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sheshe2

(83,951 posts)
Wed Apr 29, 2015, 09:40 PM Apr 2015

We Celebrated That Mother in Baltimore. Now, Are We Willing to Face Our Own Hypocrisy?

Very good read.

I remember the day she beat him with a broomstick.

My oldest brother Donnie had been caught hanging out on the corner with the “wrong crowd,” puffing on the filtered butt of a Kool cigarette. He was 14, some nine years older than me, and already stood much taller than our mother. She couldn’t have been more than five feet tall, weighing all but 90 pounds.

The year was 1973.

My father was murdered a few months later and, I suppose, Mama was afraid that her first-born son was traveling the same road. She would’ve done anything to save his life. That I know for sure.

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We lived in East St. Louis, Illinois then, a township known even to this day for its debilitating poverty and pervasive, violent crime. The distance between the schoolhouse and the jailhouse was not long, even then. Too many of my friends left in the back of a hearse, in a casket surrounded by flowers.

My mother, a young divorcee raising children on her own, never received formal child support and was too ashamed to go to down to the welfare office. She worked double-shifts as a cocktail waitress at a hotel near the St. Louis airport—some 20 miles away, which made it harder to see after her children. After taxes on her meager tips, her paycheck sometimes read “zero dollars.” She retired from that same company after 37 years, having worked her way into management, without a pension. Her 401 (k) was drained over the years. Much of it was spent bailing my brothers out of jail.

Read more: http://bluenationreview.com/we-celebrated-that-mother-in-baltimore-now-are-we-willing-to-face-our-own-hypocrisy/#ixzz3Yki2KStb

Do not judge unless you have been there.

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We Celebrated That Mother in Baltimore. Now, Are We Willing to Face Our Own Hypocrisy? (Original Post) sheshe2 Apr 2015 OP
The wingnuts will/have abandon her now they know she's a single parent n/t UTUSN Apr 2015 #1
I try not to, my own parenting skills have faced judgement yet without true knowledge AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #2
Can you even wrap your mind around this: brer cat Apr 2015 #3

brer cat

(24,624 posts)
3. Can you even wrap your mind around this:
Thu Apr 30, 2015, 07:05 AM
Apr 2015

"My parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and anyone else within earshot, raised me with strong hands. But there is, I should tell you, no man alive today in my immediate family who was born before 1986. For every one of them lost, to the grave or to a prison, there is a weeping mother who mourns for him." [emphasis mine]

Most of us probably cannot even begin to conceive the stark fear those mothers (and fathers) live with day after day after day.


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