A Letter from a White South African to White Americans
Long, but well worth the time.
http://bronlea.com/2015/06/18/a-letter-from-a-white-south-african-to-white-americans/
To you, beloved Americans, I offer this humble suggestion: please learn something from South Africas history in the current crisis? Read Alan Patons Cry, The Beloved Country. Read Nelson Mandelas Long Walk to Freedom. Consider Desmond Tutus words and example. Read Michael Cassidy. Read about the Truth and Reconciliation Commission. Listen to what happened (and how the church responded) when a group of terrorists walked into St James Church and massacred the worshippers there in 1993.
Listen to the stories of the white families around you who are adopting black children, and are learning in their own families about how their darker skinned children are treated differently to their white ones (like Jen Hatmaker, Karen Yates, and Kristen Howerton). Listen to the words of writers like Austin Channing, and Osheta, who are seeking to be peacemakers (not trouble causers) by telling the stories we need to hear about race. Acknowledge that if you are white, you have no idea what its like to be not-white.
Can I also gently say that you are not going to hear the stories that will move you towards grace and better understanding if you are exclusively watching FOX news. (Or reading Matt Walsh.) South African would never have been able to move forward if we all just kept listening to the people we had always listened to. We need to read and listen outside of our little circles. It was really only when I had finished law school and was at seminary, side by side with South Africans from every race group, and people were sharing their testimonies of growing up that the penny really began to drop for me. Im still trying to listen. Its hard. God knows, I want to be a better listener than Ive been.