credence to it. Like throw away paper towels they seem to you. It's sad really.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
175. Thats utter bullshit
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:06 AM
Jun 2012

I wouldn't be throwing away anyones life, the perp that thinks they can get away with attacking me or mine would be throwing away their life. I don't have to justify myself to you or anyone else. Until you've walked in my shoes, you have no call to judge me.
Good nite.

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
177. So if I understand correctly
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:24 AM
Jun 2012

you would rather be put in the hospital or killed by an assailant rather than use deadly force to defend yourself?

 

Clames

(2,038 posts)
194. I would sit and think about what could happen with a visually impaired driver...
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:12 PM
Jun 2012

...in a panic situation with a wife and child in the car if I were you. You don't seem to give much credence to how pepper spray works.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
150. Pepper Spray would have worked. But not "macho" enough for gun culture.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:39 PM
Jun 2012

Merely pointing gun would have worked, but carriers are taught to shoot. I'm not sure why exactly, but I have my suspicions.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
154. Why Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:47 PM
Jun 2012

pray tell, why are we taught to shoot? Please enlighten us with your almighty wisdom.
The only thing you know is you don't know shit about legal CHL holders as you have demonstrated over and over again.
Your little innuendos of not macho enough for the gun culture really show just how bigoted you really are about a certain segment of the american citizenry.

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
151. If he used pepper spray he likely would not have been able to drive off
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:42 PM
Jun 2012

Being in a vehicle and that close everyone in the car would likely be mildly to moderately affected.

I would not want to inflict the effects of pepper spray on a child.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
159. I'd rather my child experience a little pepper spray
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:14 AM
Jun 2012

than have him witness me murder someone. But that's just me.

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
160. You have apparently
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:16 AM
Jun 2012

never experienced pepper spray.

I would rather my children never see someone assault me so I have to use deadly force to protect myself.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
161. I have and wasn't scarred for life
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:18 AM
Jun 2012

I can only imagine what watching my father shoot someone in cold blood would have done to me though.

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
163. First time I have heard
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:24 AM
Jun 2012

shooting someone punching you in the head, shooting in cold blood.

BTW we are talking full on OC pepper spray

When an assailant get sprayed in the face with pepper spray the first thing that he notices is intense pain. Then the other symptoms set in shortly thereafter. They are coughing, choking, nausea, incapacitation, excessive tearing of the eyes to the point of temporary blindness.


It took 45 minutes for it to wear off and what many don't know is it reactivates when exposed to water, like trying to wash it off. It is about 5 days before it is gone completely.
 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
162. You obviously have no idea what you are talking about
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:22 AM
Jun 2012

it wasn't murder, the idiot didn't die, and even if he did, it still wouldn't be murder, it would be justifiable homocide. Please learn what your talking about.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
164. It takes a trial to figure those things out
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:24 AM
Jun 2012

But I know better to talk about trials with people like you.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
165. And you have no idea how our justice system work
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:29 AM
Jun 2012

nothing illegal was done, no charges, no trial. But I don't expect people like you to understand that.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
168. I'm the one who doesn't understand our justice system?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:34 AM
Jun 2012

You're saying there aren't trials when nothing illegal is done? (nice little regurgitation there, too, I expect nothing less.)

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
170. Are you really that obtuse?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:43 AM
Jun 2012

I said that no charges filed, no trial. The DA determined after an investigation, which included eyewitness accounts, that the shooting was legally justified under MO law. You may not like it, but what you like or don't like means absolutely nothing. That asshole Randall assaulted a senior citizen and he paid the price. Bet he thinks twice before he attacks another senior citizen.

Let me guess, you are of the mind that citizens shouldn't be allowed to carry firearms in public for defense. Have I got you pegged right?

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
172. I have nothing against people defending themselves
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:51 AM
Jun 2012

Last edited Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:23 AM - Edit history (1)

I think that when anyone shoots someone else, they should be prepared to go to court (and, in fact, actually go to court) to justify their actions. If they've not broken the law, they'll be vindicated. So no, you don't have me pegged at all.

**Edited to address semantics**

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
176. Ok your right
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:12 AM
Jun 2012

they should be PREPARED to go to court, but if the DA determines, as in this case, that no laws were broken, that in fact the shooter acted within the law, then no charges should be filed.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
178. No - I want them incapable of hurting me
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:18 AM
Jun 2012

most shootings are non-fatal.

I cannot physically defend my self due to various health issues. I don't have too many other options.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
21. I'm a small woman
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:31 AM
Jun 2012

Mind you, I've had martial arts training, but honestly? If someone is coming to kick my ass, I'm going to defend myself by any means necessary, particularly since I'm not the type to start it. I will finish it, however.

If you are a largish man, I could see your point. Men attacking women, however, is not cool, and rarely ends well for the woman if she doesn't introduce a weapon into the scenario.

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
29. I'm mystified by the idea that you have some right to beat up a 65 y.o. man in public.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:56 AM
Jun 2012

"These gun folks shoot a guy who's kicking their ass? It's weak."

Save it for "ultimate fighting"--you don't have the right to lay hands on anyone, let alone an elderly man.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
36. A blow to the head can kill you
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:24 PM
Jun 2012

and the shooter was a elderly man. Was the punchee supposed to wait until he was almost unconcious? Myself, I probably would have just drove away and found the nearest police officer, but I wasn't there, I don't know the details so I'll defer to the DA's decision, he has the facts.
The idiot should not have gotten off of his motorcycle in the first place and punched the man.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
62. Don't initiate violence
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:27 PM
Jun 2012

it's that simple.

Punching may not be as severe as shooting but it is still violence. And can very easily lead to severe injury or even death.


Using a gun in self defense isn't about showing off or proving that you're a Real Man. Or at least it shouldn't be. It's about doing whatever is necessary to protect yourself from uncalled for aggression.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
85. um, somebody just punched a child rapist to death
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:06 PM
Jun 2012

He wasn't trying to kill the molester, just trying to get him off his 4 year old stepdaughter. And he's sorry that he accidentally killed his stepdaughter's rapist. It was all over DU and some people were outraged that the vicious attacker wasn't being arrested for defending his 4 year old stepdaughter from a rapist.

Yes, you can punch somebody to death.

And yes, if you start punching somebody, be prepared for the possibility that they just may defend themselves. I for one will NOT be anybody's punching bag ever again. But I'm small, old and not trained to fight, so don't think that I'll even think of punching back.

Why the fuck should I suck it up and be a punching bag for somebody else's rage? I spent my childhood as a punching bag for my mother. My family dumped me because I refused to be her punching bag any longer. I guess it got inconvenient for my father and the rest of them when she started taking her rage out on others.

Sorry if the possibility of being shot to death makes it inconvenient for the rage-aholics and their defenders out there, but too fucking bad. You think it's ok for somebody to go around assaulting whoever and punching them out...then fine. Step up and volunteer for the job. But you have no right to "volunteer" others for it.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
89. Well said.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:13 PM
Jun 2012

Thank you. I just don't understand those that think we should just take a beating rather than defend ourself.
Well, the hell with that, I 100% support what that driver did.
If Randall had not got off of his bike, walked over to the car and punch the man, who had his wife and grandson in the car, he would not have been shot.

Randall is lucky that he's not being charged with violence to a senior citizen.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
134. It's not like TV! 1 hit can kill ...expecially if it knocks someone over to the ground...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:15 PM
Jun 2012

where there can be rocks, curbs and other hard objects that can kill. Not everyone is a big mussel bound 180 pound trained fighter. But go on thinking it's ok to hit someone. IMO it is not normal for people to be in fist fights and it's ridiculous to assume or expect others to have that experience.

Dorian Gray

(13,498 posts)
199. I'm a female
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 08:16 AM
Jun 2012

I've never been in a fist fight. I don't own guns. But if a man approached me and started throwing punches at me, and if I had a gun, I'd probably shoot him.

Johnyawl

(3,205 posts)
5. The motorcyclist deserved to be shot..
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:37 AM
Jun 2012

...the motorcyclist first reached into his car and punched him. I would have shot his face off.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
6. The driver of the car almost ran the motoryclist's wife off the road do to careless driving.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:53 AM
Jun 2012

Bet you that the old man driving the car has done it more than once before...no wonder he needs to pack a gun.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
79. Not according to the prosecutor.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:57 PM
Jun 2012
Banas said the intersection is confusing but it appeared the motorcyclists had turned into the wrong lane.

KansDem

(28,498 posts)
112. I'm surprised more hasn't been said about the motorcyclist's wife
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 07:52 PM
Jun 2012

Having had a motorcycle for a couple years when I was younger, I know about the dangers of being cut off in traffic. We're not talking about a "fender bender" which could happen between two cars. We're talking about grave injuries or even death if the car swerved into the motorcyclist.

I would imagine the motorcyclist husband was thinking that when he approached the driver of the car.

 

MadHound

(34,179 posts)
7. If you deliberately try to drive my wife, friend or myself off the road with your car,
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:59 AM
Jun 2012

I wouldn't be getting off my motorcycle to deal with you, I'd be shooting you like the rabid dog you are.

There is a small but growing group of people in this state that think it is right and proper for them to harass and endanger anybody on two wheels, whether it is a motorcycle or bicycle. People have been forced into major accidents, driven off the road, had things thrown at them by these idiots, and as in this case, most of the time the cops and prosecutors do little or nothing. If the legal authorities aren't going to do their job, then it falls to the motorcyclist or bicyclist to defend themselves.

 

MadHound

(34,179 posts)
19. Sound more like a case for the prosecutor to do his job,
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:26 AM
Jun 2012

Rather than shirking it because the victim is a big bad motorcyclist who "had it coming".

If you don't want street justice meted out, then real justice needs to get to work.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
27. big bad motorcyclist who "had it coming". WOW the prosecutor said that?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:48 AM
Jun 2012

sounds lie he did do his job, you just dont like the verdict. you cant prove intent by a couple of "eyewitnesses" that may or may not have the same attitude as you have about this nor can you walk up to someone who hasnt touched you and lay your hands on him.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
123. This idiot DID have it coming. He confronted the driver. And got his dumb ass shot....
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:57 PM
Jun 2012

because of it.

The macho idea turned out poorly for this fool!

sarisataka

(18,755 posts)
86. I do not see where it is claimed
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:07 PM
Jun 2012

the drive deliberately tried to drive them off the road.

I often travel on two wheels so understand exactly what you mean. In my younger days I may have accidentally kicked out a tail light or two after such an incident.

I would never advocate getting off my ride and approaching the other car. These days, I just call in a report. Hopefully some day laws can be passed than recognize cars/truck 'having some fun' with motorcycles and bike is potentially fatal.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
121. Where in the hell do you see "deliberately" in this story. It was a mistake....
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:55 PM
Jun 2012

And for EVERY driver who is rude to Motorcycles there is some idiot Motorcyclist who lane splits where it is illegal.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
15. Ugh. Sick of the gun humping cowards. If you are gonna get violent, use your damn fists, like men.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:18 AM
Jun 2012
 

Meiko

(1,076 posts)
23. Some of us are no
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:37 AM
Jun 2012

longer able to engage in fist fights. That being said if you try to harm me and I am unable to escape the situation I will shoot you to defend myself. There won't be any fist fight.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
42. I remember reading the story
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:32 PM
Jun 2012

I didn't see anything in there about the elderly man purposely trying to run the motorcycle off the road.
Did I miss something?

And If someone bigger and stronger than me is punching me, well then, it sucks to be him when I shoot him to keep from getting beat to a pulp.

You don't like it, tough shit.

 

Meiko

(1,076 posts)
52. I always try to be careful
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:52 PM
Jun 2012

and courteous to other drivers. Sometimes people get overly upset because of a traffic mishap. No matter how careful you are you are going to piss someone off at some time or another. Hell I've been flipped off doing more than just driving down the road, have no idea what I did. People need to calm down.Of course if you are running people off the road on purpose that's a different matter.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
81. Yes, living in NYC I rarely drive anymore, but when I lived in Florida this happened a lot
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:59 PM
Jun 2012

Everyone makes errors or doesnt see someone in their blind spot now and then, etc. The assumption by some other folks is that whatever you 'did' you 'did it on purpose'.

One day while I was still living in Florida, I turned into a shopping mall one day (International mall for those of you familiar with the Tampa Bay area), drove down into the parking lot, parked, and then looked over as a car screeched into another spot nearby and a man angrily got out and confronted me over cutting him off as I entered the mall property.

Since I had no idea this even happened, my first question was, "Are you sure it was me?" I got an angry response in the affirmative. To which I said "Sir, if that happened, I apologize, I didnt even know it happened and never saw your car before just now."

That did not make the situation any better. The person continued to rage at me until I said, "Sir, god bless you and have a nice day" and I turned and walked into the mall. Mind you I am not religious, but I figured that an expression like that would shock the person to their senses a bit.

Like you said, too many people assume that what happens on the road is an intentional act by the other driver(s). Getting into a rage over it or assaulting someone over it is really stupid.

 

Spoonman

(1,761 posts)
69. Preach that horse shit to a woman
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:41 PM
Jun 2012

who would use a gun to defend herself from a 200lb man intent on raping her.

I have a feeling you will get "both barrels" from her!

Limited thought process is easy fodder!

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
180. Oh right, because attempting rape is the same thing as a road rage induced squabble.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:12 PM
Jun 2012

You get to be king of false equivalancy nonsense for the day.

Preach THAT horse shit to my fucking ass.

 

Spoonman

(1,761 posts)
183. YOUR "horse shit" of "false equivalancy"
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:51 PM
Jun 2012

I was replying to:

Ugh. Sick of the gun humping cowards. If you are gonna get violent, use your damn fists, like men.


No mention of road rage.

In the future try to keep up.
It might help you avoid looking like, and making comments like a "fucking ass".

There seems to be a lot of unbridled rage on the roads AND DU lately.
 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
191. This entire thread is about a road rage incident.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 04:56 PM
Jun 2012

You obviously know how to read, so you must be playing dumb.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
136. Oh ...so using fists is what a real man does huh?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:37 PM
Jun 2012

Not everyone is a mussel bound meat head that resorts to using fists. IMO people who use fists should have some fear that a little scrawny dude will shoot them ...lest they continue to think they can resort to punching people when they fail to control their anger.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
181. I am a scrawny little dude. I'm 5'9 125 lbs.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:18 PM
Jun 2012

And I'm not gonna assume I have to go shoot someone everytime tempers are on the rise. If someone is trying to rob my house or something of that nature, thats one thing. But just being out in public and you get into a squabble with someone over nothing, hell no, I'm not gonna whip out a gun and try to kill them.

Let me restate that another way. I'm not going to HIDE behind a gun like a FUCKING COWARD just because someone punched me.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
192. If thats what makes you sleep better at night
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 06:54 PM
Jun 2012

believing that I'm a coward for carrying a concealed weapon, I give you my permission to do so.
Congrats, your my first person on ignore.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
201. I don't believe carrying a concealed weapon makes someone a coward.
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 02:40 PM
Jun 2012

I believe deciding you are going to shoot someone at the drop of a hat just because they get rowdy with you makes you a coward. A person doesn't deserve to die just for hitting someone. They deserve to have their own ass kicked. They deserve to be arrested and charged with assault. They deserve some punishment, yes. They don't deserve to die over it. The decision to take someone's life shouldn't be taken so lightly.

Ignore is also for cowards.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
197. I wouldn't have rolled my window down in the first place
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 01:36 AM
Jun 2012

Seems like an easier solution.

Just sayin'

 

MadHound

(34,179 posts)
12. There were witnesses who said it looked like a deliberate action
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:16 AM
Jun 2012

Which wouldn't surprise me at all. St. Charles county has a history of people messing with anything on two wheels.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
20. no witness could state, as a fact, what the intentions of the driver were. there are alot of people
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:30 AM
Jun 2012

in prison due to falsities provided by "witnesses" ,like people exhonerated b/c dna evidence.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
32. As lawyers like to frequently state...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:16 PM
Jun 2012

Last edited Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:04 PM - Edit history (1)

"Eyewitnesses don't matter. What does the evidence show?"

Is there evidence, outside eyewitness testimony, that Setchfield ran, or tried to run Randell or his wife off the road?

If not, then Randell was at fault for assaulting Setchfield. Randell is lucky to be alive, and better have learned from this lesson. Don't get off your bike, walk up to someone's car and assault them.

You can huff and puff all you want about what you as a motorcyclist, would do against a motorist, but your 500 pound bike will lose against a 3,000+ pound car or truck every time.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
40. Link?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:30 PM
Jun 2012

I've never read anything about this being anything other than a silly road rage incident. Deliberate? Are you sure?

Dr. Strange

(25,922 posts)
185. Where are you getting this?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 02:21 PM
Jun 2012

The only mention of witnesses I've seen has been "witnesses say Randell punched him."

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
30. The proper response is to call the police, then. You don't get to beat people in revenge.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:59 AM
Jun 2012

Similarly, "self defense" requires an imminent danger, not one just passed.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
37. Let's assume for the sake of discussion that it was a deliberate attempt to run the woman off
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:27 PM
Jun 2012

How does that make punching the driver OK?

hack89

(39,171 posts)
76. The prosecutor appears to disagree with you
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:56 PM
Jun 2012
Banas said the intersection is confusing but it appeared the motorcyclists had turned into the wrong lane.


 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
137. According to some meat head morons he should have been man enough to punch the biker back ....pffft
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:41 PM
Jun 2012

The biker better have learned a lesson along with anyone else who thinks they can meet out supposed justice on their own.

 

ManyShadesOf

(639 posts)
22. Right and Wrong in road rage in crazy times?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:34 AM
Jun 2012

How to sort that out? There's plenty of blame to go around and we might recall, we didn't always live in times when people committed violence on each other on the roads!! Like it was a thing to do.

I blame Starbucks.

(And I HATE those vehicles that have no muffler and PHYSICALLY ASSAULT with INTENTION everyone they drive by).

ileus

(15,396 posts)
25. Sounds like a toss up....all the more reason to be humble
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:41 AM
Jun 2012

I've made mistakes while driving and have admitted with hand signs and words it was my fault to other drivers. I've also given 1000's of passes where I just keep on going after someone does something stupid. I don't even blow the horn or look at people odd anymore it's useless to do so. Forgive and forget is my motto...

Of course if I saw someone approaching my window I'd already have my firearm drawn assuming the worst. Safety first I always say.

belcffub

(595 posts)
33. looks like the guy in the car was in the right
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:19 PM
Jun 2012
The incident happened the afternoon of May 26 at the Bryan Road exit at Interstate 70. Randell and his his wife were riding separate Harley-Davidson motorcycles, and Setchfield was driving with his wife and 9-year-old grandson and a dog in a Mazda 6 sedan. Each thought the other had cut them off.

Banas said the intersection is confusing but it appeared the motorcyclists had turned into the wrong lane.

Setchfield yelled at the motorcyclists, and he and Randell began arguing.


I'm not one to yell at anyone on the road... everyone messes up and no one is perfect... but when you are in your car and someone reaches in a punches you you have the right to defend yourself... this case seems pretty clear and clean cut...

The police investigated and to them it looks like the driver did nothing wrong... so he did not try and run the motorcyclists off the road. I'm a long time biker myself as is my 1%er old man on his full dresser HD and my mom... tend to take the bikers side... but I have seen plenty of bikers cut people off and do stupid crap...

To everyone who says I should use my fists why should my survival and my ability to provide for my family be depended on my fighting ability... if someone assaults you use every tool you have to stop the assault... fights aren't fair...

treestar

(82,383 posts)
34. I don't like the idea of not bringing charges at all
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:23 PM
Jun 2012

If the guy was in the right to shoot the motorcyclist, it can be determined in court. Like with Zimmerman, I don't like the cops and prosecutors deciding that on their own. It's a negative sort of situation - granted they can choose when to prosecute. But someone who used a gun should at least be subject to some type of hearing or societal judgment.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
47. Bullshit
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:42 PM
Jun 2012

Why should the DA bring charges when it is a clear case of self defense? A trial could bankrupt someone what with having to hire an attorney and all. That just doesn't make any sense at all.

The police and DA looked at all the facts and determined it was in self defense so no charges should be filed.

If the idiot hadn't got off his bike and assaulted the driver, none of this would have happened.
End of story.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
110. Whether it is clear or not
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 07:36 PM
Jun 2012

is a very iffy question - some will think a case is clear where others don't. He did shoot someone.

If it is just fisticuffs, maybe, but it's not that clear all the time. No case is that clear. Look at the results of some of the more well known cases - Rodney King, for example. Suppose the prosecutor simply decided that was a clear case of which the police officers should have been acquitted? And that didn't even involve guns, unless I remember wrong.

Same with Zimmerman - that's what happened, at least at first. Do you really trust the cops/DAs with their "clear cases?"

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
118. Fair question
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:37 PM
Jun 2012

No I don't always trust the cops or DA's, but according to all accounts, and eyewitness accounts, Randall seemed to be in the wrong, he got off of his bike, he walked up to the car, got into an argument and then punched an elderly man, who had his wife and 9yo grandson in his car with him. Given all that, and unless different facts come out, IMHO, it was a legitimate case of self defense.

Bottom line, Randall should not have got off his bike, walked over to the car and punched the driver.
Randall is very lucky he's not being charged with violence to a senior citizen.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
179. It will be interesting if Randall tries to file a civil suit
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:24 PM
Jun 2012

At that point, a court and jury would at least decide, though it would be on the civil burden of proof.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
182. I don't think he can
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:45 PM
Jun 2012

From what I read of the law, if the shooting is ruled justified, he, Randall, cannot seek civil litigation.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
195. This is MO
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:58 PM
Jun 2012

and in the article referenced on the OP it says the law protects people justified in using deadly force from civil litigation.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
122. What bullshit
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:56 PM
Jun 2012

There was plenty of evidence that it was a legitimate case of self defense. Randall was the agressor, Randall assaulted the elderly man.
And now this idiot Randall is complaining about charges not being filed when he is the one that initiated the road rage?

Randall is lucky he's not being charged with violence on a senior citizen.
All the DA did was follow state law, and if he had filed charges, any competent judge would have laughed him out of court.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
124. What do you have against juries?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:59 PM
Jun 2012

Certainly there's nothing wrong with a jury deciding instead of one man. Let the process work. I don't know which side you are on the Trayvon Martin case, but I wanted a jury to decide that one, too. That's what we should all be entitled to.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
125. What part of no law was broken?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:09 PM
Jun 2012

No law broken, no charges filed. Why do you want to embarrass a DA? If he had done what you want him to do, any 1st year defense atty. would have the charges thrown and the DA would be standing there with egg on his face. The law in MO is very clear and the DA knew it. The elderly man was in fear of his life and he lawfully defended himself.
The only one who should have been charged is Randall for violence on a senior citizen.

The Trayvon/Zimmerman case is nothing like this case. The driver did not leave his car and approach Randall, it was the other way around. It was Randall who initiated the violence and the driver lawfully defended himself.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
126. "The elderly man was in fear of his life..."
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:13 PM
Jun 2012

That's all it takes to get off in Missouri? I mean, after all, that's not a subjective statement or anything. I believe that was Zimmerman's defense, too.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
128. No its not
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:22 PM
Jun 2012

there were plenty of eyewitness accounts of Randall being the aggressor. Have you even read the article yet? Again, what part of no law was broken so no charges were filed don't you understand. How can you have a trial if no laws were violated?
Randall fucked up and paid the price, if you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
129. "How can you have a trial if no laws were violated?"
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:26 PM
Jun 2012

Isn't that what trials are for? To determine if any laws were violated? Or do we just have trials after laws are broken and then let juries decide if the violation was serious enough to punish the offender?

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
130. The police and DA both determined, after an investigation with plenty of
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:41 PM
Jun 2012

eyewitness accounts, that no laws were broken, the shooting was justified, it never would have made it to trial, a judge would have thrown out the charges, and I'm sure that the DA took that into account.
If you can't figure that out yet, then we are done here.
The bottom line is that if Randall hadn't gotten off his bike and walked over to the car and punched the driver, he wouldn't have been shot and under MO law, That is a clear cut case of self defense and there were plenty of eyewitnesses who corroborate the facts.
So why should charges be filed if there is ZERO evidence of any laws being violated?

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
132. I hope no one shoots you...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:46 PM
Jun 2012

Well, unless the DA and police say no law had been broken. It would be different then.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
133. I hope not either
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 09:52 PM
Jun 2012

but I do carry where ever I go and I will at least have a chance to defend myself, but I practice situational awareness so I pretty much know whats happening around me and I will, if possible, remove myself from potential danger, but if I'm not able to, I will defend myself with lethal force if I have to.
The state I live in is very 2A friendly and trusts its citizens to carry concealed or open carry.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
80. It happens all the time - that's why they write laws in the first place
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:59 PM
Jun 2012

and why prosecutors have to apply them in deciding if a crime has been committed.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
48. My parents live in this county
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:46 PM
Jun 2012

So, if I go to Missouri, provoke someone to punch me and then I shoot them, I'm all good.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
51. No your not all good
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 12:51 PM
Jun 2012

you can't provoke a fight and then claim self defense if you shoot them.
But what the hell, give it a try and then tell us how well it went from prison.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,335 posts)
58. Provoke them how? By sitting in the car with your wife and grandson?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:10 PM
Jun 2012

I hate to say it. I take the side of the shooter here.

I would have driven off. But I find it REALLY hard to feel sorry for a guy who reaches in and hits a sitting person.

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
73. And what actions would be on trial?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:47 PM
Jun 2012

Perhaps the biker was merely approaching the vehicle to discuss any vents with the driver... was the impending physical assault obvious and imminent to the degree that it would trigger a retreat? Lots of people exchange heated words without throwing punches.

If there is no legal duty to retreat, then there is no crime.
There is certainly no duty to inform somebody assaulting you that you are armed.
If the motorist was being physically assaulted, then he has a right to defend himself.

Just what do you think he should be on trial for Hoyt? What laws were broken? C'mon Hilsman, you've been to law school... what precisely would be on trial. Clearly, the PD and friggin' DA don't feel they can win a case against the driver. Surely you can cite their erroneous nature of their conclusion.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
74. That's the problem 1/10, law allows one with a gun to shoot people when they could have left.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:52 PM
Jun 2012

When someone shoots an unarmed person in a case like this, they should have to face prosecution. Unfortunately, the right wing front group (NRA) has pushed laws through that protect folks like the shooter, and encourage other people to become a gun wielding bully.

He should have driven off, and he would have if not carrying a gun. Plus, he should not have left the scene of the shooting.
 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
83. Your really flailing here Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:04 PM
Jun 2012

How did he know that Randall wasn't armed? How did he know that Randall's wife wasn't armed? Was he supposed to stay there after being assaulted by someone bigger and stronger than him who he had just shot in self defense? He was supposed to stay there and possiby face imminent danger from Randall's wife who might have been armed? He was supposed to sit there and further put his wife and grandson in possible imminent danger? He chose to remove himself and family from immediate danger, drove them home, and then drove to the nearest police station and turned himself in which was, by all accounts, the correct thing to do.

Hoyt my friend, you make this way too easy.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
87. Oh, so now you can shoot an unarmed man and say you didn't know if he were armed?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:10 PM
Jun 2012

The guy could have driven off (in fact, I bet he wouldn't have stopped without his gun to comfort hime), he could have rolled up his windows, he could have done a lot of things besides shooting a man in the chest. Instead, he decided to shoot a man over something that was over.

That's the problem with guns and right wing gun laws, they turn folks who would normally shoot a "bird" into a gun wielding bullies.

Finally, we are not talking about someone who enters a person's house, or had even gotten in the car.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
92. Once again Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:22 PM
Jun 2012

How did he know he was unarmed? How did he know Randall's wife was unarmed? How did he know it was over?
And for your comfort, I feel quite comfortable carrying my gun in my car, on my person, whereever the law says I can. You were not there, you can condemn all you want, doesn't matter, the police and DA determined he was wholly justified in shooting Randall and apparently justified in leaving the scene to get him and his family out of danger.
It all comes down to this, If Randall had not got off his bike, approached the car and then punched the driver, none of this would have happened, Randall is lucky he's not being charged with violence on a senior citizen.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
96. And he should have, but that doesn't give a man with a gun the right to shoot an unarmed person
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:33 PM
Jun 2012

except under these stupid right wing, NRA backed, laws.
 

Cave_Johnson

(137 posts)
98. Stick around until he gets so tired from punching that he collapses in exhaustion?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:44 PM
Jun 2012

Helpful hint... Don't physically attack people and the odds of repercussions drop drastically...

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
104. And don't shoot unarmed people who may have "punched" once (and that is in question).
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 03:23 PM
Jun 2012

But the "cave"man mentality seems common among those who carry guns in public, and right wing groups such as the NRA who lobby for laws that protect this guy, and the Zimmermans of the world.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
106. So your true colors finally come out , eh, Hoyt?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 03:29 PM
Jun 2012

You think of us as "cave" men? Thank you for finally revealing who and what your really are.
You have consistently misreprestented what happened, slandered the victim, ie, the elderly man who was assaulted, slandered us legal CHL holders, refused to listen to reason.

I would alert this offensive comment by you, but I don't alert, because I want all to know what a bigot you are towards gun owners.

 

Cave_Johnson

(137 posts)
111. How many times should I get beaten before I am allowed to defend myself?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 07:40 PM
Jun 2012

Equal response in force at all times is it?

Punch for a punch?

Knife for a knife?

Can I shoot a guy who stabs me?

Don't attack me and you won't get shot in the chest... easy peasy...

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
115. In this situation roll up windows, mash the accelerator and leave.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:06 PM
Jun 2012

Also learn something about self-defense without a gun and quit going through life believing you are defenseless prey with no way to defend yourself unless you have a gun to back you up.

Anyone see any evidence that the shooter was even hurt as badly as Zimmerman by the alleged punch? I don't.

Further, I do not believe someone can punch very hard through a car window. The coward should have driven off. And, if he had not put the gun on his lap as intimidation, this would not have happened.
 

Cave_Johnson

(137 posts)
116. You got one thing right...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:09 PM
Jun 2012

If he hadn't had the gun it would have been different.

He would have been beaten more severely and he could have died.

Really? Roll up the window? It's hard to take you serious with a suggestion like that.

My point stands... Don't attack me and mine and bad things won't happen to you. Just that easy...

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
119. One thing about Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:43 PM
Jun 2012

It doesn't matter what the circumstances are, if you use a gun in self defense outside your home, your either a coward, a cowboy, well, you get my drift. He would rather you get beaten to a pulp or beaten to death rather than have the means to effectively defend yourself. Just go to the gungeon and read some of his outrageous statements.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
145. The fact that people carry guns scares criminals and big mussel bound fist users ...and
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:00 PM
Jun 2012

IMO that's a good thing. Too many people think it's ok to hit others. A lot of people need to go to anger management classes and get a grip on acting out.

 

L0oniX

(31,493 posts)
144. The anti gun agenda is obvious ...all over DU.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 10:56 PM
Jun 2012

"cave"man mentality ...please ...so the big dude swinging fists is not using "cave"man mentality? Most DU polls about gun ownership show that about 1/2 of DU members own a gun or 2 ...so it would seem that some people don't mind attacking 1/2 of the DU community. If you've never seen such a DU poll then try setting one up in GD and you will see for yourself. Another thing ...just because a DU member owns a gun doesn't mean they are right wing or an NRA member and some of us are tired of that "calling out" bull shit.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
155. Alot bigger than the elderly man
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 11:53 PM
Jun 2012

who was, w/o provocation/ assaulted by Randall.
Face it Hoyt, Randall did something stupid and payed the price for it. But you don't really give a shit because as far as you are concerned, a gun was used and to you, thats taboo even if it stopped an attack by an enraged attacker.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
157. You really are something else
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:00 AM
Jun 2012

oh well, you just keep on smearing those of us who chose to legally carry and we'll just keep on getting pro gun legislation passed. All your dithering and handwringing is doing nothing to stop or slow down our agenda.
I am so done with your insults to us.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
174. Ha Ha Ha thats funny Hoyt
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:00 AM
Jun 2012

I don't try to hide my agenda, everyone here knows that I am for the expansion of pro gun legislation and I do work toward it with writing my senators and congressman, I work to get pro 2A pol. elected which in my state are Dems. I donate money towards these candidates and judging by the direction of the pro 2A laws, we're doing pretty damn good.

Tell me again again how many gun control laws have been passed in the last 5 years? And just what do you do to roll back our gains?
And now we're about to win a huge victory in IL when it goes concealed carry.
But you just keep on bitchin and moaning on an internet site and we'll just keep on winning on the pro 2A front.

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
103. Perhaps he did not realize the guy would be assaulting him.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 03:16 PM
Jun 2012

As the driver, I would have assumed the guy just wanted to vent or exchange some words. No reason to drive away or retreat from that - especially if you're at a stop-sign or stop light and it's not clear to drive. Perhaps pulling out into unyielding traffic would cause a serious accident. Maybe the car was boxed in by other traffic.

There are a number of variables to consider before making the kind of judgements your posts appear to be making. Nevertheless, the fact that you cannot seem to come to terms that an older man was in the act of being physically assaulted by a biker 26 years younger when the older guy shot him certianly says alot about your values regarding the right to defend one's personal safety. Why would you advocate that people behaving violently and threateningly should dictate the actoins of others. The grandfater had a right to be there in addition to the right to keep a loaded pistol in his car... why should the ILLEGAL hostile actions of others force someone who is not acting unlawfully to cede their ground.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
105. Well if that were the assumption, why did driver/shooter pull his gun and place it in his lap first?
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 03:25 PM
Jun 2012
 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
67. Poor tactical choice to assault older people.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:34 PM
Jun 2012

An older person has been around the block and have their fair share of experiences. Don't mess with older people because they're not into all that macho chest-bumping bare-knuckle brawling. Sure, some may be unarmed and easy targets... but a decent portion of them will just pull out out a gun or knife and end the fight before it starts.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
75. What do you mean this guy isn't into macho crap -- he carried and pulled a gun first when he could
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:54 PM
Jun 2012

have driven off. In fact, he did drive off after shooting an unarmed man. Jeeez.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
93. Nice job of totally mis-representing the facts there Hoyt
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:26 PM
Jun 2012

I'm pretty sure everyone here now has your ticket and don't believe a word your saying now, especiallly after you post this.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
95. What did I misrepresent? Rather than leaving, driver pulled his gun before cyclist got to his car.
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:30 PM
Jun 2012

The the shooter drove off after shooting an unarmed man. If that is acceptable in this country, we have an issue that needs addressing by people other than the NRA.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
99. Apparently your not reading what I have wrote
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:46 PM
Jun 2012

So, one more time, How did he know that Randall was unarmed? How did he know that Randall's wife didn't have a gun? Should he have stayed and possibly put himself, his wife, and his 9yo grandson in further danger? And yes, it is acceptable in this country to remove your self from further danger, he left, took his wife and grandson home and then drove to the nearest police station and turned himself in, what in the fuck is wrong with that? He's not a criminal, like you alleged in an earlier post. If he was, he never would have turned himself in.
Bringing up the NRA is just a strawman that you are using to try to deflect. Doesn't work, try reading the vast majority of posts here, your in the ridiculously small minority here Hoyt.

One more time, If Randall hadn't got off his bike, and assaulted the elderly man, he wouldn't have been shot.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
If you don't get it by now, your never going to get it.
 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
100. This is a common misconceptoin I've seen you and many other anti's state...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 02:57 PM
Jun 2012

That people carry a gun to be macho, or they are cowards, or they have small penises, or any of other insinuations that the gun somehow makes them braver.

The truth is quite the opposite. If you ever think you may be assaulted or in a life threatening altercation, I would think that giving yourself every advantage to come out on top alive would be the SMART thing to do... and that has nothing to do with faux bravery or penis size. Sure, you'd also need to learn about the basics of statistics and how rare such an event is, but it rarely has to do with being macho.

If you ever find yourself in a fair fight then your tactics were flawed.

 

SGMRTDARMY

(599 posts)
102. Deep down I think he knows that
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 03:02 PM
Jun 2012

but his deep disdain and contempt for those of us who legally carry severly clouds his judgement.

 

Cave_Johnson

(137 posts)
113. That's the weird part...
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 08:02 PM
Jun 2012

I carry not only for myself and my family but also on the off chance that I may be able to assist someone else who is in the process of having their life threatened as well.

Everyone is better off and potentially safer because of folks like us (especially those of us with training and experience) and it still rubs some folks wrong even as they benefit.

Odd...

rollin74

(1,989 posts)
60. I agree with the prosecutor's decision not to file charges
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 01:11 PM
Jun 2012

If you are going to violently assault someone don't be surprised/upset if you get shot in the process

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
109. Neither do I, and it just occurred to me that the subject line conveys a simple but obvious irony
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 07:01 PM
Jun 2012

A documented road-rager is UPSET about something. It says he was "shot in road rage" which suggests that he was shot by someone who was in a state of road rage, but HE was the one who committed road rage in the first place.

Big surprise there.

JVS

(61,935 posts)
108. “But for the grace of God, I would be a dead man,”
Wed Jun 13, 2012, 06:57 PM
Jun 2012

Wow, aren't we all fortunate that God chose to intervene in this case. Why this and not fixing global warming, God?

flvegan

(64,413 posts)
173. "when any silly driving situation turns into a shooting?"
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 12:58 AM
Jun 2012

When your idiot client intentionally commits what would be seen as a felony on my person. As reported, that is.

Can I get my bullet back?

The DU Puritanical Squad (TM) will have a field day with it though, and comment about gun-nuts, the Gungeon and various other apologetic stupidity.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
188. I hate to say it, but Randell should just be thankful he's alive
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 02:59 PM
Jun 2012

There were a couple of roadrage incidents when I lived in Atlanta in the 90s that ended in death for a lot less that what he did, (one notable victim got shot after being rear-ended because he jumped out the car and slammed his fist on the other guy's hood) and none of those shooters were even charged

dsc

(52,166 posts)
196. we don't have all the details
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 12:10 AM
Jun 2012

but from what is there it is hard to fault the prosecutor here. The law is pretty clear in that a person is permitted to use deadly force to counter force. That is what the driver did. The motorcyclist threw the first punch after being the aggressor in the first place by approaching the car. The driver was 16 years older and had both a elderly woman and a child with him.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
200. It may be the law, but I'm still having trouble wrapping my head around that
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 09:42 AM
Jun 2012

Losing your cool and hitting someone can lead to an instant, state-sanctioned death sentence. Wow.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
202. Hitting someone one can kill or severely injure them.
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 03:27 PM
Jun 2012

Especially an elderly man. Real life is not like the movies - a hard blow to the head is very dangerous.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
203. We're talking about someone sitting in their car getting hit by someone standing outside of it.
Fri Jun 15, 2012, 04:09 PM
Jun 2012

Plus, the motorcyclist claimed to have only slapped him. And we're not talking about movies. Could you please show me examples of these hard blow deaths and severe injuries because I know fist fights happen all the time, but I've yet to hear of someone dying or even getting severely injured with one punch (or slap.)

(So that lady who slapped Tom Barrett could have been justifiably shot?)

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