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(68,918 posts)I never remember seeing two people with their Sony Walkmans plugged in, not talking to each other at a restaurant. People didn't tend to carry portable televisions around to look down at while they walked. Newspapers, books and magazines were always put down at some point.
I know it's a cartoon, but the big difference is that cellphones let people be engaged without really being engaged. I can be all snarky on FB/Twitter/Insta/Whateva... and then refresh and refresh and refresh for responses.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)with my phone. Text email and social media let's me be I touch no matter how many miles separarate us. I connect with people I thought I would never hear from after years of separation.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)hobbit709
(41,694 posts)FLPanhandle
(7,107 posts)We had a blast. It was a noisy NYC place with a doomed couple sitting next to us.
Texting isn't all bad.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)No TV or magazines or cell phones
hobbit709
(41,694 posts)Everyone at the table puts their cell phone in a pile. First person to reach for their phone pays the tab.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)You come over for an evening of drinks, etc. You put it in the pile.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)their honkers stuffed in their phones.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)and ignoring his wife or anything....
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Not the same. Sorry Jeff. Not the same at all.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Not the same. This was not an indictment against you, by the way. it's a comment on that cartoon being off on equating cellphones with the other things... which were always put away at some point for honest interaction. With your cellphone, you don't need that interaction in the real world today. Not just kids. Adults are far worse. My son barely uses his phone at 17. I use mine far more. Thanks for helping to underline that.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)So....don't?
Not that hard.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)entering. Pity more adults don't when they are out with real live in-the-flesh friends. You're fighting over something that's kind of silly here. Did you draw the cartoon?
Skittles
(153,164 posts)when I seem to be enjoying a child in a waiting room more than his own mother, who is glued to her handheld and completely oblivious to his reactions to the new toys, something is NOT RIGHT
jeff47
(26,549 posts)yet another one who does NOT.F***ING.GET.IT.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)I guess we were all supposed to laugh and agree, but this cellphone thing is way out of hand in public.
Skittles
(153,164 posts)come on now
cwydro
(51,308 posts)What you said.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)The youth today are so attached to their cell phones they are losing their social skills. At work, I have to create a rule for meetings that no cell phones are allowed. IF I did not, they would ignore the meeting and sit there and text away.