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kpete

(71,994 posts)
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 11:54 AM Apr 2012

"NO APOLOGY" Romney Book: ‘Nonworking Parents’ Produce ‘Indolent And Unproductive’ Children

Romney Book: ‘Nonworking Parents’ Produce ‘Indolent And Unproductive’ Children
By Alex Seitz-Wald on Apr 16, 2012 at 11:45 am

As the presidential campaign has become embroiled in “mommy wars,” a passage from Mitt Romney’s autobiography sheds more light on what seems to be his bifurcated prescription for mothers.

For most women, Romney maintains that a choice to work or to stay at home with the kids should be regarded as equally valid, his campaign made clear last week. But for poor women who receive government assistance, staying home is not an option — they should work. Video recovered yesterday shows that Romney said in January that he wants to “increase the work requirement” for mothers who receive welfare. “Those parents [need] to go back to work,” he explained.

A passage from Romney’s book, No Apology: The Case For American Greatness, elaborates on this. In it, he argues that children of “nonworking parents” will be conditioned to have “an indolent and unproductive life:”

In some quarters, however, the American work ethic is waning. Some people devote themselves to find ways not to work. Some seem to take a perverse kind of pride in being slipshod or lackadaisical. In many cases, where our work culture has deteriorated, shortsighted government policies share a good part of the blame.

Welfare without work erodes the spirit and the sense of self-worth of the recipient. And it conditions the children of nonworking parents to an indolent and unproductive life. Hardworking parents raise hardworking kids; we should recognize that the opposite is also true. The influence of the work habits of our parents and other adults around us as we grow up has lasting impact.


http://thinkprogress.org/special/2012/04/16/465010/romney-nonworking-parents-indolent/

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"NO APOLOGY" Romney Book: ‘Nonworking Parents’ Produce ‘Indolent And Unproductive’ Children (Original Post) kpete Apr 2012 OP
Bump For Ann's Early B-Day otohara Apr 2012 #1
LOL emulatorloo Apr 2012 #12
how is it sort of unraveling? IcyPeas Apr 2012 #16
Previous Statements By Her Husband otohara Apr 2012 #19
oh, yes, I have seen that IcyPeas Apr 2012 #25
Oh Wait Till Rev. Al, Ed Schultz otohara Apr 2012 #27
I've seen it several times now PatSeg Apr 2012 #29
work makes right! except for the lazy rich. ChairmanAgnostic Apr 2012 #2
+10 whathehell Apr 2012 #9
+1000 nt abelenkpe Apr 2012 #31
Sounds like the Romney boys. RandySF Apr 2012 #3
Hey now! gratuitous Apr 2012 #18
What do those boys do all day? aquart Apr 2012 #59
Almost sounds like he is describing the Paris Hilton syndrome tk2kewl Apr 2012 #4
Great catch. K & R for more exposure. riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #5
Bush Junior and his Twins fightforfreedom123 Apr 2012 #7
Like the Titanic the rich managed to get off the boat Rosa Luxemburg Apr 2012 #45
Get it right ACCER70 Apr 2012 #55
Down sparky. No need to be so nasty to people with your first post. Ruby the Liberal Apr 2012 #57
... TBF Apr 2012 #58
He should know nadinbrzezinski Apr 2012 #6
He knows from experience? nt killbotfactory Apr 2012 #8
He's half right meow2u3 Apr 2012 #10
Ding, ding, ding! Wish I could rec your post. People like Romney give coalition_unwilling Apr 2012 #11
They are always Projecting LarryNM Apr 2012 #14
Ding Ding Award! graywarrior Apr 2012 #26
Yeah, that's the other half of my post #38 below. All of us are just supposed to take whatever patrice Apr 2012 #39
maybe because the Romney's only had sons Bluerthanblue Apr 2012 #13
Almost makes you think Hilary Rosen set him up. Scuba Apr 2012 #15
Is he referring to Govt healthcare though or husband welfare??? cbdo2007 Apr 2012 #17
Arbeit macht frei (See, it IS better in the orginal German) Democrats_win Apr 2012 #20
Exactly! TahitiNut Apr 2012 #23
It's not you. nt laundry_queen Apr 2012 #32
I just copied, pasted and printed the quote you posted here. classof56 Apr 2012 #53
I find him very scary PatSeg Apr 2012 #34
Thanks for posting this. classof56 Apr 2012 #54
so, about your boys.... SemperEadem Apr 2012 #21
Self-contradictory nonsense: surrealAmerican Apr 2012 #22
"hardworking parents raise hardworking kids" AlbertCat Apr 2012 #50
Have any of the cable networks picked up on this? ecstatic Apr 2012 #24
"Indolent"? Proud Liberal Dem Apr 2012 #28
Newt's gotten in his head. jp11 Apr 2012 #30
Translation - "What's up with people refusing to work for poverty wages?" hedgehog Apr 2012 #33
He is also speaking in code along racial lines. dixiegrrrrl Apr 2012 #44
Is he explainining his sons in this passage? n/t Gore1FL Apr 2012 #35
smarmy romney doubles down on his stupidity. nt Javaman Apr 2012 #36
Well, he is unemployed by his own admission and he doesn't think SAHMs work. AllyCat Apr 2012 #37
The CULTURAL mandate is that you SELL YOUR SOUL. Work does not need to be the right work patrice Apr 2012 #38
because being a burger flipper pays the bills and that's all you need, AlbertCat Apr 2012 #51
Except for the privileged few... limpyhobbler Apr 2012 #60
OIL KINGS and Aristocrats. patrice Apr 2012 #62
So them I can count on Romney to support... krispos42 Apr 2012 #40
That Is An Inflamitory Bias Romney Is Expressing, Not A Fact DallasNE Apr 2012 #41
Like GW Bush sulphurdunn Apr 2012 #42
Rec Al covered that and this malaise Apr 2012 #43
"Arbeit macht frei"......Romney's campaign slogan Namvet67 Apr 2012 #46
No. That's rich dudes who spoil their children. YellowRubberDuckie Apr 2012 #47
Just say it Rmoney . . . Eugenics! siligut Apr 2012 #48
"Indolent and unproductive " . Is he describing himself? sinkingfeeling Apr 2012 #49
The children of the poor are "indolent" - hedgehog Apr 2012 #52
He is such a piece of shit. Iris Apr 2012 #56
yes he is a turd sandwich. nt limpyhobbler Apr 2012 #61
 

otohara

(24,135 posts)
19. Previous Statements By Her Husband
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:05 PM
Apr 2012

about welfare recipients - and what he wrote in his book.

It's been all over the place since Chris Hayes unearthed his comments in January.

IcyPeas

(21,881 posts)
25. oh, yes, I have seen that
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:57 PM
Apr 2012

I don't think it'll make MSM though unfortunately. Watching the news yesterday, David Gurgen was talking about it and, of course, no mention of that video of mitt suggesting people on welfare should work for their "dignity" even if they have a child.

such hypocrisy.

 

otohara

(24,135 posts)
27. Oh Wait Till Rev. Al, Ed Schultz
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 02:04 PM
Apr 2012

and the other evening punditry air tonight.
The Daily Show will surely highlight this latest hogwash bullshit hypocrisy from the right.

PatSeg

(47,468 posts)
29. I've seen it several times now
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 02:11 PM
Apr 2012

They played it more than once today.

Every time I hear him talk about mothers and dignity and work, I become so angry. I don't remember the "dignity" part, just the hardships, poverty, and exhaustion. There was nothing dignified about it. Could he be anymore condescending?

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
18. Hey now!
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:05 PM
Apr 2012

Brad, Biff, Buff and Boink are working very hard on their dad's campaign, and have been for six years now.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
5. Great catch. K & R for more exposure.
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 12:07 PM
Apr 2012

When a wealthy woman stays home to care for the kids she's making a valuable choice. When a poor woman stays home to care for the kids, she's a welfare queen.

Keep the meme out there - this has legs imho.

Rosa Luxemburg

(28,627 posts)
45. Like the Titanic the rich managed to get off the boat
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 06:45 PM
Apr 2012

while the 3rd class were left to drown. Times haven't changed

ACCER70

(1 post)
55. Get it right
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 07:40 PM
Apr 2012

If what you are saying is true then there would have been no 1st class deaths.

It might interest you to know that the richest man in America, J.J. Astor, died on the Titanic after seeing his pregnant 18 year-old wife to a lifeboat. He gave up his seat to two 3rd class children, according to their account of the night.

A few other rather famous luminaries of the time were also on board and did not survive though their wealth made survival a certainty had they chosen to take the seats instead of declining them for lower class women and children. These include but are not limited to:
B. Guggenheim
I. Strauss
G. Wick
G. Widener
J. Thayer
A. Butt
E. Kent

The largest single group of civilian victims on the Titanic were 2nd class men with a loss of 92%. Conversely, the 3rd class men lost was 84%. For 1st class it was 67%.

The largest single number of Titanic deaths was among the male crew members: 693.

You can't blame the number of 3rd class deaths on the rich. The Titanic, was much like the government. They didn't have enough lifeboats for everyone so when disaster struck they launched the boats they had at less than full capacity. They are the ones at fault for the number of causalities.

You had a better chance of dying on the Titanic is you were, effectively, "middle class" than if you were either rich or poor. You are right, times haven't changed.


meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
10. He's half right
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 12:10 PM
Apr 2012

It's the rich non-working parents who live off the hard work of others that produce lazy, spoiled rich kids who think they're entitled to their life of privilege.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
11. Ding, ding, ding! Wish I could rec your post. People like Romney give
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 12:18 PM
Apr 2012

parasites a bad name. (Parasites actually serve valuable biological functions.)

patrice

(47,992 posts)
39. Yeah, that's the other half of my post #38 below. All of us are just supposed to take whatever
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 03:02 PM
Apr 2012

they fucking dish out AND give them all kinds of tax-breaks and freebies and privileges for it.

Who CARES if you don't want to work for Wars 'r' US or Rape Pillage and Plunder Power Company, or Fuck You All Up with Computers financiers!!! It's YOUR fault that the work does not motivate you, not theirs for being greedy self-righteous fascist pigs.

Democrats_win

(6,539 posts)
20. Arbeit macht frei (See, it IS better in the orginal German)
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:09 PM
Apr 2012
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arbeit_macht_frei

"Arbeit macht frei" is a German phrase, literally "work makes (one) free," meaning "work sets you free" or "work liberates". The slogan is known for having been placed over the entrances to a number of Nazi concentration camps during the Holocaust, including most infamously Auschwitz I, where it was made by prisoners with metalwork skills and erected by order of the Nazis in June 1940.

--

Is it me, or is Romney a little scary?

PatSeg

(47,468 posts)
34. I find him very scary
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 02:20 PM
Apr 2012

His eyes are soulless and he reminds me of an android. He really isn't like other people. Even republicans can't stand him.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
54. Thanks for posting this.
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 12:46 PM
Apr 2012

I've been thinking about that "phrase" all through this thread, and it gives me chills to contemplate it. And yes, Romney is more than a little scary. Trying to stay focused on how to stand against what and who he represents.

Keep the faith!

surrealAmerican

(11,361 posts)
22. Self-contradictory nonsense:
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:25 PM
Apr 2012

If, as he says, "hardworking parents raise hardworking kids", then "the American work ethic" could not possibly be "waning" (nor could it improve for that matter).

He's being intellectually dishonest.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
50. "hardworking parents raise hardworking kids"
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 10:16 AM
Apr 2012

Actually, it's been clearly shown that parents have a negligible effect on their kid's personality (unless something weird is going on...). It's mostly genes and environment.... as in the school yard, and the neighborhood... that contribute substantially to personality traits.

An obvious example of this is children of immigrants. They do not have the accent of their parents. They have the accent of their peers.

ecstatic

(32,705 posts)
24. Have any of the cable networks picked up on this?
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 01:32 PM
Apr 2012

You'd think they would considering how they jumped all over Rosen's comments!

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
44. He is also speaking in code along racial lines.
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 06:34 PM
Apr 2012

There is such a strong stereo type that welfare is used by minorities more than whites.

AllyCat

(16,187 posts)
37. Well, he is unemployed by his own admission and he doesn't think SAHMs work.
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 02:36 PM
Apr 2012

So all his kids are indolent and unproductive? Should we hire this "loser"?

patrice

(47,992 posts)
38. The CULTURAL mandate is that you SELL YOUR SOUL. Work does not need to be the right work
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 02:47 PM
Apr 2012

for you. It does not matter if it does not pay enough. It is absurd to think benefits should be part of the bargain between you and your job. Do not expect a commitment from your employer that your good work will result in job security. You are to Give your all for ANY thing that pays.

What you yourself bring to the world, and what you think that effort is worth, do not matter unless you are part of a meta-hyper-exclusive circle who says that it does and even then it only matters in precisely the manner in which they dictate, not you.

In theory, people are supposed to be able to create the environments that fit who they are and what they want to do, but that's no longer possible for a critical mass of people, because they've grown in such stunted social environments, including education, that those kinds of dreams became extinct long before people were even able to dream them. We are now told that it does not matter who your are or what kind of work motivates you. This deficit in authentically creative entrepreneurship contributes to the inertia that prospective economic explorers must find their way through. This, to all intents and purposes permanently stunted, "stock" is further retarded by tax dodgers, unending war/war-debts, unstable parenting, crimes of all kinds and the latest blue-light sanctification hate-special at ChurchCoC. The elements that you may have required to be extant in your social milieu in order to be come the very best frammaflap-doodler are probably at least 4 generations late as you enter the work arena, but that doesn't matter, because being a burger flipper pays the bills and that's all you need, so your low-level constant pain about something you can't identify, because you never had the opportunity to discover it in yourself IS YOUR FAULT.

Fuck who you are.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
51. because being a burger flipper pays the bills and that's all you need,
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 10:22 AM
Apr 2012

Race to the bottom!

There's not "quality control" in America.

limpyhobbler

(8,244 posts)
60. Except for the privileged few...
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 11:44 PM
Apr 2012

Think about this: None of Mitt Romneys five sons will ever have to work a day in their lives. For some reason I feel like that's not fair. They shouldn't be deprived of the "dignity of work", aka having to rent yourself out by the hour to get money for food and water. Or to pay what you owe the hospital from the last time you got sick. As far as I can tell most people are a modern form or serfs or slaves, while the priveleged few like the Romneys are modern aristocrats.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
40. So them I can count on Romney to support...
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 04:16 PM
Apr 2012

...a tax on inherited wealth? Say, 90% on everything over, say, 20x the annualized minimum wage¹?

Right?








¹ 20 x (7.25 x 40 x 52) = $301,600

DallasNE

(7,403 posts)
41. That Is An Inflamitory Bias Romney Is Expressing, Not A Fact
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 04:23 PM
Apr 2012

And it displays a borderline racism. Is this a carryover from his Mormon upbringing? After all, it was 1978 (or thereabouts) before Mormons would fully accept blacks in their ranks. There is much about Romney the man that needs to be vetted. Richard Nixon was known as Tricky Dick long before Watergate. Romney reminds me of Tricky Dick. That side of Nixon never got properly vetted and the nation suffered as a result.

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
42. Like GW Bush
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 06:14 PM
Apr 2012

it is virtually certain the Mitt Romney is a product of the modern American aristocracy, people who do not have serious thoughts that aren't schemes to become richer, more powerful and less accountable. The only thing that can disturb their scheming is a voting machine or a guillotine.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
48. Just say it Rmoney . . . Eugenics!
Tue Apr 17, 2012, 08:48 AM
Apr 2012
"A rigid system of selection through the elimination of those who are weak or unfit -- in other words social failures -- would allow solve the whole question in one hundred years, as well as enable us to get rid of the undesirables who crowd our jails, hospitals, and insane asylums.

The individual himself can be nourished, educated and protected by the community during his lifetime, but the state through sterilization must see to it that his line stops with him, or else future generations will be cursed with an ever increasing load of misguided sentimentalism.

This is a practical, merciful, and inevitable solution of the whole problem, and can be applied to an ever widening circle of social discards, beginning always with the criminal, the diseased, and the insane, and extending gradually to types which may be called weaklings rather than defectives, and perhaps ultimately to worthless race types."


These ideas resonated with a wide spectrum of people from all political backrounds. After all, it was scientific! Grant's book was praised by his friend, former president Theodore Roosevelt, who wrote: "The book is a capital book: in purpose, in vision, in grasp of the facts that our people must need to realize.... It is the work of an American scholar and gentleman, and all Americans should be grateful to you for writing it." Much depends, obviously, on how one interprets words like "elimination" and "worthless race types". The Passing of the Great Race was translated into German in 1925, and Grant received a fan letter from aspiring politician Adolf Hitler as well: "The book is my Bible," wrote Hitler to Grant.


http://personal.uncc.edu/jmarks/eugenics/eugenics.html

Only for the little people, of course. (channeling Leona Helmsley here)
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