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edhopper

(33,591 posts)
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:06 PM May 2012

Can we ban "Romney would be worse" from our discussions on DU?

Of course he would, we all know that and close to 100% of us here are voting for Obama.
But when we are criticizing the Pres. on a legitimate topic like Med. Marijuana or Gay Rights, "Romney would be worse" is irrelevant.

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Can we ban "Romney would be worse" from our discussions on DU? (Original Post) edhopper May 2012 OP
It's not irrelevant jeff47 May 2012 #1
No, Sir, It is Not Irrelevant: It Is The Deciding Fact Of the General Election The Magistrate May 2012 #2
+1,000,000. TheWraith May 2012 #69
It Certainly Does Here, Sir, With 'First Past the Post' Standards The Magistrate May 2012 #72
Hell no! We need to bang on that like a gong, every day. bemildred May 2012 #3
I made that statement about two or three days ago Aerows May 2012 #4
Exactly -- since the real issue is, "Why is Obama as bad as he is?" on the given issue villager May 2012 #5
why is irrelevant? You didn't give ONE reason. and because YOU say so cali May 2012 #6
I believe the OP is talking about it's use to belittle people in regards to issues Marrah_G May 2012 #34
"Not as bad" is a popular campaign slogan for both of the establishment parties. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2012 #7
it's a political reality bigtree May 2012 #20
"..functionally irrelevant choice.." Tierra_y_Libertad May 2012 #23
I can see the reasoning in voting that way bigtree May 2012 #24
Significance is what I'm talking about. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2012 #27
it's not as if outcomes are automatic bigtree May 2012 #37
Actually, red or blue states. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2012 #49
thanks for your answer, Tierra_y_Libertad bigtree May 2012 #52
Thank you for the discussion. Tierra_y_Libertad May 2012 #56
some people believe the courage of their convictions.. frylock May 2012 #45
so you're convinced that only folks who vote for candidates other than the nominees are sincere bigtree May 2012 #50
that's the only thing left to say to perfectionists treestar May 2012 #29
I don't like your approach to this issue, Nye Bevan May 2012 #8
yep, its already tired quinnox May 2012 #9
Suffering from 'Romney would be worse' fatigue? randome May 2012 #10
ban???? as in censor? DrDan May 2012 #11
Do we not want to talk about facts? liberal N proud May 2012 #12
Romney's spokesperson just said CJCRANE May 2012 #13
i don't think the future of the nation is irrelevant spanone May 2012 #14
NO! What other indisputable fact would you like to ban? n/t wandy May 2012 #15
Like to ban speech, do you? DevonRex May 2012 #16
Curious, eh?...nt SidDithers May 2012 #33
that's always been the nature of our politics bigtree May 2012 #17
I wish that some of the folks here edhopper May 2012 #18
you're still not understanding bigtree May 2012 #22
When Obama attacks edhopper May 2012 #26
actually, on those issues bigtree May 2012 #43
And that excuses Obama edhopper May 2012 #73
What you obviously fail to comprehend is the fact that when you question PBO's Vincardog May 2012 #40
nailed it frylock May 2012 #47
. Capt. Obvious May 2012 #19
the other problem is people are looking at everything through the elections prism quinnox May 2012 #21
I think it would be more relevant... RevStPatrick May 2012 #25
Nnnnnnope cherokeeprogressive May 2012 #28
No. Too bad if you don't like it, but it's a legitimate response... SidDithers May 2012 #30
I could not agree more Marrah_G May 2012 #31
"Lesser of two evils" ProSense May 2012 #32
It reminds me of Civil War doctors discussing gangrene and amputation. rug May 2012 #35
It reminds me of whining. n/t ProSense May 2012 #38
That doesn't surprise me. rug May 2012 #44
You know, ProSense May 2012 #51
What words do I demand be banned? rug May 2012 #55
My bad ProSense May 2012 #57
Was it too subtle? rug May 2012 #58
The OP ProSense May 2012 #60
No, only about 83,525 would. rug May 2012 #61
So ProSense May 2012 #62
The OP doesn't need justification. rug May 2012 #64
Wow ProSense May 2012 #66
Oh, I can give you a tighter definition. rug May 2012 #68
I wasn't edhopper May 2012 #75
Read my response #18 edhopper May 2012 #74
I think the answer is no. GeorgeGist May 2012 #36
I agree...people think this is a legitimate argument... joeybee12 May 2012 #39
I'm waiting for some one to create the "Progressive Prez 2016" group on DU. JoePhilly May 2012 #63
It would be great if it wasn't thrown out there jp11 May 2012 #41
Or you could, you know, just respond to the person if you feel their argument is flawed. NYC Liberal May 2012 #42
No, we can't ban things you don't like. JNelson6563 May 2012 #46
Gay rights? frankly I don't know of any president who has done more for gay rights than Obama. WI_DEM May 2012 #48
Why don't you just post a list of all the things you want banned at DU? NNN0LHI May 2012 #53
Unless the question is, "What kind of car elevator should I buy?", then Romney would be worse. FSogol May 2012 #54
+1, bashers can so they're taking away the comparison cutter uponit7771 May 2012 #59
No, I don't think that's a very good idea at all. MineralMan May 2012 #65
Romney would be worse is a way of ignoring an issue, so I sympathize with you. mmonk May 2012 #67
What are you SMOKING? Worst NONSEQUITUR I've ever heard. ProgressiveEconomist May 2012 #70
There are many posters on the DU who cannot stand any complaints of Obama. It is really odd to me. Logical May 2012 #71

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
1. It's not irrelevant
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:09 PM
May 2012

Given the position third parties hold in our current system, we have a choice of exactly two people in the upcoming presidential election. So "Romney would be worse" is quite relevant.

TheWraith

(24,331 posts)
69. +1,000,000.
Mon May 7, 2012, 05:23 PM
May 2012

Exactly. Politics boils down to a zero-sum equation: either they win, or we win. There's no other way around that, really.

bemildred

(90,061 posts)
3. Hell no! We need to bang on that like a gong, every day.
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:17 PM
May 2012

Such an easy weapon to use, too, he doesn't even try to hide it.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
4. I made that statement about two or three days ago
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:17 PM
May 2012

And I don't think it is an irrelevant point at all. Obama isn't perfect, and I have criticized his decisions on certain topics. That doesn't mean I don't support him, because I do. The number one reason I support him is because I think at heart, he's a good man. The number two reason I support him is because I think Romney would be worse.

Those are both valid points, imho.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
5. Exactly -- since the real issue is, "Why is Obama as bad as he is?" on the given issue
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:19 PM
May 2012

Puzzlingly continuing terrible GOP policies, sometimes making the worse, etc...

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
6. why is irrelevant? You didn't give ONE reason. and because YOU say so
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:19 PM
May 2012

doesn't count.

It's not even a little irrelevant. Why? Because we have a choice between Rmoney and President Obama.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
34. I believe the OP is talking about it's use to belittle people in regards to issues
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:51 PM
May 2012

Example:

Poster 1: "I am so pissed off that the WH is retracting statements that seemed as if they were going to finally support gay marriage. So much for being a fierce advocate"
Poster 2: "I hope you enjoy President Rmoney then"

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
7. "Not as bad" is a popular campaign slogan for both of the establishment parties.
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:21 PM
May 2012

Or, more concisely, both wings of the Establishment Party.

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
20. it's a political reality
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:40 PM
May 2012

. . . at some point you either choose between the two candidates, or you make a functionally irrelevant choice (at least in the contest in which you're voting). The ultimate consequences of that choice are markedly different for each of the two candidates chosen. Folks pretending they aren't demonstrate a remarkably weak understanding of our political system of government.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
23. "..functionally irrelevant choice.."
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:47 PM
May 2012

I have voted in 22 federal elections. In each and every one, my vote was "functionally irrelevant" in that the outcome of each of those elections would have turned out the same no matter how I voted.

Perhaps you've had a different experience?

“Always vote for principle, though you may vote alone, you may cherish the sweetest reflection that your vote is never lost." John Quincy Adams

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
24. I can see the reasoning in voting that way
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:54 PM
May 2012

I just don't see any significant effect of such a vote (for good or bad, as you say).

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
27. Significance is what I'm talking about.
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:12 PM
May 2012

I've long since given up any delusions that the way I vote is going to be "significant' to anyone other than myself. We have a government that is devoted to maintaining itself in power and considers that to be it's most important function.

I'm no longer convinced that my vote is going decide the make-up of the Supreme Court, stop wars, decide whether women have the right to choose, or anything else. Time has proven that either political party will accommodate virtually any position in order to win an election.

I view elections on the federal level as a charade to convince us that we actually have a voice in what the powerful do.

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
37. it's not as if outcomes are automatic
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:55 PM
May 2012

There may well be undue influence on our national legislature from interests removed from what voters actually want. but, the process and agenda isn't an automatic one. The ultimate decisions Congress makes isn't a compactly insulated process. Their actions are guided in many ways by the support or advocacy that Americans provide with their votes and their activism. We can certainly argue that there isn't enough of an influence from that voting public, but there is no way that a Congress left to its own design and will is going to produce the same result as it does as a result of our input from the outside.

Now, I can understand that folks in reliably blue states can sometimes afford to make other choices on their ballots and not risk that there will be a majority of votes making things worse than they would be by allowing the advancement of a republican candidate. But that's different from the suggestion that there's no influence at all in the votes of folks in the vast majority of the nation where these races are competitive.

Of course, those votes don't automatically solve anything. We still need to be active to ensure that our voices are heard at appropriations time. That's the nature of our democracy that there's a deliberative process after we vote which isn't assured or guaranteed. We can't just ignore the fact that there are myriads of disparate and diverse interests from around the nation which need to be reconciled if there is to be any advancement of initiatives or ideals into action or law. That's not going to be an easy or assured process, no matter what the level of integrity is among legislators.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
49. Actually, red or blue states.
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:31 PM
May 2012

If I were living in Mississippi or Idaho, rather than in Washington, and voted Democratic or Republican, or neither, the result would be the same. And, I could argue that in a purple state, my vote wouldn't make a difference in the outcome.

I agree about the "activism" and contend that it is likely to accomplish more than voting. But, even that is rigged by the fact that the "activism" of corporations and their minions (which frequently include politicians of both parties) is even much more likely to have an effect.

The problem the two-party system is that it has the power to keep itself in power by making electoral laws that are designed to do so. I use the singular for the "two parties" on purpose. Both of the establishment parties are able maintain their supremacy by colluding together to guarantee it.

You spoke of the political "reality" of the current system. So am I. It is what it is. However, I don't think any resemblance that it has to democracy is, at best, tenuous. Nor do I feel compelled to support it by participating in an obviously fixed game.

Will my possible vote for a third party change it. No. Will your sure vote for an establishment party change it? No.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
45. some people believe the courage of their convictions..
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:26 PM
May 2012

trumps the real cool feeling one may experience in belonging to a winning team.

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
50. so you're convinced that only folks who vote for candidates other than the nominees are sincere
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:31 PM
May 2012

. . . everyone else is just trying to be 'cool?'

Where is this one-dimensional world you're referring to?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
29. that's the only thing left to say to perfectionists
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:41 PM
May 2012

Now this thread is all about people who still want to carp during the election season! As if that will help anyone! It's bound to be a damper on things. Perfectionists always are.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
9. yep, its already tired
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:22 PM
May 2012

Its probably meant to imply you must be for Romney then if you are not pleased with whatever the issue being discussed happens to be. Pretty lame.

liberal N proud

(60,338 posts)
12. Do we not want to talk about facts?
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:30 PM
May 2012

The fact is, no matter what the topic, Romney would be worse.

He would be worse that a dead mouse in the White House.

edhopper

(33,591 posts)
18. I wish that some of the folks here
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:36 PM
May 2012

would have read my entire post. It would be obvious that I was talking about specific subjects where the Pres. has made what one might consider a bed decision. NOT about the election in general. Defending the Pres. by simply saying "Romney would be worse", seems to beg the issue and avoid the crux.

Also for those literalists here. I use the term "ban" metaphorically. As in retire it as a useless point. a self censorship if you will.

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
22. you're still not understanding
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:46 PM
May 2012

In our political system, our president doesn't often get to act unilaterally. Even unilateral moves can draw a corrective response from the legislature. Ignoring or dismissing the degree that each party leader would affect that political process is profoundly misleading. There is certainly merit in pointing out how tenuous the support in our legislature can be for issues and initiatives and how different the outcome would be if there was a republican in the White House directing and influencing that political process.

edhopper

(33,591 posts)
26. When Obama attacks
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:01 PM
May 2012

Medical Marijuana at a more fervent pace than his GOP predecessor, "Romney would be worse" is a poor response.
His lack of support for Gay Marriage is another. It's not what he can do, it is where he stands. And when he is wrong, "RWBW" is a non-rebuttle.

You seem to not understand that.

bigtree

(85,999 posts)
43. actually, on those issues
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:05 PM
May 2012

Romney would be worse. It really doesn't matter, though, if you personally get that. what is, is. And, what will be, will be.

Vincardog

(20,234 posts)
40. What you obviously fail to comprehend is the fact that when you question PBO's
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:59 PM
May 2012

lack of coherence on policy or social stands you are pointing out how undemocratic his positions are.
This calls into question the direction of the Democratic "leadership" and might imperil their quest for corporate donations.
We all know that every politicians' primary function is to get "contributions" to facilitate their reelection.

When you (or I) point out the inconsistencies and demand that the elected politician be responsible to the voters' concerns
you (and I) are interfering with the consolidation of the economic Royals control over political process.

The quickest way to short cut this obstruction by democratic principles is to say "He is better than RMoney".

That is why we are not allowed to discuss the real issues facing us.

If we did we would be forced to consider and implement real radical changes that threaten the established power base.

That is why Liberal (AKA forward looking) positions are to be shut down PDQ in favor of Conservative (established power sustaining)
Positions and discussions.

I hope this helps you understand the opposition to your request.

Cheers

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
21. the other problem is people are looking at everything through the elections prism
Mon May 7, 2012, 01:45 PM
May 2012

I thought thats what the Politics 2012 forum was supposed to be for, people who want to talk about and look at all things using the upcoming election as a backdrop and focus. And general discussion would be for discussions more in-depth and generalized, and not always seen with "election fever" on the brain.

 

RevStPatrick

(2,208 posts)
25. I think it would be more relevant...
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:00 PM
May 2012

...to ban people saying that we should ban people from saying something that some people think is irrelevant.

Or maybe we should just not ban people from saying anything?

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
31. I could not agree more
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:45 PM
May 2012

I put people who use that line or lines like it on ignore. They think they are helping the president but in reality they just alienate people.

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
32. "Lesser of two evils"
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:47 PM
May 2012
HRC President Stresses Romney’s Anti-Gay Rights Positions

Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese stressed that President Obama and Mitt Romney are far apart on gay rights on MSNBC’s “Andrea Mitchell Reports” Monday. Though Solmonese would like to see Obama be more forceful on gay rights, he stressed Obama’s accomplishments to expand rights, and how far ahead of Romney those actions are.

We’re going to step into a big trap if we get all focused on the distinction between the vice president’s words and the president’s and don’t focus on the difference between Barack Obama and Mitt Romney because the difference between the president and Gov. Romney could be not be more stark. He signed a pledge to pass the federal marriage amendment. He doesn’t believe that we should have repealed ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell.’ And to me, you know, what I hope the community is mindful of and I think we are smart enough not to lose sight of this is the fact that this is not about Barack Obama or Mitt Romney. It’s about us. And these elections are a choice.

The Human Rights Campaign endorsed Obama’s re-election bid last year.

http://livewire.talkingpointsmemo.com/entries/hrc-president-obama-way-better-than-romney

Focus!

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
51. You know,
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:32 PM
May 2012

since demanding that words be "banned" is cool by you, would you support a ban on people who demand that words be "banned"?

It would make everyone happier. Just think, never again having to deal with those words being posted here. Bliss!

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
55. What words do I demand be banned?
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:37 PM
May 2012

I support letting lame arguments stand until they fall of their own weight.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
58. Was it too subtle?
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:57 PM
May 2012

The fact that I think it's a lame argument does not equate with agreement on banning the phrase.

Black and white thinking destroys depth perception.

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
60. The OP
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:01 PM
May 2012

"The fact that I think it's a lame argument does not equate with agreement on banning the phrase."

...title specifically asked that the words be "banned."

I mean, if every "lame argument" were banned, thousands of comments would disappear.

"Black and white thinking destroys depth perception."

Irony!

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
62. So
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:08 PM
May 2012

"BTW, I doubt the OP was being literal."

...that's the justification: this is just grandstanding?

Which brings me back to my original point: Reminds me of whining!

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
64. The OP doesn't need justification.
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:15 PM
May 2012

It's fair comment on a tiresome talking point that tends to stultify any semblance of thoughtful discussion.

You wouldn't be whining about this would you?

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
66. Wow
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:32 PM
May 2012

"It's fair comment on a tiresome talking point that tends to stultify any semblance of thoughtful discussion."

...a new definition for whining.

Speaking of t"thoughtful discussion," where does a thread whining that words should be "banned" fit in?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
68. Oh, I can give you a tighter definition.
Mon May 7, 2012, 05:20 PM
May 2012

This is your what, sixth, comment complaining that someone had the temerity to call out a stale talking point?

Well, at least you haven't woven "better than Romney" into this subthread.

But it's early.

edhopper

(33,591 posts)
74. Read my response #18
Mon May 7, 2012, 07:08 PM
May 2012

I used it metaphorically.
So pretend I said "We should voluntarily stop using"

Then maybe we can discuss the real point and not semantics.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
39. I agree...people think this is a legitimate argument...
Mon May 7, 2012, 02:56 PM
May 2012

and it really ins't...we should have the choice of voting for someone who si actually "good" not simply "not as bad." Should, but we really don't have that option this time around.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
63. I'm waiting for some one to create the "Progressive Prez 2016" group on DU.
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:15 PM
May 2012

Let's face it ... Obama will be the Dem candidate, and he's running against Romney. Those are the only REALISTIC choices for 2012.

And so ... those who are unhappy with Obama might decide to start drafting, and debating, the progresive candidate for 2016.

I'm not sure why those who are unhappy with Obama have yet to create this group as it would create a place to (a) be critical of Obama, and (b) start to decide who to put forward next.

jp11

(2,104 posts)
41. It would be great if it wasn't thrown out there
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:00 PM
May 2012

so often instead of admitting that yes he (Obama) hasn't acted as well as we or some might want. Yet it seems to be a fall back 'suck it' kind of response to criticism of the President far TOO often. In other situations it could be an outright exaggeration when the previous republican president hadn't done as much 'bad' as the current democratic one.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
42. Or you could, you know, just respond to the person if you feel their argument is flawed.
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:00 PM
May 2012

It's a message board after all.

NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
53. Why don't you just post a list of all the things you want banned at DU?
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:34 PM
May 2012

Take all the guesswork out of it that way.

Don

FSogol

(45,491 posts)
54. Unless the question is, "What kind of car elevator should I buy?", then Romney would be worse.
Mon May 7, 2012, 03:36 PM
May 2012

I can't think of a single issue where Romney would be better.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
65. No, I don't think that's a very good idea at all.
Mon May 7, 2012, 04:24 PM
May 2012

It's never irrelevant that Romney would be worse. It's simply a true statement. Should we ban true statements from being made on DU? I don't think so.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
71. There are many posters on the DU who cannot stand any complaints of Obama. It is really odd to me.
Mon May 7, 2012, 05:53 PM
May 2012
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