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MANKATO, Minn. - All the students at Franklin Elementary start every day with the Pledge of Allegiance.
But the "justice for all" part belongs to five fifth grade boys.
"Why pick on someone," Jack Pemble begins to ask, as Jake Burgess finishes his question, "who has special needs?"
They're talking about James Willmert, a fifth-grader from another classroom, with a learning disability. Which, it turns out, can get a guy teased.
Jack and Jake had seen it happening on the playground while hanging out with their friends Gus Gartzke, Tyler Jones and Landon Kopischke.
"They were like, using him and taking advantage of him," Jake explains. "Because he's easier to pick on and it's just not right," Jack adds.
http://www.kare11.com/story/news/local/land-of-10000-stories/2015/05/31/mankato-franklin-elementary-bullying-fifth-graders/28260465/
malthaussen
(17,216 posts)In a similar situation too many years ago to count, only I took action (and the subsequent fight saw me -- not him -- visit with the Board of Education. Well, after all, I started it)
-- Mal
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)this gives me hope. good parents = good kids sometimes.
tblue
(16,350 posts)The anti-bullies--we need more of them!
Shrek
(3,983 posts)So cool that they did it in such a positive and uplifting way.
Aristus
(66,446 posts)who very likely won't be raised with the attitude: "Ah, bullying just prepares a child for the harsh realities of adult life!"
When increasing numbers in the succeeding generations understand that bullying is wrong, it will start to decrease by exponential rates.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)took me back. And the bullies slunk back to where they belong...quiet and were disciplined in a good way.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)forward to a world led by young people like this.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)because it lifts the public school system back up in people's eyes. I'll tell you, that's a big reason the Charter School movement has grown...now perhaps too much, IMO...but schools have been somewhat hamstrung by all manner of difficulties. Thankfully, this is amazing. Those boys all have learned powerful, life-long lessons in Leadership. And getting to be on TV...how great is that?
niyad
(113,532 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)For a change.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)FlatBaroque
(3,160 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,999 posts)Thank you! It lifts my heart
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)while watching the video. Those parents should be very proud of their kids.
bluestateguy
(44,173 posts)Junior year. This one loser kid that nobody like picked on and mocked and this one girl. The problem for him was that this girl was pretty, popular and all the boys wanted to get into her pants. She was a cheerleader. I remember seeing this kid's bullying of her and thinking how stupid he was.
All the football players who were eager to gain her favor were lining up for the chance to kick this loser's ass.
One day the loser bully showed up to school with scars, a black eye and limping. It was obvious what had happened. The football players were not punished.
I know it's a different kind of story than the story above, but I just felt like telling it.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)x-posting to the good news group
Thespian2
(2,741 posts)AWESOME!!!
Some parents have done an exceptional job of raising boys...Everyone of the boys and their parents deserve accolades...
polly7
(20,582 posts)cui bono
(19,926 posts)Tikki
(14,559 posts)a regular ed class for story-time and this one boy in the preschool class would literally scream and cry if I sat
my student anywhere near him.
The regular ed boy's mother felt hopeless; she couldn't figure out why her son was being so
insensitive.
We worked out a program where other children in the class would play and work on activities with my student
at different times during the day.
In less than a month the boy from the story-time class would ask to come to our playground a few times
a month to play with all the children in our class. He was very kind to all our class.
He would ask question about disabilities.
This time learning about others made a real victory.
Tikki
tblue37
(65,483 posts)ananda
(28,874 posts)I cried throughout the reading.
It was so touching.
More.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)local and regional Emmys for stories like this one. You should watch the video.
To see this story and other feature syories that are frequently heart warming, do a search for "KARE 11 Land of 10,000 Stories". (I'm on a phone, otherwise I would give you a link.)
cui bono
(19,926 posts)It's a tearjerker for sure.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)Yes, the bullies will pick on them first because many of them cannot defend themselves. I do not mean by fighting, but simply using their words to defend themselves verbally.
That was happening to my own daughter many years ago until one very big 6 year old boy put a stop to it. "R----- is my friend". "You pick on her and you will have to come through me first". She was left alone after that until she learned to use her words to defend herself.
We have seen this recently with HS Athletes standing up to bullies and defending the special needs kids. Nice to see that younger kids are doing the same.
Snobblevitch
(1,958 posts)in Kenosha, Wisconson went into the stands during a timeout in their game to tell a fan (another kid) to stop verbally harrassing one of their cheerleaders. She has Downs and it changed her life. They named the gym after her.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)hunter
(38,325 posts)It's so very different than my childhood when I'd get beaten bloody and then some so-called "responsible adult" would blame me and lecture me on how to be a "man."
Yep, that's right, all I had to do as a skinny, squeaky, clumsy, highly reactive, chew-toy autistic spectrum kid all the bullies called "queerbait," was to act like a "man."
Hell, I had no manly hair anywhere yet. I was a late blooming twelve year old, still just fuzzy at seventeen when my dad bought me a Norelco electric shaver at Christmas, maybe because he felt sorry for me, so I could pretend to shave.
I've never developed the shaving habit. Shaving, all I get for my trouble is an explosion of zits and ingrown hairs. It works better to set buzzcut to five, everything above my collarbones. Not much hair beneath still, and I sacrificed my left testicle too.
I quit high school for college. Adults who assault minors go to jail. I liked college. Nobody assaulted me.
My middle and high school experiences were not good. Whenever it got too bad I'd just leave. Jump the fence, skip school. School administrators had as much trouble with my mom as they did with me. "I'm sure he'll be home for dinner" was what she'd say, and that was mostly true before I was sixteen and didn't always come home.
Not so much true for three of my siblings who declared themselves adult at sixteen, hell no, not by any law, but as their natural rights as human beings.
We minors in college had a one unit class each semester telling us how to cope. I had a couple of professors who were clearly very uncomfortable with minor age students, especially in classes that involved fieldwork where people would jump into a lake, river, or ocean naked after a hard day's work. These teachers did not want to be babysitters. But I would not have been comfortable with any teacher who did.
One of my prouder moments in high school is nothing to be proud about.
I got shoved aside once by one of my usual tormentors between classes as he said "Get out of my way, queerbait." This was the same kid who'd assaulted me a few times on the school bus, so I rode my bike to school after that, and then he'd spit on my bike seat. That day I noticed the vice principal noticing us, so I quietly said, "You want me..." and he knocked me to the ground and beat on me, kicking my face. I did not fight back.
We both got the same amount of trouble. I'd provoked him, although officially the provocation was never asked or recorded.
The funny part of the story is the postscript. I was walking with my wife one day and he comes along arm-in-arm with a woman twenty years his senior, her boy toy. We talked like old friends. I like to think it's still working out for them, but for my own sanity I avoid my "home town" social networks.
Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)Im so sorry you had to endure such awful abuse.
calimary
(81,441 posts)Those boys will make fine husbands and fathers someday. Compassion and empathy are worth having AND showing off!
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I wonder if more teachers/administrators can enlist the help of kids to protect/befriend others. In middle school the principal asked my son to sort of take a new kid under his wing. The boy had just moved to town and didn't have anyone to eat lunch with. My son became his friend and years later "the new kid" is one of the most popular kids in his high school class, with many friends. I'm sure my son felt special being asked to take on such a role. If more kids were asked specifically to do these types of things, it could cut down significantly on bullying.
madfloridian
(88,117 posts)Before I retired several of us worked up our own anti-bullying system. We talked each day about ways to step in and stop bullying. We began to see wonders.
Dustlawyer
(10,497 posts)Last Saturday. I hope there are kids like these around for him!
KT2000
(20,586 posts)as these special boys have proven.
midnight
(26,624 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Nitram
(22,861 posts)malaise
(269,157 posts)Lovely
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)be interviewing these boys today around noon EST