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ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 12:47 AM Apr 2016

Obama: Black Lives Matter And Other Activists Need To Learn To Compromise

http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/obama-blm-compromise-youth-speech

While answering questions from students and young people, Obama praised the Black Lives Matter movement for bringing to light the issues of police brutality and racial discrimination, but he says, their tone can mean that sometimes the message gets lost.

“You can’t just keep on yelling at them and you can’t refuse to meet because that might compromise the purity of your position,” Obama said. “The value of social movements and activism is to get you at the table, get you in the room and then start trying to figure out how is this problem going to be solved. You then have a responsibility to prepare an agenda that is achievable —that can institutionalize the changes you seek and to engage the other side.”

More obviousness on how to constructively engage, how to actually fix things, from our President.

- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community

/ No wonder so many of the JackpineRadical and Naderite types here hate him
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Obama: Black Lives Matter And Other Activists Need To Learn To Compromise (Original Post) ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 OP
I expect total confusion in the ranks of some people here. Scootaloo Apr 2016 #1
Oh, no. I'm sure Brock will roll out approved talking points n/t Hydra Apr 2016 #6
Hmm Washington and the rest of those idiots surely compromised nadinbrzezinski Apr 2016 #2
Because 3/5 was a good compromise? HooptieWagon Apr 2016 #3
It was the northern states who said slaves should not be counted former9thward Apr 2016 #9
Why I'm not a fan of his. N/t Peregrine Took Apr 2016 #4
His willingness to compromise has been his biggest weakness. SheilaT Apr 2016 #5
I wouldn't put it quite that way Retrograde Apr 2016 #20
However, all parties here did not agree on a goal. SheilaT Apr 2016 #34
more-importantly MurrayDelph Apr 2016 #21
Oops. CharlotteVale Apr 2016 #7
The only way to know the limits of the possible is to venture past them into the impossible Fumesucker Apr 2016 #8
Clarke was talking about space travel, not tantrum throwing in the cereal aisle ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #10
Clarke was talking about a general principle Fumesucker Apr 2016 #11
A general principle that seems lost on you ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #24
Moving the Overton Window requires having people pushing against the limits of the acceptable Fumesucker Apr 2016 #36
Moving the Overton window involves PERSUADING people... ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #37
So... Black Lives Sort of Matter? Or maybe Some Black Lives Matter? Marr Apr 2016 #12
A few legitimate issues... TipTok Apr 2016 #16
can't have black folk getting all uppity about getting shot down in the streets KG Apr 2016 #17
And here we have Obama white-splaining to people? Igel Apr 2016 #19
You're white, right? ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #25
From what I get from his statement romanic Apr 2016 #13
Too bad the message is in entirely lost on the people who need to understand it the most. linuxman Apr 2016 #14
I lulz'd KG Apr 2016 #15
He should have ran... Bohemianwriter Apr 2016 #18
I'd prefer a spine. JEB Apr 2016 #22
He forgot to add, "I'll meet with you and help you prepare an agenda that can promote institutional WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2016 #23
It never occurs to you that he is already promoting institutional change ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #26
You might want to consider the "Bernie Bro" effect. People tend to generalize when there's an WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2016 #28
BLM has tried to begin a conversation with the likely next POTUS. Here's how they were treated WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2016 #29
The OP always intends to disrupt and divide DU. Rex Apr 2016 #31
So quoting the Democratic POTUS is "disrupting and divide" the DU? ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #33
This is about you bashing Obama... ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #32
Obama lecturing black people, is something that he is allowed to do La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2016 #27
OH look it is that username that is a proud member of something they made up! Rex Apr 2016 #30
I can certainly tell reality isn't something you're interested in ConservativeDemocrat Apr 2016 #35
The young lady at Hillary's fundraiser missed an excellent opportunity Lucinda Apr 2016 #38
 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
2. Hmm Washington and the rest of those idiots surely compromised
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 12:52 AM
Apr 2016

and so did Lincoln... and MLK also did compromise all the time.

That must be a very different version of Imperial history, and the Queen has been really good to the American colonies

former9thward

(32,023 posts)
9. It was the northern states who said slaves should not be counted
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:50 AM
Apr 2016

at all when determining representation in Congress. It was the southern states who said they should be counted 100%. It was the NORTH who came up with the idea that slaves would be 3/5 of whites . Forget about that part of American history???

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
5. His willingness to compromise has been his biggest weakness.
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 01:11 AM
Apr 2016

But more to the point, he's willing to compromise and he does not seem to get it that others (meaning Republicans) are not. Well, they use the word compromise but to them it means Do it MY way.

Retrograde

(10,137 posts)
20. I wouldn't put it quite that way
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 12:57 PM
Apr 2016

Compromise works best when all parties agree on a goal but differ on how to get there: it needs rational humans to make it work best. IMHO, Obama's big initial mistake was assuming that the GOP would act like rational adults for the good of the country.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
34. However, all parties here did not agree on a goal.
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 05:49 PM
Apr 2016

Republicans simply wanted their way and as I said above, their definition of "compromise" was "do it totally my way.

The really unfortunate thing about Obama is that he has taken so very long to understand that they totally oppose him and totally refuse to work with him in any capacity. That he didn't recognize that they had no intention of acting like rational adults for the good of the country.

We really aren't in disagreement here, just have a slightly different take.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
8. The only way to know the limits of the possible is to venture past them into the impossible
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:36 AM
Apr 2016

-Clarke's second law..

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
10. Clarke was talking about space travel, not tantrum throwing in the cereal aisle
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 03:02 AM
Apr 2016

- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
11. Clarke was talking about a general principle
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 03:08 AM
Apr 2016

Remember that gay marriage was "impossible" until suddenly it wasn't, Hillary was saying marriage is a sacred bond between a man and a woman until about 2013 or so.

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
24. A general principle that seems lost on you
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 01:51 PM
Apr 2016

The public's attitude towards gay marriage didn't shift due to a bunch of screaming hate-filled morons threatening to get rid of heterosexual marriage, or vowing to destroy all religions (on Wall Street or not) that still don't approve of it.

You sanctimonious hatred-addicts are the worst enemy of the people you imagine that you're trying to help.

- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
36. Moving the Overton Window requires having people pushing against the limits of the acceptable
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 01:23 AM
Apr 2016

The right has been doing it for decades with marked success, it's telling that if the left starts doing something similar the conservatives would be "concerned" and start mocking it.

This is America, it's all about sanctimonious hatred addicts. I guess I can understand the hatred for Iran by people unaware of the full history but the hatred for Iraq seems to have materialized out of thin air. Or maybe it's just because Iraq sounds enough like Iran to be confused for it.





ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
37. Moving the Overton window involves PERSUADING people...
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 02:08 AM
Apr 2016

...not demonizing them. Not scaring them. Not hating them.

Moving the Overton window is what people like me do, while people like you end up driving people away from the Democratic party and the policies you advocate for, almost as effectively as Trump and Cruz are driving people away from Republicans. Largely because, aside from the ideological inversion, the hate filled childish ranting sounds nearly exactly the same to people who just listen to tone.

But I also know how seductive hatred is. I certainly see it among people, even in my liberal state. There's a lot of frustration in the rural regions, and justifiable blame towards illegal immigrants for low wages. That's why Trump is winning, despite his clownishness. I'm actually relatively pleased with our new minimum wage law, though it's going to make some projects just not pencil out. But everyone will be competing at the higher rates, which evens the playing field, at least.

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Marr

(20,317 posts)
12. So... Black Lives Sort of Matter? Or maybe Some Black Lives Matter?
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 03:33 AM
Apr 2016

I'm not sure how you 'compromise' on black and white issues.

 

TipTok

(2,474 posts)
16. A few legitimate issues...
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 09:55 AM
Apr 2016

... Do not equal carte blanche to make every ridiculous demand you can think of and then claim persecution when they aren't immediately met.


The president is right.

KG

(28,751 posts)
17. can't have black folk getting all uppity about getting shot down in the streets
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 09:59 AM
Apr 2016

hasn't this been white-splained to you before?

Igel

(35,320 posts)
19. And here we have Obama white-splaining to people?
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 11:09 AM
Apr 2016

Really?

Not a good inference, but, I think, a valid one.

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
25. You're white, right?
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 01:54 PM
Apr 2016

So why are you "splaining" anything to our black president?



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romanic

(2,841 posts)
13. From what I get from his statement
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 04:12 AM
Apr 2016

specifically this statement:

“The value of social movements and activism is to get you at the table, get you in the room and then start trying to figure out how is this problem going to be solved. You then have a responsibility to prepare an agenda that is achievable —that can institutionalize the changes you seek and to engage the other side.”


is that you have to actually engage and speak with politicians and be prepared with an agenda that can be implemented into law. BLM tactics have brought the issue of police brutality at the forefront, but those same tactics haven't evolved beyond protesting/disruption to get their demands looked over by those that can actually put those changes into law. Time and time again, it seems like the BLM activists have failed to engage lawmakers due to their inability to stop yelling and actually listen.
 

WhaTHellsgoingonhere

(5,252 posts)
23. He forgot to add, "I'll meet with you and help you prepare an agenda that can promote institutional
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 01:37 PM
Apr 2016

change."

He doesn't seem to have an appetite for that. So much for giving zero fucks.

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
26. It never occurs to you that he is already promoting institutional change
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 01:57 PM
Apr 2016

And that he doesn't need to reward counterproductive extremists with a presidential meeting to know what it is like to be automatically considered suspect simply due to the color of one's skin.

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WhaTHellsgoingonhere

(5,252 posts)
28. You might want to consider the "Bernie Bro" effect. People tend to generalize when there's an
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:04 PM
Apr 2016

"obnoxious" group, regardless of its size. Bernie Bros and BLM are catching all the headlines and people are making broad generalizations. Maybe the President is as shortsighted as you.

 

WhaTHellsgoingonhere

(5,252 posts)
29. BLM has tried to begin a conversation with the likely next POTUS. Here's how they were treated
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:21 PM
Apr 2016


Just another lecture.
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
31. The OP always intends to disrupt and divide DU.
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:44 PM
Apr 2016

I guess DI is slow today, usually they're are over there concern trolling.

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
33. So quoting the Democratic POTUS is "disrupting and divide" the DU?
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 03:18 PM
Apr 2016

Way to go to show how much hate filled anti-Democrats have taken to trolling the DU.

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ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
32. This is about you bashing Obama...
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 03:15 PM
Apr 2016

...over his supposed "racist" dismissal of BLM extremists.

Not your failed attempt to misrepresent a constructive discussion between these BLM activists and Secretary Clinton by taking a handful of photographs. Here's the actual video, in case you'd like to actually watch it.

http://www.democracynow.org/blog/2015/8/19/watch_full_video_of_hillary_clintons

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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
27. Obama lecturing black people, is something that he is allowed to do
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:01 PM
Apr 2016

the rest of us, not so much. we don't face the same existential threats, so we don't get to be sanctimonious.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
30. OH look it is that username that is a proud member of something they made up!
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 02:42 PM
Apr 2016

You are such an entertaining 'poster', I'll give you that much.

ConservativeDemocrat

(2,720 posts)
35. I can certainly tell reality isn't something you're interested in
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 08:56 PM
Apr 2016

Or curiosity for that matter.

How do I know? You didn't even bother to google the phrase before you accused me of making it up.

Come back when you educate yourself.

- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
38. The young lady at Hillary's fundraiser missed an excellent opportunity
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 02:37 AM
Apr 2016

But I think her agenda was just to grab some "gotcha" video and disrupt. Hopefully she learned something in the process.

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