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Should Rentboy & Sex Work be a Crime? (Original Post) Kurska Aug 2015 OP
I agree. The only thing about it the government should care about... TreasonousBastard Aug 2015 #1
No it should be legal so they can have the protections TexasProgresive Aug 2015 #2
This, times a zillion. hifiguy Aug 2015 #4
They could also have contracts with their "managers" TexasProgresive Aug 2015 #5
Or work independently and be able to report hifiguy Aug 2015 #9
I've always thought good sex workers were worth their weight in gold Warpy Aug 2015 #31
Couldn't agree more. hifiguy Aug 2015 #33
And I've always thought women should be able to Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #37
I have no problem with that. hifiguy Aug 2015 #41
Yep. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2015 #36
Consenting adults Prism Aug 2015 #3
Much like Pay Day Lending. LanternWaste Aug 2015 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #27
Nope. Legalize, regulate and tax it. Nye Bevan Aug 2015 #7
Locking up consenting adults for doing something thats otherwise legal when money isn't involved... phleshdef Aug 2015 #8
These threads usually go sideways. stevenleser Aug 2015 #10
^^THIS^^ - Agree 100% nt jonno99 Aug 2015 #11
Indeed they do, but you are absolutely right. hifiguy Aug 2015 #12
I'm still some what on the fence, but I think I have to reluctantly agree. prayin4rain Aug 2015 #22
We should legalize it. Take all the cops on vice sqauds and assign them untested rape kits LittleBlue Aug 2015 #13
Human beings are hard-wired to want to have sex hifiguy Aug 2015 #14
Agreed LittleBlue Aug 2015 #15
Consensual sex isn't a problem. Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #17
If it is legal, the pimps are out of business. hifiguy Aug 2015 #19
I'm pro-legalization but that is not really true melman Aug 2015 #40
Maybe pimping could be made super-illegal Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #25
?? I said I am against exploitation. Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #30
I said "As a start" - or thought it, if I didnt write it - meaning, Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2015 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Aug 2015 #18
Semi serious answer: the form of exchange for the transaction hifiguy Aug 2015 #20
ok, thx Mosby Aug 2015 #21
No Ruby the Liberal Aug 2015 #23
Money laundering is a garbage charge in these cases. Xithras Aug 2015 #34
Did not know that Ruby the Liberal Aug 2015 #39
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #24
+1 nt hifiguy Aug 2015 #26
No Go Vols Aug 2015 #28
Focus law enforcement on trafficking davidn3600 Aug 2015 #38

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
1. I agree. The only thing about it the government should care about...
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 03:36 PM
Aug 2015

is the normal commerce, labor, etc. regulations.

Casual sex is OK. Filming sex, paying the actors and selling the video is OK. It's just one player paying the other that's not OK.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
4. This, times a zillion.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 03:59 PM
Aug 2015

And I have always thought so. The only proviso being that the parties involved are all 18+ and legally adults. Beyond that, it is no one's business but that of the people involved.

Warpy

(111,264 posts)
31. I've always thought good sex workers were worth their weight in gold
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:15 PM
Aug 2015

because they allowed (mostly) men to act out their fantasies safely.

What need to be gotten out of the business are the pimps and sex traffickers, something legality and regulation would go a long way toward doing.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
33. Couldn't agree more.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:18 PM
Aug 2015

And legalization would put the hammer in the hands of the people who could turn in those scumbags.

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
37. And I've always thought women should be able to
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:39 PM
Aug 2015

hire male sex workers too,

Ones who knew their business, and could be trusted not to blackmail or rob the client.

Someone tell me if that's been arranged yet.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
41. I have no problem with that.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 07:30 PM
Aug 2015

And it probably happens.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
3. Consenting adults
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 03:56 PM
Aug 2015

With the profession licensed, regulated, and taxed for safety reasons for both workers and clients.

Response to LanternWaste (Reply #6)

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
7. Nope. Legalize, regulate and tax it.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:15 PM
Aug 2015

Trying to stop it happening is very similar to the "war on drugs".

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
8. Locking up consenting adults for doing something thats otherwise legal when money isn't involved...
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:19 PM
Aug 2015

...is painfully stupid.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
10. These threads usually go sideways.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:23 PM
Aug 2015

15 years ago, I was against drugs being legal and against prostitution being legal.

I have come to the exact opposite place on both.

They should be legalized and taxed, destigmatized and in the case of drugs, 1/4 the money now being spent on investigation and prosecution should be spent on addiction and treatment centers and with prostitution, 1/4 of the money now being spent on investigation and prosecution should be spent on services to offer sex workers occupational training and other work options if they want it.

There should be all kinds of services for both drug users and sex workers. And you could pay for it with just a fraction of what we now pay for the war on drugs alone.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
12. Indeed they do, but you are absolutely right.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:36 PM
Aug 2015

Last edited Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:37 PM - Edit history (1)

The moralists here use exactly the same sorts of logic as the fundies, albeit with different justifications and like the fundies, they BELIEVE rather than KNOW, it's EEEEEVIL, and logic bounces off of them like bullets off of Superman's cape. Everyone who disagrees is obviously wrong and a horrible person to boot.

If I wanted to argue with the fundamentalist mindset I'd go somewhere other than DU, but they always turn up here.

prayin4rain

(2,065 posts)
22. I'm still some what on the fence, but I think I have to reluctantly agree.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:41 PM
Aug 2015

It's a shame that so many people who have been exploited and abused in their childhoods seek out the only thing they know in adulthood. And it's a shame that there are so many waiting and willing to continue to use and exploit others for their own gratification because hey, they're 18 so now it is their CHOICE!

But, simply making it illegal does not offer help to the vulnerable people who need help. For the most part, it is a sad situation and we have to find common sense ways to get help to those who need it and not continue to make criminals out of so many of our citizens.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
13. We should legalize it. Take all the cops on vice sqauds and assign them untested rape kits
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:39 PM
Aug 2015

Mindboggling why consensual sex is being policed while actual rapes go unsolved due to lack of manpower.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
14. Human beings are hard-wired to want to have sex
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 04:44 PM
Aug 2015

and monkey around with their consciousness. Hard-wired. ALL human beings since the day homo sapiens emerged on this planet.

Time for people to accept those facts and get over themselves and their sanctimonious Nosy Parker self-righteousness.

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
17. Consensual sex isn't a problem.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:21 PM
Aug 2015

Exploitation dressed up as consensual sex, backed up by violence, and furthered by addiction: is a problem.

Any way of reducing exploitation is ok by me. I don't think there are easy answers. But as a start: criminalizing the buying rather than the selling, as is done in some European countries.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
19. If it is legal, the pimps are out of business.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:35 PM
Aug 2015

Sex workers would have the same recourse to the law as other workers. And pimps are the source of much of the violence. You cannot override what human nature has consistently been shown to be over thousands of years.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
40. I'm pro-legalization but that is not really true
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 07:27 PM
Aug 2015

There are a lot of pimps in the red light district in Amsterdam

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
42. Maybe pimping could be made super-illegal
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 08:15 PM
Aug 2015

and workers could be employed/managed by a government health agency, or have solo/group practices?

Pimps do five to ten for preying on people's bodies: I am good w that!

Response to Syzygy321 (Reply #17)

Response to Syzygy321 (Reply #29)

 

Syzygy321

(583 posts)
32. I said "As a start" - or thought it, if I didnt write it - meaning,
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:17 PM
Aug 2015

that would be better than our current system of criminalizing sex workers themselves.

I would have to know a lot more than I do - and hear all sides and many stories - to push for any particular solution that's being touted as a cure-all.

To repeat: any strategy that reduces exploitation is fine with me.

Response to Syzygy321 (Reply #32)

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hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
20. Semi serious answer: the form of exchange for the transaction
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:36 PM
Aug 2015

is up to the parties as long as both agree to it.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
23. No
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 05:43 PM
Aug 2015

Noting I can't watch the video - just answering the question.

Rentboy was laundering money though - which is a whole different kettle of fish...

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
34. Money laundering is a garbage charge in these cases.
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:23 PM
Aug 2015

It's the same charge they used against the MyRedBook site owners when they shut it down. They went through the financial history of the site, found every instance where the owners had transferred funds out of the sites accounts and into their own, and charged them with one count of money laundering for each instance. Under federal law, transferring funds from an illegal enterprise into your bank account is automatically money laundering. Even if that transfer is simply your "paycheck" from a business you believed to be legal.

Once upon a time, "money laundering" meant running cash through a third party to deliberately hide its source, usually to conceal the fact that it came from a crime. Nowadays, the federal government has simplified the definition so that any transfer of funds from an "illegal" business qualifies.

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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
38. Focus law enforcement on trafficking
Thu Aug 27, 2015, 06:50 PM
Aug 2015

Going after consenting adults is a waste of time and resources. People are going to have sex no matter what laws you pass.

Anti-prostitution laws only push the activity further underground and make it more unsafe.

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