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niyad

(113,336 posts)
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:12 PM Jul 2015

Naomi Wolf misses the point about 'vocal fry'. It's just an excuse not to listen to women

Naomi Wolf misses the point about 'vocal fry'. It's just an excuse not to listen to women

Let’s face it – it’s not women’s voices that are annoying, it’s the fact they’re speaking. Stop telling women how to speak and just listen to them.

‘When Naomi Wolf urges women to change their vocal patterns to regain their strength, she merely addressed a symptom.’ Photograph: viewpress Vp / Demotix/viewpress Vp/Demotix/Corbis



The first time I ever even noticed vocal fry was when someone was complaining about vocal fry. It was in an episode of the radio show This American Life. Apparently, listeners had been calling in to complain about about some of the younger female presenters’ speaking voices. Apparently, they were making a croaky sound when speaking. I had never even noticed it.

But since I heard about it, I’ve been paying attention, and I have observed as many young men doing it as young women. There is ample evidence that shows men do it too. But you’d never know that from all the moralising and hypothesising about young women and vocal fry.


Vocal fry is not a problem. It is merely another excuse to dismiss, ignore and marginalise women’s voices, both literally and figuratively. And it’s just the latest in a long history of finding excuses not to listen to what women, especially young women, say. The rejection of women’s literal voices is not a new phenomenon. Before vocal fry, there were complaints about overuse of the word “like”. Before that, there was upspeak. Even the mere sound of women’s voices is used as an excuse to dismiss women.

. . . .

All of this brings to mind Claudine Herrmann’s The Tongue Snatchers, which suggests that language itself is constructed in a way that marginalises women. It describes the two options usually available to women: to either be silent or to adopt the dominant language of men. But even when we adopt and adapt, there are always excuses not to listen, representing the no win situation women are faced with. When they speak with assertiveness, they’re bossy or aggressive, even “bitchy”. Vocal fry is merely the most recent excuse not to listen to women.

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http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jul/28/naomi-wolf-misses-the-point-about-vocal-fry-its-just-an-excuse-not-to-listen-to-women

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Naomi Wolf misses the point about 'vocal fry'. It's just an excuse not to listen to women (Original Post) niyad Jul 2015 OP
Vocal fry is like uptalk. Igel Jul 2015 #1
I had never heard of it before a mention on du some time back, nor have I ever heard anyone niyad Jul 2015 #2
There's a woman that I work with that does this AnnieBW Jul 2015 #4
I really can't stand uptalking? backscatter712 Jul 2015 #12
I wonder if Erin Riley sees a sexist jesus in her morning toast. PSPS Jul 2015 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Jul 2015 #10
Horseshit! El Supremo Jul 2015 #5
It's like chalk screeching on a blackboard dem in texas Jul 2015 #6
I'm a voice teacher teenagebambam Jul 2015 #7
I have been bothered a lot by young people who drop vanlassie Jul 2015 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Jul 2015 #9
It's not a conspiracy to keep women down; it's annoying ram2008 Jul 2015 #11
It's basically Valley Girl talk ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2015 #13

Igel

(35,320 posts)
1. Vocal fry is like uptalk.
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:30 PM
Jul 2015

It's an affectation and it has a certain social stigma in some circles and a certain prestige in others. Like uptalk, it's not necessary and like uptalk it spread from a fairly well defined center. It often connotes group affiliation.

It pays to note that language isn't just a linguistic phenomenon, it's also a social one. Lots of DUers assume a Southern and certainly an Appalachian accent is a sign of poor education; "nukyular" is a byword for Bush II's stupidity (we'll leave aside that Carter often lapsed into that pronunciation--it's just colloquial Southern). Some first-dialect traits hang in there. I still have traces of Northern Cities vowel shift in my speech and probably will until I die. When I lived in the Southland and picked up uptalk and tried it out with friends and family from other parts of the country; it was amusing, to be honest, seeing how clear cut the judgments were even when people didn't know why they formed the judgments. Social judgments over group affiliations tend to be immediate and unconscious.

Nonetheless, when you boast your group affiliation you're going to be judged by the group you choose to affiliate yourself with. You go to the prom wearing a burqa when you're not usually seen wearing one, it sends a message. Disclaiming responsibility for the message is disingenuous. Or naive. It comes from belonging to human communities.

Under certain circumstances, you really have no control over creak and fry. If you relax your vocal folds enough because of low pulmonic pressure or because you're trying for too low a pitch, for instance. Some languages make use of creak extensively (and we sometimes substitute creak for glottal stops).

niyad

(113,336 posts)
2. I had never heard of it before a mention on du some time back, nor have I ever heard anyone
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:32 PM
Jul 2015

speaking in that fashion.

AnnieBW

(10,429 posts)
4. There's a woman that I work with that does this
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:43 PM
Jul 2015

She has a very high-pitched voice anyway, and she uptalks ALL OF THE TIME. It's very annoying, and (IMHO) makes her sound like either a child or a people-pleaser. I never really realized how grating that can be until she started to work with us. I don't want to say anything to her, but her tone is really getting on my nerves.

I hate to rag on this woman, because I'm sure that she's very smart and capable. But a lot of times, women aren't coached on how to speak professionally. Maybe her tone changes when she's more comfortable around her co-workers.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
12. I really can't stand uptalking?
Tue Jul 28, 2015, 01:43 AM
Jul 2015

It makes every sentence sound like a question? And uptalking makes you sound like a bubblehead?

Response to PSPS (Reply #3)

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
6. It's like chalk screeching on a blackboard
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 10:53 PM
Jul 2015

I noticed it, always in women, but did not know it was called "vocal fry" until I read an article about it. There is a local woman radio announcer who is the worst. I have never heard a man talk this way, but I am going to pay close attention and see if I do.

After I read about it and I understood that this was the weird way women were talking, I tried to talk that way too. It is easy to do, but that was my one and only effort, I will never, ever do that again.


I have been a woman boss and been called bossy and a bitch when I asserted by authority. So what. I never had anyone say it to my face. If they did, they'd got a lot more from me than "vocal fry".

teenagebambam

(1,592 posts)
7. I'm a voice teacher
Mon Jul 27, 2015, 11:09 PM
Jul 2015

Vocal fry is very damaging to long term vocal health and is epidemic in both sexes, at least on college campuses.

vanlassie

(5,675 posts)
8. I have been bothered a lot by young people who drop
Tue Jul 28, 2015, 12:43 AM
Jul 2015

The "T" sound from words.
Instead of: Mar-tin, they say: Mar-EN.
I think it is a result of hip hop chanting. I don't know. But it sounds terrible.

Response to niyad (Original post)

ram2008

(1,238 posts)
11. It's not a conspiracy to keep women down; it's annoying
Tue Jul 28, 2015, 01:30 AM
Jul 2015

And men do it as well. Very common here in NY.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
13. It's basically Valley Girl talk
Tue Jul 28, 2015, 02:43 AM
Jul 2015

And it's been mocked for almost 40 years, but has had a reverse psychological effect on younger people who think it's cool. Kim Kardashian is a perfect example of it.

I love how Aubrey Plaza and June Diane Raphael mock it though......

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