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madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 01:10 AM Dec 2014

I call this righteous anger indeed.

She should not be expected to accept an apology from the man who kept choking her husband while he was saying "I can't breathe".

I missed this a few days ago, and her answer is powerful.

'Hell No!': Eric Garner's Widow Rejects Officer's Condolences Amid Shock Over Grand Jury's Decision

At a press conference Wednesday at the Harlem headquarters of the National Action Network, the advocacy group founded by Al Sharpton, Garner's widow, Esaw Garner, and his mother, Gwen Carr, expressed their disappointment with the grand jury's decision and their frustration that Pantaleo would not be held accountable by a court.

Esaw Garner became visibly angry when asked if she accepted the remorse Pantaleo expressed earlier that day. In a statement, Pantaleo offered his condolences to the family and said he never intended to harm Garner.

"Hell no!" Garner replied. "The time for remorse would have been when my husband was yelling to breathe."

"No, I don't accept his apology. No, I could care less about his condolences," she continued. "He's still working. He's still getting a paycheck. He's still feeding his kids, when my husband is six feet under and I'm looking for a way to feed my kids now."

"Who's going to play Santa Claus for my grandkids this year?" she said. "Who's going to play Santa Claus?"
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I call this righteous anger indeed. (Original Post) madfloridian Dec 2014 OP
Indeed..... daleanime Dec 2014 #1
Indeed. moondust Dec 2014 #2
Damn straight! silverweb Dec 2014 #3
It's bad. chervilant Dec 2014 #4
hear, hear AtomicKitten Dec 2014 #5
heartbreaking BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2014 #6
Eric Garner's daughter tweeted this tonight marym625 Dec 2014 #7
An apology like that is meaningless. WhiteAndNerdy Dec 2014 #8
.... DeSwiss Dec 2014 #9
She shouldn't be scolded for saying how she feels. LeftyMom Dec 2014 #10
Wrong. Anger is much needed at times. madfloridian Dec 2014 #11

moondust

(19,988 posts)
2. Indeed.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 01:35 AM
Dec 2014

That gang of cops had no business laying a hand on him. Over a few cents in taxes? WTF? Write him a ticket and tell him to show up in court. Good lord.

WhiteAndNerdy

(365 posts)
8. An apology like that is meaningless.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:17 AM
Dec 2014

His lawyer or a superior at the NYPD probably told him to say it, purely for PR purposes. Mrs. Garner cut right through the bullshit when she said, "The time for remorse would have been when my husband was yelling to breathe." I hate insincere apologies made in response to pressure or in an attempt to manipulate public perceptions. They're a waste of everyone's time and can actually cause even more hurt.

 

DeSwiss

(27,137 posts)
9. ....
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:26 AM
Dec 2014

''Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.'' ~Mark Twain

madfloridian

(88,117 posts)
11. Wrong. Anger is much needed at times.
Mon Dec 8, 2014, 03:39 AM
Dec 2014

There are the kinds of anger that linger and make one bitter. But there is an anger that is vital and necessary for times like these.

That lady is 100% right for expressing her feelings, and she will be better off for it.

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