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mopinko

(70,135 posts)
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 12:56 AM Jan 2015

you just never know where the ripples you make will end up.

through the wonders of fb, i bumped into the daughter of a friend from waaaaaaayy back.
when i knew her mom, i was a single mom, who jumped at a carpenter's apprenticeship, one of the best jobs available in my old home town. this was the late 70's.
i had fallen in with a group of crazy women. we called ourselves the fox valley women's coalition. proud, rabble rousing feminists on a mission.
her mom was a lawyer. we had a shrink, a librarian, and a couple moms. this young lady was prolly about 10 or so at the time.

she barely remembered my name at first. when i reminded her who i was, she said, oh, you bet i remember you trouble makers.

she ended up working on oil rigs. she is up in alaska, w bp, and w a 2 year degree is at a level where pretty much all her peers are engineers. she also has a mission to bring women into skilled trades.

her mom died not long after that. i had to tell her how proud she would have been of her.
she thanked me for setting an example for her.

my little heart is going pitter pat.
you just dont know who you are fighting for sometimes.

so fight on.

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you just never know where the ripples you make will end up. (Original Post) mopinko Jan 2015 OP
Good job, my dear mopinko! CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2015 #1
looking forward to a good long chat one day. mopinko Jan 2015 #2
I hope you get to have that chat one day. CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2015 #4
really warms my heart that that little group had an impact. mopinko Jan 2015 #5
K & R... Wounded Bear Jan 2015 #3
Fight on and great story-thank you! nt babylonsister Jan 2015 #6
Had to get a tissue.... alittlelark Jan 2015 #7
yeah, me too. mopinko Jan 2015 #10
What a wonderful story. Thank you! pnwmom Jan 2015 #8
Neat shenmue Jan 2015 #9
Wow.....you must be proud. a kennedy Jan 2015 #11
i am i am mopinko Jan 2015 #12
a most heartfelt k and r. thank you for reminding us that we don't always know just how much niyad Jan 2015 #13
Multiply by millions of ornery individuals and, BOOM, we get a better world. K&R proverbialwisdom Jan 2015 #14
i like ornery. mopinko Jan 2015 #16
lead by example dembotoz Jan 2015 #15

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,641 posts)
1. Good job, my dear mopinko!
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 01:03 AM
Jan 2015

You're so right: you never know where your influence will go.

You planted the seed, and this strong young woman has carried it into the future.

mopinko

(70,135 posts)
2. looking forward to a good long chat one day.
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 01:06 AM
Jan 2015

i actually ended up spending a few years doing what she is trying to do. the org that i helped start lives on, going strong at 30yo.
so, i knew i had made some ripples.
i just had no idea how early that was.

it's kinda crazy.

mopinko

(70,135 posts)
5. really warms my heart that that little group had an impact.
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 01:21 AM
Jan 2015

we pretty much came and went within a few years. did a couple conferences, made some noise. we used to occasionally vandalize the knights of columbus big anti-abortion billboard. (sure the statute of limitations is up on that. tho the damn sign is still there.) we supported several small downtown bars.
it was and is a very conservative little town. didn't know we made a dent.

tho members went on to do great things. one of them founded the first battered women's shelter in that town. when that was a new thing.
and that librarian was a great subversive for many years. of course.

niyad

(113,370 posts)
13. a most heartfelt k and r. thank you for reminding us that we don't always know just how much
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 03:40 PM
Jan 2015

our actions matter.

hope you get to have that chat soon, and I hope things calm down for you this year.

proverbialwisdom

(4,959 posts)
14. Multiply by millions of ornery individuals and, BOOM, we get a better world. K&R
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 04:14 PM
Jan 2015
http://www.rfksafilm.org/html/speeches/unicape.php

"It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance."
― Robert F. Kennedy

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."
― Margaret Mead

“The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.”
― Martin Luther King Jr.

Synchronicity, check it out: http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026028591

mopinko

(70,135 posts)
16. i like ornery.
Fri Jan 2, 2015, 04:35 PM
Jan 2015

and yes, it is true. all true.

i plant a lot of seeds. (yuck yuck, i am a farmer.) and i know that some have sprouted around the city.
i hope that ripple goes on and on. i know that i have been awash in the ripples of others who are doing what i am doing.

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