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KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 06:55 PM Nov 2015

Husband accused of attacking wife: 'I am your husband. I can't rape you.'

http://www.wmcactionnews5.com/story/30421094/husband-accused-of-attacking-wife-i-am-your-husband-i-cant-rape-you

Police arrested a 27-year-old Memphis man after his wife said he attacked and raped her....

Memphis police said the man drove his wife to the back of a church parking lot. There, he accused her of cheating on him.

Officers said the man then held his wife down, choked, and raped her.

The woman said her husband told her, "I am your husband. I can't rape you. I can get it anytime I want."


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Husband accused of attacking wife: 'I am your husband. I can't rape you.' (Original Post) KamaAina Nov 2015 OP
He's about to get a surprise in court. hobbit709 Nov 2015 #1
I certainly hope so. smirkymonkey Nov 2015 #10
What century did he crawl out of? n/t CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2015 #2
20th Century, in the United States anyways. geek tragedy Nov 2015 #5
He's 27 years old jberryhill Nov 2015 #6
It was legal to rape one's wife in Tennessee until 2005, when he was 17 geek tragedy Nov 2015 #7
Ugh jberryhill Nov 2015 #8
in South Carolina, what he did was probably legal geek tragedy Nov 2015 #9
He's about to be in for a rude awakening meow2u3 Nov 2015 #3
Technically, he's incorrect. In terms of the way our legal system works, his claim geek tragedy Nov 2015 #4
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
5. 20th Century, in the United States anyways.
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 07:28 PM
Nov 2015
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape_(United_States_law)#History_to_1993

That's one generation ago.

And some people think feminism is outdated.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
7. It was legal to rape one's wife in Tennessee until 2005, when he was 17
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 07:59 PM
Nov 2015
http://guerillawomentn.blogspot.com/2005/05/spousal-rape-bill-going-nowhere-still.html

In 2004, this wouldn't have been considered rape in Tennessee, since they weren't separated, didn't inflict broken bones or ruptured organs, and didn't involve a weapon.

So, yes, when this kid grew up, men were allowed, if not encouraged, to rape their wives by the state of Tennessee.

The cultural backwardness unpinning such a legal system won't go away so shortly.

Not that the rest of the US was much better--every state in the union allowed, if not encouraged, men to rape their wives until 1976, when Nebraska became the first state to make it illegal.
 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
9. in South Carolina, what he did was probably legal
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 08:15 PM
Nov 2015
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/06/09/marital-rape-is-semi-legal-in-8-states.html

Many of the other states that differentiate between rape and marital rape do so through language similar to Ohio’s “force or threat of force” requirement but South Carolina state code goes so far as to require “the threat of use of a weapon” and/or “physical violence of a high and aggravated nature” in order to prosecute what it terms “spousal sexual battery.”

By comparison, South Carolina only requires “force or coercion,” “aggravated coercion,” and, at most, “aggravated force” to prosecute various degrees of “criminal sexual misconduct” when the victim is either not a spouse or a separated spouse—no mention of weapons and no requirement of elevated level of violence.



meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
3. He's about to be in for a rude awakening
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 07:25 PM
Nov 2015
The woman said her husband told her, "I am your husband. I can't rape you. I can get it anytime I want."
Not for looooongg. Pretty soon, he'll be her ex-husband--and that's just for starters.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
4. Technically, he's incorrect. In terms of the way our legal system works, his claim
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 07:27 PM
Nov 2015

is correct a lot more than it's incorrect--marital rape is the single most unprosecuted crime in the country.

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