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Woman confronts Starbucks employee who stole her credit card (Original Post) bluestateguy Jan 2016 OP
Any confrontation with a stranger exboyfil Jan 2016 #1
It makes me feel nothing but bad. rusty quoin Jan 2016 #2
Theft is not OK. But I have more sympathy for the employee.... marble falls Jan 2016 #3
The kid used the money to buy groceries. baldguy Jan 2016 #5
Pretty much what I feel. marble falls Jan 2016 #6
She did that with her kids in the car? cwydro Jan 2016 #4
The customer chose not to press charges. Captain Stern Jan 2016 #7

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
1. Any confrontation with a stranger
Wed Jan 6, 2016, 03:07 AM
Jan 2016

is dangerous in our country given the number of guns that are readily available. I would never do this, and I would especially never do it with children in the car.

I saw a Facebook post today that got me thinking about this as well. It was a page out of a coloring book placed on a windshield. The statement was that the owner of the car should learn how to stay between the lines by coloring the turtle. Funny but worth a confrontation?

Eyes forward and hands on the wheel. I used to react with gestures and facial expressions to incidents of bad driving until I reacted on the interstate and the car in front of me threw objects at my car. I had my kids in the car - never again. Nothing to escalate a situation.

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
2. It makes me feel nothing but bad.
Wed Jan 6, 2016, 03:17 AM
Jan 2016

My wife's card was ripped off 2 times in Toronto, but it was like in game and liquor stores. That woman looks like she was desperate. I never knew times like this. Pay people decent wages and they do not become desperate.

marble falls

(57,145 posts)
3. Theft is not OK. But I have more sympathy for the employee....
Wed Jan 13, 2016, 09:20 AM
Jan 2016

who is going to face sanctions stronger than any bankster did for their crimes, than I do for the customer who wasn't looking for justice as much as she looked for getting even.

Justice is what we look for in society, getting even is not justice.

 

baldguy

(36,649 posts)
5. The kid used the money to buy groceries.
Wed Jan 13, 2016, 10:55 AM
Jan 2016

Justice should include being paid enough at a job to be able to feed your family.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
4. She did that with her kids in the car?
Wed Jan 13, 2016, 10:03 AM
Jan 2016

They sounded very young. And her language in front of them

This country, sigh.

What a great example she set for them.

Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
7. The customer chose not to press charges.
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 08:59 AM
Jan 2016

She felt that the online shaming was punishment enough.

So, other than being fired, the thief got off easy.

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