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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsPeople who say they don't see race are ignoring racism, not helping solve it.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jan/26/do-not-see-race-ignoring-racism-not-helpingRace is such an ingrained social construct that even blind people can see it. To pretend it doesnt exist to you erases the experiences of black people
People love to tell me that they often forget that Im black. They say this with a sort of a-ha! look on their faces, as if their dawning ability to see my blackness was a gift to us both.
When I point out that their eyesight had never left them, that my skin has never changed colors, and that they probably did not really forget that I am black, they inevitably get defensive. First, they try to argue that it was a compliment; the smart ones quickly realize that complimenting someone on not being black is actually pretty racist, so they switch gears.
I dont see race! is usually their next tactic, followed by I am colorblind, though they never give credit to Stephen Colbert. By colorblind they dont actually mean that they cant see green or red; rather, they are suggesting that they cant ever be racist, because they dont register skin color at all.
This ideology is very popular like a racial utopic version of the Golden Rule but its actually quite racist. Colorblindness doesnt acknowledge the very real ways in which racism has existed and continues to exist, both in individuals and systemically. By professing not to see race, youre just ignoring racism, not solving it.
Still, the idea of colorblindness is incredibly popular, especially with young people who believe racism is a problem for the older generation and will soon die out. . . .
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astrophuss42
(290 posts)But I think most people would like to hope that they are non-discriminatory, unfortunately most of us are not. One thing a person could try are the implicit association tests. I found I am more ageist than I thought.
TipTok
(2,474 posts)... But I don't care.
FLPanhandle
(7,107 posts)I try not to either judge someone better or worse because of their race but by their actions. I think striving to be "color blind" should be the goal. People judged on their behaviors and not given the "benefit of the doubt" nor condemned just because of their race.
What does the author want?
pnwmom
(108,990 posts)posted a picture that the black OP and others felt was racist.
That poster insisted that he doesn't even see race. The issue isn't whether he was right or not about the picture. The issue was his insistence that race doesn't exist for him.
Only people with race-privilege can say that race doesn't matter. No black person is safe going out in the world pretending that they don't see race.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)You do realize america is not the whole world right? Minorities in any situation are not safe. For example the protester at the trump rally white as hell but not safe because she was in that situation a minority.
People suck and put them together in a group and they suck even more. The group will always bully the other it has been going on for as long as humans have been around.
There is no making this go away ever sadly.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)People who say "I don't see race" usually mean "I am not going to judge you based on your race" which is exactly what MLK exhorted people to do.
pnwmom
(108,990 posts)Do you not see the problem with that, either?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)There are well-meaning people who wish to make the point that they are making a conscious effort to avoid making any assumptions about someone solely based on their race. I don't think it's fair to accuse anyone who uses that "I don't see color" phrase as perpetuating racism when especially people from an older generation really mean it in a way that is benign and with the right intentions. Obviously everyone is different and there are those who can use that construct in a way that is racist but I do not think it is automatically perpetuating (or ignoring) racism.
TipTok
(2,474 posts)I occasionally wonder if it is conscious or not.
It's a lose/lose situation and noatter what you are 'wronging' someone and reinforcing their status as a victim or oppressed or whatever.
safeinOhio
(32,713 posts)Taught in public schools, starting in about third grade.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)I see race, but I don't give a shit about it and I don't treat anyone any different because of it.