Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search
23 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Beeny Man begs forgiveness for lyrics calling for deaths to gays and lesbians (Original Post) malaise May 2012 OP
Translation: "I want to make money outside my homophobic country" jberryhill May 2012 #1
To err is human, to apologize is to grow. To never do it again is wisdom. Zalatix May 2012 #5
Zimmerman apologized too jberryhill May 2012 #6
Both must make restitution according to the magnitude of their deeds. Zalatix May 2012 #8
Magnitude... jberryhill May 2012 #9
Okay, I have to concede that. Zalatix May 2012 #14
For the record he makes lots of money in the rest of the world malaise May 2012 #17
Good for him jberryhill May 2012 #20
I'm sorry I didn't get away with being a hateful bigot. Please buy my shit. cali May 2012 #2
People change johnnie May 2012 #3
Obviously no one made money threatening to kill your children jberryhill May 2012 #4
I don't have any children johnnie May 2012 #12
He can drop dead for all I care jberryhill May 2012 #15
So you can hate everyone in Jamaica malaise May 2012 #18
I don't hate them, and I don't owe them money jberryhill May 2012 #19
They're not idiots for holding this against him for 20 years. Zalatix May 2012 #7
Ok, "idiot" was probably the wrong word to use johnnie May 2012 #10
Here's anothe classic apology video jberryhill May 2012 #11
And yet another johnnie May 2012 #13
Bill Clinton threatened violence against your family? jberryhill May 2012 #16
And John Belushi did what exactly to you? johnnie May 2012 #21
You seem not to understand the point jberryhill May 2012 #22
Thanks for the explanation johnnie May 2012 #23
 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
5. To err is human, to apologize is to grow. To never do it again is wisdom.
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:37 PM
May 2012

I'll give this guy his one strike; he did apologize.

Two, however, means he's out.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
9. Magnitude...
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:49 PM
May 2012

One act of hate, versus inspiring countless others.

He still collects royalties on threatening the life of my child. I don't care what he does, really. He would be wise not to do it anywhere near me or my family.

 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
14. Okay, I have to concede that.
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:00 PM
May 2012

By my own previously-spoken opinions regarding proximate and ultimate cause (TODAY, no less), yeah, you're right to see him as one of those who are responsible for the potential assault or murder of GLBT's around the world.

By the way I do believe Zimmerman can be rehabilitated, however that will take a hell of a lot to show that he is rehabilitated. He will need to make a great deal of restitution to society for what he has done; more, probably, than what I could conceive.

I acknowledge the logic behind your argument, too - the same magnitude of restitution would be required of Beeny Man. STARTING with, but not ending with, surrendering all the royalties he gets from those hateful songs, to charity, to help undo the damage he has done.

Hell, I can't even fault you for wanting to deck him if he got near you, for the threat he has posed to your kids.

malaise

(269,144 posts)
17. For the record he makes lots of money in the rest of the world
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:18 PM
May 2012

His comments followed Obama's acceptance of marriage equality.
If he was merely looking money from the US he might have done this ages ago.

johnnie

(23,616 posts)
3. People change
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:34 PM
May 2012

Of course there will always be idiots who think that something said from someone 20 years ago is the exact same thing they feel today, but ignorance is an equal opportunity personality defect.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
4. Obviously no one made money threatening to kill your children
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:37 PM
May 2012

However, this piece of shit did.

No, I don't forgive him. He'll just have to go on making money without me.

Jamaica is one of the most virulently and officially gay-hating places in the Western Hemisphere. What's he doing to make amends? Oh, getting paid to perform in Spain this week, where he knows that shit won't fly.

johnnie

(23,616 posts)
12. I don't have any children
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:55 PM
May 2012

What if he speaks out in his country and makes some changes toward their thinking, would you still hate him?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
15. He can drop dead for all I care
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:02 PM
May 2012

You think some YouTube bullshit has anything to do with the effort he's put in to inspiring violence against gay people?

2004 is also not "20 years ago" and he's done this exact same shit before:

http://m.guardian.co.uk/media/2004/aug/17/advertising.arts?cat=media&type=article

Earlier this month Virgin Records issued a statement from Beenie Man, which offered his "sincerest apologies to those who might have been offended, threatened or hurt by my songs".
But the following day the head of his management company in Jamaica said that the statement was "not an apology" and that the singer reserved his right to criticise "the homosexual lifestyle".

----

Yeah, and BP is cleaning up the Gulf of Mexico.

It's PR bullshit.

I don't spend my time obsessing about this turd and his culture. Whenever a hurricane hits Jamaica, I am reminded to make a donation to a gay rights organization here in the states, and that's about as far as I go about caring.

malaise

(269,144 posts)
18. So you can hate everyone in Jamaica
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:22 PM
May 2012

but Beeny Man is the hater.

Whenever a hurricane hits Jamaica, I am reminded to make a donation to a gay rights organization here in the states, and that's about as far as I go about caring.

---------------
How different are you from Pat Robertson?
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
19. I don't hate them, and I don't owe them money
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:32 PM
May 2012

My family is not welcome in Jamaica, and my money does not go there.

There are a lot of people who don't get money from me. What does that have to do with hating them?

Have you given me money? No. Oh, so you are a hater?

It doesn't work that way. I do not owe Jamaica a dime. And I don't pay to "rebuild" places where I am not welcome. That would be stupid.

Besides, from the royalties he still collects from calling upon people to kill members of my family, I'm sure he can contribute more than I could anyway. So it's all good.

So all of the cruse lines, Carnival etc. which do not include Jamaica on ports of call for gay cruises, are all "haters" to you? I'm sorry, but avoiding the abuse and violence directed against gays in your country, and done so with the force of law, is simply rational behavior.

Again, I have never threatened the life of anyone in this man's family. He is one of a number of Jamaicans which have done so to mine, in keeping with the official policy of that country.

I am not a hater. I am also not stupid enough to fund such nonsense.

I'll tell you what, though, since you want to make a false equivalence... How about if I get rich telling people to kill Jamaicans for years, continue to get paid for it, and we'll see how you react to me saying, "Oops, my bad."

 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
7. They're not idiots for holding this against him for 20 years.
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:44 PM
May 2012

Unforgiving, yes, but idiots, no.

I for one would say he could make amends by donating that money to human rights groups, or something equally as meaningful.

johnnie

(23,616 posts)
10. Ok, "idiot" was probably the wrong word to use
Sat May 19, 2012, 06:52 PM
May 2012

I agree with your "one strike" statement and that's where I was heading. I typically give people a little room to be who they are and if they screw up and apologize that's fine with me. If they screw up again, then I'll make my judgement.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
16. Bill Clinton threatened violence against your family?
Sat May 19, 2012, 07:05 PM
May 2012

Bill Clinton never owed me an apology.

The fact that you find these two things at all comparable is interesting.

So, how many people in your family were beat up or murdered or bullied because Bill Clinton encouraged people to do that?

I'll wait... Post the whole list.

johnnie

(23,616 posts)
21. And John Belushi did what exactly to you?
Sat May 19, 2012, 08:11 PM
May 2012

The fact that you find these two things at all comparable is interesting. And how many guitars did John destroy of yours?


I'll wait... Post the whole list.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
22. You seem not to understand the point
Sat May 19, 2012, 11:08 PM
May 2012

So perhaps you need it explained to you.

In the clip above, Belushi's character engages in a spontaneous and unprovoked act of destruction, and then shrugs it off with an "I'm sorry". The "apology" is entirely disingenuous, and that is the comedic value of that scene. It does nothing to address the harm he has committed.

This Beeny Baby character continues to make money from promoting violence against members of my family, and expects a few words to make it all better.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Beeny Man begs forgivenes...