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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumsyou just never know where the ripples you make will end up.
through the wonders of fb, i bumped into the daughter of a friend from waaaaaaayy back.
when i knew her mom, i was a single mom, who jumped at a carpenter's apprenticeship, one of the best jobs available in my old home town. this was the late 70's.
i had fallen in with a group of crazy women. we called ourselves the fox valley women's coalition. proud, rabble rousing feminists on a mission.
her mom was a lawyer. we had a shrink, a librarian, and a couple moms. this young lady was prolly about 10 or so at the time.
she barely remembered my name at first. when i reminded her who i was, she said, oh, you bet i remember you trouble makers.
she ended up working on oil rigs. she is up in alaska, w bp, and w a 2 year degree is at a level where pretty much all her peers are engineers. she also has a mission to bring women into skilled trades.
her mom died not long after that. i had to tell her how proud she would have been of her.
she thanked me for setting an example for her.
my little heart is going pitter pat.
you just dont know who you are fighting for sometimes.
so fight on.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,641 posts)You're so right: you never know where your influence will go.
You planted the seed, and this strong young woman has carried it into the future.
mopinko
(70,135 posts)i actually ended up spending a few years doing what she is trying to do. the org that i helped start lives on, going strong at 30yo.
so, i knew i had made some ripples.
i just had no idea how early that was.
it's kinda crazy.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,641 posts)mopinko
(70,135 posts)we pretty much came and went within a few years. did a couple conferences, made some noise. we used to occasionally vandalize the knights of columbus big anti-abortion billboard. (sure the statute of limitations is up on that. tho the damn sign is still there.) we supported several small downtown bars.
it was and is a very conservative little town. didn't know we made a dent.
tho members went on to do great things. one of them founded the first battered women's shelter in that town. when that was a new thing.
and that librarian was a great subversive for many years. of course.
Wounded Bear
(58,670 posts)for truth.
babylonsister
(171,074 posts)alittlelark
(18,890 posts)......allergies, of course......
mopinko
(70,135 posts)and since my kids have all been shits lately, it was especially welcome.
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)a kennedy
(29,675 posts)mopinko
(70,135 posts)and it was a real shot in the arm when i really needed one.
niyad
(113,370 posts)our actions matter.
hope you get to have that chat soon, and I hope things calm down for you this year.
proverbialwisdom
(4,959 posts)"It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance."
― Robert F. Kennedy
― Margaret Mead
― Martin Luther King Jr.
Synchronicity, check it out: http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026028591
mopinko
(70,135 posts)and yes, it is true. all true.
i plant a lot of seeds. (yuck yuck, i am a farmer.) and i know that some have sprouted around the city.
i hope that ripple goes on and on. i know that i have been awash in the ripples of others who are doing what i am doing.
dembotoz
(16,808 posts)way cool