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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 01:57 AM Dec 2014

I think my wife and I will be taking a break for a week or two.

Except for The Laugh out Loud cat-toons which my wife looks forward too EVERY Sunday.


I think we need to put some distance from us and politics and well news in general. my wife is showing signs of depression though she may not realize it yet.


Some of you may feel we are running but have had a bad year.


Yes my wife's jury duty ended at the beginning of the year but that 18 month process really shook her belief in her fellow man to begin with.

I had two grandmother's pass away as well as a step grandmother.

we lost 2 cats

My mother had a bad issue--thought it was a stroke but she hit her head on the faust of the tub and was on blood thinners... ended up having bleeding on the brain and well ended up staying in ICU (fully alerted) for a week.

Than my brother almost died. He is home now and making a slow recovery but it will be a full one.

I think all of this has overwhelmed my wife who look at the constitution as her bible and the bill of rights as her 10 commandments.

Yes, she knows the founding fathers where flawed but they did aspire to something noble when creating this country that she sees being destroyed with Corporate greed, destruction of the middle class, the fear-mongering patriot act and just the whole events since Zimmerman, Ferguson, NY...

She needs time to heal... she is my liberal thought process. I grew up in a republican home and she has shown me a lot. I am not nearly as liberal as she but I learned from her.

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I think my wife and I will be taking a break for a week or two. (Original Post) diabeticman Dec 2014 OP
sleep deeply and breathe fresh air irisblue Dec 2014 #1
Good for you. Gotta feed the soul. roody Dec 2014 #2
Sometimes you have to do that Marrah_G Dec 2014 #3
Rest Easy - None Of Us Can Take On The World Alone cantbeserious Dec 2014 #4
Everyone needs a break now and then. And life sure does get DebJ Dec 2014 #5
Take time off and do the holiday thing House of Roberts Dec 2014 #6
Positive thought to you and your wife. onecaliberal Dec 2014 #7
Realizing you need to take a break is good, KMOD Dec 2014 #8
Tough stuff. Vibes to you all. applegrove Dec 2014 #9
Be well cherokeeprogressive Dec 2014 #10
Take care! DU will be here, if you need some fresh air after breathing the lies of corporate media C Moon Dec 2014 #11
I don't blame you. murielm99 Dec 2014 #12
Yes - you need to KT2000 Dec 2014 #13
Carpe Diem ErikJ Dec 2014 #14
Take care of each other; nothing is more important right now Hekate Dec 2014 #15
You do not have to go far; - Right here on DU we have topic forums for No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #16
You need to heal, too, my good friend. longship Dec 2014 #17
Keep the peace. resist resist resist. Sweeney Dec 2014 #18
I understand... SoapBox Dec 2014 #19
Wishing you both a joy & laughter filled hiatus! Enjoy some peaceful time together. (Hugs) peacebird Dec 2014 #20
Take a break to de-stress and enjoy the holiday season. Snarkoleptic Dec 2014 #21
Breaks can be a good thing etherealtruth Dec 2014 #22
I have not often responded to your posts, but woo me with science Dec 2014 #23
I totally understand.!!!!! I have tried onecent Dec 2014 #24
I hope you and your wife will be well. Please be good to yourself, LiberalLoner Dec 2014 #25
Good for you! oldandhappy Dec 2014 #26

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
3. Sometimes you have to do that
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:04 AM
Dec 2014

Especially if someone suffers from depression. Too much bad news can put the person into a downward spiral.

DebJ

(7,699 posts)
5. Everyone needs a break now and then. And life sure does get
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:06 AM
Dec 2014

incredibly tough sometimes. Had a stream of bad issues myself the last two years, one thing after another,
out of control, so many family members, that I have not the energy left to invest much now with politics.
Fighting to have the energy to just clean the house these days.

Put on some old rock and roll and blast it. That gets the serotonin pumping.............

House of Roberts

(5,174 posts)
6. Take time off and do the holiday thing
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:10 AM
Dec 2014

however your clan does it.

Don't let Christmas wear you out.

January will be soon enough to return to the fray, as the new Congress is sworn in.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
8. Realizing you need to take a break is good,
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:23 AM
Dec 2014


I wish your wife would post for herself sometime though. When she feels up to it.

C Moon

(12,213 posts)
11. Take care! DU will be here, if you need some fresh air after breathing the lies of corporate media
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:39 AM
Dec 2014

that surrounds us all.

Sorry to hear of your tough times. Best wishes!

murielm99

(30,741 posts)
12. I don't blame you.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 02:43 AM
Dec 2014

That is a lot of stress, even though you have each other.

I know what depression can be like. Help her stay strong. You will get through these times.

Enjoy your holidays as best you can. Let them lighten things for you and help keep your mind off things during your break. When you return, we will welcome you.

KT2000

(20,581 posts)
13. Yes - you need to
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:02 AM
Dec 2014

enjoy nature, good companionship, and read some humorous books, etc. It has been a rough time for you.
Peace to you and yours.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
14. Carpe Diem
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:32 AM
Dec 2014

Carpe Diem

Attitude is everything.
Bliss comes from within.
Challenge the status quo.
Don't lose your marvels.
Eat dessert first.
Forgive and let go.
Get off the couch.
Help others.
Initiate possibilities.
Just be yourself.
Kindle your passions.
Live, love, laugh.
Make your own luck.
No rain, no rainbow.
Open new doors.
Play with abandon.
Quit worrying.
Reach for the stars.
Savor each moment.
There are no guarantees.
Use your intuition.
Voice your truth.
Walk with a smile.
Xpect the best.
You only live once.
Zest to live in the now.

Hekate

(90,708 posts)
15. Take care of each other; nothing is more important right now
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:39 AM
Dec 2014

Turn off all the media for the rest of the year. Seriously, it's only 3 weeks!

When you return, everything will be right where you left it, but the change will be in you. Hopefully, your perspective will have improved, along with your mood and health.

You've both had a lot of losses in a short time, and you need to give yourselves a break.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
16. You do not have to go far; - Right here on DU we have topic forums for
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:40 AM
Dec 2014

Good news;
Off beat - which offers us; Humor, and
Weird news.

I don't mean to make light of your current problems, but I just had a few belly laughs looking over some of the offerings in Weird News.

Take care; do whatever you need to get yourself and spouse back on track.

longship

(40,416 posts)
17. You need to heal, too, my good friend.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 04:03 AM
Dec 2014

Sometimes one has to set things aside.

In the meantime, you will know that our thoughts here on DU will be with you.

Peace, my friend.

We anticipate your return.

My best regards.

Snarkoleptic

(5,997 posts)
21. Take a break to de-stress and enjoy the holiday season.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 09:56 AM
Dec 2014

I know it's cliche', but try to live in the moment and notice some beauty in life that you may have overlooked.
Be well and I hope to see you back when the time is right!

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
23. I have not often responded to your posts, but
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 10:04 AM
Dec 2014

I have followed them closely. I appreciate your voice and your wife's.

We all need a rest sometimes from the violence that is being done to our democracy, and to us.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
24. I totally understand.!!!!! I have tried
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 10:16 AM
Dec 2014

to take a break also....it's a bit of an addiction....Good luck - sounds like you need a break.

It has been an ugly year for SOOO MANY and bound to get uglier!

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
25. I hope you and your wife will be well. Please be good to yourself,
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 11:23 AM
Dec 2014

We will miss you, but I totally understand.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
26. Good for you!
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 11:58 AM
Dec 2014

Excellent decision. Hope you have local places to walk and a good local library (for non political stuff, smile), and a few local holiday concerts. I have been to one and anticipate another. Music is great therapy. You have been thru a lot. Hang close together. Sending hugs.

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