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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:27 PM Nov 2014

Rosetta Scientist Matt Taylor Is Really Sorry About That Shirt

Rosetta project scientist Matt Taylor is really sorry about the shirt. The researcher apologized Friday for wearing a shirt that caused a firestorm of criticism earlier this week because it was patterned with a bunch of half-naked women.



Asked during Friday's livestream for an update on how the research coming from Philae—the lander that successfully touched down on Comet 67P earlier this week—would compare to the data collected from Rosetta, Matt immediately launched into an apology for his wardrobe choice.

“The shirt I wore this week," he said, and started to choke up. “I made a big mistake and I’ve offended many people and I’m very sorry about this.”

He then took a moment to collect himself before answering the question.

The shirt in question sparked a heated debate about sexism in STEM fields after Rose Eveleth, a journalist at The Atlantic, tweeted a screengrab from the Rosetta livestream showing Matt wearing the offending bowling shirt, and stating, "No no women are toooootally welcome in our community, just ask the dude in this shirt."


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Rosetta Scientist Matt Taylor Is Really Sorry About That Shirt (Original Post) n2doc Nov 2014 OP
watching a bit of the livestream before the landing Tsiyu Nov 2014 #1
Yeah, fuck him!!! pipi_k Nov 2014 #5
I'm sorry, but I never really ever get what you're saying Tsiyu Nov 2014 #6
Yes, it does read like a poor attempt at sarcasm. dballance Nov 2014 #34
You noticed that, too, huh? n/t Tsiyu Nov 2014 #42
Single moms stay home with their sick kids but dads don't, or maybe just all the women were uppityperson Nov 2014 #59
duh they were on their period elehhhhna Nov 2014 #66
Yes, isn't it. ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #7
the article you link leads off with this hfojvt Nov 2014 #29
Would you wear a shirt that you know is offensive to your business Tsiyu Nov 2014 #44
Did that just the other day hfojvt Nov 2014 #86
It's generally been trending upward, though there has been a dip since 2000 JHB Nov 2014 #121
Go to Twitter and read the comments related to the shirt incident. Some people were very violent. shenmue Nov 2014 #2
Yeah ismnotwasm Nov 2014 #3
Yeah shenmue Nov 2014 #4
What the hell is with the men who threaten women this way? Tsiyu Nov 2014 #8
Oh yeah shenmue Nov 2014 #9
I don't take no sheet... Tsiyu Nov 2014 #10
I don't know how they deaniac21 Nov 2014 #21
the little boys who post these death threats never leave home Tsiyu Nov 2014 #24
Damn! "the motherfucker would wish he was never born." BlueJazz Nov 2014 #17
My most badass son Tsiyu Nov 2014 #18
this reminds me of a time i was in las vegas noiretextatique Nov 2014 #20
Now that is the start of a great movie Tsiyu Nov 2014 #22
LOL...don't mess with Texas noiretextatique Nov 2014 #31
I'm a little Yankee girl who was dragged to the South at 13 Tsiyu Nov 2014 #37
thankfully i am from a huge family noiretextatique Nov 2014 #47
Yeah, in NY my male Italian cousins protected me, taught me how to ride my bike Tsiyu Nov 2014 #49
He's an asshole atheist - he even says it on his website bananas Nov 2014 #12
I was an atheist for a few years shenmue Nov 2014 #15
I'm sure you're basing that on a large sample size. phil89 Nov 2014 #57
I am. I knew hundreds of atheists back then shenmue Nov 2014 #72
Hundreds of atheists are a large sample size AnalystInParadise Nov 2014 #126
Being an Atheist means you don't believe in God at all. I believe you were an Agnostic. SomethingFishy Nov 2014 #58
You don't know what you're talking about. shenmue Nov 2014 #70
Wow.. a little huffy. SomethingFishy Nov 2014 #120
Yeah, it's not like christianity has a woman problem or anything Cheap_Trick Nov 2014 #16
*Humanity* has a woman problem. That's what it comes down to, really. n/t nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #27
+1000 DeadLetterOffice Nov 2014 #65
That has nothing to do with this shenmue Nov 2014 #107
Funny that any high-profile atheist asshole is identified as a leader of atheism Orrex Nov 2014 #19
+1 nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #28
I am sort of confused as to how hfojvt Nov 2014 #36
When you can explain how a complaint about a shirt Tsiyu Nov 2014 #46
How should I know what motivates other people that I don't even know? hfojvt Nov 2014 #84
He said it many times in a row. shenmue Nov 2014 #71
so he is unoriginal and redundant hfojvt Nov 2014 #83
Compare and contrast ... eppur_se_muova Nov 2014 #11
From the small print: Donald Ian Rankin Nov 2014 #14
I am glad he apologized, but, damn, it really put a damper on this exciting event. demmiblue Nov 2014 #13
This is why we can't have nice things Niko Nov 2014 #23
The shirt is dirty. AngryAmish Nov 2014 #25
Is that shirt a "nice thing?" LOLOLOLOL Tsiyu Nov 2014 #26
Are you kidding me? Niko Nov 2014 #35
Context is a scary thing, I realize, but you can do this Tsiyu Nov 2014 #40
Are you SERIOUSLY making those comparisons? Niko Nov 2014 #45
To some people, yes they are easily equated Tsiyu Nov 2014 #50
Ok let's add number 237892307906 on list of things that are offensive: Niko Nov 2014 #52
You poor thing Tsiyu Nov 2014 #55
Niko, how big is that shovel you're digging with? irisblue Nov 2014 #88
The shirt is inappropriate in a professional setting. PeteSelman Nov 2014 #30
+1 nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #33
That's bullshit and you know it Niko Nov 2014 #38
So fucking what if it is? alarimer Nov 2014 #43
But that's not what this is about Niko Nov 2014 #51
yeah, because *what's on the shirt* is what makes it particularly inappropriate fishwax Nov 2014 #75
It's inappropriate in a professional setting because it's sexist gollygee Nov 2014 #78
I'm not pretending anything. PeteSelman Nov 2014 #87
I agree and I am far from a corporate stooge fujiyama Nov 2014 #96
one of the great things about being very smart hfojvt Nov 2014 #39
hfojvt, how many of your "slob" professors irisblue Nov 2014 #89
BULLSHIT BULLSHIT BULLSHIT Niko Nov 2014 #112
Post removed Post removed Nov 2014 #115
RLY? irisblue Nov 2014 #116
This message was self-deleted by its author nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #123
Why so angry? nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #125
I applaud those who defy the arbitrary law of profressionalism. Ykcutnek Nov 2014 #92
Professors and scientists mostly are a little bit wackadoo Reter Nov 2014 #110
It's not about a shirt, really. That's kind of a red herring. nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #32
I dunno, it probably is about the shirt as well. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Nov 2014 #53
I get that. I meant Matt Taylor's "defenders" focusing excessively on the shirt was a red herring. nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #122
Oh, I read your comment backwards then. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Nov 2014 #124
You are utterly clueless. alarimer Nov 2014 #41
Like I said to another one above, that's bullshit Niko Nov 2014 #48
Why does it bother you that people don't like the shirt? Tsiyu Nov 2014 #54
It bothers me that this guy had to apologize for it Niko Nov 2014 #61
The culture has sunk this low: Tsiyu Nov 2014 #63
Methinks that poster doeth protest too much. Jamastiene Nov 2014 #64
Yep Tsiyu Nov 2014 #73
This message was self-deleted by its author SolutionisSolidarity Nov 2014 #56
While the shirt is pretty awful... SomethingFishy Nov 2014 #60
He's a geek customerserviceguy Nov 2014 #80
I couldn't/wouldn't wear something like that but I understand why he would. BlueJazz Nov 2014 #62
What's the point? k2qb3 Nov 2014 #67
So the guy apologizes, DU is disappointed he didn't double down so the 2 minute hate could carry on ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2014 #68
And, this thread is a perfect example of why it's pointlees to apologize... LostInAnomie Nov 2014 #69
OFFS Tsiyu Nov 2014 #74
I think most appreciate his apology. The argument are the men on this seabeyond Nov 2014 #85
This is the kind of story that makes this site look ridiculous. BlueStater Nov 2014 #76
Sexual harassment in the workplace is a serious problem pnwmom Nov 2014 #90
+1 On just about every site frequented by a lot of Millennials, it was not treated like a big deal. Ykcutnek Nov 2014 #91
Saying you don't like a shirt is not Tsiyu Nov 2014 #95
And we care about this why? NaturalHigh Nov 2014 #77
Most work places have dress codes christx30 Nov 2014 #79
Oh, what an outrage. Comrade Grumpy Nov 2014 #81
what was he thinking? wearing that shirt to work. Liberal_in_LA Nov 2014 #82
I accept his apology. It was an exceptionally ugly shirt... Violet_Crumble Nov 2014 #93
Let's take time out of our celebrating an historic achievement by the entire species... True Blue Door Nov 2014 #94
I disagree with about every point of yours. Good for the people that spoke out. seabeyond Nov 2014 #97
I agree it was inappropriate for the work environment. True Blue Door Nov 2014 #98
Then we all agree. You participated heavily in your "world wide outrage" as many others seabeyond Nov 2014 #99
Of course I'm part of the stupidity. True Blue Door Nov 2014 #100
It is not important to you, the man. It is important to women that live in this world. seabeyond Nov 2014 #101
Neither of us represents half the species. True Blue Door Nov 2014 #102
Personally, I thought it played out well. He did stupid and apologized. seabeyond Nov 2014 #104
Disagreeing with the priority you place on the subject is "ugliness"? True Blue Door Nov 2014 #105
You gotta love the people who are name calling the guy in this thread ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2014 #118
Goodbye to threads about this ridiculous non-controversy. 6000eliot Nov 2014 #103
And women wonder why men don't see the problems we face. IdaBriggs Nov 2014 #106
Completely false and actually offensive analogy Niko Nov 2014 #113
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2014 #108
If it's a sexist shirt Shankapotomus Nov 2014 #109
It's not a sexist shirt. Not in the slightest. Niko Nov 2014 #111
Post removed Post removed Nov 2014 #114
It is so sad people did not like the shirt Tsiyu Nov 2014 #119
I'm glad he apologized and apologized for real Matariki Nov 2014 #117
This is what makes radical feminism look ridiculous. candelista Dec 2014 #127
Do you really think it's "radical" Matariki Dec 2014 #128
"Naked women"? candelista Dec 2014 #129

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
1. watching a bit of the livestream before the landing
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:30 PM
Nov 2014

Last edited Sat Nov 15, 2014, 04:16 PM - Edit history (1)

I was struck by the fact I saw only one woman in a sea of men.

Apparently, women are still not welcome in the scientific fields.




On edit: the shirt was the most awesome shirt ever and every guy should buy one right now and wear it to work.


Please, men, don't crucify me or hang me by my toenails. Bad, bad me for making you cry and wail and gnash your teeth.









pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
5. Yeah, fuck him!!!
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:49 PM
Nov 2014

And all the other misogynistic men, because they won't allow women to be astronauts, astrophysicists, meteorologists, chemists, etc.

Oh...wait...


http://discovermagazine.com/2002/nov/feat50/



Of course, there could have been other reasons for only one woman being there in a sea of men.

Like, oh...maybe some of the women were off doing other science-y things.

Or maybe they work a different shift.

Or, this being Flu season, they were sick. Or they're single moms with kids home sick from school.

A whole slew of possible reasons.


Really, it's interesting what people choose to see.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
34. Yes, it does read like a poor attempt at sarcasm.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:36 PM
Nov 2014

pipi_k doesn't seem to be as witty as he thinks he might be.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
59. Single moms stay home with their sick kids but dads don't, or maybe just all the women were
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:26 PM
Nov 2014

working another shift or were busy elsewhere for some reason? Or the special Women's Only Flu struck?

Odd, isn't it.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
29. the article you link leads off with this
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:33 PM
Nov 2014

"Three percent of tenured professors of physics in this country are women."

But really if women are being discouraged from STEM fields, that is happening at grade school, not at the college level. For whatever reason, women are CHOOSING to not major in physics or engineering.

It's not like that is some kind of conspiracy of male engineering students or something.

Like it is TAYLOR's fault - so fuck him!

Or what, he wore that shirt to class in Physics 101 and all the female students got mad and dropped the course.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
44. Would you wear a shirt that you know is offensive to your business
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:50 PM
Nov 2014

if you weren't required to wear a uniform?

If you would, you would deserve the scorn this guy is getting.

That's what it's all about.

Oh, well- that and the death threats the woman is getting, but don't worry your pretty little head over that.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
86. Did that just the other day
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:20 AM
Nov 2014

wore a t-shirt for the woman running for the state legislature in my district. Some people, who support the other candidate, might find that offensive. Especially since I work for the taxpayers.

But since the election was over, and she lost, it was kind of a dead issue. And I wore it by accident. I was wearing it earlier, under a bunch of sweatshirts and neglected to change, thinking I was already wearing a work shirt under all those sweatshirts.

Problem is, you never really know what some people are going to find offensive.

Is "Wonder woman" offensive? One young lady I know, would not think so. She is a huge fan.

Some people get to dress casual where they work. Good for them, I say.

JHB

(37,160 posts)
121. It's generally been trending upward, though there has been a dip since 2000
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 12:29 PM
Nov 2014

Graphs below from http://www.aps.org/programs/women/resources/statistics.cfm

Further resources on women in physics: http://www.aip.org/statistics/trends/gendertrends.html


Fraction of Bachelor’s Degrees Earned by Women, by Major (STEM fields)



Percentage of Women in Physics


shenmue

(38,506 posts)
2. Go to Twitter and read the comments related to the shirt incident. Some people were very violent.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:32 PM
Nov 2014

In particular, a "man" named Christopher Cantwell. Myself and I'm sure plenty of other people reported him. He repeatedly demanded that Rose Eveleth kill herself.

Enough is enough. Threats are not protected by the First Amendment. I hope Eveleth gets a really, really good lawyer and sues the shit out of these oafs.

ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
3. Yeah
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:41 PM
Nov 2014

In real life I would have said something, made Fun of it, mostly because it's stupid-but a woman getting threatened on Twitter for expressing an opinion like this all to often gets threatened with violence. And that Cantwell guy is a MRA from AVFM.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
4. Yeah
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:44 PM
Nov 2014

Hopefully Twitter looks into the reports and bans a few of these assholes. And they'll try to come back, and get chased out again.

What gives me hope is that lots of women and lots of men too are retweeting these things with scalding rebukes, so more and more people will see how bad it is.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
8. What the hell is with the men who threaten women this way?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:59 PM
Nov 2014

Are they kids? Just stupid?

I'll bet most of them are cowards in real life. I'd love one of them to try to terrorize me....the motherfucker would wish he was never born.


Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
10. I don't take no sheet...
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:03 PM
Nov 2014

Bunch of cowardly asswipes threatening women for speaking up? I hope all their penises fall off.....



Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
24. the little boys who post these death threats never leave home
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:26 PM
Nov 2014

some of them are probably mild mannered in person, and only act out their fantasies when they think they can find a victim and threaten her with complete anonymity and impunity.

Some are just waaaay unevolved and they are open about who they are. I feel sorry for those types the most.

Anyhoo, they don't walk around is all I am getting at. Most are cowards who never leave Mommy's basement.



 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
17. Damn! "the motherfucker would wish he was never born."
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:32 PM
Nov 2014


I'm not laughing at you, just the scenario in my head.

"Who is that"
"Oh, that's Tsiyu, I know her pretty well...she's cool"
"I think I'll go over there and terrorize her"
"What!..are you fucking craaazy??"
"Why do you say that?"
"Look...man...take my word for it...I'm not even going to tell you what will happen but you know those guys you see on the street and they just look straight ahead with bloodshot eyes and mumble "Why oh why was I ever born??
"Ahhhh...yea..I've seen a few of them"
"THOSE are the dumb mother-fuckers that terrorized TsIyu!!?
"SHHHHIT!!!
"Yep...Don't mess with her..."

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
18. My most badass son
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:36 PM
Nov 2014

had this to say:

I was going out one night to play music with friends. His buddy asked "Don't you worry about your mom being out alone on the road at night?"

"Hell no!" said my son. "I worry about anyone else who might run into HER at night!"






noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
20. this reminds me of a time i was in las vegas
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:14 PM
Nov 2014

my sisters and i used to meet our texas relatives there. so, we were out walking in downtown one night, maybe a group of 10 women, and some guy tells us: "you ladies be careful out here." this was back when you could carry guns on the plane, and ALL the texas women had guns in their purses...so five of the group were packing. so one of my cousins says: "mister THEY need to "watch out" for us." and she wasn't kidding.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
37. I'm a little Yankee girl who was dragged to the South at 13
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:38 PM
Nov 2014

where Southerners promptly kicked my little Yankee ass and made me mean.

As one old Italian aunt said to me the last time I saw her in NY: "What happened to you? You used to be so sweet and shy."








Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
49. Yeah, in NY my male Italian cousins protected me, taught me how to ride my bike
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:54 PM
Nov 2014

but they would drive me crazy if they were down here.

I'm used to it now.

But I'm heading out of the South as soon as I can. It's been real. It's been fun.

But not real fun.


bananas

(27,509 posts)
12. He's an asshole atheist - he even says it on his website
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:13 PM
Nov 2014
http://www.christophercantwell.com/

Christopher Cantwell
Anarchist, Atheist, Asshole




For those who aren't aware:

Atheism’s shocking woman problem: What’s behind the misogyny of Richard Dawkins and Sam Harris?
http://www.salon.com/2014/10/03/new_atheisms_troubling_misogyny_the_pompous_sexism_of_richard_dawkins_and_sam_harris_partner/

Richard Dawkins has lost it: ignorant sexism gives atheists a bad name
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/18/richard-dawkins-sexist-atheists-bad-name

Will Misogyny Bring Down The Atheist Movement?
http://www.buzzfeed.com/markoppenheimer/will-misogyny-bring-down-the-atheist-movement

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
15. I was an atheist for a few years
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:20 PM
Nov 2014

Most of the people were nice, when I was on the Internet board community, but a significant portion of the men, the ones in their 20s especially, started to get really weird. They would rant about how they hated their girlfriends, they wanted to kill someone because they were afraid of divorce, that kind of thing. I was weirded out by it. I'm no longer an atheist, and I'm sure not all atheists are wacked out like that, but it is a disturbing element, and I hope they deal with it. Not having a religion in your life is no reason to hate women.

 

phil89

(1,043 posts)
57. I'm sure you're basing that on a large sample size.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:21 PM
Nov 2014

And atheism is a rejection of a claim, any other behavior, attitudes or nonsense has nothing to do with it. "Atheism" has no dogma or commandments on how to live. It's a rejection of a claim, nothing more.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
72. I am. I knew hundreds of atheists back then
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 09:05 PM
Nov 2014

and there really was a serious problem.

See? Immediately people start telling me I don't know what I saw, I don't know what atheism means, and it can't have been as bad as I said- that patronizing attitude and the refusal to accept that there's a problem, is precisely what the issue is.

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
58. Being an Atheist means you don't believe in God at all. I believe you were an Agnostic.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:24 PM
Nov 2014

Not having a religion is called Agnostic.

Sorry not trying to be a jerk, it's just that being an Atheist isn't something you just stop one day unless you happen across a burning bush or something

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
70. You don't know what you're talking about.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 08:58 PM
Nov 2014

Keep that bullshit to yourself. I meant exactly what I said, you don't know me and you have no business telling me I don't know what words mean.

Orrex

(63,215 posts)
19. Funny that any high-profile atheist asshole is identified as a leader of atheism
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:37 PM
Nov 2014

But any high-profile Christian asshole is identified as non-representative of Christianity as a whole.

Cantwell, Dawkins and Harris certainly speak as atheists, but they have no authority to speak on behalf of atheists as a group.

Their misogyny and ignorant sexism shouldn't be blamed on atheism.

[font color="red"]Edited to add: that Guardian article about Dawkins' assholery is terrific![/font]

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
36. I am sort of confused as to how
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:38 PM
Nov 2014

"Please kill yourself" becomes a threat.

Not a nice thing to say, but a threat? Really?

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
46. When you can explain how a complaint about a shirt
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:52 PM
Nov 2014

riles a person with testicles up SOOOOO much he thinks she'd be better off dead.


hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
84. How should I know what motivates other people that I don't even know?
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 12:59 AM
Nov 2014

He may not be riled up at all. Maybe he just likes saying mean and stupid crap to people he doesn't like to see if he can rile them up.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
83. so he is unoriginal and redundant
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 12:54 AM
Nov 2014

no matter how many times you say something that isn't a death threat, it does not suddenly morph into a death threat at what, the 4th repetition? the 6th?

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
14. From the small print:
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:20 PM
Nov 2014

Although we do not know for sure whether all the women in this picture are engineers or scientists, they all probably work with India's space agency. Some 20% of Isro's 14,246 employees are women and their numbers are growing.

demmiblue

(36,864 posts)
13. I am glad he apologized, but, damn, it really put a damper on this exciting event.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:16 PM
Nov 2014

Kind of like your little brother blowing out the candles on your birthday cake... still a wonderful day, but not as wonderful as it could have been. I know, I know- lame analogy.

 

Niko

(97 posts)
23. This is why we can't have nice things
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:18 PM
Nov 2014

There's nothing wrong with the shirt and he had no reason to apologize for anything.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
26. Is that shirt a "nice thing?" LOLOLOLOL
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:31 PM
Nov 2014

Wow, did you not hear that zinging noise as the clue went rocketing over your noggin?

Glad you didn't get hit!

Of course you should wear a NSFW shirt in front of the Queen and everybody on such a momentous occasion! I would have personally enjoyed it more had he worn a thong, some go-go boots and bunny ears, but durn if he didn't go with the naked woman's body parts look.

One giant leap for something.......






 

Niko

(97 posts)
35. Are you kidding me?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:37 PM
Nov 2014

Not safe for work?

It's a tacky shirt, sure.

But it's a bunch of CARTOON depictions of NOT NAKED women. I just keep looking at it, over and over again, not seeing what the big fucking deal is. What about his tattoos? No problems there? Shouldn't he have covered those up for such a momentous occasion?

This is an example of butthurt run amok.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
40. Context is a scary thing, I realize, but you can do this
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:44 PM
Nov 2014

A shirt with the Confederate Flag stamped all over it might be safe for your workplace, but would it be welcome anywhere where there are those offended by the shirt?

Would you wear a shirt brandishing KKK symbolism on it to a comet landing?

A shirt like his is tasteless, classless, and unless the man is a fucking moran - which he obviously isn't - he knows the shirt would be offensive to some people, notably women who already face a tough time in the science fields.

But never mind. Act all obtuse - because it really makes you look like that logical, deep thinker you wish to be.


 

Niko

(97 posts)
45. Are you SERIOUSLY making those comparisons?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:50 PM
Nov 2014

A shirt with cartoons of women in sexy clothing is akin to the KKK and the confederate flag?

Sorry, false analogies are not valid. I'm not saying the shirt isn't tasteless. But this is poutrage, plain and simple.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
50. To some people, yes they are easily equated
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:56 PM
Nov 2014

but you have yourself an awesome word there, so you just use that and that will explain everything away.

I love deep, deep thinkers like you.

Shallow as a cookie sheet but not nearly as useful.


 

Niko

(97 posts)
52. Ok let's add number 237892307906 on list of things that are offensive:
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:01 PM
Nov 2014

Cartoon depictions of women in bikinis.

Good to know. One day we will all wear the plain gray unmarked jumpsuit, as is the case in most science fiction, lest anybody else have their sensitivities abashed.

irisblue

(32,980 posts)
88. Niko, how big is that shovel you're digging with?
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:31 AM
Nov 2014

cause deeper& deeper is a poor way to start out.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
30. The shirt is inappropriate in a professional setting.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:34 PM
Nov 2014

Perfectly fine for leisure activities, not fine for work. Pretty simple really.

 

Niko

(97 posts)
38. That's bullshit and you know it
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:39 PM
Nov 2014

The butthurt over this shirt is the fact that it depicts women in scantly clad clothing. If he had worn faded ripped jeans and a T-shirt, you wouldn't be talking about it being "inappropriate in a professional setting". It wouldn't even get any attention. So let's not pretend.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
43. So fucking what if it is?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:49 PM
Nov 2014

These guys (and you apparently) need to GROW THE FUCK UP. You cannot do or say or wear whatever the hell you please without consequence.

And in a workplace it is a no-no. Especially a public-facing job, as this was at least at this particular time. I think ripped t-shirts or jeans would be inappropriate in this occasion as well.

 

Niko

(97 posts)
51. But that's not what this is about
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:56 PM
Nov 2014

People are going on about what's ON the shirt, not the unprofessionalism of wearing it. If he had been wearing a typical Hawaiian shirt with no subject matter, we wouldn't even be talking about this. So stop pretending.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
78. It's inappropriate in a professional setting because it's sexist
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:19 PM
Nov 2014

If he wore a t-shirt that said, "Women belong in corsets, not in STEM" and ripped up jeans, you'd have a valid comparison.

PeteSelman

(1,508 posts)
87. I'm not pretending anything.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:29 AM
Nov 2014

Why do you feel the need to angrily defend the indefensible?

The guy was wrong. He has admitted it and apologized. End of story.

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
96. I agree and I am far from a corporate stooge
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:11 AM
Nov 2014

For example, I find shaving a drag and do so only sporadically (in an office environment where most men are clean shaven). But c'mon a few basics wouldn't hurt - would it really hurt someone to wear a fucking boring polo to work on a day when you'll be presented on TV? Or at the least a shirt that doesn't make you look like you're a daily frequenter of the local Hooters? I mean, he's in a public facing position, there are few women in STEM field and this guy is dressed like comic book guy? And note none of this is a knock on Hooters regulars or comic book store owners. I just don't get how anyone would find this appropriate for a work place.

As I said, I'm not a huge fan of strict dress codes (wearing Jeans during the work week doesn't strike me as a big deal) but I wish people would grow up just a little.

Meh. Rant off.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
39. one of the great things about being very smart
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:44 PM
Nov 2014

is that most people don't care what you wear, only if you can solve the damned equations and the problems.

Funny how that works.

My physics and math professors were a bunch of slobs, in general.

irisblue

(32,980 posts)
89. hfojvt, how many of your "slob" professors
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:41 AM
Nov 2014

chose to be "slobs" on historic occasions knowing that their images would be preserved speaking to millions on a really big deal. It was a very poor choice on his part, it was unprofessional, and he will be recalled as "oh yeah that guy in the tacky shirt".

 

Niko

(97 posts)
112. BULLSHIT BULLSHIT BULLSHIT
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 10:03 AM
Nov 2014

I'm going to call every single one of you out.

Stop pretending it's about "professionalism". Just admit you're offended by the content of the shirt.

If he had been wearing an "I'm with stupid" T shirt, nobody would even be talking about this.

Response to Niko (Reply #112)

Response to Niko (Reply #112)

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
32. It's not about a shirt, really. That's kind of a red herring.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:36 PM
Nov 2014

It's about the lack of women in STEM fields and the attitudes which seem to reinforce that.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
53. I dunno, it probably is about the shirt as well.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:03 PM
Nov 2014

Several decades back, I wore a Jimmy Buffett 'Fins' t-shirt to high school one day. And was sent home to change it, because it had a cartoon depiction of a woman in a bikini on the back, surrounded by sharks. (I had a dozen or more Buffett shirts, that just happened to be the only one with a woman on it.) Offhand, it was an order of magnitude less tacky than this guy's shirt, but I still was told not to wear it at school, and that was back in the 80s. (As a point of reference, that very same day, the guy in front of me had on a 'Bear Whiz Beer' shirt, with the back of a bear standing in front of a conveyor belt, with empty beer bottles on one side, and 'filled' ones on the other. He did not get sent home.)

My shirt was at least in line with the song lyrics, and no more 'prurient' than what you actually see on any given beach. This guy's shirt is deliberately designed with hypersexualized, if clad, images. So while the gender disparities are an issue, I think the shirt simply typifies that 'attitude' issue, and as such isn't really a 'red herring'.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
122. I get that. I meant Matt Taylor's "defenders" focusing excessively on the shirt was a red herring.
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 04:15 PM
Nov 2014

Saying "It's just a t-shirt!" seems to almost willfully ignore the larger point about the status of women in certain career fields.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
124. Oh, I read your comment backwards then.
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 04:22 PM
Nov 2014

I thought you were talking about people against the shirt talking about the shirt.

 

Niko

(97 posts)
48. Like I said to another one above, that's bullshit
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 06:54 PM
Nov 2014

You're pretending like it's NOT about the cartoon women in scantly clad clothing and it's just because it's "unprofessional".

Are his tattoos unprofessional too? Most workplaces would frown upon showing those off too. Don't pretend.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
54. Why does it bother you that people don't like the shirt?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:03 PM
Nov 2014


As for tats, no problem as far as I am concerned, unless there is something offensive on a tat like a swastika.

But this guy knows the context in which he wore the shirt, and you do as well.

It just bothers you that many of us think it was a sorry ass joke on his part. His little fuck you went over like a lead balloon, because he made the event about himself. He knew there would be comments about that shirt. What a TOOL.

But it surely troubles you that we don't like that shirt.

Did you design it?

 

Niko

(97 posts)
61. It bothers me that this guy had to apologize for it
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:26 PM
Nov 2014

I feel for the guy, I really do. He had nothing to apologize for and was put in this position simply because people can't get their heads out of the 19th century.

Again: They are cartoons. Not even naked cartoons. Has the culture really sunk this low? It may not have been professional. It may have been tacky. But sexist? Sorry. Nope.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
63. The culture has sunk this low:
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:40 PM
Nov 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025817161

The founder of A Voice for Men, Paul Elam, went on “ManStream Media” to discuss how women have forever ruined the workplace and ended the possibility of humanity ever doing anything “excellent” again.

“There’s just a different way that men do things with each other,” he said, “and it results in excellence. In civilization. In the aqueducts being built. To people landing on the moon and cures being found to disease.”

Elam offered as an example of such excellence what happens at a construction site when some “newbie comes in and accidentally pulls the trigger on the nail gun and plants one in his leg. They’re not going to rush around him crying, they’ll say, ‘That’ll teach his ass. When he comes back to the job, he won’t do that again.’ But they will get him medical care.”

“I’m sorry, ladies,” he continued, “but if we want society to advance, we need to leave men alone to do their work — to do their thing and be with each other to get things done. Because that’s how it works.”



I didn't see you in that thread, Niko, standing up for women.

But you'll cry bitter tears of sorrow over a goddamned dude who wore a crappy shirt?

Some days I only think I live in Bizzarro Land, and other days, people like you prove to me that I truly do.




Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
64. Methinks that poster doeth protest too much.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:43 PM
Nov 2014

I think you are onto something.

That poster reminds me of the 9 year old boys who hate girls and make a clubhouse with No Girls Allowed signs all over it. So petty and childish and clueless.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
73. Yep
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 09:32 PM
Nov 2014


Sad and unnecessary to behave that way in frickin almost 2015, but there we are.


It's like whack-a-mole with the misogynists. Throughout history.


A few die off and another one goes over to reddit, reads TRP, and thinks he's got the answer as to why he doesn't have a dozen hot babes surrounding him letting him masturbate into them.

"It's not fair!" So he buys a shirt to show those you-know wuts!

Or he goes online to issue death threats to one of them, because, you know, all women are EEEBILLLL.

It's the same in Orthodox Judaism, Christianity, Islam. They all got the 'wymmin is eeebulll' paranoia. The truth is, they wanna do whatever the fuck they wanna do whenever they wanna do it, and they want wymmins to shut up so they kin git to it.

People who are intelligent, socially healthy and a benefit to their culture take into account their actions and the way they will be seen by others.

And people who are just selfish assholes don't.

They do whatever they wanna do whenever they wanna do it and tell you that you should be dead if you don't like it.

Yeehaw! Go science.







Response to n2doc (Original post)

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
60. While the shirt is pretty awful...
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 07:26 PM
Nov 2014

I have not been able to surf the net today without seeing pictures of Kim K's ass in my face.

While the guy was an idiot for wearing it(and his fashion sense is awful) the outrage over the shirt is way way overblown. IMHO.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
80. He's a geek
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:56 PM
Nov 2014

They're not especially well known as having any sort of fashion sense. In fact, that shirt is probably about the closest he's ever going to get to a semi-naked woman.

 

k2qb3

(374 posts)
67. What's the point?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 08:31 PM
Nov 2014

How is nagging some poor geek who wore the shirt a girlfriend made for him on what was probably the best day of his professional life going to do anything to get more women into the sciences?

Guy wore a tacky shirt and ended up having to make a public apology for it like he committed a crime or something.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
68. So the guy apologizes, DU is disappointed he didn't double down so the 2 minute hate could carry on
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 08:40 PM
Nov 2014

This place sometimes.

LostInAnomie

(14,428 posts)
69. And, this thread is a perfect example of why it's pointlees to apologize...
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 08:50 PM
Nov 2014

... to internet outrage. It will do you no good. It will never be good enough no matter how sincere. People will still scream for your head and use you as a political football.

It was a fucking shirt.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
74. OFFS
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 09:35 PM
Nov 2014

Really?

The drama....has anyone actually in THIS THREAD called for the man's head on a platter? Where? Link please.

I can share links with you that are comments directed toward women that actually are violent, if you don't recognize the difference or the scale.

Really. Fashion critique is now life threatening for men? lol



 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
85. I think most appreciate his apology. The argument are the men on this
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:08 AM
Nov 2014

Thread telling us how totally non offensive and appropriate it was for him to wear in a work environment. Not dissing on the man after the apology.

Rewriting what is actually happening in the thread says a hell of a lot too

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
76. This is the kind of story that makes this site look ridiculous.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:00 PM
Nov 2014

Multiple threads tonight about a goddamn shirt? Seriously?

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
90. Sexual harassment in the workplace is a serious problem
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:52 AM
Nov 2014

and the ridiculous ones are those who don't realize that.

 

Ykcutnek

(1,305 posts)
91. +1 On just about every site frequented by a lot of Millennials, it was not treated like a big deal.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:56 AM
Nov 2014

It was made the butt of several jokes, but not some kind of social justice case/target of outrage.

People go on and on about how the left should attract young people...

Freaking out over a shirt is not the way to do it.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
95. Saying you don't like a shirt is not
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:05 AM
Nov 2014

'freaking out.'

YOU may be freaking out if you believe this thread will keep those millennials away.


but : Clog on...


NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
77. And we care about this why?
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:09 PM
Nov 2014

Oh wait, that's right, most of us don't. It's just the Internet outrage machine churning again.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
79. Most work places have dress codes
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:51 PM
Nov 2014

that employees must adhere to. If the shirt he was wearing was no big deal to his workplace, then I don't see a problem. I honestly don't care what he was wearing. He was part of a team that landed on a flippin' comet. I'm not going to call him out on his choice in clothes. He can wear a lime green unitard for all I care.
Yes, there is a problem with woman in the sciences. There needs to be a lot more. I tell my daughter all the time and I try to get her excited about space studies and all the science stuff I find on the internet.
But I'm not going to trash this guy because of his clothes. He and the rest of that team are rock stars in my house.

Violet_Crumble

(35,961 posts)
93. I accept his apology. It was an exceptionally ugly shirt...
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:00 AM
Nov 2014

All those bright, clashing colours. It's just not acceptable.

This one's slightly less garish, but still ugly, plus it's vintage Hawaiian shirt...

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
94. Let's take time out of our celebrating an historic achievement by the entire species...
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:02 AM
Nov 2014

to have an ideological Inquisition about a guy's shirt.

This is Fauxminism, folks. This is the bullshit that allows otherwise sane people to be deceived by misogynists into believing feminism is insane.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
97. I disagree with about every point of yours. Good for the people that spoke out.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:27 AM
Nov 2014

Lesson learned. Good for the man apologizing. Lesson learned.

Lighten up dude. Your hysterical outrage over his apology brings back the mad men mentality.

You all seem to be the ones making the big deal out of this.

Work environment, appropriate dress is not a way out there concept.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
98. I agree it was inappropriate for the work environment.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:36 AM
Nov 2014

That justifies an email to the European Space Agency HR department, not a worldwide internet freakout.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
99. Then we all agree. You participated heavily in your "world wide outrage" as many others
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:47 AM
Nov 2014

With all your brouhaha thru out the thread. As a matter of fact I would say that the men being so fuggin' outraged over the man apologizing was probably the greater world wide outrage.

Gee, what would have happened when the first person said, hey... That shirt is really not work appropriate, and everyone said, yup. Not. The guy apologized and we all said lesson learned.

But nooooooo. You and so many other gave post after post ragging on feminists, telling women what they should think feel and speak out about or not speak out about ... Oh, and man after man telling us how the shirt doesn't bother them.

You think you might have a teensy part in your world wide outrage?

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
100. Of course I'm part of the stupidity.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:52 AM
Nov 2014

I can't take responsibility for everything, all the time.

Sometimes I just respond to other people.

On this issue, because it's not so important, I didn't feel like putting on my Leadership Hat. I just commented on what other people were doing.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
101. It is not important to you, the man. It is important to women that live in this world.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:59 AM
Nov 2014

We understand there are many men that lack the ability to comprehend the importance of this issue. Fortunately there are even more men, not to mention women, that recognize the importance of strong rules in the workforce to avoid hostile work environments for women.

Luckily for me, since being in the work force, I had male employers that wouldn't allow these behaviours and strived for a welcoming environment for all to work in.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
102. Neither of us represents half the species.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 04:44 AM
Nov 2014

And the issue I'm talking about is one guy's shirt print, not the abstract category of sexism.

We agree it was inappropriate in the workplace. I disagree it's a matter of global importance.

And if you think his shirt was a bigger deal than his role in landing a probe on a comet, we definitely disagree on that.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
104. Personally, I thought it played out well. He did stupid and apologized.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 04:52 AM
Nov 2014

Wasn't even interested in this until hearing the same old tired men telling women how insignificant the issue and the man should shove the shirt in women's face.

In other worlds, the big deal came from the ugliness of men's reaction to the whole to do.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
118. You gotta love the people who are name calling the guy in this thread
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 02:32 PM
Nov 2014

"Nerd can't get a woman!!! Har Har!!!"

He helped fucking land a billion dollar piece of equipment on a speeding comet. Most of the repliers probably fail at parallel parking.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
106. And women wonder why men don't see the problems we face.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 08:07 AM
Nov 2014

Geek guy wears wildly "not appropriate for work" shirt at historic press conference. Team holding press conference is lacking in representation of Half the Species except on his shirt where they are posed in scanty clothes and sexy stances. A female scientist comments on the irony of "no women except imaginary sexy ones on shirt" in social media and receives death threats.

Non-controversy? Only because people think this is normal.

Which is why some people think it should be discussed.

If the Internet was older, I can picture the posts --

"A black guy drinking from a whites only drinking fountain? Sounds like someone trying to start a controversy over nothing just to get some attention."

 

Niko

(97 posts)
113. Completely false and actually offensive analogy
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 10:06 AM
Nov 2014

You want to talk about offending people? How about comparing this with the oppression of African Americans through institutional racism?

A bunch of cartoons of not naked women created by a woman as a gift for her friend does not qualify.

Response to n2doc (Original post)

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
109. If it's a sexist shirt
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 09:24 AM
Nov 2014

I'm curious to understand why it wouldn't be inappropriate outside the work environment as well.

I would agree, at the very least, it is inappropriate for work. But we see these kinds of images outside of work too on billboards, at beaches, everywhere. In many cases women are electing to dress this way by choice. What should be our assessment in those situations?

If the general line of thinking is women are not being sexually suggestive when they elect to wear that kind of clothing themselves, why do we assume a shirt with women wearing bikini's is about sex or sexism? Why can't we just say "That's just what some women wear."?

The problem is when we see women in bikinis we see gender exploitation some of the time but not all of the time. The sexual suggestion is not in the bikini itself. It's in us. It's what some people are looking for. If you're not looking for it, a woman could stand completely naked in front of you and there would be nothing sexual or sexist about it. That's just the way women look.

 

Niko

(97 posts)
111. It's not a sexist shirt. Not in the slightest.
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 09:58 AM
Nov 2014

And what's even worse about this is that a friend of his, a woman, designed the shirt for him as a gift.

The professional Internet outrage brigade will have none of it, though.

Response to Niko (Reply #111)

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
117. I'm glad he apologized and apologized for real
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 01:26 PM
Nov 2014

He sounded genuinely sorry - none of that 'sorry you were offended' BS. I hope he's really grokked how what seemed, no doubt, like a playful and innocent fashion choice was actually hurtful to his female colleagues.

 

candelista

(1,986 posts)
127. This is what makes radical feminism look ridiculous.
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 12:14 PM
Dec 2014

No philosophical sense of proportion. Any excuse to be offended, by any perceived slight, however small, on any occasion, even when it is the celebration of a great scientific achievement.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
128. Do you really think it's "radical"
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 12:50 PM
Dec 2014

for women to object to their male colleagues wearing clothes covered in naked women? Do you think that was professional of him? An appropriate way to represent the organization he works for?

I wonder if you really are having a difficult time grasping such a simple thing or you are just trying to stir shit in a thread that is months old with provocative cliches like "radical feminism"

 

candelista

(1,986 posts)
129. "Naked women"?
Wed Dec 31, 2014, 05:37 PM
Dec 2014

Here is a photo of Dr. Taylor's shirt. Do you see any naked women portrayed on it?




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