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Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:20 PM Aug 2015

Update on TorchTheWitch

I've been in contact with TTW for the past week, and here's what the situation is now for anyone that has been wondering.

The eviction took place the 6th of July. TTW did some couch surfing and house sitting at first, and then found a tiny room to rent in a house with other tenants. It's basically a rooming house situation, with a shared kitchen and bathroom, though TTW does have a tiny bathroom of her own consisting of a sink and toilet. The sink doesn't work, but she does at least have her own potty, and is grateful for that.

She told me last week that she had gotten "lucky as hell" with Yoshi, as a doggie-daycare place had, given her situation, agreed at the last minute to take him for as long as needed, with no money up front and the charges (if any at all) could be worked out later. They get an awful lot of donated food, so no problem with that. They said that he would have his own large pen indoors in the air conditioning, and the first week he was there they would call TTW often and she was told that Yoshi was doing great and was happy. The daycare is a distance from where TTW lives, and given that distance and her Monday through Friday job, she can only get there to see him once a week, on the weekend.

Last weekend, they brought him outside for her visit, and given that it was very hot and there was only hot concrete for them to be on, TTW kept the visit short so Yoshi could get off the concrete and back into the A/C. She had them take him back inside before she left, so he wouldn't see her leaving. She cried all the way home, but thought that he was doing all right other than missing her.

She called ahead again this week, a couple of days ago, and arranged to visit him again today. When she arrived, she was told that "he was sleeping" and that therefore now wasn't a good time, and that she'd need to reschedule. That set off alarm bells, and she insisted that they get him for her. After an employee huddle discussing it, they went and got him and brought him out.

TTW told me that he looked horrible -- he has lost weight, his hair is falling out, and he was listless and didn't even seem to recognize her. The difference from last week to this one was astounding. She got very upset and demanded to see where he was being kept indoors. It turns out that the "very large pen" is a very small crate, not big enough for him to even turn around in. There was no water dish. There is A/C, but not set cool enough for a dog with a coat like Yoshi's (the other dogs there are shorter-haired). When he's outside, the area he's allowed to be in is all concrete with full sun. When he's indoors, it's in the tiny crate with no water dish. TTW said that when they first brought him out today, he went to every available water source and drained them, and was still looking for more.

I spent over two hours on the phone with TTW tonight. She's terrified that Yoshi is going to die there, that he's dehydrated, overheated, and is being essentially tortured to death. She's afraid he may die in the next few days, if left there. She was crying so hard I could barely understand what she was saying a good deal of the time.
She has not yet been able to retrieve her belongings from the place she was evicted from. She has nowhere to put them, as it's only a room she is renting and a small one at that. The place she's at right now is unsafe, I won't go into detail as to the particulars, but it isn't a safe place to be at all.

She is working. Between the rent and gas for the car to get to work, plus basic living expenses such as food and toilet paper, etc.., she won't be able to get a place of her own for her and Yoshi for some time. She would need first/last rent + deposit, and she doesn't make enough to save that up for a few months out.

She's terrified that Yoshi isn't going to make it. She is doing all she can to get a place for them, she's doing it for Yoshi, but he isn't doing well at all where he is. He's in pretty bad shape already.

So yes, this is a plea, on TTW's behalf, for any financial help that anyone on DU sees fit to offer.

She desperately needs to get a place where she can live with Yoshi and bring him back to health. I don't have a target dollar amount. I only know that she's been working, has been doing what she can, and yet Yoshi is in dire straits.
I'm the one asking on her behalf. I don't know if she could bring herself to ask again anyway, but the point is moot as her computer is down with a virus and largely unusable. I figure it can't hurt to throw this out there (yes, again!), and see if DU can help some more in any way.

TTW has been beaten up and hammered for asking for help here in the past. If you don't want to help, if you think this all a scam, if you just want to stick another knife in because of some past issue with her, please keep your comments to yourself this time. Yes, it's a public message board, yada yada, but it's also hard as hell to ask for help and, in my opinion, deplorable to be piled on the way she has been by a few. Show some class and just go your own way, please. Please.

For anyone who can help and sees fit to do so, here is TTW's gofundme: http://www.gofundme.com/slumlord-escape

TTW is my friend. Thank you in advance for anything you can do for her, and if you can't -- at least, please, just leave it alone.

Thanks again.

Moosepoop

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Update on TorchTheWitch (Original Post) Moosepoop Aug 2015 OP
So many DUers gave her resources for yoshi, cwydro Aug 2015 #1
What resource(s) in particular are you wondering about? Moosepoop Aug 2015 #3
And yet, I found TWO Akita rescue groups in her state. KittyWampus Aug 2015 #2
That was very nice of you. Moosepoop Aug 2015 #4
I could no more give up a beloved pet than I could give up any other family member. tblue37 Aug 2015 #28
Thank you, tblue37! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #39
I sent some money, but I feel like Yoshi needs to get out of there now catrose Aug 2015 #64
Thank you, catrose!! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #66
You're a great friend n/t catrose Aug 2015 #68
I'd live in a tent Aerows Aug 2015 #128
I actually did that for several months back in the 90's. cwydro Aug 2015 #134
I absolutely understand. Aerows Aug 2015 #136
Awww, she's lucky to have you. cwydro Aug 2015 #137
I think it is the other way around Aerows Aug 2015 #138
My Skeeter was known for unexpected "playful" bites. cwydro Aug 2015 #139
Thank You Moose. Texasgal Aug 2015 #5
Thank YOU, Texasgal! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #40
K&R TDale313 Aug 2015 #6
Thanks, TDale313! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #41
shouldn't animal services be called JI7 Aug 2015 #7
This^^^^ 1,000,000 times! Quackers Aug 2015 #10
Then what will happen to yoshi??????? glinda Aug 2015 #18
Sounds like he's not being taken 840high Aug 2015 #21
what do animal services do with abused animals ? it's not just yoshi but any other animals that are JI7 Aug 2015 #23
The saga shall continue. alphafemale Aug 2015 #38
Unfortunately, the saga does continue. Moosepoop Aug 2015 #42
I have read through all the previous threads. I do not understand why this poster Tipperary Aug 2015 #65
None of it is real. alphafemale Aug 2015 #72
This message was self-deleted by its author Le Taz Hot Aug 2015 #73
This message was self-deleted by its author alphafemale Aug 2015 #75
Because the poster suggested reporting neglect? cwydro Aug 2015 #76
I gather that you are (rather clumsily) attempting to insult me. I wonder why? Tipperary Aug 2015 #86
OK, this is embarassing Le Taz Hot Aug 2015 #93
TTW needs to take Yoshi out of that place and report it to whatever animal care authorities are in Tipperary Aug 2015 #99
It should be shut down, but the animals would likely end up euthanized at the pound. ladyVet Aug 2015 #78
And being euthanized is worse SheilaT Aug 2015 #113
But it's a "doggie day care" as I understand. DawgHouse Aug 2015 #114
That would be my thought too. I am beginning to feel a bit weird about this whole thing. Tipperary Aug 2015 #118
What region of the country does TTW reside in? alittlelark Aug 2015 #8
PA area. N/T Texasgal Aug 2015 #9
I am in New Mexico.... :-( alittlelark Aug 2015 #11
Where in PA. I'm in Florida, but I have family in PA who might know 1monster Aug 2015 #20
Shared shenmue Aug 2015 #12
Thanks, shenmue! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #43
I sent you a PM Lucinda Aug 2015 #13
Got it! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #44
You have a good heart, Moose. KnR for exposure, and I do hope their lives turn a corner. Hekate Aug 2015 #14
Thank you, Hekate. Moosepoop Aug 2015 #45
KICK!!!! Texasgal Aug 2015 #15
I hope someone from this group near that area can foster him and help him. glinda Aug 2015 #16
I hope so too, glinda! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #46
Have a bad feeling. Dog must be rescued asap....... glinda Aug 2015 #17
Kicking so I can find this when I have some extra dollars... 1monster Aug 2015 #19
Thanks, 1monster! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #47
Kicking. TexasTowelie Aug 2015 #22
Thanks, Texastowelie! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #48
which part of PA does she live in, where is Yoshi? shireen Aug 2015 #24
She lives near Philadelphia. Moosepoop Aug 2015 #51
Where EXACTLY is Yoshi? Name the city, please. WorseBeforeBetter Aug 2015 #122
kick for exposure - post 20 is inquiring about info to help tomm2thumbs Aug 2015 #25
Thanks, tomm2thumbs! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #49
KnR for visibility. Hey, DUers--we have been so torn up about Cecil. tblue37 Aug 2015 #26
Thanks, tblue37! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #50
I pitched in a little... Bryce Butler Aug 2015 #27
Thank you, BryceButler! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #52
K&R... nt AnotherDreamWeaver Aug 2015 #29
Thanks for the K&R, AnotherDreamWeaver! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #53
Okay, I pitched in. onecaliberal Aug 2015 #30
Thank you, onecaliberal! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #54
K&R! Katashi_itto Aug 2015 #31
Thanks, Katashi_itto! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #55
i wish i had more .....i am sending $10.00 to her and her lovely dog. trueblue2007 Aug 2015 #32
Thank you, trueblue2007! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #56
For those who are new to the Torch the Witch saga. SheilaT Aug 2015 #33
Thank you for the 3 a.m. compilation, Sheila T! You saved me the trouble! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #57
To be fair...she did not turn down all help....me and my ex are attorneys. I cannot give details, msanthrope Aug 2015 #89
Oh, really? SheilaT Aug 2015 #103
I think compassion is called for, here. And look at my username. It's not like I think that, often. msanthrope Aug 2015 #104
I see downthread that SheilaT Aug 2015 #106
I hope it works out. In the meantime, I don't take it personally when offers of help msanthrope Aug 2015 #108
"I will await with baited breath a report that she's placed the dog with one of the above" JTFrog Aug 2015 #120
I'm waiting to find out what she baited her breath with. ;-) Moosepoop Aug 2015 #125
It was indeed excellent and joyous news! n/t JTFrog Aug 2015 #126
Oh my gosh, have some COMPASSION ALREADY. trueblue2007 Aug 2015 #133
And there you were with your shitty remarks and insinuations in all of those threads. JTFrog Aug 2015 #132
Just put something in peabody Aug 2015 #34
Thank you, peabody! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #58
I wish that she lived in California becuase we have a big place and plenty of room for Yoshi emsimon33 Aug 2015 #35
I wish that she lived there too, emsimon33! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #59
Thanks for the update. mylye2222 Aug 2015 #36
You're very welcome, mylye2222. Moosepoop Aug 2015 #60
Best wishes Flying Squirrel Aug 2015 #37
Thanks, Flying Squirrel Moosepoop Aug 2015 #61
What a situation gwheezie Aug 2015 #62
Holy Moses, gwheezie!! Moosepoop Aug 2015 #63
oh, ghweezie, I'm so sorry. Can you give an idea where you are located? magical thyme Aug 2015 #70
I live in virginia gwheezie Aug 2015 #82
I'm in NC and have many free range chickens. cwydro Aug 2015 #111
Thank you so much gwheezie Aug 2015 #117
Love the description of the rainbow farting princess unicorn REP Aug 2015 #121
Kick before leaving for work! n/t Moosepoop Aug 2015 #67
Yoshi must go to some rescuers! roody Aug 2015 #69
agreed! instead of "doggie day care" she should try to find a breed rescue magical thyme Aug 2015 #71
Akita rescues in your area magical thyme Aug 2015 #74
Many rescues have foster families available - TBF Aug 2015 #80
So would I. nt tblue37 Aug 2015 #92
I would as well magical thyme Aug 2015 #107
have you checked with magical thyme Aug 2015 #77
Cwydro here. cwydro Aug 2015 #96
oops, sorry...have you mixed up with someone else I guess! magical thyme Aug 2015 #102
No worries at all! cwydro Aug 2015 #105
in the last week or so we've turned into housefly city magical thyme Aug 2015 #109
We have awful flies out here in the country too! cwydro Aug 2015 #112
I was going to donate to gofundme, janlyn Aug 2015 #79
WE WILL TAKE YOSHI......TODAY..... msanthrope Aug 2015 #81
Kick---call us or PM me..... msanthrope Aug 2015 #83
Great news! This sounds like at least that problem is now solved. Tipperary Aug 2015 #84
Best. Post. Ever. underahedgerow Aug 2015 #85
This is great!! Sissyk Aug 2015 #87
We are on stand-by.....we hope this can work out. nt msanthrope Aug 2015 #88
This is such great news. Hope this works out! Lucinda Aug 2015 #91
Wonderful! catrose Aug 2015 #115
This is a wonderful gesture! DawgHouse Aug 2015 #90
msanthrope. you are my new hero!! nt tblue37 Aug 2015 #94
Joyous kick! NT IdaBriggs Aug 2015 #95
Yeah! PearliePoo2 Aug 2015 #98
Thank goddess... onecaliberal Aug 2015 #101
That tugs my heart strings libodem Aug 2015 #110
How kind of you and your ex... WorseBeforeBetter Aug 2015 #124
Does TTW have a cell phone that is currently working? PearliePoo2 Aug 2015 #97
TTW can go to any library for internet access or to use a computer. Tipperary Aug 2015 #100
kick Liberal_in_LA Aug 2015 #116
Kick. nt tblue37 Aug 2015 #119
So many wonderful, compassionate people here on DU, especially moosepoop , msanthrope and her ex. nt No Vested Interest Aug 2015 #123
This message was self-deleted by its author shireen Aug 2015 #127
just donated Stillwater Aug 2015 #129
Update? SheilaT Aug 2015 #130
Just so everyone sees it -- **UPDATE** -- Yoshi is safe! herding cats Aug 2015 #131
I'd like to know the name of that dog care place. cwydro Aug 2015 #135
Yeah, it sounds like a horrendous place. DawgHouse Aug 2015 #140
I agree, and I'm hoping that one of the posters involved in the rescue cwydro Aug 2015 #141
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
1. So many DUers gave her resources for yoshi,
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:25 PM
Aug 2015

and I just don't understand why she didn't take advantage of those.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
3. What resource(s) in particular are you wondering about?
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:34 PM
Aug 2015

If I can shed any light on what wasn't an option and why, I will try to do that.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
4. That was very nice of you.
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:38 PM
Aug 2015

Do they take the dogs on a temporary basis? I know that TTW was trying to not give him up permanently.

It can be argued (and I'm sure you and perhaps others are just itching to) that giving him up forever would have been the thing to do. I'm not going to argue the point one way or another. Thank you for your reply.

tblue37

(65,490 posts)
28. I could no more give up a beloved pet than I could give up any other family member.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:13 AM
Aug 2015

For someone who has been beaten down by life, an animal companion is often the only thing that keeps them going.

Many people have died during natural disasters because they could not accept rescue if they couldn't bring their animal companions to safety with them. I fully understand that feeling.

TTW needs Yoshi, and he needs her.

catrose

(5,075 posts)
64. I sent some money, but I feel like Yoshi needs to get out of there now
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 08:34 AM
Aug 2015

I can't answer for other rescues, but the one I work with has been known to try to pay outlandish rental deposits or send someone over several times a week to help care for an elderly person's animal--anything to avoid having one more homeless animal to foster and place. So I think it would be worth a call to the Akita rescues, and if they're not useful, to a generic dog rescue. They at least would be a good source of information about other resources in the area. If you could you do that for her, it would be a wonderful advocacy. I hope some of the offers of places for Yoshi on this thread and others work out too.

Edited to say: Send someONE over

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
66. Thank you, catrose!!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 08:47 AM
Aug 2015

Both for the donation and the advice!! I will try calling the rescue places myself and see what they say. I have to leave for work in a few minutes or I'd start right now.

Thanks again!!!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
134. I actually did that for several months back in the 90's.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:41 PM
Aug 2015

A bad landlord situation, and as soon as I saw what was happening I moved with my critters to a campground.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
136. I absolutely understand.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:44 PM
Aug 2015

Roma (tomato-nose - it's bright orange-ish red) is the best cat in the world. I realize that she is just a plain old tabby on the outside, but on the inside? She's a supermodel, a valiant huntress, and a comedienne of epic proportions .

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
137. Awww, she's lucky to have you.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:47 PM
Aug 2015

I lost one who was very special to me a few years ago, but she lived to a ripe old age.

She loved to hunt shoes lol. I still miss her very much.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
138. I think it is the other way around
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:51 PM
Aug 2015

I'm lucky to have her.

Well, except when she deems my toes to be vermin she should hunt in the middle of the night.

She's a pretty good foot warmer, though, when she isn't geared up for toe-biting surprises. Even then they are nothing more than playful. Well, mostly they aren't

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
139. My Skeeter was known for unexpected "playful" bites.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:53 PM
Aug 2015

She could be a little stinker. In fact, one of her many names was The Stinky Baby.

She had a lot of names actually.

We are lucky to have them. I love all my pets, including my goose.

Texasgal

(17,048 posts)
5. Thank You Moose.
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:45 PM
Aug 2015

I received a message last week and am not aware of these new issues.

I'll send some paypal for Yoshi. I wish I could get him down here so that I can care for him until TTW get's back on track. If anyone has transport help I would be HAPPY to take Yoshi into my home for a vacation!
Thank you for updating us. <3

I hope this thread doesn't turn into nasty.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
6. K&R
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:50 PM
Aug 2015

Thanks for the update. I'm sorry there isn't more I can do at the moment by offer emotional support, but my thoughts are with TTW and especially Yoshi. I really hope a good environment can be found for him and if possible that they can have a safe place to live together soon. Let her know there are people rooting for her and worrying about her and Yoshi.

JI7

(89,278 posts)
7. shouldn't animal services be called
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 10:51 PM
Aug 2015

If a place that is supposed to care for animals is not taking care of them.

In fact it should be shut down

JI7

(89,278 posts)
23. what do animal services do with abused animals ? it's not just yoshi but any other animals that are
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:31 AM
Aug 2015

there plus any future ones.

the place should be shut down.

there ARE other places as the poster above has posted info about them before.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
38. The saga shall continue.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 04:44 AM
Aug 2015

He may be hijacked by squirrels in clown outfits and sold to a Russian caravan circus.

Waiting for next months installment of this ridiculous odyssey.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
42. Unfortunately, the saga does continue.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 06:25 AM
Aug 2015

Fortunately, though, I've only seen a couple of squirrels in clown outfits this time around.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
65. I have read through all the previous threads. I do not understand why this poster
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 08:45 AM
Aug 2015

does not surrender the dog to ensure his well-being. The dog's well-being should be number one. I saw where other posters on the DU even offered to take TTW and her dog in to their home.

Also I wonder why TTW has not reported this awful place where the dog is staying. What is the name of this place and where is it located?

Response to alphafemale (Reply #38)

Response to Le Taz Hot (Reply #73)

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
86. I gather that you are (rather clumsily) attempting to insult me. I wonder why?
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:01 PM
Aug 2015

Do you not think that the dog's welfare is important? TTW can make her own choices, but the dog is helpless. Your use of a faux "Chinese" curse is amusing. I assume you meant to be clever, but actually I have had and continue to have a very interesting life. I enjoy life. I wish you a lovely day.

I now see that another poster has generously come forward to offer Yoshi a temporary home, so it is very good to know that Yoshi will be looked after as he deserves.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
93. OK, this is embarassing
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:19 PM
Aug 2015

That was meant for the poster saying that this whole this is a scam. I'm deleting my post. My apologies.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
99. TTW needs to take Yoshi out of that place and report it to whatever animal care authorities are in
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:37 PM
Aug 2015

that area.

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
78. It should be shut down, but the animals would likely end up euthanized at the pound.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:29 AM
Aug 2015

I just can't believe there isn't somebody from DU in the area that could take Yoshi for a little while.

I know people have issues with TTW, but this dog has done nothing against anybody.

I'm flat broke myself, or I'd take him. We just can't afford another dog, but it breaks my heart to think he's being mistreated and missing his mama.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
113. And being euthanized is worse
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:34 PM
Aug 2015

than the apparent hell that's this place?

TTW has had several offers in the past from people here willing to take in her dog.

DawgHouse

(4,019 posts)
114. But it's a "doggie day care" as I understand.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:38 PM
Aug 2015

That means the dogs there have owners. I assume they would be notified to come get their pets.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
118. That would be my thought too. I am beginning to feel a bit weird about this whole thing.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 03:04 PM
Aug 2015

I donated money to the gofundme page some time back. Something is kind of strange here - I do not understand a lot after reading through all the old threads.

1monster

(11,012 posts)
20. Where in PA. I'm in Florida, but I have family in PA who might know
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:11 AM
Aug 2015

someone who can help with your dog.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
16. I hope someone from this group near that area can foster him and help him.
Sat Aug 1, 2015, 11:50 PM
Aug 2015

She will survive but it does not sound good at all for the dog.
She may not get to see him but if he is taken care of that will give her piece of mind until they can reunite.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
46. I hope so too, glinda!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 06:33 AM
Aug 2015

You are right, she'll be all right if Yoshi is all right. Thank you for realizing that.

TexasTowelie

(112,495 posts)
22. Kicking.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:25 AM
Aug 2015

I noticed that she had not posted for about a month so I was concerned about Yoshi and TTW. I'm not able to make a financial contribution because of my circumstances, but I hope that their living situation can be resolved successfully.

Thanks for the update.

tblue37

(65,490 posts)
26. KnR for visibility. Hey, DUers--we have been so torn up about Cecil.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:07 AM
Aug 2015

We love animals--though it seems people are not always as wll loved.

If for whatever reason you can't find it in your heart to help TTW, can't those who have a little money to spare at least do a bit for Yoshi? If a lot of people donated even $5 or $10, it would accumulate quickly, especially if some could donate a bit more.

onecaliberal

(32,916 posts)
30. Okay, I pitched in.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:35 AM
Aug 2015

I live in California, I'm hoping and praying someone can please care for Yoshi temporarily.

Moose, can you keep us up to date. My heart is breaking for both....

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
54. Thank you, onecaliberal!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 06:49 AM
Aug 2015

I live in Michigan, and I'm praying for the same! I will do my best to keep everyone updated!

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
33. For those who are new to the Torch the Witch saga.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 02:53 AM
Aug 2015

Here are links to previous threads:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026940931 July 2015

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026748167 May 29, 2015. She shut it down

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026621811 May 5, 2015

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026442802 Mar 31, 2015

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026221474 Feb 13, 2015

She got lots of advice and many offers of help, all of which she turned down. However, those of you who wish to help her are certainly free to do so.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
57. Thank you for the 3 a.m. compilation, Sheila T! You saved me the trouble!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 06:56 AM
Aug 2015

TTW must be near and dear to your heart, to go to all that effort in the middle of the night!

Your last line says it all.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
89. To be fair...she did not turn down all help....me and my ex are attorneys. I cannot give details,
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:10 PM
Aug 2015

but she did not turn down all help.

It is a complex situation.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
103. Oh, really?
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:13 PM
Aug 2015

Over a period of several months and several lengthy threads, she was frequently offered a lot of help, which she either ignored or came back with one excuse after another why that wouldn't work. She was offered a place for Yoshi, a place for her, help in getting employment, and members donated money.

I do understand privacy issues, but many of us who have been following this whole thing are rather skeptical that anything will change. Other than the details.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
104. I think compassion is called for, here. And look at my username. It's not like I think that, often.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:16 PM
Aug 2015
 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
106. I see downthread that
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:21 PM
Aug 2015

she's gotten more than one good offer to take Yoshi. She got similar offers in the past and never acted on them. Instead, she's given the dog over to a very sketchy doggie day care. Oh, and she's also been given information about Akita rescue groups in her area.

I will await with baited breath a report that she's placed the dog with one of the above, along with new photos.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
108. I hope it works out. In the meantime, I don't take it personally when offers of help
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:25 PM
Aug 2015

that seem reasonable and logical are ignored. You know why? We never truly know what's going on with people....we cannot know their pain and suffering, we are mere bystanders. We can only offer the best of ourselves, and hope that we can be helpful.

In the fullness of time, I hope that my offer is helpful.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
120. "I will await with baited breath a report that she's placed the dog with one of the above"
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 04:23 PM
Aug 2015

There is no need to be so vile. I've seen some gofundme requests here recently that certainly deserve a hell of a lot more scrutiny than this poor woman was put through.

Anyway, you can rest easier now.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027036403

I am so glad that some people here actually reached out and helped her despite the avalanche of shit heaped upon her for asking for that help. This is part of the reason that it's so damn hard to ask for help in the first place.



Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
125. I'm waiting to find out what she baited her breath with. ;-)
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 09:17 PM
Aug 2015

Meanwhile, thanks JTFrog, for posting the link to msanthrope's thread!! That was truly a joy to come home to!!!

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
132. And there you were with your shitty remarks and insinuations in all of those threads.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 01:25 AM
Aug 2015

Thank you for putting all that together.


 

mylye2222

(2,992 posts)
36. Thanks for the update.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 04:15 AM
Aug 2015

I was wondering how she was cause I worried aboyt her. She didnt logged here for long. Good she found a place to stay... I have been homeless also and her painfull situations rings how too well a bell in me.

The snarky comments I saw here when sge seeked support was beyond shame. Some people should really keep quiet sometimes.

Hope she will find a real full flat soon so her dog could come back.

Hugs TTW. !

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
60. You're very welcome, mylye2222.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 07:01 AM
Aug 2015

Thank you for understanding! I'll pass your hugs on to TTW, and here's one for you!

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
37. Best wishes
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 04:31 AM
Aug 2015

I wish I could donate again but I'm unemployed now - good luck TTW and get Yoshi out of there pronto! Find a rescue place or something and if it means you have to give him up for him to be safe, happy and healthy, that's the definition of love

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
61. Thanks, Flying Squirrel
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 07:04 AM
Aug 2015

for your past donation and for the kick! I hope you find good employment very soon!

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
62. What a situation
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 07:06 AM
Aug 2015

I can't take yoshi. I wish I could because I have done it in the past, taken animals when the owners are in crisis. I've had to find homes for 3 horses, 2goats,6 dogs and 4 cats in the last 6 months because I can't keep my farm. I've still got 3 dogs and 2 cats and 4 chickens. Since my husband died I am losing everything I've loved on this farm but I am lucky that I still have my family. I found out I'm looking at another surgery and will be out of work for 3 months. I'm putting it off until I can find homes for the rest of the animals. I'm planning ahead now for the worst case scenario. I will put 2 of the dogs down when it gets close because they are both elderly and have cancer. So I have my husband's dog to find s home for. When he goes all I have left of my husband are his ashes.
I didn't mean to hijack the thread but I said this because when I say ttw has to do the right thing by her dog I am not being glib or off hand. She owns that dog, if she can't resolve this in the next few days she needs to think about surrendering him.

Moosepoop

(1,922 posts)
63. Holy Moses, gwheezie!!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 07:17 AM
Aug 2015

Your situation is awful!!! I feel terrible for you, and I wish you the best for your situation!!! I'm sure you would have taken Yoshi if your circumstances hadn't changed the way they have.

Your words are wise. I'm trying to help TTW resolve this as quickly as possible, before she has to think about permanent surrender.

Best wishes going forward

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
70. oh, ghweezie, I'm so sorry. Can you give an idea where you are located?
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 09:38 AM
Aug 2015

Maybe some DUers could offer homes for some of your dogs, cats and chickens.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
82. I live in virginia
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:40 AM
Aug 2015

I don't think I'll have a problem with the chickens. Although like any animal you no longer have they may wind up being eaten someday. The cats are all neutered semi feral barn cats. Very sweet and they do allow me to pet them but they have their territory. I have an emergency plan for Joe. A friend would temporarily take him. I think if I only have one pet I may be able to find an apartment that would allow a pet. I have looked at about 10 apartments that allow pets. The barn cats are a crap shoot. I do have friends with farms but knowing barn cats they could be rehomed and disappear. I think any cat can be a house cat but they would need someone who could help them transition. I'm not going to abandon them. They will get a home. I have a contact with an agency that rehomed barn cats. I had to get over my own ego that no one would take care of them like I would.
The worst thing for them is not s new home but to suffer because I'm in a crisis.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
111. I'm in NC and have many free range chickens.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:31 PM
Aug 2015

Happy to take yours and you can know they will never be eaten.

What kind of dog is it? I maybe can help you out there too, as well as the cats if they're neutered.

Shoot me a pm if you'd like.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
117. Thank you so much
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 02:35 PM
Aug 2015

Joe is a hound shepherd mix. He's around 12 years old. My husband used to call him the head of security. He's neutered. Housebroken. And in his old age he just as soon sit on the porch than roam.
Cats are older neutered males. 2 are friendly, 1 is scared of people. Chickens are all hens.
2 old dogs are rescued hounds. Spayed females. Both have cancer. One is not holding her weight. Last time the vet was out she said sooner rather than later.
I'm still working on shameless appeals to friends but appreciate you offer. I was not wanting to give them up so soon but when s good home comes along, I'll take it. I'm happy to say the problem pony is adored in her new home. I thought she'd be the hardest to place but the right person came along and I couldn't pass it up. She is being loved on by a young girl that thinks the big headed pigeontoed evil pony with the stride of a 3 legged gerbil is a rainbow farting princess unicorn.

REP

(21,691 posts)
121. Love the description of the rainbow farting princess unicorn
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 05:43 PM
Aug 2015

I'm in California, otherwise I'd be signing up to give your hens a home with my spoiled girls, where chickens are hugged, not eaten. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only person hugging the hens, though.

I'm sorry you're going through such a terrible time now. I hope things resolve the way you hope they do

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
71. agreed! instead of "doggie day care" she should try to find a breed rescue
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 09:39 AM
Aug 2015

they would not allow such a situation.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
74. Akita rescues in your area
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 10:13 AM
Aug 2015
http://www.bigeastakitarescue.net/
About Big East Akita Rescue

B.E.A.R. is a 501(c)3 charitable Akita rescue group in the United States that does hands-on rescue, and is totally manned by volunteers. BEAR was founded in 2011 by a small group of concerned Akita owners and volunteers that wanted to help the breed due to the number of Akitas in need in the metropolitan Tri-State area of NY, NJ, PA and also throughout the Northeast.

Our highest priority is to save, rehabilitate, and find forever homes for URGENT Akitas in area shelters; however, we also address a wide variety of Akita services such as educating potential owners, providing referrals, lending support to Akita owners, and making evaluations of Akitas in private homes and shelters. We are active members of our national parent breed club, The Akita Club of America, and assist with gathering information against breed-specific legislation. We help as many Akitas as we can but sadly no one can save them all: there are too many. It is our hope that one day there will be no more abandoned, abused, neglected, or unwanted Akitas.

http://akita.rescueshelter.com/Pennsylvania
(Lists akita rescues in PA)

http://dog.rescueshelter.com/Pennsylvania
(Lists general dog rescues in PA)

http://www.animalleague.org/about-us/how-we-help/rescuing-animals.html?gclid=COix5rLKiscCFVOQHwod7ocNuw
North Shore Animal League in NY




TBF

(32,109 posts)
80. Many rescues have foster families available -
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:31 AM
Aug 2015

perhaps one would agree to take Yoshi. I'd be amenable to donating to such a family who would do so (to help with costs).

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
77. have you checked with
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 10:25 AM
Aug 2015

chillfactor (offer to share spacious home with 2 fenced acres for dog in NM)
corgigal (offer to share home with space for dog near Charleston, SC)
rug (offered space 3 hours to your north)

Leaving the area would be disruptive, but at least you'd get Yoshi back. I'm sure the job markets are no worse there than Philly. Plus it would give you a fresh start.

I would make a quick list of priorities, get back what stuff you can with Yoshi as #1 on the list. You had mentioned furniture before: I would put that last on the list. You can replace it and it's not worth anything for re-sale. You mentioned underwear: you can buy cheap $1 underwear at the dollar store. and get other clothes dirt cheap at salvation army and other charity places.

I'd get back the blu ray thingy and the tv...anything you can sell for what cash to raise money for gas to get out.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
96. Cwydro here.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:30 PM
Aug 2015

I live in NC so I think you have me mixed up with another poster lol.

I just saw on this thread however, that msanthrope has offered a solution. This is great news!

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
102. oops, sorry...have you mixed up with someone else I guess!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:01 PM
Aug 2015

chillfactor~cwydro....lol, they both start with C anyway!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
105. No worries at all!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:20 PM
Aug 2015

I do have some land in NC and could give Yoshi a temp home, but one much closer has been offered.



Hope your horsies are enjoying the summer!

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
109. in the last week or so we've turned into housefly city
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:28 PM
Aug 2015
It's awful. Their flymasks and faces get covered with them from late morning until pm. I'm going to drum up some ambition later this afternoon to see if I can find some fly traps at the local grain store.

Other than that, they've been having a much better time of it than I have. But I've finally turned the corner, bit the bullet, filed for social security last Friday and will be mostly working on and out of my home from here on out.

I'd take Yoshi in myself as well, but too far away as well and Luna would probably meltdown.
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
112. We have awful flies out here in the country too!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:34 PM
Aug 2015

The deerflies disappear mid June, thank god, but they're vicious from May until they go.

janlyn

(735 posts)
79. I was going to donate to gofundme,
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:29 AM
Aug 2015

but I think Yoshi is the immediate concern.I saw that TTW is just outside Philadelphia. My boyfriends niece lives in the area, and is a huge animal lover. I know she would not mind taking Yoshi in for a while. Between the three of us we could pay the daycare bill and have Yoshi out of there soonest.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
81. WE WILL TAKE YOSHI......TODAY.....
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:37 AM
Aug 2015

ex husband is in philly area and will take Yoshi for as long as she needs.......

Big house, lots of walks, lots of people, TTW has already talked to ex on legal matters......

PLEASE HAVE HER CALL US.................

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
84. Great news! This sounds like at least that problem is now solved.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 11:52 AM
Aug 2015

Surely she will take you up on that generous offer. I hope to read an update soon.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
87. This is great!!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:02 PM
Aug 2015

I hope you saw up above where he was kicking this before work. So, it may be awhile before you hear back.

Kudos to you and your ex!

catrose

(5,075 posts)
115. Wonderful!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 02:06 PM
Aug 2015

Kicking for viz.

You & ex are the best. I was prepared to donate to the rescue for Yoshi, but I'm happy to send something your way.

PearliePoo2

(7,768 posts)
98. Yeah!
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:37 PM
Aug 2015

Will you accept some donations to help with Yoshi's care?
Please keep everyone posted with how this turns out.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
110. That tugs my heart strings
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 01:29 PM
Aug 2015

I'm trying to keep my tears in. Thsnk your for having a kind and generous spirit.

PearliePoo2

(7,768 posts)
97. Does TTW have a cell phone that is currently working?
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:33 PM
Aug 2015

Is her phone pay as you go?
You also said that her computer is infected with a virus. I'd be happy to send her a little money to get that thing cleaned up but I can't until next week on payday. (the 10th)

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
100. TTW can go to any library for internet access or to use a computer.
Sun Aug 2, 2015, 12:39 PM
Aug 2015

Maybe she is unaware of that, so perhaps you could let her know.

Response to Moosepoop (Original post)

herding cats

(19,568 posts)
131. Just so everyone sees it -- **UPDATE** -- Yoshi is safe!
Mon Aug 3, 2015, 10:07 PM
Aug 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027036403#post102

All thanks go to Moosepoop for bringing this to everyone's attention and DUer msanthrope and her ex. I'm not sure if her ex is a Duer or not, but they are a kind heart either way!

Best wishes to TTW. I've been down before, too. At least now Yoshi is safe!

DawgHouse

(4,019 posts)
140. Yeah, it sounds like a horrendous place.
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:54 PM
Aug 2015

If they are keeping large dogs in small crates and withholding water, they are abusing the animals. I am glad that Yoshi made it out okay but the other pet owners who use this "doggie day care" may have NO idea that they are being neglected and are in a dangerous situation.

They were obviously trying to hide their negligence by bringing Yoshi outside, etc. This is a serious issue and TTW was worried that Yoshi was being tortured to death and was going to die there. For the sake of the other animals there, this "day care" needs to be reported. ASAP.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
141. I agree, and I'm hoping that one of the posters involved in the rescue
Tue Aug 4, 2015, 06:57 PM
Aug 2015

will let us know the name of this place.

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