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Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 05:29 PM Dec 2014

We've just added a new member to our family

Meet Dude. He was just rescued from a shelter. My mother is suffering from dementia, is pretty disconnected from so much, but when ever she is at my house and sees my little cat, Sophie, she perks right up. So, my brother started visiting our local shelter, spending time with lots of cats, waiting for the right vibe to hit. And, it hit with Dude. I haven't met him yet, but I'm already in love with him. Such a beauty. I've read that an animal companion can make such a difference with dementia sufferers. Fingers crossed Dude strikes a cord with Mom.

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We've just added a new member to our family (Original Post) Siwsan Dec 2014 OP
Gorgeous--blue eyes and butterscotch coat.. hlthe2b Dec 2014 #1
Awwwww! Odin2005 Dec 2014 #2
I do so hope Dude and Mom hit it off. Blessings to you... and them! CurtEastPoint Dec 2014 #3
What a gorgeous Dude! Arugula Latte Dec 2014 #4
What A Cool Name, Dude. kydo Dec 2014 #5
We had a Pyr snpsmom Dec 2014 #36
may Dude become a loving companion for ur mom Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #6
The funny thing is, until she developed dementia, she really disliked cats! Siwsan Dec 2014 #8
He's beautiful! May your Mom and Dude spend many precious livetohike Dec 2014 #7
Awwww Nice family to do this. oldandhappy Dec 2014 #9
A beautiful cat brer cat Dec 2014 #10
Hoping for the best for your Mom and Dude! mountain grammy Dec 2014 #11
Orange kitties are the best Freddie Dec 2014 #12
A friend of mine had a big orange cat named Tsavo Siwsan Dec 2014 #13
My Tater would agree. WorseBeforeBetter Dec 2014 #39
What a cutie matt819 Dec 2014 #14
Dude is about 15 pounds of very mellow cat Siwsan Dec 2014 #16
He's a beauty! CrispyQ Dec 2014 #15
Awwww. He's a beauty! Triana Dec 2014 #17
I used to bring my yellow lab on visits to my dad in the nursing home and a lot of the other... Gidney N Cloyd Dec 2014 #18
I've had so many cats over the last 35 years Le Taz Hot Dec 2014 #19
I absolutely will Siwsan Dec 2014 #20
He's so handsome gwheezie Dec 2014 #21
dude is about a dark stripe from Morris the cat backwoodsbob Dec 2014 #22
Thanks Siwsan Dec 2014 #24
He looks like one cool cat. hifiguy Dec 2014 #23
Way to go! Scruffy Rumbler Dec 2014 #25
tell us what happens. Cats are glorious and reach any dark corner out there. Blessings to you and roguevalley Dec 2014 #26
Really ties the room together... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2014 #27
adorable. Reminds me of a cat we use to have. Started out snow white as a kitten, so we liberal_at_heart Dec 2014 #28
Beautiful cat. Wishing your mother, Dude, you and your family the very best. MerryBlooms Dec 2014 #29
Every orange kitty I've had was sweet and calm Beaverhausen Dec 2014 #30
Orange male tabbies are the best!!! Well, except for Garfield. I hope he will japple Dec 2014 #31
i think my grandma went downhill faster when they let their foster kitten(my dad found him) pansypoo53219 Dec 2014 #32
that face! Skittles Dec 2014 #33
Beautiful kitty! classof56 Dec 2014 #34
Awwww! What a beautiful cat, such a sweet face... Rhiannon12866 Dec 2014 #35
He is a stunningly beautiful animal. God bless your mother and you. WinkyDink Dec 2014 #37
Pretty kitty. 47of74 Dec 2014 #38
What a beauty! peace13 Dec 2014 #40
What a lovely cat! nt raccoon Dec 2014 #41
I'd fall in love with him! demigoddess Dec 2014 #42
Wow, lounge! nt Logical Dec 2014 #43
no Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #44
Appreciated Siwsan Dec 2014 #46
With a name like Dude - lounge is pretty much a favorite thing to do Siwsan Dec 2014 #45

kydo

(2,679 posts)
5. What A Cool Name, Dude.
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 05:36 PM
Dec 2014

He looks like my cat Kydo, pronounced Kid-o. My daughter loved Kill Bill. I like the name and use it.

We had a black lab, rightfully named Mr. Black. Great dog. Our current dog is a Great Pyrenees, Corporal Hicks. My daughter and her movies again.

Of course when my daughter moved out she took the other cat, who's name we all had a hand in, The Most Precious Mystic, she goes by Precious.

Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
8. The funny thing is, until she developed dementia, she really disliked cats!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 05:40 PM
Dec 2014

Now she thinks they are the bomb. Odd thing, the old brain.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
9. Awwww Nice family to do this.
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 05:57 PM
Dec 2014

Lucky Dude. Hope he is the perfect companion, therapist, friend, snuggle buddy! My dad had dementia and he always perked up when he saw a dog and I would ask if he could pet the dog. Made him happy. We had always had dogs in our family so it was a familiar event to pet a dog. I hope to have a cat drop by my long term care room! Not there yet. My cat at home is a pal.

brer cat

(24,565 posts)
10. A beautiful cat
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:03 PM
Dec 2014

and a beautiful family to bring him home for your mom! I hope they become great companions.

Freddie

(9,266 posts)
12. Orange kitties are the best
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:23 PM
Dec 2014

Extra friendly, or so the legend goes. Certainly true for my orange boys Freddie and Riley, both purr machines. Orange with blue eyes is rare, usually they have copper eyes or yellow-green like my Freddie.
Dude is quite the handsome fellow!

Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
13. A friend of mine had a big orange cat named Tsavo
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:27 PM
Dec 2014

Yea, named after the infamous Killer Lions of Tsavo. Every time I walked past this cat, when he was on his perch, he'd swat me on the butt. Perhaps he took his name too seriously, but I loved that cat.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
14. What a cutie
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:32 PM
Dec 2014

Dude is the (larger) spitting image of our recent shelter acquisition, Olaf, a flamepoint Siamese kitten who will undoubtedly have the same coloring as your Dude. I hope Dude doesn't have Olaf's tendency to climb up your pants and shirt to gain access to the kitchen counters.

Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
16. Dude is about 15 pounds of very mellow cat
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:34 PM
Dec 2014

He's still exploring his new surroundings but the latest report says he's settling in, just fine.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,837 posts)
18. I used to bring my yellow lab on visits to my dad in the nursing home and a lot of the other...
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 06:58 PM
Dec 2014

...Alzheimers patients used to light up when they saw the dog and want to interact.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
19. I've had so many cats over the last 35 years
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:04 PM
Dec 2014

I've lost count. Dude is smart and patient. You can see it in his eyes. Thank you for giving him a forever home and kiss him on the head for me from his Auntie Taz.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
21. He's so handsome
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:09 PM
Dec 2014

My father in law had dementia and lived with us. He always loved cats but was scared of dogs. We had a rescued doggy who latched on to him and he'd sit and pet her and say "what a nice cat".

 

backwoodsbob

(6,001 posts)
22. dude is about a dark stripe from Morris the cat
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:15 PM
Dec 2014

Hoping for good results for you.Went through Alzheimer's with my stepdad a few years ago.ANYTHING that helps with connecting to reality is good.
Hugs to you.Been there.

Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
24. Thanks
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:22 PM
Dec 2014

We have an appointment with a neurologist, next week, to go over some tests so we can make sure that dementia is all we are dealing with.

Scruffy Rumbler

(961 posts)
25. Way to go!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:27 PM
Dec 2014

My mother had Alzheimer's also. My sisters cats kept mom entertained! She loved it when they would lay on her chest when she was in bed. What ever reality Mom was experiencing, the cats could enter when we couldn't.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
26. tell us what happens. Cats are glorious and reach any dark corner out there. Blessings to you and
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:32 PM
Dec 2014

all of yours.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
28. adorable. Reminds me of a cat we use to have. Started out snow white as a kitten, so we
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:37 PM
Dec 2014

named him Ivory, but over the years he started to get this light orange tinge around his face, on his back and on his tail.

japple

(9,825 posts)
31. Orange male tabbies are the best!!! Well, except for Garfield. I hope he will
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 07:58 PM
Dec 2014

be a great companion for your mom. Dogs always need a job and generally understand their assignments. Sometimes it takes cats a bit longer to agree to the terms of their employment. Tell him that he will get union wages and he will probably take the job.

Seriously, I hope that your mom and Dude become the best of friends.

pansypoo53219

(20,977 posts)
32. i think my grandma went downhill faster when they let their foster kitten(my dad found him)
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:00 PM
Dec 2014

be adopted. seeing her w/ my mom's new kitten + passing around a 8 week old kitten at her nursing home. ALL the elderly perked up. animal shelters need to be IN NURSING homes.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
34. Beautiful kitty!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:10 PM
Dec 2014

If no one here has read it, I'd recommend the book Making Rounds with Oscar by David Dosa. It's an excellent read about a doctor who works with Alzheimer and dementia patients, and an assisted living facility cat who is quite amazing.

Blessings.

Rhiannon12866

(205,405 posts)
35. Awwww! What a beautiful cat, such a sweet face...
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:16 PM
Dec 2014

Hoping he's able to connect with your mother, know that animals often do when nothing else works. My grandmother lived in a retirement community and in the nursing home part they started a program called "Noah's Oasis," dogs on one hall and cats on another, and it was also possible to "rent" a bird. For a small fee, someone came in daily to feed the birds and clean the cages, while the patient could just enjoy the company. The program was a great success, residents loved the connection, and the whole place became much more homelike. Hope to hear more about Dude...

Siwsan

(26,263 posts)
46. Appreciated
Sun Dec 7, 2014, 09:34 PM
Dec 2014

I am happy to say that Mom seems very pleased with her new companion. Sometimes she seems more connected to him, than to us. But, that's ok.

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