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Man fatally shot while taking selfies with gun (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Sep 2015 OP
Now don't get emotional all you gun grabbers! Human101948 Sep 2015 #1
It's a shame he was so afraid of himself. Vinca Sep 2015 #2
How GOP of you to think this is funny! nt Logical Sep 2015 #3
I think it's called "gallows humor..." Human101948 Sep 2015 #4
Funny, some call it lack of compassion. Eleanors38 Sep 2015 #29
It depends JonLP24 Sep 2015 #38
With this sort of thing happening so often, is it any wonder... Bucky Sep 2015 #46
We do live in a jokester culture. Eleanors38 Sep 2015 #65
I'll save my compassion for people who don't cause their own problems mythology Sep 2015 #55
Sympathies to his family Rebubula Sep 2015 #5
Aren't ya supposed to take selfies with your camera? Generic Other Sep 2015 #6
I certainly hope he was charged with... world wide wally Sep 2015 #7
What charge would you like sarisataka Sep 2015 #9
Totally gross negligence? world wide wally Sep 2015 #37
Are you being sarcastic? n/t sarisataka Sep 2015 #49
You caught me red handed world wide wally Sep 2015 #50
I had to be sure sarisataka Sep 2015 #53
I see NOTHING!!! yuiyoshida Sep 2015 #61
Sgt Schultz is always a day-brightener! nt hifiguy Sep 2015 #62
Smith believed the gun was unloaded. EL34x4 Sep 2015 #8
I've met a number of people... Adrahil Sep 2015 #11
This is how people get killed. EL34x4 Sep 2015 #16
Still no Travis_0004 Sep 2015 #23
Of course, this is the responsible approach. EL34x4 Sep 2015 #34
To be very honest JonLP24 Sep 2015 #43
If we had run around sarisataka Sep 2015 #52
This posing with guns nonsense that seems to be a fad of kids on Facebook cwydro Sep 2015 #18
And the Darwin goes to... KamaAina Sep 2015 #10
No....he'd already contributed to the gene pool. nt msanthrope Sep 2015 #19
But he won't be doing it again. KamaAina Sep 2015 #20
I hope he didn't do it in the presence of his children. lpbk2713 Sep 2015 #12
The first time this story sarisataka Sep 2015 #13
Oh, I was wondering why it was hidden. Xyzse Sep 2015 #14
This is another example of why every Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #15
In a country with nearly 400 million firearms, EL34x4 Sep 2015 #17
So a family doctor can't ask the family if they have guns in the home, Glassunion Sep 2015 #22
I don't care if a doctor asks about gun in the home, Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #30
Either that or he didn't have a gun world wide wally Sep 2015 #39
But he did. Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #57
"...the gun accidentally went off..." Lizzie Poppet Sep 2015 #21
Now ...this man was extremely stupid. . Very sad. Stuart G Sep 2015 #24
3 rules... sarisataka Sep 2015 #26
Thank You for posting...Rule 3 would save a lot of lives. Stuart G Sep 2015 #27
Did it have a LCI? It only takes a second to do a press check. ileus Sep 2015 #25
Good thing he had a deadly weapon to protect himself workinclasszero Sep 2015 #28
It's too bad that a "good guy with a gun" didn't stop him world wide wally Sep 2015 #42
he should have used a camera lame54 Sep 2015 #31
RIP Liberal_in_LA Sep 2015 #32
This is what happens when people forget the firearm is not a toy like their phone. Rex Sep 2015 #33
Archers always know when the bow is loaded Omaha Steve Sep 2015 #35
Virtually all handguns made now in fact come with a loaded chamber indicator Lee-Lee Sep 2015 #36
Is this enough to make a comment? Omaha Steve Sep 2015 #41
Since you don't even know what a loaded chamber indicator is Lee-Lee Sep 2015 #44
Let's go with every modern firearm has one Omaha Steve Sep 2015 #45
I'm thinking this poor misguided wanna-be-tough-guy did not know much about guns. Period. cwydro Sep 2015 #47
A person with zero clue how to safely handle a gun Lee-Lee Sep 2015 #51
So, a combination of no clue how to be safe and just being stupid is what happened here Omaha Steve Sep 2015 #63
As mentioned earlier, mandatory firearms safety training in schools would stop many deaths Lee-Lee Sep 2015 #40
Wow ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2015 #54
If you see a gun, don't touch it! EL34x4 Sep 2015 #58
An awful comparison ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2015 #59
Gun humpers, for the most part EL34x4 Sep 2015 #64
Peace to you Quackers Sep 2015 #48
It's quite difficult to have any sympathy for someone this dumb. SheilaT Sep 2015 #56
Someone explain to me the appeal of taking pictures of hifiguy Sep 2015 #60

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
38. It depends
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:02 PM
Sep 2015

Reading "Surviving Survival" is a great book in general in explaining how the mind works -- this one is it
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/surviving-survival-laurence-gonzales/1110864691

Each chapter deals with an individual person and their traumatic event and experiences afterword to explain this or that such as someone with Tourette's syndrome is a surgeon that can perform with precision in the operating room and explains how the mind works in how it relates to that and it was about keeping yourself busy, focused on things which can be used to deal with the aftermath of trauma. Its been awhile since I read the book so can't remember the exact circumstance but I'll say a diagnosis or receive the worst news ever and this woman's first reaction was to tell a joke can't remember exactly why with brain functions but very nature for humans experience very unpleasant events in a way that is comfortable for the reasons related to brain function with jokes or the human but they are truly affected or have the compassion related to which is why the gallow's humor in situations that are. Other times can be lack of compassion but in her case it was related to herself, from what I remember it was receiving the worst news ever for her.

Common in say military, emergency rooms, or situations like that. Probably not the greatest example

At his public execution, the murderer William Palmer is said to have looked at the trapdoor on the gallows and asked the hangman, "Are you sure it's safe?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gallows_humor

Bucky

(54,027 posts)
46. With this sort of thing happening so often, is it any wonder...
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:13 PM
Sep 2015

...that sometimes our compassion gets burned out?

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
65. We do live in a jokester culture.
Thu Sep 3, 2015, 01:50 PM
Sep 2015

Given the lowest homicide, gun-death, and childhood accidental gun-deaths in many years, one might possibly suspect that MSM is reporting the hell out of the "events" which still occur.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
55. I'll save my compassion for people who don't cause their own problems
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:37 PM
Sep 2015

Personal responsibility matters. He chose to do something stupid and paid for it. There are plenty of people who are victims of something other than their own mistakes. I'll feel compassion for them.

Rebubula

(2,868 posts)
5. Sympathies to his family
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 12:41 PM
Sep 2015

Poor decision making is sometimes fatal....at least no one else was physically injured.

 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
8. Smith believed the gun was unloaded.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 12:49 PM
Sep 2015

You don't "believe" a gun is unloaded. You VERIFY a gun is unloaded!

An unloaded gun will only hurt someone if you throw it at them.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
11. I've met a number of people...
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 12:54 PM
Sep 2015

Who think a fun is unloaded if there is no magazine in the gun, or the magazine is empty. They forget about the chamber. Fatal mistake in this case, though he shouldn't have pointed it at himself in any case.

 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
16. This is how people get killed.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 01:16 PM
Sep 2015

You verify the magazine is empty and then you visually inspect that the chamber is empty as well. Do this and you can point guns at yourself all day long and you'll never get hurt, unless you drop it on your foot.

Point it at someone else and you might get shot though. Or at the very least, an ass-kicking.

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
23. Still no
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 02:48 PM
Sep 2015

1 rule of gun safety is that you treat every gun as if its loaded.

If you just verified it 10 times, and you know its unloaded, you still always point it in a safe direction. If you want to play with a gun, go buy a toy gun.

 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
34. Of course, this is the responsible approach.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:43 PM
Sep 2015

Yet for many, asking people not to play with guns is kinda like asking teenage boys not to look at porn.

Many gun owners like to handle their guns, work the action, pose in the mirror and, yes, take selfies. The key here is to be able to determine if a gun is loaded or not which will greatly minimize the chance of something bad happening. If you cannot do this, you have no business picking one up.

Yes, treat every gun as if it is loaded but if you're not planning on killing something, at least make sure it's not loaded first.

As my Commanding Officer says, "be smart while you're being stupid."

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
43. To be very honest
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:08 PM
Sep 2015

the first time we got M16s in basic training right after the arms room and they go to great lengths and train & demand you check that they aren't loading most of us were running around inside fake shooting each other, most people are there not long after high school but you can actually get Article 15 for pointing it a soldier whether loaded or unloaded if caught I guess but it was first time thing or not all the time. I'm sure most of us never seen that before which for some reason handguns always scared me the physical appereance did but the M16s looked like more like a toy to me but it isn't but can't remember if I was or wasn't (19 at the time) others were doing that for fun but very short lived type of thing.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
52. If we had run around
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:21 PM
Sep 2015

fake shooting each other in boot camp, we would still be doing pushups, even though I retired six years ago...

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
18. This posing with guns nonsense that seems to be a fad of kids on Facebook
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 02:35 PM
Sep 2015

who wanna seem tough...well, it's just pathetic.

And obviously dangerous.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
13. The first time this story
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 12:55 PM
Sep 2015

Was posted in GD it was hidden for including the comment

But thank you for thinning the herd.

But then it was only a 4-3 hide...
 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
17. In a country with nearly 400 million firearms,
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 01:19 PM
Sep 2015

it might not be a bad idea to at least teach kids how to safely verify if they are loaded or not.

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
22. So a family doctor can't ask the family if they have guns in the home,
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 02:47 PM
Sep 2015

but every child should have to participate in a firearms course?

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
30. I don't care if a doctor asks about gun in the home,
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:31 PM
Sep 2015

as long as I can choose whether or not I wish to answer the question.

I did not write anything about mandatory firearms safety education.

It is likely this young man would be alive today if he knew how to tell if a gun is loaded and ready to fire. He may have also been smart enough to not point the gun at himself.

Snobblevitch

(1,958 posts)
57. But he did.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 06:45 PM
Sep 2015

Right now, the story is that he found it. The reality is, there are a lot of guns out there. Nothing is going to change that. Education would reduce these tragedies.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
21. "...the gun accidentally went off..."
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 02:43 PM
Sep 2015

It drives me nuts when journalists write that. It's damn near impossible. Unless there was a mechanical failure, that just doesn't happen. And mechanical failures are astronomically rare. Because guns are subject to huge stress in normal use, gun designers tend to over-design every component.

This guy's own foolish negligence has robbed his kids of their dad.

Stuart G

(38,434 posts)
24. Now ...this man was extremely stupid. . Very sad.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 03:42 PM
Sep 2015

How does one justify so many guns, with no gun rules?. I don't know. A set of very simple rules...two..
1...empty guns around children
2. licenses require a short course on gun safety..(with graphic pictures of those who had these kinds of accidents with guns)..

maybe a couple more...but what else can one say?..very sad...

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
26. 3 rules...
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 03:51 PM
Sep 2015
ALWAYS keep the gun pointed in a safe direction. This is the primary rule of gun safety. ...
ALWAYS keep your finger off the trigger until ready to shoot. ...
ALWAYS keep the gun unloaded until ready to use.


"licenses require a short course on gun safety..(with graphic pictures of those who had these kinds of accidents with guns)"
When I teach my gun safety courses I actually use full color pictures of gunshot wounds (though not of children).

Stuart G

(38,434 posts)
27. Thank You for posting...Rule 3 would save a lot of lives.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 03:55 PM
Sep 2015

So many needless deaths because of not following simple very easy to follow rules.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
28. Good thing he had a deadly weapon to protect himself
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:01 PM
Sep 2015

Oh wait......


Feel bad for his kids.

I'm sure the NRA would prescribe MOAR GUNZ!!1!!1!1 to remedy this situation.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
33. This is what happens when people forget the firearm is not a toy like their phone.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:39 PM
Sep 2015

So sad 19 and his entire life ahead of him.

Omaha Steve

(99,660 posts)
35. Archers always know when the bow is loaded
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:47 PM
Sep 2015

Maybe a firearm law that requires an indicator that easily shows the weapon is loaded...

Nah. It would save to many lives.
 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
36. Virtually all handguns made now in fact come with a loaded chamber indicator
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 04:56 PM
Sep 2015

Or have the extractor configured to look differently when there is a round in the chamber to serve as such. It's been required for more than a decade on any guns sold in California so when a new handgun is designed they include it.

So your snarky remark really just showed you probably are not educated enough on the subject to be talking about it and making suggestions...

Omaha Steve

(99,660 posts)
41. Is this enough to make a comment?
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:05 PM
Sep 2015

Retired Omaha Police Dept.

It isn't required here. Just a permit to purchase from the local county.

Obviously it wan't on this young man's firearm or he still didn't know what it meant.

I registered hand guns as part of my duties. Several times the person registering their hand gun didn't know there was a round or full clip ready to use.

OS

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
44. Since you don't even know what a loaded chamber indicator is
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:08 PM
Sep 2015

and that virtually every modern firearm has one I hope you get some better training- there is no excuse for someone whose duties include handling firearms to not be aware of that.

Unless, of course, you are aware and were just misrepresenting the facts to make a point...

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
47. I'm thinking this poor misguided wanna-be-tough-guy did not know much about guns. Period.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:14 PM
Sep 2015

That's why he is now dead.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
51. A person with zero clue how to safely handle a gun
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:21 PM
Sep 2015

According to the story they "found" the gun a few hours earlier.

At 19 I will bet he had never handled one before and had no clue how to safely it- he probably dropped the magazine and thought it was unloaded because that's how it is done in movies.

See my other post in this thread about why there should be mandatory firearms safety training in schools- at a minimum teach safe handling a be how to unload and make safe a gun, so that if a person finds themselves with one unexpectedly they can be safe.

Details are sketchy in the story, but I would wager a few hours spent in a firearms safety class in high school probably would hand prevented this.

All the safety features in the world can't cover for a lack of basic understand of how something works- not can they stop just plain stupid acts like putting a gun to your head for a selfie.

So, a combination of no clue how to be safe and just being stupid is what happened here.

Omaha Steve

(99,660 posts)
63. So, a combination of no clue how to be safe and just being stupid is what happened here
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 07:40 PM
Sep 2015

Agree. It happens everyday.
 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
40. As mentioned earlier, mandatory firearms safety training in schools would stop many deaths
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:04 PM
Sep 2015

No, you can't stop stupid all the time.

But every person, no matter how much they may hate guns, needs to know how to safely handle a gun and unload it/make it safe if one comes into their possession.

There was a time when it was much more common knowledge- more households had guns because the country was more rural and the draft exposed far more to firearms and firearms training. But with the changing demographics and less than 1% of the country serving in a volunteer force that has changed.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
54. Wow
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 05:29 PM
Sep 2015

I'm sure the NRA would love that. Force people who have ZERO fucking interest in handling a firearm to HAVE to so a few "get over it" and start getting into the idea of buying one.

If a gun "somehow" came into my possession, I'd call the cops and leave it alone till they got there. Simple.

The only people for whom there should be mandatory classes are the ones who choose to buy one. For kids in school, you see it, DON'T FUCKING TOUCH IT.

 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
58. If you see a gun, don't touch it!
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 07:07 PM
Sep 2015

Kinda like "Just say no!" and "abstinence only" sex education.

Why should my kid have to learn about contraception? He won't be having sex until he's married. That's how I raised him!

Why should my kid learn about gun safety? We don't own guns in this house and he would never go to any home where there was a gun present.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
59. An awful comparison
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 07:14 PM
Sep 2015

But you are correct in a way. Lot of houses full of stupid gun humpers out there you could walk into. Shame it's national epidemic of scared, stupid people afraid of their own shadow and leaving their masturbation toys around like you'd leave a lamp or potpourri out. Again, that's who the MANDATORY classes should go to.

 

EL34x4

(2,003 posts)
64. Gun humpers, for the most part
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 07:53 PM
Sep 2015

already have an understanding of basic firearm safety.

It's people like Deleon Alonso Smith, whose friends say "found" the gun, who could've used a lesson.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
56. It's quite difficult to have any sympathy for someone this dumb.
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 06:03 PM
Sep 2015

Too bad he'd already reproduced. At least he won't be having any more kids.

And the headline does make me wonder if they're now making guns/cameras of some kind. If so, not a good move on the part of whoever is making that combo.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
60. Someone explain to me the appeal of taking pictures of
Wed Sep 2, 2015, 07:14 PM
Sep 2015

yourself waving a goddam gun around. You think it makes you look like a badass of some sort? Wrong. It's not cool, hip, whatever. It is just fucking STUPID, and stupid is as stupid does.

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