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HILLARY CLINTONS ANSWER ON ABORTION LEAVES PRO-LIFE SENATOR SPEECHLESS (VIDEO)
Clintons words come from a place of knowledge. Share them. Everyone should hear:
In 2009, then Secretary of State Hillary Clinton was asked in Congress about abortion rights in other countries and whether the administration had any plans to further restrict abortions throughout the developing world.
Her answer was brave, strong and exactly what the body needed to hear. No, the administration had no plans to take action toward restricting abortion in the developing world.
When I think of the suffering around the world Ive been in hospitals in Brazil where half the women were enthusiastically and joyfully greeting new babies and the other half were fighting for their lives against botched abortions.
Ive been in African countries where 12 and 13 year old girls are bearing children. I have been in Asian countries where the denial of family planning confines women to lives of oppression and hardship.
Clintons argument isnt just about why the developing world needs, as she says, access to abortion that is safe, legal and rare.
More:
http://www.ifyouonlynews.com/videos/hillary-clintons-answer-on-abortion-leaves-pro-life-senator-speechless-video/
haikugal
(6,476 posts)I hate that term. Safe and legal would suffice. Rare, in what way? Rare isn't needed for support for women to have full health care without judgment.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)Like we must acknowledge that it's soooooo horrible, because hey! unwanted children are a blessing. Which sadly they are not.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Straddling the aisle, looking six-seven years out.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Straddling the aisle figuring out which side will win and making sure that's your side. It lacks honesty and makes people anything but trustworthy. I'm with you
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)abortion is a medical procedure. Nothing more.
csziggy
(34,138 posts)And be secure in their bodies so they control when they have sex. In an ideal world, those two things would be real. They are not, but we can dream.
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]Abortion should ideally be "rare" because it's not needed - thanks to honest education, excellent health care, and freely available family planning options.
Historic NY
(37,453 posts)vs ignorance as the greatest tool.
brer cat
(24,615 posts)That is how I have always interpreted "rare" in this context.
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]I love your cat gif! One of mine creeps from the back of my chair, down the arm, and onto the keyboard when she doesn't get the attention she wants right away - and also tries to head-butt the phone out of my hand whenever I'm on it.
brer cat
(24,615 posts)I have a head-butt cat too. They are so strong-willed when they want attention.
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]Gotta love 'em.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)I learned the phrase from Ann Richards.
DrKZ
(53 posts)To add the word "rare" is an Orwellian sort of language game that plays into the hard to get ... it is a medical procedure: nothing more, nothing less. It should be considered the same as any other medical procedure and rare is an invitation to try to close abortion clinics or create all sorts of excuses ...
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]Abortion is just another medical procedure, to be safely and readily accessible when necessary or desired.
However, I don't consider it "orwellian" to prefer preventing unwanted pregnancies by other means so the procedure is less frequently necessary ("rare" . That's what you're inferring, but not the meaning intended.
Hillary is a staunch defender of a woman's right to abortion, without interference from politicians and self-righteous moralists, so the source and context need to be taken into consideration. Also keep in mind that it's still an unpleasant procedure, after all.
Any hospital, outpatient surgery clinic, women's health center, or OB/GYN's equipped office should be able to perform abortions routinely when necessary, and they should be viewed as just another medical procedure. We're in full agreement as to accessibility.
Reducing the need for that procedure - making it "rare" - through excellent family planning is simply good common sense and medical practice.
abortion should be rare because in the best world, everyone has access to effective, cheap and safe birth control options, and they are used, and educated about them. Almost no one gets an unwanted pregnancy because they knew about and were educated on birth control, and had access to cheap (or even free) birth control and yet said, eh, I'll just engage in risky behavior anyways.
In such a world, abortions would be rare because unwanted pregnancies would be rare.
But with limited to no sex education, focus on abstinence only, and all of the other things one can list as problems in the area of contraception, we ain't there yet.
Birth control fails, even when used properly by women who know how to use it
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)point.
the repugs want to take that away
she is saying dumb shits.... that increases not decreases.
i have a condom baby. shit happens. no one is saying otherwise.
REP
(21,691 posts)If heart bypasses were safe, accessible and rare
Or root canals were safe, affordable and rare
But no. It's only abortion, a very minor, minimally invasive procedure we hear that should be "rare."
Why?
There should be as many abortions as there are women who want one.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)I wish all surgery were safe, accessible, and rare because it was rarely necessary. That works for abortion, coronary bypass, lobe-ectomies, etc
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)If there were well funded and hugely successful efforts limiting access to other procedures and preventative care, sweeping legislation being passed to stop them, protesting and bombing clinics and hospitals, killing surgeons, etc, then maybe.
Aso, it's not typical that a cardiac patient is judged by society for their personal history behind the surgery. They should have exercised, eaten better, oh, it is a genetic abnormality... We are only glad that the procedures exist to help those who need it. I feel the same way about abortion.
It's OK to wish that those procedures weren't needed, but to publicly wish them to be "rare" in the midst of significant and major attacks on access being imposed on them and clinics closing at record pace with some states bring limited to a single facility is, frankly, insane.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)U.S. Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg said that she thought that the country would "wake up" and realize that the state-by-state restrictions on abortion were untenable and that we "can never go back" to the situation before Roe, when abortions were only "for women who can afford to travel to a neighboring state." Yet it seems to me that we have gone back to that time; right now poor women are in effect being denied abortions because they can't afford them, or can't afford the gas to get to a clinic that is hundreds of miles awayor can't afford all that and to stay overnight in a hotel to comply with a 24-hour waiting period.
From: http://www.elle.com/life-love/society-career/the-abortion-choice
I'm fucking proud to force the issue.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Response to REP (Reply #86)
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Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Sweden has comprehensive sex education and access to cheap birth control.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)in many.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)It's not a jab at Hillary, it's a jab at the phrase itself - one that is in use every time Democrats pipe up on the subjct (which is infrequently enough to be a problem on its own...)
It continues the implication that abortion is a moral issue and not a medical one. The whole reason "rare" is added to the phrase is to appease angry republican dudes who want to keep their thumbs on women, to make it look like democrats don't really support abortion (because abortion is bad!) while arguing that this horrid immoral thing might as well be safe.
It's a Democratic party problem, not a Hillary Clinton problem.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i have always been opposed to throwing in rare, to appease. i listened to this and immediately reacted, and continued to listen. i saw how she took the use of the word rare and flipped the definition from the moral that you suggest to the obvious, duh, .... if we can decrease an invasive procedure thru education and contraceptives, that is what we do.
like someone says, ... would you want rare to be used with knee surgery. damn straight if i can take a pill to avoid the surgery where they are cutting into me.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)As soon as orthopedists get gunned down for being "ligament stitchers" and athletic injury clinics get bomb threats for defying the judgement of gravity, okay.
"Rare" perpetuates the stigma of abortion - in fact endorses such stigmatization. And sure, you can spend twenty minutes parsing what Clinton said to weave around that fact. But like I said, it's not a "Hillary Clinton" problem - I don't think she's trying to stigmatize abortion or the people who receive or perform the procedure. I think it's a bad "catchphrase" that she is using on reflex.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i disagree that is what clinton did. i think she did the opposite.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Like I said, I'm not going after Clinton on this one. I'm certain she has the best intentions. I think it's a trite phrase and counter-productive that ought to be retired from use, though.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)But many Democrats are beind the times.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)even here, cannot parse nuance. Plus, it is another chance to take a shot at Hilary
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)I didn't see (or didn't register on my brain cell) that is it was you. As you may or may not know, Hilary isn't my first choice, but some things that some take her to task on are ridiculous. It gives me tired head, to be truthful. I guess that is why I replied the way I did. It is going to be a long primary, and I fear it will be worse than 08 with the sniping.
treestar
(82,383 posts)a problem apparently has to be drummed up.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)this speech and i thought it so good, that all us should hear how it is argued. strong. no apology. no concession.
then i see this.
wow.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)It was a good speech, and she nailed it. We all acknowledge that. But she used a phrase common to many Democrats that we believe to be wrong, and we stated why. We are not minimizing her speech, but commenting on a part of it that we do think is a problem. It is in no way specific to her--there are many threads on this site about this. I think you're accusing people of things unfairly, here.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)she turned it upside down, and slam dunked it using rare, but not as the right defines. i think it was clear.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Years. And I take any and every Democratic politician to task when they use it. I've done so face to face and will every chance I get.
It's not a fucking knee jerk. It's important to me.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)It is not always understood to be that way by those not on the left. Our words need to be clear to each other--we need to be even clearer in what is right to them. Any other way and they use it as an opportunity. There was a really good post from LeftyMom someone posted down below. I can't find it at the moment.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)LeftyMom
19. That's the political genius and moral cowardice of the phrase.
To pro-choice people it means "unplanned pregnancies shouldn't be common, for women's sake." To the mushy middle it means "abortions for deserving women but not for those trampy other women." To anti-choicers it means "let's whittle away at legalized abortion even if we can't get a ban past the Supremes yet."
It's a political Rorschach ink blot. It means what you want it to mean.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)RecoveringJournalist
(148 posts)My take, too. And using the word "rare" let's fundies know that educated even-minded adults on the other side of the political spectrum don't think abortions should be handed out willy nilly in the way the fundies would like to see guns handed out. Abortions are gut-wrenching decisions I would not wish on anyone to have to make in their lifetime. But they should be safe, legal, not stigmatized - and, yes, rare.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Educated, even minded adults? That we would hand out abortions willy nilly? We have a fundamental disagreement I think, but that's ok...there's room for that.
RecoveringJournalist
(148 posts)That would be a big mistake to assume. I fully believe in abortion. But by showing the fundies that people in favor of it do not think it should ever be a willy-nilly decision - that it is in fact a huge, often gut-wrenching decision that will stay with a woman forever in her mind and should never under any circumstances be taken lightly - it says that THEIR mischaracterizations of the pro-choice crowd are way WAY off.
And if there is anyone who thinks it SHOULD be a willy-nilly decision, there's who I fundamentally disagree with. IT should be "rare" to the extent that it should never be taken lightly.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)It doesn't have to be "gut wrenching" by any means. Any mental anguish usually comes from others saying and thinking it's killing a baby, not from choosing to end a pregnancy. I'm sure it is gut wrenching for someone who planned a pregnancy and then finds they have to abort due to health or other problems.
Also the notion of the unspoken number of abortions a woman may have. There is judgment on women for that as well. Why are women subjected to harsh judgment for everything from enjoying their sexuality to planning their family..or not having a family? It's no one's business what another woman does and I'd like to see us get past the restricting so called 'morality' of abortion.
So in my view "willy nilly" is fine, "rare" is judgment, and sends the wrong message. I don't believe for a moment that I can reason with most forced Birthers (I have only changed one mind that I know of) and I think it's a mistake to accommodate them in any way.
RecoveringJournalist
(148 posts)No it doesn't HAVE to be. But that does not mean that it isn't for the person undertaking the procedure, regardless of who does or doesn't say anything on the periphery. And morality is a completely moot point with me. I'm not talking about morality at all. My point is completely different. Abortion is unfortunately a completely unique type of surgical situation. Nothing else done to a man or woman surgically is in the same neighborhood. Therefore, an intelligent populace has no choice but to look at it somewhat differently. There's no way around that. It's NOT heart surgery. It's NOT a prostate exam. And just because people are looking at it differently does not mean that judgment is involved. Sure, some people do. But not everyone. I don't. And equally unfortunately, only women are subjected to the procedure. That's nature and not changeable. I DO wish men had the same type of situation applied to us. Then a lot of minds would be changed. But that's not something that's ever going to happen.
With all that said, I still believe abortion is a decision that should never be taken lightly. My mother had an illegal one (before me - and back when it was a whole different American situation.) And honestly, I'm lucky to be here. I almost was not. I also know several people who have had one since it became legal. Every one of them, my mother included, looks back on it with a bit of apprehension. It has stuck with them forever. Some have said things along the line of, "gee I wonder what the child would have been like." They're fine. But they are different people than before the procedure. Not better. Not worse. Just different.
If you can't see that I'm actually talking UP abortion and applauding the courageous women who undertake the procedure, then I feel bad for you because you are completely misinterpreting my POV.
So bottom line, abortion should be legal - safe - on demand, yes - and a thoughtful decision every time.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)However the notion that any woman would undertake an abortion without thought (wtf) is anathema to the whole discussion about abortion, birth control and family planning. It should be assumed a woman has thought about it and made a choice.
Every experience in our lives change us, every decision moves us in a different direction...Your saying abortion somehow brands or injures women and I'm not buying it.
Abortion is no different than any other form of health care, that's the point.
Thanks for the discussion and I'm glad you support women's choices, all of women's choices.
RecoveringJournalist
(148 posts)But I agree to disagree with you about it being a different situation. That in no way means that I don't support it.
Cheers.
kairos12
(12,875 posts)And I'm a man. Blamey is right on.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,123 posts)There, fixed it.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)to consider. Pregnancy is rare for them too. Just not applicable.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)they are more and more not doing the surgery, cause men are so old, it is slow moving, they die of other stuff. so they are decreasing the INVASIVE surgery for other alternatives.
AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)And i wish democrats would ditch that line. it creates a "loophole' exploited by opponents who say "Well, having one clinic in an entire state makes it safe, legal and rare! haw haw haw!"
"Safe, legal, and whenever a woman goddamn feels she needs it" is a much more solid position.
But... it wouldn't be the Democratic Party if we weren't campaigning towards people who'll never vote democratic no matter what, i guess.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)and it's not pleasant to go through. Isn't it to be avoided on some level?
MADem
(135,425 posts)and should not have to rely on the good offices of others to give her access to birth control" kind of rare. "Women with the ability to make their own decisions with regard to birth control without encountering legal, moral or monetary roadblocks at the grocery store, the pharmacy, or the doctor's office" kind of rare.
Which, sadly, is not the case for many women....
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)When there are limited choices for women - then we find that more women end up with unexpected pregnancy and there tends to be a higher number of those that end in abortion.
Abortion is not the best form of birth control, in fact it's probably the absolutely WORST form of birth control. But when you strip away all other options for women where they are given few other choices, it tends to get used as a form of birth control. Personally I think the GOP likes it that way - what better way to 'slut shame' women then to make them go through the humiliation of going to a family planning clinic to be shamed by the protestors and maybe even the nurses & doctors themselves as the woman decides if she wants to terminate their pregnancy. And the only way to ensure the 'slut shaming' is by making sure the women isn't well educated on the many ways to keep her from getting pregnant, make sure that the few forms of birth control available are either too expensive or unreliable and then make sure there are limited clinics to even receive abortions so there is always a big crowd outside there to 'slut shame' the women for her choices.
But with the progressive choices - we empower women, we don't shame them. We make sure they are well educated. We make sure that reliable birth control is affordable and even free. We take the power away from the 'Slut Shamers' and give it back to the women because in the end these women are not sluts and do not deserve this shame. When women have control over their reproductive choices then the GOP and their ilk loses that power.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)and affordable access.
http://www.johnstonsarchive.net/policy/abortion/wrjp335pd.html
Oh, and we shame women when we characterize one of the tools in their family planning tool box as so odious it must be made rare.
Well, congratulations "progressives" while you were playing language footies under the table with the fanatics, the fanatics won and made abortion rare to access in the majority of the country.
MADem
(135,425 posts)The whole process of having to "supplicate" in order to excercise one's right of choice is a least-optimal process. Being able to go to the store and buy a pill to halt the process, or better still, having access to medications to prevent contraception in the first place, is an empowering thing--but only if the access is truly there, and women needing to avail themselves of these options know about them.
Maven
(10,533 posts)bhikkhu
(10,724 posts)I don't have any problem with rare - its a realistic and ideal result. Abortion will always be a difficult health decision, one that has to be made when other things have failed.
...though, for the most part, I keep my mouth shut on the issue as I am male and will never have to make the decision myself. I had a girlfriend many years ago who opted for an abortion. I know it was a hard decision, and she made the right choice for herself. Having a kid is a big decision, and not having a kid is a big decision as well.
TlalocW
(15,392 posts)But abortion would be rare IF comprehensive sex education and access to birth control were the norm in the world. As it is, it's not even the norm in America.
TlaocW
DURHAM D
(32,611 posts)she is talking about full comprehensive planning.
Put another way - "If you weren't such a bunch of sexist assholes and understood that providing education and comprehensive pregnancy prevention we would not need to be talking about abortion. Take a sex education class you morons and get of our bodies."
still_one
(92,421 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)There is no birth control that is 100% effective, women need abortions for a myriad of reasons and we need to accept it as a perfectly valid medical procedure. Saying "rare" is a value judgment women don't need.
Should we continue to shame women for needing an abortion? I don't think that's helpful.
DURHAM D
(32,611 posts)I have had an abortion and I am not ashamed.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)What have I said that suggests I'm looking for a fight? Many of us have had abortions, myself included, and there has been a decades long effort to shame us for it. It's a fairly recent development that those of us who have had abortions have felt the strength of our numbers and realized we need to come out and own it. It being our abortion. The major push right now is to stop sex Ed, birth control and abortion, they are always spoken of that way. I see abortion as birth control and we will always need it as an option.
Just my opinion, and I don't know that Clinton means what we think she means without some corroboration. Right now it looks like a verbal concession to the right.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,123 posts)qazplm
(3,626 posts)indicate a continuing and enduring presence of abortions?
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Why include something so ambiguous when support for women's choices can be expressed clearly without it? Abortions are not icky (to use a word someone else used) and we need to get past it.
druidity33
(6,448 posts)I make the assumption that no one really WANTS an abortion. Life intervenes in some way and a woman may need an abortion. They should be safe and accessible. It should not be stigmatized. But at the same time it is a really unpleasant procedure that many women feel is their only choice. What's wrong with wishing less people have to go through with it? With starting a productive discussion about education, access to family planning, keeping clinics open, etc ? That's my take on the 'rare' comment out of context of the sloganeering aspect. I'm sort of a glass half full guy ;0 Plus, is this quote from 2009?
treestar
(82,383 posts)and we all know it.
How you get shaming of individual women from that is a real reach.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)You don't see it that way, OK. I'm done making concessions to the right on this issue because it has done nothing to help women secure their rights and has allowed the camels nose under the tent, to our detriment. I think this fight has become much too real to back off at this point. There is no compromise with these people, none.
brer cat
(24,615 posts)would quit the abstinence only education of young people, and stop their efforts to make birth control harder to obtain, abortions would become more rare. Abortion is a medical procedure and ALL medical procedures carry some risk. To make it necessary less often is a good thing and not necessarily a "concession to the right." I don't think she is backing off at all, but instead expanding the position to include education and access to birth control.
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Such individualization of responsibility is harmful to women. Abortion is currently one of the most stigmatized events in a womans life and the widespread endorsement of rare both produces and reproduces this stigma.14 A recent review of mental health and abortion found profound psychological implications of stigma. According to experimental studies stigmatization can create negative cognitions, emotions, and behavioral reactions that can adversely affect social, psychological, and biological functioning. Societal stigma is seen as particularly pernicious because it leads to internalized stigma in which women adopt the negative societal beliefs and stereotypes about themselves.15
The inherent delegitimization of abortion in the call for it to be rare was pointed out early on by a conservative anti-abortion blogger [T]he phrase actually brings up an important question: if abortion is merely a medical procedurea simple choice, then why should it be rare?16 Recently Pastor Rick Warren, who provided the invocation at President Obamas inauguration, reiterated the critique when challenging Obamas pro-choice position: Now, I dont understand the, the idea of it should be rare and, and less. Well, either you believe its life or you dont. Itwhy would you believe it should be rare? Because if, if its notif a baby, a fetus is not a life, then why restrict it?17
As this sentiment suggests, support for making abortion rare, presup- poses that abortion is wrong and somehow different than other health care. This ongoing marginalization of abortion as a different type of health care, one in which the goal is reduced use rather than expanded access and en- hanced quality, has contributed to the significant decline in the number of locations where abortions are performed in the United States. In 2004, only 1,787 facilities continued to provide abortion care and 86 percent of counties were without a known abortion provider.18 Increased access to care is not part of the rare message and efforts to expand services could be construed as working against the goal of making it less frequently used.
http://www.ansirh.org/_documents/library/weitz_jwh10-2010.pdf
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Nay
(12,051 posts)qazplm
(3,626 posts)that could be simply, cheaply and easily prevented/avoided should be "rare."
If there was a simple, cheap and easy way to avoid the need to have your tonsils removed, I'd prefer that procedure to be rare as well.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)It stigmatized abortion as abhorrent and those who seek or have had abortions as outsiders.
And really, why should it be rare? Giving birth is more dangerous to a woman's health than an abortion. Should full term pregnancy be rare, also?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)instead of having to go thru the shit and the pain and the after symptoms?
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)A person can advocate for comprehensive sex education and universal access to affordable birth control without stigmatizing a necessary medical procedure.
I've had 2 abortions and gave birth once. Pregnancy was far more stressful and giving birth was far more painful and the after symptoms lasted far longer. Pregnancy through term is also costly, invasive, and stressful. Should it be rare?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)you and i almost always agree.
we are not here. but we do not need to take it to a place, you and i know neither of us are at or saying.
i recently helped niece to get an abortion. it was eye opening. hard, stressful, painful, expensive and time consuming.
when i was talking about it on du, the challenge of finding something in state, a person said to me
there is NO reason for an invasive surgical procedure for any preg. we have other ways and means. that stuck with me. we have a pill that will take care of it, without the surgical invasion. that is a good thing. that should be the go to.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)I went back and corrected myself that of course there are times that a procedure was needed and apologized for getting too heated. I feel intensely sometimes and have to reign myself in when I realize I've been too, too. I'm sorry
I posted about Women on Waves with a link. For reasons I don't understand I can't get a blue link but here is the addy http://www.womenonwaves.org. There is a video about the work they're doing all around the world to help women and yes there are drugs that can be used to get around a lot of this right wing nonsense but we still need to fight them because there are times a procedure is needed.
I just really want abortion to be normalized and guilt free.
Hey, the blue link worked!
treestar
(82,383 posts)for the person for whom it is undesirable. Contraception should come first as most people would prefer that over having to get an abortion each time. But where it fails, there is abortion, but that would be more rare if we could have more birth control.
Nobody can seriously say Hillary is being secretly anti-choice. It is clear she is only pointing out that we need more than just abortion, but other things. Admit to being in agreement with her on ONE thing doesn't mean you have to vote for her, etc.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)agreeing or disagreeing with her.
Modern abortions, when performed within the 1st 12 weeks (and the vast majority of them are) are fast, easy, and fairly painless. Both chemically induced abortions and surgical abortions. I hate the use of the word "rare" because it comes from the assumption that abortions are icky.
Fun fact, the abortion rate is higher in Sweden, a country well known for it's early sex education and ease of acquiring birth control, than it is in the U.S. So readily available and affordable access to birth control and comprehensive sex education may or may not reduce the abortion rate.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)So we need to get rid of all the value judgements around this issue. Abortion is part of the family planning, life choice package and should be freely available without stigma or argument. This decades long champaign to end Roe needs to be stopped. All methods available today are safe and should not be controlled to please the churches and moralists. They need to be affordable and available to the poor, which is most of us.
People are people....birthcontrol fails or isn't used perfectly, life happens so why moralize about it.
MADem
(135,425 posts)YES it should be rare. In fact, nowadays, they are getting RID of "whole knee" replacement and going to partial knee replacement. One of these days, maybe they'll find a way to repair knees with a needle full of space-age "bone cement" or even stem cells, so they don't have to chop out the bone and put in metal or ceramics. Any invasive procedure that involves a doctor CHOPPING on you should be as rare as one can manage. If it's possible to avoid it, one should.
It used to be that to remove a gallbladder they had to gut a patient like a fish. Nowadays, they poke a few small holes in the patient and slide that thing out without leaving much of a scar. That old style slicing-and-dicing is "rare" nowadays and good thing, too. The only place they'd do that kind of old school surgery nowadays is in places where the newer equipment isn't available.
Dogging Clinton for using "rare" as if she means something other than "Gee, if women had access to education, family planning, medications, doctors to prescribe birth control, PLAN B, etc., that would make abortion less of a front-line option" is just a cheap shot.
As for pregnancy, it should be as rare as the person carrying the fetus wants it to be.
F4lconF16
(3,747 posts)Fridays Child
(23,998 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)It's a way to keep calling abortion "icky".
Abortion needs to be safe and legal.
Rare will take care of itself if we actually had the family planning support you want.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)Diamonds are rare. Rare means not happening a lot.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)northoftheborder
(7,574 posts)stevenleser
(32,886 posts)Sex education so that women being in the circumstance to need one ends up being rare because they have the options and both sexes have the education beforehand.
still_one
(92,421 posts)times when inadvertent conception occurs, and of course with criminal acts such as rape or incest, or medical necessity or for the health, physical and mental state of the mother, which is why it is between a woman and her doctor.
I see nothing wrong with the statement that it should be safe legal and rare.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)a pregnancy then there is not a need for an abortion. As she also explained there are differences in opinions and some takes their opinions to the extremes but I like choices. I also like having family planning available so there are less unwanted pregnancies.
still_one
(92,421 posts)incest, and the life or health of the mother.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)be punished and forced to have a child. I don't think older women should be forced to have a baby from rape. Yes rape should be a never situation and I don't care what Todd Akin said, a woman does not shut down the ability to get pregnant.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)There are no weepy cases. There are no punishment cases.
There are only abortion cases if a female wants to have one. For any reason.
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)Rape to have the baby should she become pregnant as a result of rape. In no way am I advocating the right of choice of abortion be restricted.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)Agnosticsherbet
(11,619 posts)They will happend due to the rare accident or because a crime was committed
That is precisely why a big part of the Republican/Conservatie/Religous assault on women's rights is against Education, family planning, and birth control.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Novara
(5,851 posts)Education doesn't reduce abortions. And why do they need to be reduced anyway? That's playing right into the anti-choice's hands. Oooooh, abortion is BAD. No, it's not. It's a legal and safe medical procedure.
Women aren't idiots who need to be counseled, need to have state-sanctioned rape to shame them (transvaginal ultrasounds), need to sit through waiting periods in case they change their minds (that rarely happens), and don't need to be lied to about a false link to breast cancer or a false promise that their medication abortion can be reversed. Women are not children. When a woman has decided she can't bring up a child she has the legal right to terminate.
The procedure is already rare, and getting more rare. See: In the first quarter of 2015, legislatures in all 50 states collectively introduced 332 provisions aimed at restricting abortion services, compared to 335 during the entire 2014 legislative session, according to the Guttmacher Institute.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)families.
Change the rhetoric. It's not a "necessary evil". And the patriarchal attitude that if we'd just educate these stupid women they wouldn't get knocked up is bullshit. Women are fertile for up to FORTY YEARS, ffs.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)See, easy.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)should be so easily used that we never get that far down the list of options. There's no shame implied, just compassionate pragmatism.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)She means as against birth control, most forms of which are likely safer than having the abortion.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)nolabear
(41,991 posts)So is she.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)That's ridiculous Utopian fluff.
Women are fertile for up to 40 years. Contraception fails, mistakes are made, etc. Abortion should be used any time it's needed, period.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)My interpretation is that, given a hierarchy of choices, not getting pregnant in the first place is preferable, not for any moral reason, just because it IS a medical issue, and why go through it if you don't have to? Next would come morning after meds, which are far from pleasant but are safe enough to use at home. Next early term abortion, because the fetus isn't developed enough to engender worries about pain if one is so inclined. Late term is least preferable because it's physically harder and the morality does trouble some people.
There's nothing wrong with hoping that the procedures further along the timeline have to happen more rarely than those that are less involved.
Where do we disagree here?
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)I have explained why I take people to task for the way they phrase/frame it because abortion rights are being attacked in epic proportions. I strongly and passionately feel that the left needs to stand up firmly and strongly on abortion rights as well as access to education and contraception.
I'm discussing the use of the phrase "safe, legal and rare" because I feel strongly that the frequency is not a problem. Lack of access to it is. The party removed the phrase from our platform years ago with good reason. I've detailed the issue I have with it repeatedly, including here: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6527478
I am discussing specifically with you because, you said, "Other options should be so easily used that we never get that far down the list of options." Bolding mine because, like the word "rare", that jumped out at me.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)I can't find a transcript of her speech in 2004 but her use of the words "not ever" and "rare" were noted...
William Saletan, author of "Bearing Right: How Conservatives Won the Abortion War," suggested in his Slate.com column at the time that Clinton was repositioning her party to win the abortion war.
Perhaps so, but I don't care why she's saying it. I'm just glad someone is speaking up. I've always maintained that you eliminate abortion by treating the subject honestly through education.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2005-12-14/news/0512140173_1_abortion-war-abortion-opponents-abortion-question
The notion that abortion will never or rarely be used as a result of education and free or cheap access to birth to birth control is a fantasy. Sweden, who does all that, has a higher abortion rate than the U.S.
What I find interesting is, as the Democrats shifted their focus to "rare" by promoting birth control and education, the right intensified their fight against both.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)But right now there are safe abortions available using drugs that can be self administered up to 20 weeks (I believe that's the cutoff) that are being controlled in various states. There is also the morning after pill. Most abortions can be dealt with using these drugs, if they're made available.
In any case I still don't see the need to include rare in that phrase.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)it would be the only option on the extreme off chance that my iud failed. i made sure to choose the most effective form of bc because i do not want kids, but i would have an abortion in a second if the situation arose.
the way i read this post is that women should carry to term and either keep or adopt out the child. if a woman does not want to carry the child to term, no one should force them.
REP
(21,691 posts)Or my mother.
Or my grandmother.
The only difference was mine was safe and legal.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)It was a Dalkon Shield and it nearly killed me. I'm glad they've made them safe because they're a good option, and I hear you...
nolabear
(41,991 posts)I read it as a wish that good education, contraception and respect for women's wishes would be so ubiquitous that pregnancies wouldn't happen unless they were wanted.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)i understand your intent, i'm just uncomfortable with putting any qualifier on it other than safe and legal.
i could, and should, have been much more articulate in my original reply
nolabear
(41,991 posts)Someday.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)It's a linguistic trick of affirming the right to abortion while simultaneously devaluing it.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4015405
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024004413
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=276543
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1152484
haikugal
(6,476 posts)I see that this is a worthy discussion that has been ongoing! Well done! I'm glad I'm in such good company.
LeftyMom
19. That's the political genius and moral cowardice of the phrase.
To pro-choice people it means "unplanned pregnancies shouldn't be common, for women's sake." To the mushy middle it means "abortions for deserving women but not for those trampy other women." To anti-choicers it means "let's whittle away at legalized abortion even if we can't get a ban past the Supremes yet."
It's a political Rorschach ink blot. It means what you want it to mean.
This is exactly what I mean and we continue to do this in many areas. We need to change our language to be clear with our messaging.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)And thank you for being a strong ally.
iandhr
(6,852 posts)If we increase access to contraception it would reduce the number to abortions.
I think I have heard Planned Parenthood use the safe, legal and rare argument for this reason.
Though I totally agree with the sentiment of your post.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Saying it should be "rare" indicates - clearly - that it is happening more than it should be and that there are 'good' and 'bad' abortions. Abortion is one of the most stigmatized events of a woman's life and the widespread "rare" mantra propagates that.
Calling for it to be "rare" proposes that there is something wrong with abortion. It places the procedure as a very different type of health care. One in which the goal is reduced use rather than expanded access and enhanced quality. And this has contributed to the significant decline in the number of locations where abortions are performed in the United States. The result is also fewer physicians - good physicians - who are even taught abortion care. Less than half of all OB/GYN's residency programs offer training in abortion care.
Saying it should be rare legitimizes efforts to restrict access to abortion.
here is a good piece summarizing my feelings on this matter: http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2010/04/26/safe-legal-rare-another-perspective
A common narrative in the political and cultural discussions of reproductive health focuses on reducing the number of abortions taking place every year. Its supposed to be one thing that those who support abortion rights and those who oppose abortion can agree on, the so-called common ground. The assumption is that we can all agree that abortion itself is a bad thing, perhaps necessary, but definitely not a good thing. Even President Clinton declared (and many others have embraced) that abortion should be safe, legal and rare. According to the Guttmacher Institute, almost half of all pregnancies among American women in 2005 were unplanned or unintended. And of those, four in 10 ended in abortion. (http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html#1) In other words, between one-fifth and one-quarter of all pregnancies ended in abortion. Without any other information, those statistics can sound scary and paint a picture of women as irresponsible or poor decision-makers. Therefore reducing the number of abortions is a goal that reproductive health, rights and justice activists should work toward, right?
Wrong. Those numbers mean nothing without context. If the 1.21 million abortions that took place in 2005 (http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html#1) represent the number of women who needed abortions (and in my opinion, if a woman decides she needs an abortion, then she does), as well as the many women who chose to terminate pregnancies that they very much wanted but could not afford to carry to term, then that number is too high. The work of reducing the number of abortions, therefore, would entail creating an authentically family-friendly society, where women would have the support they need to raise their families, whatever forms they took. That could include eliminating the family caps in TANF, encouraging unionization of low-wage workers, reforming immigration policies and making vocational and higher education more accessible.
On the other hand, if those 1.21 million abortions represent only the women who could access abortion financially, geographically or otherwise, then that number is too low. Yes, too low. If thats the case, then what is an appropriate response? How do we best support women and their reproductive health? Do we dare admit that increasing the number of abortions might be not only good for womens health, but also moral and just?
What if we stopped focusing on the number of abortions and instead focused on the women themselves? Much of the work of the reproductive health, rights and justice movements would remain the same. We would still advocate for legislation that helps our families. We would still fight to protect abortion providers and their staffs from verbal harassment and physical violence. What would change, however, is the stigma and shame. By focusing on supporting womens agency and self-determination, rather than judging the outcomes of that agency, we send a powerful message. We say that we trust women. We say we will not use them and their experiences as pawns in a political game. We say we care about women and want them to have access to all the information, services and resources necessary to make the best decisions they can for themselves and their families. That is at the core of reproductive justice. Not reducing the number of abortions. Safe yes. Legal absolutely. Rare not the point.
iandhr
(6,852 posts)I was merely suggesting it as a way to go after the far right.
We say something like "If you hate abortion so much you should support universal contraception access. More women having access to contraception would reduce the number of abortions that take place."
Then they spot there bs about "consequence free sex"
Then we expose them for the women haters that they are.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)iandhr
(6,852 posts)But the rest of the country doesn't and we could use it to expose those a**h****
But I agree we have to stop the stigmatization
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Thanks for your post, very comprehensive and clear. Thumbsup
enough
(13,262 posts)Would that be judgmental? Or would it mean that good preventative health-care should be available to everyone so that we need fewer heart surgeries?
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)preventative care, passing sweeping legislation to stop heart surgery, protesting and bombing clinics, killing heart surgeons, that would be a problem. No?
Also, they don't say that about cardiac surgery. It's not typical that a cardiac patient is judged for the history behind the surgery. They should have exercised, eaten better, oh, it is a genetic abnormality... We are only glad that the procedures exist to help those who need it. I feel the same way about abortion.
It could all be as rare as possible. Fewer invasive surgeries. More prevention.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)education and easy access for birth control. These two things would drastically cut abortion rates because they wouldn't be as needed. But, if they are needed, they should be safe, legal, and nobody's business.
treestar
(82,383 posts)As people have said, it's not easy to go through. Birth control is important to avoid people having to make that decision.
Unless you want to argue it's better than birth control. I recall the Soviets practically used it that way, which was odd in that they could get birth control pills over the counter.
xmas74
(29,676 posts)but rather meant to assist in keeping them rare through education, along with cheap and easily access to contraception.
Teach women and men both the basics of sex ed, make it easy to access contraception and abortion does become much more rare. It's not blame-y but just the basis of family planning.
LynneSin
(95,337 posts)If this country did things the right way it would be rare.
If we provided proper sex education for women
If we provide free birth control as part of their healthcare plan
If we made Plan B birth control available over the counter
If we made Family Planning affordable for all women to attend
If these things were done you'd naturally find the number of of abortions would decrease. States where many or all of these things are already done tend to have a lower rate of pregnancies ending in abortions than those that withhold sex education, free birth control and Plan B. There is overwhelming evidence that points to the fact that states that teach 'Abstinence Only' in the school have a higher rate of teenage pregnancy than those that do not.
Plan B is the emergency contraceptive that if taken within 24-48 hours of unprotective sex can prevent a pregnancy. I also think that should be made available for women who have been raped. Why should a woman have to worry about if a rapist got her pregnant.
And as for affordable family planning that is to ensure that women get proper healthcare during pregnancy so that there is a better chance that the child they have will be delivered healthy. But Family Planning clinics can also provide other forms of long-term birth control that have less chance of failure such as IUD and injection (less chance of forgetting to take a pill).
So the 'Safe, legal and rare' has always made sense to me because done right means that women have plenty of options to ensure that they don't end up in a position where they must decide if they want an abortion. Lack of options means more abortions.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i am going there. with this video.
thank you.... i know this has been out there, but i have not listened.
well, du shoved me into participating in this, now.
Novara
(5,851 posts)There is no stigma in terminating an unwanted pregnancy. Well, there shouldn't be. I understand the anti- crowd wants to make it shameful. We won't let them!
Making it rare means that those women who need abortions are probably victims of rape, incest, birth control failure, etc. And they will be harder to obtain. There will also be those situations where a woman may die if she brings her pregnancy to term. Do we want to make these women jump through hoops to get necessary healthcare? Do we want to pass judgment on them because they need to avail themselves of this "rare" medical procedure? It's bad enough as it is already. Making it rare makes it unavailable for those who need it.
This is not some pie-in-the-sky world where only grave situations produce abortions. Most abortions in the US are obtained by women who are mothers already, and who can't bring another child into the world, for whatever reason. You're never going to get decent sex education in the red states. So making abortion one more impossible hurdle for women by making it "rare" will only damage them further.
It's not an ideal world. We will never have comprehensive sex education and freely available birth cotrol that works 100% of the time. Making abortions rare only stigmatizes those women who need them.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)If I understand it correctly birth control is not covered under Obamacare (please correct me if I'm wrong) but Viagra is covered. That infuriates me. Women struggle under such heavy restrictions and inequality and most is due to religion. We don't need your stigma just give us healthcare...and that includes birthcontrol in ALL it's forms.
DrKZ
(53 posts)The original Hyde Amendment passed in 1976 but because of the 1973 decision on Roe V Wade Congress altered the amendment several times
In 1993 President Clinton signed into law the version of the Hyde Amendment which permits medicare medicaid funding only in cases of rape and inscest ... the National Abortion Federation and the ACLU felt that poor women were unduly and unreasonably targeted an and given the Clinton position on welfare reform was a horrible travesty that resulted in all sorts of inequities that persist today
In the ACA there was going to be a problem with Representative Stupak who introduced the Stupack-Piitts amendment ... ultimately without getting into too much detail the Hyde Amendment was placed in the ACA (affirming it would extend into the new law).
mcar
(42,376 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)apologize for, with how she used it.
she was saying, with education.... i can attain rare more than with ignorance. so yes, in the manner she used it, i got it.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)I just hope that she removes it from the discussion like the party platform has.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)and i wholly agree with your analysis.
five years ago colorado got a private grant to provide free- or low-cost long-term birth control for teens and low-income women and it helped do wonders for teen pregnancy and abortion rates. the grant has expired and now there is bipartisan support to continue funding it using state dollars with the right-wing loons howling about it. the budget has gone to the governor and i can't find anything about funding this program. i really hope it made it in.
if those jerk offs are so concerned about abortion (and welfare usage), you would think that programs that lessen unwanted pregnancies would be popular with them. of course, that's trying to apply logic to a group of illogical people.
edit: it looks like the family planning funding made it into the budget. good on all those who fought for it.
MineralMan
(146,333 posts)which Hillary Clinton strongly supports, will help to make the need for abortion rare. That's a good thing. It is far better and safer to avoid pregnancy than to have an abortion procedure. The right, and many nations, make contraception difficult to obtain, and some would even like to make it impossible. That would, of course, increase the number of abortions.
Imagine a world where every woman had complete control over her own reproductive choices. Frankly, that would almost eliminate the need for abortion. Nobody wants to have an abortion. Many do not want to be pregnant. Contraception is the best solution. Abortion must be available, but if it were rarely needed, that would be ideal.
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)They don't stop to consider how difficult the decision is to make for many women.
In this context, and in my opinion, the reason the Dem party has adopted the word "rare" is because they, as many others, believe that if contraception and education were the norm, abortions would be "rare." It's the rise of abstinence-only teachings that has led to the rise in teen pregnancies. It's not being taught how pregnancy actually happens that is leading to more teen pregnancies (or did during the Bush admin).
No one in the Dem party is saying that abortion shouldn't be a procedure used by whomever wants to use it but they are saying that if the anti-choice people would allow contraception and education, then abortion would become rare.
I see nothing wrong with that. It doesn't stigmatize abortion or women who have it, it's just stating that if we educated people, it would become rare.
spanone
(135,884 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)PinkPotus
(35 posts)StevieM
(10,500 posts)Nice to have you posting here!!
Speaking for myself, I am often very impressed with Hillary Clinton.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)I agree with the "rare" complaints some people make, but it doesn't take away from the overall excellence of the answer.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)If only she had the same conviction and enthusiasm about dealing with our economic disparity and the dominance of the oligarchy.
We shall see.
ismnotwasm
(42,014 posts)Abortion is a medical procedure. All medical procedures carry risk. However, as long as misogynist sexual standards remain in place, as long as there is a lack of male birth control, as long as birth control isn't always reliable, as long as rape exists at all, as long as the dangers of pregnancy are dismissed, (and the anti-reproductive health monsters downplay both permanent disability and death as a result of pregnancy) as long as full reproductive coverage is denied to any woman at all as long as women can say "my body my business" abortion is going to exist.
So why *I* say legal and safe and none of anybody else's business, 'rare' is a comprehensive goal, not an ideology.
Novara
(5,851 posts)As long as.....as long as.....as long as.....
What you've described is life. And reality. There will be no utopia where all of these things do not exist.
So yes, it needs to be safe and legal. But let's not put the concept of rare into it because the reality is, using "rare" as a goal will end up limiting access. That's the world we live in.
I really have no time for ideology. Not where women's healthcare access is involved. We have to work within the constraints of reality.
IMO, it's playing into the anti's hands to use "rare" as a goal. They want to eliminate safe, legal abortion. Saying it needs to be rare is only playing into that narrative.
ismnotwasm
(42,014 posts)Parsing words is ridiculous. I don't think Clinton was putting a value judgement on abortion, she was saying the need for an invasive medical procedure could be reduced, with proper family planning, access to healthcare, education of populations, elimination of misogyny.
The maternal death rate needs to be rare --it's not. There is a lot of work to be done on women's health world wide. If we accomplish even some of it, lives will be saved.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)Illegal abortions kill women.I don't understand why anyone is getting stuck on the word "rare".
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)ismnotwasm
(42,014 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)progresses along.
i to reacted to her word choice, rare. i hate that word. and all it took was me listening to what she was saying, for me to say
i get it.
ismnotwasm
(42,014 posts)Obama said it more recently. But a women who had been working for women's rights? Oh the shit doth flow
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)As did plenty of other feminists.
You assume that this capitulation to the right's characterization that abortion is dirty and icky hasn't been debated for decades.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)it
because that is not what hillary did, at all.
she had two conversations.
abortion
and the rw going after family planning, contraceptives, education.
that was her context of using the word.
treestar
(82,383 posts)is absurd.
SunSeeker
(51,726 posts)Beowulf42
(205 posts)What very seldom or never enters into the conversation is that pro-lifers also want to prohibit contraception. This is anti-feminism at its worst, because it takes away the capacity of a woman to control the very core of her life. Don't let them foul us. They are not concerned with any body's wellbeing, they are concerned with their hidden agenda: controlling women's lives.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)context, for clinton to use.... and rare.
with family planning the abortions decrease.
but.... these people do not want to decrease either abortion, or unwanted preg.
Freddie
(9,275 posts)A woman who is constantly pregnant and/of caring for young children cannot realistically get a good job or an education. She will be forever dependent on her Lord and Master husband. That's their true goal.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)back alley abortions ,it not only serves them right but serves as an excellent warning to any other woman contemplating abortion.
Hekate
(90,829 posts)She smacked that self-righteous prig around. The "pro-lifers" are trying to get rid of contraception, and that has terrible consequences--AND SHE SAID THAT.
Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)I am not one who wants her for the nomination, but I have no problem praising her on things I think she gets right I think the internet gives people a very all or nothing type mentality.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i put in hof. as a reminder of how to address. not cause she is running.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)haikugal
(6,476 posts)I still think the use of the word rare was used in the context that "yes, we agree that abortion is terrible" but birth control, education etc. brings down the numbers. The emphasis is on the wrong thing. It's not about abortion it's about comprehensive healthcare for women. The word rare is a concession and that must be the way she feels about it, fine, but it sends the wrong message in my view.
Thanks for posting this video kpete the discussion was wonderful!
On edit: I want to say something about Hillary. I love the fact that she's a fighter and can go toe to toe with anyone. I really love that about her and we do need a fighter in the WH, it's other stuff I have problems with.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)rare back in. to me, cleary saying.... dumbshits, this is how you get rare.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Novara
(5,851 posts)It plays right into the right's hands. They want to eliminate safe, legal abortions so women are punished for making their own decisions about their own bodies. They want to keep women down. Keeping them pregnant and/or shaming them for trying to take control of their own lives keeps patriarchy alive. Letting them die from an unsafe abortion only means they get what they deserve for being uppity.
Abortion needs to be safe, legal, and readily available. It does not mean that good birth control doesn't also need to be safe, reliable, and readily available but even so, sometimes birth control fails. Sometimes women don't use it perfectly. In some abusive relationships a woman can't use birth control because she is fully under the control of her partner. Women are raped - even spousal rape.
Many of you seem to be forgetting that we live in the real world. Many of the same people who want to eliminate abortion also want to make birth control rare. Give them an inch and they will take a mile.
Women cannot afford to settle for compromises. Saying abortion needs to be rare plays into their narrative that it's a bad thing. We've had enough of that shit.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)Myself, I was cheering. I'll vote for her just for that response.
Evergreen Emerald
(13,070 posts)She was bad-ass and exactly correct. And people want to find something wrong with her...so they created meaning out of whole cloth just to use it against her.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)She kicked his sorry ass and I love that about her. I take exception to the inclusion of the word rare and with good reason.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)as long as she's been on record in regard to abortion.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)educate and provide so those women do not have to experience? sure. works for me.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Agreeing with her on this doesn't require people to vote for her. You'd think it does, with all this effort.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)follows through their entire educational career and all methods of birth control are available and cheap to all. They have access all that Hillary advocates, and yet, abortion is not less "rare".
The whole "rare" thing is to assure the religious right that liberals agree that women who access an essential tool to their reproductive health are doing something dirty and unacceptable.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)TheKentuckian
(25,029 posts)I'm not sure the data supports the assertion in the big picture.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)And this is is data that both the anti-abortionists use and the pro-choice use. And data that has been replicated with other studies.
TheKentuckian
(25,029 posts)control would make the procedure more rare.
If that is the case then like you point out then how do we explain Sweden or even Europe as a whole.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)That is how you might explain women around the world.
They will have abortions.
Accept it. Abortion on demand when a woman chooses to make that decision and fuck that "Oh it's so difficult," treacle.
Most women are relieved that they have that choice.
TheKentuckian
(25,029 posts)clear for whatever reason but I'm not sure why you are seemingly aging with me.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)This is important information and I want to have it available for discussion. Thanks!
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)I'll try to remember when I get home.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Hell. Denmark is a hair above us and Norway a hair behind. Clearly, education and access to affordable and wide range of birth control options are not likely to budge these numbers.
I remember when organizations like NARAL and NOW were looking for softer language to counteract "pro-life" (because I attended tedious 3 hour meetings around this issue). Pro-life seemed so positive! Unlike that 'dirty' thing we were advocating. Someone somewhere came up with "rare" because, you know (throwing a bone to the assholes), what women sometimes do to facilitate family planning and reproductive health is so odious, it must be made rare.
What is even more distressing is that she claimed, in her speech on the anniversary of Roe v Wade, that education and access could reduce abortion to not ever. It's damn crazy talk and it pisses me off.
haikugal
(6,476 posts)It's so damned important. I can't feel she's supportive of abortion and using that "rare" is the camels nose! Did anyone on this thread ever address this information? You brought it up over and over and I didn't see anyone address it. They keep saying the same thing as though this information didn't exist. Wow....if we can't get people here to address their attitudes how the hell will we impact the teahadists?
Thanks.. Keep up the good work!
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)And as a supporter, I would very much like her to drop the antiquated phrase which was removed from the party platform years ago, with good reason.
You thought I was arguing with you above? Well I think that you're projecting your defensiveness of her on me. I get it, it's rough here during the primaries, but this is important to some of us. I've taken 2 female Democratic gubernatorial candidates for governer to task face to face for using this phrase and I would with Hillary as well.
We will NEVER GET ANYWHERE until we change this stupid bullshit system.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)BobSmith4152
(75 posts)kiva
(4,373 posts)They are medical procedures that carry a risk - not a large one, but still a risk.
Women often need to pass a gauntlet of protestors to get to a clinic, not a pleasant thing to do at the best of times.
So yes, I'm perfectly fine with rare. Always available and legal and safe? Absolutely.
nashville_brook
(20,958 posts)DrKZ
(53 posts)You are 40 times more likely to die from a colonoscopy yet I would never tell anyone it should be rare since it is a voluntary medical procedure that people ought to have at the age of 50 ... and yet saying an abortion should be rare because it carries a risk is not a valid argument medically. http://thinkprogress.org/health/2014/08/08/3469232/abortion-safety-trap-laws/
Abortions are a medical procedure and should be conducted under safe conditions ....
Rare is not what is wanted it should be there and it should be nobody else's business
valerief
(53,235 posts)nashville_brook
(20,958 posts)the use of the word "rare" has always bothered me and i thought i was the only one. i'm sure they use it b/c it polls well to turn heads of a demographic we want on board.
back when they started using the "rare" theme i thought we'd never get to the place where it's questioned. and here we are. bravo.
what has always bothered me about the word is that it's ambiguous as to what it modifies. are we talking about the procedure being rare for one person -- or rare for society as a whole.
1 in 3 women have abortions. IT'S NOT RARE on the social level. it's quite common. on the personal level, it's none of our business how many times a woman accesses the procedure...but in practice, b/c of expense and disruption etc, you want it to be rare. and yet, no one should be able to limit how many times a woman accesses the procedure, which is a notion that's embedded int he language. so, "rare" in the personal context is really annoying. and dangerous.
seems to me we've evolved beyond needing to use the word entirely. we should be able to talk about having full access to family planning AND childcare AND healthcare AND equal pay so that having a family doesn't relegate women to poverty and abuse.
DirkGently
(12,151 posts)Just like "late-term abortions," it was a way to insert the idea that abortions were a moral hazard of some kind. Democrats chose to hope we were talking about giving teenagers as much information and as many options as possible, *including* safe, legal abortion.
But that's not what they meant at all. And that's not what we got.
It's way past time to stop trying to appease people who see any discussion of abortion only as an opportunity to assert their right to control women's bodies and make their healthcare decisions for them.
DirkGently
(12,151 posts)In trying to triangulate a working compromise with people who have no interest in reasonable discussion, we were led to believe the "rare" language was to be about reducing teenage pregnancy with rational measures like intelligent sex education and access to birth control.
Instead, it was taken as a concession that abortion is evil, and the same factions Clinton was trying to appease promptly set about a regime of "abstinence only" education and conflating birth control with "abortifacients."
All along, we were dealing with people with zero concern for women's health or privacy, who at bottom just want to ensure sex = pregnancy = punishment for women.
We need to clarify forcefully and repeatedly:
"Safe, legal, and ON DEMAND"
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Novara
(5,851 posts)Why should they be rare? Why should any outpatient medical procedure be rare?
And why the hell should we play into their narrative that it's a bad thing that needs to be reduced? Isn't it damaging enough that the anti-choice people are making abortion really, really difficult to obtain? We need to play into that narrative too?
We don't live in a perfect world where everyone who wants contraception can easily get it, and it works 100% perfectly 100% of the time. This is why abortion needs to be safe, legal, and easily available to any woman who needs one. Not RARE.