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Brigid

(17,621 posts)
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:48 PM Jan 2015

Anybody else find themselves rolling their eyes any time they see an American flag these days?

I'm not sure when it started -- maybe it was during the Bush years -- but anymore I just find it and other symbols of ersatz patriotism really irritating. And don't even get me started on that smarmy new Almay commercial with Carrie Underwood. Now makeup is patriotic? Really?

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Anybody else find themselves rolling their eyes any time they see an American flag these days? (Original Post) Brigid Jan 2015 OP
No. eom MohRokTah Jan 2015 #1
Nope. Not at all. Desert805 Jan 2015 #2
Personally, I think the American flag is beautiful, but... JaneyVee Jan 2015 #3
+1 Desert805 Jan 2015 #6
It is what it represents to practically ALL human beings OTHER than Americans randys1 Jan 2015 #4
It is a beautiful flag. yeoman6987 Jan 2015 #8
NOt as many coming in as in the past, and we need to SEVERELY criticize this country randys1 Jan 2015 #11
Yes to all !!!!!! yeoman6987 Jan 2015 #17
Those waiting lists are, what? Fiction? MADem Jan 2015 #39
I was talking about those who come here illegally randys1 Jan 2015 #41
We shouldn't let them take our traditions away from us. upaloopa Jan 2015 #30
I told this short story before. randome Jan 2015 #5
My boss rolled his eyes at a small flag in my office Desert805 Jan 2015 #9
Right on! randome Jan 2015 #21
Nope. It's a very pretty flag. karadax Jan 2015 #7
No. zappaman Jan 2015 #10
Not here. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2015 #12
not "any time". only when it's displayed/used with that certain attitude.... unblock Jan 2015 #13
Its strange, but in my neighorhood yuiyoshida Jan 2015 #14
Those are great pics! Brigid Jan 2015 #22
San Francisco has many ... yuiyoshida Jan 2015 #23
My eyes roll and ears almost bleed when I hear, "God bless America." Mnemosyne Jan 2015 #15
God had better bless America, because Bush and Cheney sure KingCharlemagne Jan 2015 #27
Yep...What I really hate is those damn flag lapel pins, and when Obama does it I hate it then too randys1 Jan 2015 #33
Since you ask, no, not at all.... Rowdyboy Jan 2015 #16
I have to say... grasswire Jan 2015 #18
also the "brave" part... annabanana Jan 2015 #49
No. TwilightGardener Jan 2015 #19
No nt hack89 Jan 2015 #20
Flame bait? Oklahoma_Liberal Jan 2015 #24
Nope. Brigid Jan 2015 #29
I don't like the thinking that we are somehow deserving of ruling everyone else in the world dissentient Jan 2015 #25
The empire stuff is terrible. We did great in WWII, but from that we figured we had randys1 Jan 2015 #34
I agree, and we have been doing this for decades now dissentient Jan 2015 #35
I do... PasadenaTrudy Jan 2015 #26
I'm curious SickOfTheOnePct Jan 2015 #42
No. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2015 #28
I had this Government figured out by the age of 10 easychoice Jan 2015 #31
No, not at all. great white snark Jan 2015 #32
No I love the flag but.... Takket Jan 2015 #36
No. nt msanthrope Jan 2015 #37
Truly... countryjake Jan 2015 #38
No..nt Jesus Malverde Jan 2015 #40
Nope...unless it's not properly taken care of. ileus Jan 2015 #43
"Patriotism is the most foolish of passions and the passion of fools." Schopenhauer Tierra_y_Libertad Jan 2015 #44
The American flag is okay Blue_In_AK Jan 2015 #45
Yes. Maedhros Jan 2015 #46
If someone is wearing a flag.... peace13 Jan 2015 #47
No, but I still roll my eyes when I see faded yellow ribbons on gas guzzling SUVs Brother Buzz Jan 2015 #48
The flag, like the Jesus fish has been appropriated by cheesy opportunists to sell shit tularetom Jan 2015 #50
Great point, the flag has basically been turned into an advertising gimmick, or way to sell things dissentient Jan 2015 #52
It's like that stupid Almay ad I mentioned. Brigid Jan 2015 #63
No n/t gladium et scutum Jan 2015 #51
No. displacedtexan Jan 2015 #53
+1 Desert805 Jan 2015 #65
No. I fly one from my house on most days. Throd Jan 2015 #54
Maybe I let the flag get a pass on this one rock Jan 2015 #55
No. A lot of things that wrap themselves in it, yes. JHB Jan 2015 #56
No. nt Bobbie Jo Jan 2015 #57
No. n/t tammywammy Jan 2015 #58
If by "these days" you mean the past 14 years then yes, yes I do. Arugula Latte Jan 2015 #59
I always have alarimer Jan 2015 #60
No. Kaleva Jan 2015 #61
Not at the flag itself, but Jamaal510 Jan 2015 #62
NO. 840high Jan 2015 #64
No! Watch some John Wayne war movies and they'll straighten you out. R B Garr Jan 2015 #66
 

JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
3. Personally, I think the American flag is beautiful, but...
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:50 PM
Jan 2015

It is eye-rolling the way it gets exploited by some.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
4. It is what it represents to practically ALL human beings OTHER than Americans
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:51 PM
Jan 2015

that is the problem.

I know that there was a time that most of the world saw that flag as a symbol of freedom, a symbol of the good guys who fought with other good guys to defeat Hitler and company, etc.


I know true patriots have died for that flag.

I know there was a time when rightly or wrongly the vast majority of Americans would get goose bumps when they saw the flag waving on the 4th of July with some kind of patriotic music playing.

I am not saying those are healthy things, in many cases they are not and those very attitudes and feelings is how we were brought to where we are now, people showing blind faith in someone like Reagan or W...

Teaparty and Repubs have made it very difficult for actual patriots, to be proud.

I am proud, just not of them.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
8. It is a beautiful flag.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:56 PM
Jan 2015

We really should be lucky to live here warts and all. Why do we have so many immigrants coming here if we are so bad? I am proud of our country overall.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
11. NOt as many coming in as in the past, and we need to SEVERELY criticize this country
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:58 PM
Jan 2015

whenever necessary because nobody else is allowed to that can make a difference.

We have tens of millions of vicious, ugly racist and homophobic assholes here.

But we also have great people and we are very generous people.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
39. Those waiting lists are, what? Fiction?
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:30 PM
Jan 2015
https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/immigration/report/2014/10/23/59040/the-facts-on-immigration-today-3/#population

Foreign-born population
The foreign-born population consisted of 40.7 million people in 2012. Broken down by immigration status, the foreign-born population was composed of 18.6 million naturalized U.S. citizens and 22.1 million noncitizens in 2012. Of the noncitizens, approximately 13.3 million were legal permanent residents, 11.3 million were unauthorized migrants, and 1.9 million were on temporary visas.
The past decade saw a significant increase in the foreign-born population. Between 2000 and 2012, there was a 31.2 percent increase in the foreign-born population. During this period, the immigrant population grew from 31.1 million to 40.8 million people.
The foreign-born share of the U.S. population has more than doubled since the 1960s, but it is still below its all-time high. The immigrant population was 5.4 percent of the total U.S. population in 1960. By 2012, immigrants made up 13 percent of the total U.S. population. Still, today’s share of the immigrant population as a percentage of the total U.S. population remains below its peak in 1890, when 14.8 percent of the U.S. population had immigrated to the country.
The countries of origin of today’s immigrants are more diverse than they were 50 years ago. In 1960, a full 75 percent of the foreign-born population that resided in the United States came from Europe, while in 2012, only 11.8 percent of the immigrant population emigrated from Europe. In 2012, 11.6 million foreign-born residents—28 percent of the foreign-born population—came from Mexico; 2.3 million immigrants came from China; 2 million came from India; 1.9 million came from the Philippines; 1.3 million came from both Vietnam and El Salvador; and 1.1 million came from both Cuba and Korea.
Immigrants today are putting down roots across the United States, in contrast to trends seen 50 years ago. In the 1960s, two-thirds of U.S. states had populations in which less than 5 percent of individuals were foreign born. The opposite is true today: In 2012, 61 percent of the foreign-born population lived in the West and the South—a dramatic departure from trends 50 years ago, when 70 percent of the immigrant population lived in the Northeast and Midwest.....

Much more at link.

People are waiting in line to come to America, those who are using legal methods, anyway.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
41. I was talking about those who come here illegally
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:33 PM
Jan 2015

But then Obama has done such a great job sending people back, that may have more to do with it than anything else.

Our empire actions are wrong, we have much to fix here, MUCH

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
30. We shouldn't let them take our traditions away from us.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:18 PM
Jan 2015

The right does not own the flag or the words freedom heritage patriot.
When I was a kid in the sixties this was also a problem. I remember a girl on NPR back then talking about carrying the flag up to the front of the room as a Girl Scout at a meeting and feeling that the other side had stolen the flag and it's meaning yet she felt the flag was hers too even though she disagreed with the other side's politics.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
5. I told this short story before.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:53 PM
Jan 2015

My new neighbors (well, not so new now), when they moved in, had an American flag flying on their front porch every day. Still do. I assumed that meant they were right-wingers but once election day arrived, they had Democratic signs in their yard and once I got to know them, I realized how much I was mistaken.

No, the American flag doesn't make me think of all the bad things we've done, any more than hearing that someone is Christian immediately reminds me of the history of religion.

For that matter, if you hear that someone is Muslim, do you immediately think of all the atrocities committed in the name of The-Prophet-who-shall-not-be-pictured?
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Desert805

(392 posts)
9. My boss rolled his eyes at a small flag in my office
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:57 PM
Jan 2015

(I have lots of stuff on the walls)

and tried out some thinly disguised insult about lapel pins or some such shit.



I got kinda mad and told him it was exactly because of those assholes that I fly mine. They don't get to steal the flag as their own. That's horse shit.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
21. Right on!
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:08 PM
Jan 2015

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karadax

(284 posts)
7. Nope. It's a very pretty flag.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 06:55 PM
Jan 2015

I do shrug when they all come out of the woodwork on the usual holidays. Why not do it every day if you have one and a place to raise it ?

yuiyoshida

(41,861 posts)
14. Its strange, but in my neighorhood
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:02 PM
Jan 2015

I hardly ever see flags. (City and Fed buildings do) If you drive around a bit, you might see one or two on residential houses but in San Francisco, at least in my neighborhood, I see few.. infact, If I go to Chinatown, I will see more Taiwanese flags there than American Flags. I love shopping there..



yuiyoshida

(41,861 posts)
23. San Francisco has many ...
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:12 PM
Jan 2015

And you will even of course see Japanese flags in Japantown!


across the street is the Chinese Embasy ..


I have also seen Vietnamese flags in Little Hanoi here in San Francisco. Little Italy, has lots of Italian Flags..



I have seen French flags and of course this flag...

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
15. My eyes roll and ears almost bleed when I hear, "God bless America."
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:02 PM
Jan 2015

I always hear 'why?' after, somehow, in my mind.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
33. Yep...What I really hate is those damn flag lapel pins, and when Obama does it I hate it then too
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:24 PM
Jan 2015

I REALLY hate it when a politician says "God Bless America"

listen to Carlin about that one


grasswire

(50,130 posts)
18. I have to say...
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:05 PM
Jan 2015

....that when I hear the words "land of the free and the home of the brave..." I cringe, knowing how our freedom has diminished of late.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
29. Nope.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:17 PM
Jan 2015

But ersatz patriotism is extremely dangerous, and I think too many people forget that. Just ask the Wounded Warrior Project and similar organizations.

 

dissentient

(861 posts)
25. I don't like the thinking that we are somehow deserving of ruling everyone else in the world
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:13 PM
Jan 2015

It is seen even in Democrats, at least, some of the more fervent ones.

It's as if they think we (the USA) deserve to dominate the world, and intervene in countries as we please, such as Libya, Syria, Iraq, and Afghanistan.

I think there is a lot to criticize in our foreign policy, we have made things worse in the Middle East, not better.

You would think we would have learned a thing or two from the Iraq intervention, and the resulting total disaster, but it doesn't seem to have sunk in for some people.

It's as if they think our "freedom bombs" really do help the oppressed around the world, and toppling leaders, that are no doubt bad, but at least they are better than the total chaos that is left behind when we help topple those leaders.

randys1

(16,286 posts)
34. The empire stuff is terrible. We did great in WWII, but from that we figured we had
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:25 PM
Jan 2015

the right to go around and tell anybody and their uncle what to do.

 

dissentient

(861 posts)
35. I agree, and we have been doing this for decades now
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:27 PM
Jan 2015

I don't get it. I really want to ask these people who believe in this kind of thing, do you really think Americans are somehow superior human beings to everyone else? And then ask them, Are you really that arrogant?

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
26. I do...
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:13 PM
Jan 2015

Every other house on my street has a flag for some reason. I know these people aren't veterans either.

easychoice

(1,043 posts)
31. I had this Government figured out by the age of 10
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:19 PM
Jan 2015

I stopped saying the pledge of allegiance in the 5th. grade.If you were a history teacher you did not want me in your class.Because I would beat them with the truth like a rented mule.They hated me.

Takket

(21,626 posts)
36. No I love the flag but....
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:29 PM
Jan 2015

If saddens me that it is the symbol of what we believe in but that symbol is all we have left. The GOP is dismantling everything the flag stands for.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
45. The American flag is okay
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:44 PM
Jan 2015

but I prefer Alaska's eight stars of gold on a field of blue. (A lot of people don't think Alaska is part of the US anyway.).

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
46. Yes.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:47 PM
Jan 2015

I was sanctioned at work back in 2003 or so. The company wanted us to put little U.S. flags on our workstations, and I refused on the grounds that "I don't want any symbol on my desk that is also on the side of a helicopter than just gunned up a wedding in Afghanistan."

That didn't sit well with my boss, but today I see the U.S. flag as a symbol of hegemony and oppression, and not one of freedom.

 

peace13

(11,076 posts)
47. If someone is wearing a flag....
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 07:52 PM
Jan 2015

....I prepare for a screwing. I used to display the flag at home and flew it every day when my step brothers and sisters were in Desert Storm but since the * era I can no longer look at it. Until we have freedom and justice at home the flag mocks us. The flag didn't mar itself. That was done by selfish, greedy, politicians, clergy and the ignorant folks who followed blindly.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
50. The flag, like the Jesus fish has been appropriated by cheesy opportunists to sell shit
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:02 PM
Jan 2015

The flag itself is beautiful and I still love what it is supposed to symbolize.

What I hate to see is some sleazy used car salesman standing under a one acre flag giving his sales pitch.

 

dissentient

(861 posts)
52. Great point, the flag has basically been turned into an advertising gimmick, or way to sell things
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:06 PM
Jan 2015

at this point.

Whether that truly is an appropriate symbol for America these days, I think it might be.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
63. It's like that stupid Almay ad I mentioned.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 09:01 PM
Jan 2015

Patriotism gets conflated with things that are completely unrelated, like makeup.

displacedtexan

(15,696 posts)
53. No.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:08 PM
Jan 2015

I noticed right after 9 11 that all of the people who had to rush to the hardware store to buy flags were shit kickers and confederate flag decal loonies.

Those of us who grew up in and honored the "Ask not what your country can do for you" era already owned and flew the flag.

rock

(13,218 posts)
55. Maybe I let the flag get a pass on this one
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:10 PM
Jan 2015

But I do roll my eyes at just about anything that's symbolic only and has no substance.

JHB

(37,162 posts)
56. No. A lot of things that wrap themselves in it, yes.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:19 PM
Jan 2015

The flag itself, no. It's mine, it's ours. It's not their toy.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
60. I always have
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:48 PM
Jan 2015

It's would be one thing if people only waved the flag on special occasions, but it is a near constant thing.

"American F Yeah!" is all I ever hear.

I get so tired of "America is the best country on the face of the earth" nonsense. It's is embarrassing to be an American, especially in my interactions with people from other countries. I always feel I have to apologize for their behavior.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
62. Not at the flag itself, but
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 08:57 PM
Jan 2015

at the wingnuts who exploit it and label those of us who disagree with them as "unAmerican" or "unpatriotic." And this is not really related to the flag, but I also roll my eyes when people bring up the "founding fathers". How could Washington, Lincoln, et al. truly be "founding fathers" when there were already indigenous people here centuries before any of them were president?

R B Garr

(16,977 posts)
66. No! Watch some John Wayne war movies and they'll straighten you out.
Wed Jan 14, 2015, 09:13 PM
Jan 2015

Seriously. I kind of get where you're coming from, but the past couple of days we've gotten on a John Wayne war movie kick -- so far, In Harm's Way and They Were Expendable, and we've been looking up some of the battles around that era as we're watching. It brings you back to the sacrifices so many made for that Flag. I know that may sound corny, but we've really gotten a lot out of it. But he's ex-Navy, and I'm a Navy brat, so those memories kind of help with the bigger picture instead of the phony pablum you're referring to.

There's also a National Geographic special about the Battle of Midway that we've started watching. It really makes you realize what was at stake and how much personal sacrifice was involved.

I know what you mean, though. It's hard to watch the GOP'ers usurp a national symbol for their rah-rah political gain and other commercialism, etc.

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