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MohRokTah

(15,429 posts)
1. That's about the propensity of younger members of Facebook to accept all friend requests.
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 03:53 PM
Jun 2015

Many are judged by the number of Facebook friends they have, so friending all sorts of people you do not even know is fashionable.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. True, and especially true of classmates. Hell, even for us older folk!
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 03:57 PM
Jun 2015

Pretty much anyone in my high school who even recognizes my name will try to friend me on Facebook, even if we never spoke a word to each other while in school. It's kind of fascinating, seeing their friends lists and seeing every person you went to HS with, all in one clique for the first time.

But it certainly doesn't make them "friends".

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
2. Yeah and now everyone is trying to say they don't know him
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 03:56 PM
Jun 2015

Lol. Yeah right. You don't accept Facebook Friends you don't know. Silly excuses I am seeing. I get a bunch of requests on Facebook that I don't know who they are and I either leave unanswered (14 right now) or say no.

 

think

(11,641 posts)
5. If you play games on Facebook some games make it so if you to expand your friend list you do better
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 04:03 PM
Jun 2015

in the game.

I played Mafia wars for awhile and added thousands of gaming "friends".

Now that I don't play it's kind of a drag as it takes long to delete all these people and you run the risk of losing business & other contacts you want to keep.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
8. Ok I take back my previous post completely
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 05:16 PM
Jun 2015

I don't play the games so I didn't realize that was another part of Facebook....I know about the games but adding friends to enhance the game I did not realize. Thanks for your post which really changes my mind on this.

 

think

(11,641 posts)
9. Most welcome. It's not something you'd know if you don't play the games.
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 05:34 PM
Jun 2015

But that's why so many people send those annoying game requests to their friends

Spazito

(50,375 posts)
4. Friends lists don't mean actual friends...
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 03:59 PM
Jun 2015

In this case, some of those on the list say they knew him from school and are NOT friends of his. I know from my own adult children who are on facebook will accept a friend request if they knew the person from their school days even if they were not actual friends in the real sense of the word.

Igel

(35,320 posts)
6. I think the question remains.
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 04:43 PM
Jun 2015

If you're openly racist in school, it's not like people are going to think, "You know, three years ago that Roof fellow was a real racist asshole. I think I'll friend him, even after what he called me."

And I'm not sure most people who really think blacks are the scum of the Earth would want them as friends. I mean, one way of snubbing people is to unfriend them or decline them. Or ignore them. In my brief FB phase I got lots of requests from people I really had no interest in and just ignored them. (Yeah, I could see some deranged person saying, "Ha, I'll friend them and put them at ease, all the while showing them my evil, nefarious plans for racial genocide." Let's say it's a statistical thing: While I can see somebody doing that, I can't see the majority of deranged, hate- and rage-driven maniacal killers doing that.)

I also have trouble thinking his reasoning would go, "Well, I intend to kill a bunch of them, but I don't want to hurt their feelings."

I'll await word on the triggering event or events that led to his immediate actions. "A long history of societal influences" is true for millions of people, but millions of people didn't descend upon that particular AME church Wednesday night.

Spazito

(50,375 posts)
7. Await away...
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 04:53 PM
Jun 2015

Young people accept friend requests for all kinds of reasons, some as simple as wanting to show a large number on their friends list while never once actually facebook with them.

He is a murderous rabid racist supporter of white supremacism with killed with intent to terrorize as well. I don't need to 'wait' to know that.



Ex Lurker

(3,815 posts)
10. If it's the same one I looked at, I believe it's a different Dylan Root
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 05:40 PM
Jun 2015

There are several by that name on social media. I hope they don't catchy any misdirected hostility.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
11. You sure it's the right page?
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 05:40 PM
Jun 2015

Believe it or not, there's another Dylan (one 'n') Roof in the same town who, naturally, has been taking all kinds of crap on social media today.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026857431#post26

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
12. Yes, it was the right page.
Thu Jun 18, 2015, 06:48 PM
Jun 2015

Had his scowling little hateful face and wearing the jacket with the apartheid patch(s) as the profile pic. His page has apparently been taken down now, and good riddance.

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