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Beacool

(30,250 posts)
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 02:35 PM Apr 2015

Lane Bryant's #ImNoAngel Campaign Shows What 'Sexy' Really Looks Like



Move over Victoria's Secret. Lane Bryant just won the prize for sexiest campaign of 2015.

The plus-size brand launched its #ImNoAngel advertisements on Monday, featuring models Ashley Graham, Marquita Pring, Candice Huffine and more. The women, styled in Lane Bryant's exclusive bra collection Cacique, define "sexy" in numerous ways during the ad. They're also using social media to further challenge conventional beauty standards.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/06/lane-bryant-no-angel-campaign_n_7010676.html

Kudos to Lane Bryant!!!



I once read that only 1% of women are the size of professional models. Why should society expect all women to aspire to look like a model?

At one point in my life I knew some of the top models in NYC. The one thing they had in common with the rest of us was their insecurity about their looks. Even they didn't think that they were attractive enough.

Does society expect all men to look like GQ models? I doubt it....



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Lane Bryant's #ImNoAngel Campaign Shows What 'Sexy' Really Looks Like (Original Post) Beacool Apr 2015 OP
I LOVE this, Beacool! NYC_SKP Apr 2015 #1
Hi, how are you? Beacool Apr 2015 #2
I'm OK. NYC_SKP Apr 2015 #12
Oh my, I didn't know that you had been ill. Beacool Apr 2015 #20
I know a male model who does magazines and shows. He has to work like hell at it. roguevalley Apr 2015 #32
And Leonard Nimoy's book, Big Beautiful Women. longship Apr 2015 #3
Yes, he was a treasure. Beacool Apr 2015 #5
Oh hell yeah! KamaAina Apr 2015 #4
Sexy is as subjective as anything else The2ndWheel Apr 2015 #6
Yes, but women have been pressured for centuries to conform to a certain look. Beacool Apr 2015 #8
50 Shades of Buscemi Major Nikon Apr 2015 #13
That was great. Beacool Apr 2015 #22
And not every man has been able to live up to the standards of being a good provider The2ndWheel Apr 2015 #14
True....... Beacool Apr 2015 #23
I am currently dating a Big Beautiful Woman derby378 Apr 2015 #7
Good for you. Beacool Apr 2015 #10
Agreed - I was married to an older woman, and I wouldn't mind dating younger, either derby378 Apr 2015 #11
Looks and age are inconsequential in the long run. Beacool Apr 2015 #29
Those are some gorgeous women Aerows Apr 2015 #9
Every one of those women is sexy and lovely!! OregonBlue Apr 2015 #15
they look beautiful samsingh Apr 2015 #16
A step in the right direction. Geoff R. Casavant Apr 2015 #17
They're showing women who could do a Zumba class without hurting their knees. valerief Apr 2015 #19
Well, they still got to sell their products. Beacool Apr 2015 #24
Big girls rock! :) jalan48 Apr 2015 #18
Looks and figures are fleeting in either justhanginon Apr 2015 #21
Hear, hear. Beacool Apr 2015 #26
Can't speak for society Snow Leopard Apr 2015 #25
Good point. Beacool Apr 2015 #28
Welcome to DU, Snow Leopard! calimary Apr 2015 #31
These are normal-sized women. MynameisBlarney Apr 2015 #27
Don't label any of these women as "big": they are normal. procon Apr 2015 #30
You're correct. Beacool Apr 2015 #33
Message deleted by DU the Administrators longship Apr 2015 #34
Great photos, thank you for posting them. Beacool Apr 2015 #35
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
12. I'm OK.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:15 PM
Apr 2015

I just had my fourth head surgery at Stanford last week where they put a 2.5 x 1.5 inch implant in my skull!

Complications from an aneurism surgery last May.

Apparently, I refuse to die.



Dogs R good!

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
20. Oh my, I didn't know that you had been ill.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:48 PM
Apr 2015

I don't post that much here anymore. The nastiness finally go to me.

I hope that you're alright. Thank goodness you survived the aneurysm. I just thought of the local ABC affiliate reporter, Lisa Colagrossi, who died on March 19 of an aneurysm at age 49. Sad story.

I'm so glad that you and the dogs are doing well.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
32. I know a male model who does magazines and shows. He has to work like hell at it.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 05:25 PM
Apr 2015

its no cake walk anywhere. He did score me awesome Lord of the Rings stuff because he knew some of the actors and was a fanboy.

Be who you are. I love you that way.

longship

(40,416 posts)
3. And Leonard Nimoy's book, Big Beautiful Women.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 02:54 PM
Apr 2015

A passionate human, Nimoy was a treasure. Sadly, he will be missed.




A hearty R&K.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
5. Yes, he was a treasure.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 02:56 PM
Apr 2015

As a big Star Trek fan I always admired Nimoy, but his book raised him even higher in my esteem.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
6. Sexy is as subjective as anything else
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 02:58 PM
Apr 2015

And yes, there are many things that society expects men to be, do, or look like.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
8. Yes, but women have been pressured for centuries to conform to a certain look.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:04 PM
Apr 2015

Whatever the look happened to be in their era. Women's fundamental function in life was to be attractive enough to catch a husband and birth children. The most attractive women would have a better chance to make a good match.

Men's primary requirement was to be a good provider, looks were secondary.

The2ndWheel

(7,947 posts)
14. And not every man has been able to live up to the standards of being a good provider
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:30 PM
Apr 2015

Whatever the standard happened to be in their era.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
10. Good for you.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:08 PM
Apr 2015

My point is that a size 0 should not be what all women have to aspire to be considered attractive and successful in life. We all come in all shapes and sizes, just like men.

I also think that the same applies to age. Ageism is just as bad. Personally, there are some older men who make my heart go pitter-patter.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
11. Agreed - I was married to an older woman, and I wouldn't mind dating younger, either
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:14 PM
Apr 2015

The woman I'm currently seeing is my age.

And yes, if I have to choose between a woman with "some extra padding" who knows how to kiss and a woman with an hourglass figure who will only allow a peck on the cheek, I'll probably take the "fat girl."

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
29. Looks and age are inconsequential in the long run.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:17 PM
Apr 2015

The important part is finding one's soul mate. Sometimes that person turns out to be the one least expected.



Geoff R. Casavant

(2,381 posts)
17. A step in the right direction.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:34 PM
Apr 2015

But they could have gone further in my opinion.

Where is the visible cellulite? Where are the large stomachs? These women are what I would call "Hollywood Large." So no, they aren't the 1% of women who look like supermodels, but neither are they representative of the remaining 99%.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
19. They're showing women who could do a Zumba class without hurting their knees.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:47 PM
Apr 2015

I think that's a good size.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
24. Well, they still got to sell their products.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:06 PM
Apr 2015

I'm not blind to the fact that they're are a business, but at least they are challenging the notion that women parading in lingerie have to be the size of the models that Victoria's Secret uses in their campaigns.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
26. Hear, hear.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:10 PM
Apr 2015

Looks are ephemeral. Obviously we have to feel attracted to our partners; but intelligence, respect, a sense of humor and a kind heart win every time. At least they do in my book.



 

Snow Leopard

(348 posts)
25. Can't speak for society
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:06 PM
Apr 2015

but I do know men don't expect all women to look like models. Any pressure there comes from other women imho.

I do find it amusing though when people self proclaim what is sexy or beautiful. Don't think it works that way.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
28. Good point.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:14 PM
Apr 2015

Some of the nastiest comments about women that I have heard have indeed come from other women.

I never understood that. I'm a big supporter of the "sisterhood". I like seeing other women break glass ceilings and achieve goals. I also don't see the point in envying other women's looks. There will always be someone more beautiful and younger than me, that's life.

calimary

(81,419 posts)
31. Welcome to DU, Snow Leopard!
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 05:10 PM
Apr 2015

Glad you're here! We used to have this discussion in high school - who are you really dressing for? Boys? The other girls (especially your friends)? Yourself? Girls in all-girl schools tended to dress for each other, and there was always this ongoing competition - who had the best clothes, the best accessories, the most chic, the newest, the coolest/trendiest, the most, the designer labels and which of those outranked which. Who could shop at Neiman Marcus and who went to Sears, or even to thrift shops. With no boys around, that's all there was.

By the way, lo these many years later, the MOST chic person I know is my best friend who only has enough money to shop at thrift stores. The stuff she finds is AMAZING! She always looks like a million bucks! She's been on MY Best Dressed List ever since we first met.

MynameisBlarney

(2,979 posts)
27. These are normal-sized women.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:12 PM
Apr 2015

Not plus-sized.

Supermodels are....well, I can't even think of anything clever to say, but most "Supermodels" need 500cc's of Country Gravy, STAT!

Skin and bones ain't sexy.

*edit*

Also, too...I'm totally a GQ Model...true story.

procon

(15,805 posts)
30. Don't label any of these women as "big": they are normal.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 04:20 PM
Apr 2015

Yes, normal American women look like them. Maybe most of 'em... certainly almost every woman I know looks normal, just like them. If I had young girls, I'd want them to think of themselves as beautiful and happy to be just as they are, normal looking, confident and empowered, no matter what dress size they wear, or what the scale says, they are normal.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
33. You're correct.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 08:35 PM
Apr 2015

The average US women's size is 14. So these women are the normal American women, not the waif sized women on the catwalks.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
35. Great photos, thank you for posting them.
Wed Apr 8, 2015, 12:38 PM
Apr 2015

Leonard Nimoy was not only everyone's favorite Vulcan, but he was also a Renaissance man. His interests were varied, acting was just one of them, he was also a film director, photographer, author, poet, singer and songwriter. He was a good person who enjoyed mentoring younger people and took to finishing his texts and correspondence with LLAP (live long and prosper).

He is missed.

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