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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI think my wife and I will be taking a break for a week or two.
Except for The Laugh out Loud cat-toons which my wife looks forward too EVERY Sunday.
I think we need to put some distance from us and politics and well news in general. my wife is showing signs of depression though she may not realize it yet.
Some of you may feel we are running but have had a bad year.
Yes my wife's jury duty ended at the beginning of the year but that 18 month process really shook her belief in her fellow man to begin with.
I had two grandmother's pass away as well as a step grandmother.
we lost 2 cats
My mother had a bad issue--thought it was a stroke but she hit her head on the faust of the tub and was on blood thinners... ended up having bleeding on the brain and well ended up staying in ICU (fully alerted) for a week.
Than my brother almost died. He is home now and making a slow recovery but it will be a full one.
I think all of this has overwhelmed my wife who look at the constitution as her bible and the bill of rights as her 10 commandments.
Yes, she knows the founding fathers where flawed but they did aspire to something noble when creating this country that she sees being destroyed with Corporate greed, destruction of the middle class, the fear-mongering patriot act and just the whole events since Zimmerman, Ferguson, NY...
She needs time to heal... she is my liberal thought process. I grew up in a republican home and she has shown me a lot. I am not nearly as liberal as she but I learned from her.
irisblue
(32,978 posts)see you when you come back
roody
(10,849 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)Especially if someone suffers from depression. Too much bad news can put the person into a downward spiral.
cantbeserious
(13,039 posts)eom
DebJ
(7,699 posts)incredibly tough sometimes. Had a stream of bad issues myself the last two years, one thing after another,
out of control, so many family members, that I have not the energy left to invest much now with politics.
Fighting to have the energy to just clean the house these days.
Put on some old rock and roll and blast it. That gets the serotonin pumping.............
House of Roberts
(5,174 posts)however your clan does it.
Don't let Christmas wear you out.
January will be soon enough to return to the fray, as the new Congress is sworn in.
onecaliberal
(32,861 posts)KMOD
(7,906 posts)I wish your wife would post for herself sometime though. When she feels up to it.
applegrove
(118,677 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)C Moon
(12,213 posts)that surrounds us all.
Sorry to hear of your tough times. Best wishes!
murielm99
(30,741 posts)That is a lot of stress, even though you have each other.
I know what depression can be like. Help her stay strong. You will get through these times.
Enjoy your holidays as best you can. Let them lighten things for you and help keep your mind off things during your break. When you return, we will welcome you.
KT2000
(20,581 posts)enjoy nature, good companionship, and read some humorous books, etc. It has been a rough time for you.
Peace to you and yours.
ErikJ
(6,335 posts)Carpe Diem
Attitude is everything.
Bliss comes from within.
Challenge the status quo.
Don't lose your marvels.
Eat dessert first.
Forgive and let go.
Get off the couch.
Help others.
Initiate possibilities.
Just be yourself.
Kindle your passions.
Live, love, laugh.
Make your own luck.
No rain, no rainbow.
Open new doors.
Play with abandon.
Quit worrying.
Reach for the stars.
Savor each moment.
There are no guarantees.
Use your intuition.
Voice your truth.
Walk with a smile.
Xpect the best.
You only live once.
Zest to live in the now.
Hekate
(90,708 posts)Turn off all the media for the rest of the year. Seriously, it's only 3 weeks!
When you return, everything will be right where you left it, but the change will be in you. Hopefully, your perspective will have improved, along with your mood and health.
You've both had a lot of losses in a short time, and you need to give yourselves a break.
No Vested Interest
(5,167 posts)Good news;
Off beat - which offers us; Humor, and
Weird news.
I don't mean to make light of your current problems, but I just had a few belly laughs looking over some of the offerings in Weird News.
Take care; do whatever you need to get yourself and spouse back on track.
longship
(40,416 posts)Sometimes one has to set things aside.
In the meantime, you will know that our thoughts here on DU will be with you.
Peace, my friend.
We anticipate your return.
My best regards.
Sweeney
(505 posts)We can't possibly win. Now let's have fun trying.
Sweeney
SoapBox
(18,791 posts)Sounds like you two need some time and many here understand.
My best regards.
peacebird
(14,195 posts)Snarkoleptic
(5,997 posts)I know it's cliche', but try to live in the moment and notice some beauty in life that you may have overlooked.
Be well and I hope to see you back when the time is right!
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)Come back refreshed.
Be well!
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)I have followed them closely. I appreciate your voice and your wife's.
We all need a rest sometimes from the violence that is being done to our democracy, and to us.
onecent
(6,096 posts)to take a break also....it's a bit of an addiction....Good luck - sounds like you need a break.
It has been an ugly year for SOOO MANY and bound to get uglier!
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)We will miss you, but I totally understand.
oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)Excellent decision. Hope you have local places to walk and a good local library (for non political stuff, smile), and a few local holiday concerts. I have been to one and anticipate another. Music is great therapy. You have been thru a lot. Hang close together. Sending hugs.