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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAnyone else dumbfounded by the lack of empathy from a friend/family member about Paris?
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I have racist/right wing relatives on my husband's side of the family who live in Georgia.
I expect to see nasty, anti-Obama screeds on their fb pages, so I've hidden their posts on my fb feed, but not unfriended them (to keep my husband happy).
I also can check once in a while about family happenings.
Well, I was astonished on Friday--after I posted a photo of the Empire State Building lit
in tri-colors with the comment "New York stands with Paris"--to see this remark from one of my husband's Georgia nephews.
WTF?
After much discussion with my husband on whether I should call this relative out--post another snide comment--let it go--or
post something else, I decided to share the emotional essay written by a young woman survivor of the Bataclan massacre,
along with this comment:
needs to examine his (her) humanity. The people who found themselves trapped in either of the World Trade Center Buildings understand. This is why One World Trade Center was lit up in the tri-colors on Saturday night, as was the Empire State Building on Friday night.
This is the emotional essay penned by Isobel Bowdery
Anyone else appalled by the lack of humanity shown by relatives/friends on fb?
lpbk2713
(42,766 posts)It's Pavlovian. They know by now what is expected of them under a given set of circumstances.
Sorry you have to deal with it on a personal level. You can pick your friends but ...
mnhtnbb
(31,404 posts)He got his dad listening, too, who is my husband's brother-in-law. One time
when he and his wife (my husband's sister) were visiting us in the late 90's
he asked for a radio so he could listen to Slimebaugh in his room without
having to go out to his car.
That was a challenge. Be a good hostess and provide what the guest requests?
Or say, "not in my house"!
I gave him the radio.
The family dynamic is tough, really tough.
beac
(9,992 posts)a radio to listen to a liberal program.
I bet not.
It's always a one-way street with the right-wing brainwashed.
uppityperson
(115,679 posts)911 so why should we care about them now. I have links and quotes showing that wasn't true, it was papabush gulf war they did so but nooooooo. It's still their memory and no facts can change their mind. I was gobsmacked.
It is incredible.
LiberalArkie
(15,728 posts)and they knew better than to get involved. However they got bullied into it and now......
catbyte
(34,451 posts)peace in your family, but I don't have any bagger relatives to placate. I'm sorry I don't have any suggestions for you, just sympathy. It must be frustrating.
spiderpig
(10,419 posts)I'm fortunate enough to have Facebook friends that are sensitive and supportive. But we all know what's out there. You just hope these cretins don't move into your neighborhood.
Strength to our Parisian friends.
mnhtnbb
(31,404 posts)I can only hope that this relative will realize what I'm saying, but there's no guarantee
that he'll see it since I didn't call him out, specifically.
tblue37
(65,488 posts)insert some breaks. It was VERY hard to read without breaks, and few will bother unless you add breaks.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)My friends are all horrified by the attacks, as am I.
No Vested Interest
(5,167 posts)stupid right-wing junk, including pro-gun material.
So, yes, I can peek in when photos of new babies are posted, or read angry screeds when the marriage is in bad shape. I don't see much to be gained in my case of calling them out.
Even though I don't post political material, they can see my "like" of Jimmy Carter, for instance, and know where I stand.
I don't believe one changes minds with Facebook postings, when they still have their families, their media choices, and maybe even their ministers reaffirming those choices daily.
Warpy
(111,339 posts)which is why I avoid such people like the plague they are. They're just walking balls of anger, spite and hatred and I don't want to be anywhere near any of them.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)MisterP
(23,730 posts)before 9-11 the biggest deliberate foreign incidents on US soil were Pancho Villa, Black Tom, and a fire balloon; Britain, France, Germany, Austria-Hungary, Russia--they each had a whole generation killed apiece in each world war; one-third of Poland was killed; even in distant Britain there are still people who remember shoveling human meat into a bag for disposal after the Blitz
after WWII the whole future-ware genre died off entirely in Europe: any future war there would be the last war; but in America things continued apace, the 50s full of tales of America beating out the Russkies or subjugated to them, 60s SF of Vietnam won or lost, 70s survivalism reassuring the suburbs that it won't be THAT bad when the Big One hits; now we even have foreign-invasion fantasies return as though it were 1880 again
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)They are so much more powerful and have so much more staying power.
Skittles
(153,193 posts)I've never understood why people say that
why WOULDN'T it happen to you?