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Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 11:34 AM Apr 2016

The way I was raised

In the town where I grew up, I was taught that there were interesting families of people from all over the world, and that I was to respect the rights of people from cultures that were different from mine. My first nanny was Mohawk, my dad's best friend was his black co-worker, I was fed calamari and eggplant by the Italian side and roast pork and strawberry satin pie by the French/Dutch/Scotch what-have-you other side of my family.

The German deli had the best sandwiches. The Polish had the best pirogues. We practiced Judaism and Christianity and paganism and atheism and nobody felt in the least bit put out that their neighbors didn't completely agree with them about which god was the "true" god.

Fast forward to last year or so when angry people in the SW were screaming at busloads full of babies seeking refuge from war-ravaged hellholes south of us. In the town where I grew up, the mayor took one look at those raging assholes screaming at babies and said:

"President Obama, our town will shelter and feed and care for those babies. Our town will stand up and give those babies a cup of water." I was never more proud of my home town.

Fast forward to living in Tennessee today. I was not aware that I lived in a state so full of delicate snowflakes. I had no idea Tennessee had so many grownup counselors who can't handle differences of faith, opinion or "principles."

The poor, poor dears! How they must suffer! The concept of respecting others was taught to me as a child. My grade school companions had no problem "tolerating" and getting along with each other despite our ethnic and religious differences.

Yet the adults of Tennessee must have their hands held as they shiver in fear over "other beliefs." They huddle in groups, petrified of a different kind of prayer, skin color, sexual orientation.

The terrified and oppressed grownup counselors of Tennessee must be protected from having to be professional, ethical, responsible and civic-minded individuals if they don't like what you think, wear, sing or pray.

The way I was raised, the law set for Haslam's signature in Tennessee---this latest "Let's-manipulate-the-Jesus-Overdosed-to-vote-for-us-cuz-we-tuk-away-sum-rights" vomitus our legislature regularly spews, this bill that allows professional counselors to act like toddlers---this law is no more than a SIN and a violation of our US Constitution.

But the legislature will violate the Bible and the Constitution seven days a week for a vote. And because they believe that the timid, frightened grownups of Tennessee must be sheltered from the reality that people are not all the same.

Hopefully Haslam will shun this bill, or his state is going to be shunned into economic disaster. The free market that Republicans love so much? It works BOTH ways.





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The way I was raised (Original Post) Tsiyu Apr 2016 OP
Beautifully said. And what a wonderful way to grow up. hedda_foil Apr 2016 #1
My late Aunt Margie's specialty Tsiyu Apr 2016 #2
Living in Tennessee, I'm surrounded by Tea-Partiers, Trump supporters, Christian bigots, etc. SharonAnn Apr 2016 #24
Post removed Post removed Apr 2016 #30
You had me at Ilsa Apr 2016 #3
I've been everywhere, man. Tsiyu Apr 2016 #4
Church of the Ignorant Bigots Martin Eden Apr 2016 #5
You called it. They're on a roll all over the country Tsiyu Apr 2016 #15
"trying to Out-Jesus one another" Martin Eden Apr 2016 #21
did those pirogues look like this? Human101948 Apr 2016 #6
You got me Tsiyu Apr 2016 #8
I hope you dropped your mic after that. K&R! nt TeamPooka Apr 2016 #7
^^^ THIS ^^^ This post is now... OneGrassRoot Apr 2016 #9
You guys are so funny Tsiyu Apr 2016 #13
Thank you from my heart and soul, Tsiyu. Hekate Apr 2016 #10
Love you right back, Hekate Tsiyu Apr 2016 #14
We HAVE to have each others' backs. chervilant Apr 2016 #11
It's so much nicer to love your neighbors as yourself Tsiyu Apr 2016 #16
No, Cajuns have the best pirogues KamaAina Apr 2016 #12
I know. I know.* Tsiyu Apr 2016 #17
You brought tears to my eyes. Liberal Jesus Freak Apr 2016 #18
Don't cry! Tsiyu Apr 2016 #19
welcome to the mess fux gnewz & hate radio & newt Gingrinch created. pansypoo53219 Apr 2016 #20
Well said! redstatebluegirl Apr 2016 #22
The emergence of The American Taliban nt kristopher Apr 2016 #23
Kicked and recommended a whole bunch! Enthusiast Apr 2016 #25
A very eloquent and moving post, we are of the same mindset, even if I basically raised myself, Dragonfli Apr 2016 #26
Thank you so much for your lovely words Tsiyu Apr 2016 #27
"The uber-wealthy love when we hate each other. Then we won't notice how we're all being screwed" Dragonfli Apr 2016 #28
Good reads Tsiyu Apr 2016 #32
this is a great read Skittles Apr 2016 #29
Thanks for the Tsiyu Apr 2016 #31
back at ya babe Skittles Apr 2016 #33
knr to the max. well written! nt retrowire Apr 2016 #34
I emailed our governor yesterday. TNNurse Apr 2016 #35
My mom moved to south east Tennesee, she's going over the edge concerning religion and there's Demonaut Apr 2016 #36

hedda_foil

(16,375 posts)
1. Beautifully said. And what a wonderful way to grow up.
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 11:46 AM
Apr 2016

I'm off to find me a recipe for strawberry satin pie!

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
2. My late Aunt Margie's specialty
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 11:52 AM
Apr 2016

I can still taste it: SUPER flaky crust, pastry cream, fresh strawberries and whipped cream.

It's a good thing I never got the recipe out of her because pie.

SharonAnn

(13,776 posts)
24. Living in Tennessee, I'm surrounded by Tea-Partiers, Trump supporters, Christian bigots, etc.
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 05:30 PM
Apr 2016

I just tell people that I don't talk politics! Sometimes I have to say it several times.

Response to SharonAnn (Reply #24)

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
3. You had me at
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 12:25 PM
Apr 2016
I was not aware that I lived in a state so full of delicate snowflakes.


Brilliant commentary. Thanks for calling it like it is about political manipulation and cowardice.

K&R.

PS: Where were you before you were in TN?

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
4. I've been everywhere, man.
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 12:27 PM
Apr 2016

lol

But I was raised in upstate NY.

Thank you for your kind words.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
15. You called it. They're on a roll all over the country
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:35 PM
Apr 2016

Grown ass Republican politicians playing the fool and falling all over themselves trying to Out-Jesus one another.

It's theRepublican's traditional election-year effort to convince the fundies that they hate non-believers soooooooo much they will sacrifice the very document on which their nation was founded---the Constitution.

"Now vote for me! I feed your hatred and bigotry!"


Martin Eden

(12,870 posts)
21. "trying to Out-Jesus one another"
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 03:46 PM
Apr 2016

If they actually loved and understood Jesus Christ they would embrace the least among us, including those at whom so many stones have been cast.

What they really "love" is using religion as a means to validate their bigotry, their hatred, their fears, their greed -- and to do so while indulging their sense of moral superiority.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
8. You got me
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 01:38 PM
Apr 2016

the spellcheck didn't catch it so I thought my non-Pole ass was in the clear.



They were so delish, tho. (The pirogies, not the boats)

OneGrassRoot

(22,920 posts)
9. ^^^ THIS ^^^ This post is now...
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 01:40 PM
Apr 2016

one of my all-time favorites.

Thank you, thank you, thank you,l Tsiyu.

to you!

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
13. You guys are so funny
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:28 PM
Apr 2016

I loaned my favorite SM-58 to one of the boys' music studios, so I'll drop a banana instead.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
16. It's so much nicer to love your neighbors as yourself
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:38 PM
Apr 2016


Reach out, help one another. That's the way I want to live.

Republicans want us to hate one another and deny one another rights, while they claim to follow the Prince of Peace.




 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
12. No, Cajuns have the best pirogues
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:12 PM
Apr 2016

Pirogues are canoes used to navigate the bayous. The tasty Polish dumplings are pierogies.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
17. I know. I know.*
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:40 PM
Apr 2016



Darn spellchecker doesn't know the difference between a tasty dumpling and a canoe! Yeah, that's it! I'm leaving the original spelling just because lol.



*See above

Liberal Jesus Freak

(1,451 posts)
18. You brought tears to my eyes.
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 02:42 PM
Apr 2016

Beautiful post. And I, too, will be looking for a strawberry satin pie recipe

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
26. A very eloquent and moving post, we are of the same mindset, even if I basically raised myself,
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 07:58 PM
Apr 2016

we learned the same thing and came to the same conclusion.

I applaud the teaching of those that raised you, I also envy a bit that you had them, as it would have made my journey to the same place far easier with less painful lessons.

I too grew up in a diverse neighborhood (if a poor one) and made many friends that helped me survive, among them were those of differing ethnicity, religions, sexuality; a rainbow of colors, traditions, beliefs and identities. Perhaps that is the key shared factor that binds our beliefs, making them so in tune. I am multiracial, so perhaps that affects my perception a bit, hard to say as I am so mixed, it is hard to identify me, or me to even identify myself as any one thing.

Carry on the tradition, and thank you for your contribution to what I consider one of the few OPs of late that shows the true nature we should all be striving for.

There is only one race among humans, all other factors are trivial and should not be a point of division, but a celebration of varieties of human existence.

Unity is the key, to happiness, love, and yes, even the survival of our species due to current ecological realities.

I feel that if we were ever to meet we would be good friends.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
27. Thank you so much for your lovely words
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 08:08 PM
Apr 2016

We would be friends, no doubt.

My family has a lot of flaws, believe me, but bigotry is not one of them. Every variety of person was welcomed to our family gatherings, and I am grateful I was not taught to fear or discriminate against people for their ethnicity, nationality, orientation or religion.

The uber-wealthy love when we hate each other. Then we won't notice how we're all being screwed: Black, white, catholic, protestant, muslim and atheist , straight or gay, skinny or plump, all are being exploited, and we all need each other to fight back.

Thanks, Dragonfli, for your sentiment and to all who recc'ed and/or kicked my post.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
28. "The uber-wealthy love when we hate each other. Then we won't notice how we're all being screwed"
Tue Apr 12, 2016, 08:22 PM
Apr 2016

I fully agree I even have written several OPs over the years regarding it. Not many very recently, but here is one if you are interested, and another that touches strongly on that reality quite heavily towards the last half.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
32. Good reads
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 03:45 AM
Apr 2016

I gave you a couple extra recs.

You're so right about politicians who divide us, and about the way people are waking up (or need to!)

Thanks for sharing the links. Gotta keep chipping away at the wall...




TNNurse

(6,927 posts)
35. I emailed our governor yesterday.
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 08:35 AM
Apr 2016

I remained polite in my explanation of all the reasons why this bill is wrong. If he sees the economic impact as did the governor of the state of my birth (GA) that will hopefully guide him. There are so many other reasons it is bad as you mentioned but I will be grateful just as long as it is not signed. I did tell him people would not even stop on I-75 in TN to buy gas on their way to GA where they do not have this very ignorant law. I really tried to not insult his or anyone else's intelligence, but it was hard.

Demonaut

(8,918 posts)
36. My mom moved to south east Tennesee, she's going over the edge concerning religion and there's
Wed Apr 13, 2016, 10:03 AM
Apr 2016

no way to stop the brainwashing

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