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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI'd like to appologize if I've come across as a bit of a jerk this past week (sorry if this is meta)
We just had to put our 7 year old dog to sleep. It was time. It was maybe even past time, but we didn't want to let go. He was the smartest and most loyal dog I've ever known. He was diagnosed with lymphoma in August, and the chemo protocol didn't work for him. Cancer fucking sucks. I'm not having a particularly good time tonight, and I recognize I've been a bit of a dick lately, particularly about organized religions like Islam and Christianity. Let's hope next year is less painful. I do see a new puppy joining our family in the near future, but I don't know if they can live up to his legacy. He was super smart. Sometimes it seemed like he could read minds.
Here's to hoping 2016 goes better than this, and that a Democrat holds the White House in November, and we have a bunch of down-ticket wins too. Republicans are dangerously nuts. "Conservatives" cause cancer. Just look at the Kochs and all their coal power plants, for example. Fuck 'em. They and those like them are more of an immediate threat to me and mine than the Afghan Talliban or Iranian Mullahs are.
Cancer fucking sucks.
Here's hoping we all have a happy new year, and I can bring myself to stop acting like such a jerk
3catwoman3
(24,016 posts)...make his or her own footprints on your heart. One of our vets once told us that the best way to honor a departed pet is to offer the same loving home to another. When we have adopted new cats, I always call them successors, never replacements.
I share your wishes for 2016.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)happens that it takes a while. You have my love and sympathy. You never get the dog you want. You get the one you need. One is waiting for you when you're ready. Take care and know you're loved.
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)We've clashed before, but I still consider you a fellow DU friend, I understand what you're going through, we just lost, in the last 2 weeks, our beloved pit bull mix dogs to parvo, they were inside dogs and we just didn't realize that parvo could invade our home, so, stupidly, we didn't get their shots, so, I live with the guilt that I may have cost the lives of our beloved Kando and BonnieGirl.
Our deepest condolences to you and your family to the loss of your family member and hopefully, a better new year.
Electric Monk
(13,869 posts)I happen to think lead pollution is an environmental issue, but I think that discrepancy might be a generational thing...
I care deeply about the future because I plan to spend the rest of my life there. Happy new year
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)generations.
I too, care deeply about the future, for my children, my grandchildren, and my great grandchildren.
Peace to you and your family and a Happy New Year to you also.
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)Flint, Michigan, for example.
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)Electric Monk
(13,869 posts)pnwmom
(108,980 posts)Our dog was older, and suffering, but having to put him to sleep still was an awful experience. And we weren't prepared for the emotional impact of that loss, even though we still had another dog.
Then, this Christmas it hit us again. Kind of an aftershock.
But the new puppy has definitely found his own spot in our hearts.
Yours will, too!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I'm so sorry your dog passed away. I know how difficult it is to lose a dog, it's one of the most painful things I've experienced. I'm sure you gave him a great life.
Yes, here's hoping we all have a happy new year.
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)during the holidays.
We know -- we had to do it a year ago, right after Christmas, and this year the reality hit us again.
But in the meantime, we found another wonderful little guy. And even though he's not a clone of our old dog, we know he's just as great in his own way.
I hope you find another pal, too. You'll always love the dog you just lost, but the new one will be special in his own particular way.
Hekate
(90,737 posts)Be well, Electric Monk.
herding cats
(19,565 posts)Been there, so I get what your dealing with.
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I am frequently distressed by how many people keep a cat or a dog alive far longer than they should. A friend of mine is currently in denial that she should really let her 17 year old cat go. I know how hard it is. I've bid farewell to four cats in the past twenty years, three of them over a three and a half year time span. It's not easy, but when they are suffering, it's pure selfishness to keep them here.
My only other advice is to tell you not to replace your wonderful dog too soon. Take time to mourn him and miss him. It's okay. When you do welcome a new dog, you want to be sure that you appreciate him for his own wonderful uniqueness, not for taking the place of your old one.
hlthe2b
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to the core and brings back the loss of my own over the years. A sad commonality that pet lovers have in common.
Just know that I understand and hope that the pain will ease. When it does, I hope another loving, deserving dog will find its way to you--just as it has for me.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)I do regret the snark. There is also backstory to the snark but that's unimportant. What is important is that I am sorry to have been a jerk to you.
bullwinkle428
(20,629 posts)Been there, done that, and I know I'll have to go through it again at some point, much as I hate to think about it. K&R.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I think the greatest pain in my life ever has been caused by the loss of a dog. Trust me, I know how badly you are hurting. I'm really sorry for your loss.
yardwork
(61,671 posts)sarisataka
(18,684 posts)even when you know it is necessary and a mercy. Condolences on your loss