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big_dog

(4,144 posts)
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 12:06 PM Aug 2015

Miley Cyrus Comes Out Publicly, Says She Identifies As 'Pansexual'

Miley Cyrus admits she's pansexual in a new interview with Elle UK. She explains, "I’m very open about it – I’m pansexual." For those who don't know, the website stop-homophobia.com defines the term in the following way: "Pansexuals have the capability of attraction to others regardless of their gender identity or biological sex. A pansexual could be open to someone who is male, female, transgender, intersex, or agendered/genderqueer." So, she could be interested in anyone from Laverne Cox (transgender) to Amber Heard (bisexual) to Ellen Page (lesbian) to Chris Evans (straight). In June, Cyrus talked about being bisexual in Paper Magazine and how she revealed the news to her mother, Tish, when she was just 14. She explained, "I remember telling her I admire women in a different way. And she asked me what that meant. And I said, I love them. I love them like I love boys. And it was so hard for her to understand. She didn’t want me to be judged and she didn’t want me to go to hell. But she believes in me more than she believes in any god. I just asked for her to accept me. And she has." Cyrus has also revealed that she's currently single (despite being linked to Victoria's Secret model Stella Maxwell). "But I’m not in a relationship. I’m 22, I’m going on dates, but I change my style every two weeks, let alone who I’m with," she added. The singer/actress has dated singer Nick Jonas and was engaged to Australian actor Liam Hemsworth. She also dated Arnold Schwarzenegger's son Patrick. Cyrus, 22, is gearing up for her role as host on Sunday night's VMAs on MTV. http://www.starpulse.com/news/index.php/2015/08/28/miley-cyrus-says-she-identifies-as-pan

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Miley Cyrus Comes Out Publicly, Says She Identifies As 'Pansexual' (Original Post) big_dog Aug 2015 OP
When informed that Elvis Presley had died, a Hollywood exec allegedy responded rocktivity Aug 2015 #1
OK by me. Party on, Miley! MineralMan Aug 2015 #2
Pansexuals marym625 Aug 2015 #3
Oh to be 22... :) nt lostnfound Aug 2015 #4
That sounds pretty interesting nichomachus Aug 2015 #5
She is sexually attracted to cooks? hack89 Aug 2015 #6
Flutes... SidDithers Aug 2015 #8
I remember those commercials! DashOneBravo Aug 2015 #28
Yes, Paul Revere in particular. Eleanors38 Aug 2015 #18
I read this and thought "She has a fetish for cookware?" Drahthaardogs Aug 2015 #30
Good for her. Atman Aug 2015 #7
I like her too vankuria Aug 2015 #31
that's nice, still still isn't any Joan of Arc snooper2 Aug 2015 #9
And here I thought it was Joan Jett. Eleanors38 Aug 2015 #20
Miley versus the Hindu goddess Kali would have been better rocktivity Aug 2015 #25
Good for her. Still don't get why people get all uptight about sexual preference Lurks Often Aug 2015 #10
It's an orientation, not a preference. nt cwydro Aug 2015 #40
For some yes, for others not so much Lurks Often Aug 2015 #43
I am a gay woman, and it is not a choice for me. cwydro Aug 2015 #48
I recognize and understand that, although you may want to re-read what I posted Lurks Often Aug 2015 #49
That's cool. Xyzse Aug 2015 #11
I've heard of some weird fetishes, but pans?! KamaAina Aug 2015 #12
Hey, they're nonstick. So there's that positive NightWatcher Aug 2015 #16
The handle! I'll never forget the handle! Eleanors38 Aug 2015 #19
Hey...non stick pans are a big "turn on". roamer65 Aug 2015 #21
I identify as Pamsexual. edbermac Aug 2015 #22
LMAO. roamer65 Aug 2015 #24
*spray* pinboy3niner Aug 2015 #27
+ struggle4progress Aug 2015 #34
I'm jealous.... Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #13
Ha laundry_queen Aug 2015 #35
So we should be talking about LGBTQIAP rights, not just LGBTQIA rights (nt) Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #14
Now you're beginning to understand why people are trying to reclaim the word "queer". KamaAina Aug 2015 #17
I think you're missing a few Sen. Walter Sobchak Aug 2015 #36
One of my daughters told me she was bisexual. randome Aug 2015 #15
Maybe she is more bi-situational? cleanhippie Aug 2015 #23
All these terms! Someday we'll all stop labeling ourselves because it truly won't matter. randome Aug 2015 #29
I couldnt agree more! cleanhippie Aug 2015 #39
Good for her. She seems like a decent person. Never arrested, etc. nt Logical Aug 2015 #26
Hasn't actually sworn off dicks then? Old Union Guy Aug 2015 #32
Of course... waddirum Aug 2015 #44
You shouldn't need a Thesaurius to describe your sexuality. It's just another example of how Monk06 Aug 2015 #33
So there's FINALLY a name for it. Le Taz Hot Aug 2015 #37
She's got a lot of guts. backscatter712 Aug 2015 #38
Sorry. Miley. I'm only interested in a platetonic relationship. nt pinboy3niner Aug 2015 #41
Plate tectonics could also be interesting relationship material waddirum Aug 2015 #45
Pangaeasexual? sarisataka Aug 2015 #46
I like Miley a lot. bigwillq Aug 2015 #42
She's really grown into a likable adult DemocraticWing Aug 2015 #47

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
1. When informed that Elvis Presley had died, a Hollywood exec allegedy responded
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 12:09 PM
Aug 2015

"Great career move!"


rocktivity

marym625

(17,997 posts)
3. Pansexuals
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 12:16 PM
Aug 2015

Are attracted to anyone. That includes preop transgender people. Since that was left out I thought I would add it.

I'm jealous of that ability. Good for her for being so open about it.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
7. Good for her.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 01:16 PM
Aug 2015

Really. Love the one you're with. It shouldn't matter to anyone else except your partner, of course. I'm shocked at myself for admitting this, but I've actually kind of grown to like Miley. I still don't like most of her music -- pop just isn't my style -- but she has done some pretty interesting songs and covers. I think her weirdness and honesty and "don't give a shit what you think about me" attitude is fun and refreshing. Enjoy it while you're young, kid!

vankuria

(904 posts)
31. I like her too
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 09:07 PM
Aug 2015

She's doing good things with her fame, has a foundation( I think it's called the "Happy Hippie Foundation&quot that helps homeless LGBT youth and is very talented too. She's done duets with 60's icon Melanie (you tube "Look what they done with my song, ma&quot and Joan Jett, and does a wonderful version of the Turtles classic, "Happy Together", she's immensely talented. I also love her honesty and don't forget she's from the south so admitting her sexuality is dicey, but she doesn't care.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
25. Miley versus the Hindu goddess Kali would have been better
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 07:17 PM
Aug 2015


Times Of India:
Desperate, Durga summons Kali...to destroy the demon Rakta-bija...who...had the magical ability to produce a double of himself instantly every time a drop of his blood fell to the ground...Kali spreads her tongue across the battlefield, and swallows in one gulp the swarm of blood-born demons...(Then she) sucks the blood from the original Rakta-bija until he falls lifeless...

After killing the demon Daruka, Kali drank his blood. The blood drove her mad with bloodlust. She went around the world killing at random. The gods begged Shiva to stop her. So he took the form of a handsome man and lay in Kali's path. As soon as Kali stepped on him, she bit her tongue out of embarrassment. She was ashamed to learn that her bloodlust had prevented her from seeing and recognising her own husband...


Talk about copping someone's style -- Miley sure enough would have found out what at "tongue-lashing" REALLY is!


rocktivity
 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
10. Good for her. Still don't get why people get all uptight about sexual preference
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 02:50 PM
Aug 2015

As long as those involved are consenting adults and aren't breaking any laws* it shouldn't matter who who have sex with or who you marry.



*I exclude the laws that seek to regulate behavior behind closed doors of consenting adults

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
43. For some yes, for others not so much
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 11:13 AM
Aug 2015

On either end of the spectrum it is definitely an orientation.

For those somewhere in the middle who are attracted to any combination (or all 3) of men, women and transgender, it is less of an orientation and more of a preference.

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
49. I recognize and understand that, although you may want to re-read what I posted
Mon Aug 31, 2015, 07:01 PM
Aug 2015

What I am saying is that for some, which gender or genders they choose to have sex with, is in some cases, a matter of preference.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
11. That's cool.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 02:55 PM
Aug 2015

I don't particularly care whatever floats her boat.
Not a fan of her music, but she can do whatever she wants.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
21. Hey...non stick pans are a big "turn on".
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 04:08 PM
Aug 2015

Having eggs that don't stick is ALMOST as good as sex.

ALMOST...

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
13. I'm jealous....
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 03:36 PM
Aug 2015

Having a wide-open orientation like that means she'll never lack for lovers... When I'm having a losing streak with hetero women, I'm up the creek without any options...

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
35. Ha
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 11:44 PM
Aug 2015

I kind of feel the same way. My adult daughter also identifies as pansexual. She's had all kinds of relationships. I wish I could be the same but I'm hopelessly hetero, lol. When you are divorced w/4 kids, though I suppose there are few options no matter how open you are.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
36. I think you're missing a few
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 11:47 PM
Aug 2015

A Canadian university where I took some night classes was running with "GLBQITT", I think they were including some variation on multiple personalities with different orientations in there.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
15. One of my daughters told me she was bisexual.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 03:49 PM
Aug 2015

And although she knew it was safe to tell me that (i.e. I'd always support her no matter what), I thought she was mostly trying on the label to see how it sounded. It's the 'in thing' these days.

She was only about 16 at the time, no sex (that I know of) and never looked at pretty girls we passed (I watched for that from the corner of my eye).

Now she's in college and is dating a dude.

Nothing really to be learned from that other than sometimes a kid (no matter the gender) truly does not know what he/she wants or is attracted to. And hey, if my daughter decides she truly is bisexual, more power to her.

Cyrus is older, of course and I don't have any reason to doubt what she says but she seems a little exhibitionist, which means being the center of attention. Nothing wrong with that, either, but I can't help but think she's caught up in the label a little. Maybe I'm wrong, doesn't matter, she can do what she wants.

(Then why am I bothering with this post? )
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cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
23. Maybe she is more bi-situational?
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 04:12 PM
Aug 2015

I've heard that used to describe an openness to sexual activity depending on the situation and scene. While not directly attracted to women, she may be open to a sexual encounter with one, depending on the situation?

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
29. All these terms! Someday we'll all stop labeling ourselves because it truly won't matter.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 08:50 PM
Aug 2015

When nobody gives a damn who you're with, that's when we'll have achieved a victory over our repressed selves.
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waddirum

(979 posts)
44. Of course...
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 12:08 PM
Aug 2015

... having a "dick" and being a "guy" are not the same.

There is a whole assortment of identities which do not comport to this paradigm. For instance, Miley could be into a transwoman who still has male genitalia. Conversely, she could be into a transman who still has female genitalia.

Essentially, everyone should breath a sigh of relief and enjoy the knowledge that Miley could very well be into YOU.

Monk06

(7,675 posts)
33. You shouldn't need a Thesaurius to describe your sexuality. It's just another example of how
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 10:11 PM
Aug 2015

millennial Americans are obsessed with the minutiae of sexual expression and a narcissistic compulsion to share it with everyone.

Have sex, enjoy it and shut up. Have a sense of personal privacy and dignity about it.

No and it won't make me a better person for understanding your personal feelings unless you are a close friend.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
37. So there's FINALLY a name for it.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 11:56 PM
Aug 2015

I've waited 60 years for it. Pansexual. I like it! Anything else is just limiting yourself.

DemocraticWing

(1,290 posts)
47. She's really grown into a likable adult
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 02:01 PM
Aug 2015

I even enjoy her music now! I'm glad she's proud to be who she is.

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