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Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:20 PM Aug 2014

100s of Customers Pay for Each Others’ Starbucks; 1 Jerk Ruins it All

In a news cycle dominated by stories of social unrest in Missouri, brutality in Iraq and Ebola outbreaks in west Africa, you’d think a cute item about hundreds of customers paying for each other’s coffee at their neighborhood Starbucks might bring some momentary peace to even the most cynical of journalistic hearts.

Well, nope. St. Petersburg, Florida, of all places, was the scene of a nearly 400-customer long “pay it forward” chain covered by the Tampa Bay Times


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100s of Customers Pay for Each Others’ Starbucks; 1 Jerk Ruins it All (Original Post) Agschmid Aug 2014 OP
Probably some greedy sawdust Aug 2014 #1
She said she wanted to pay for her own drink CBGLuthier Aug 2014 #48
Gee, you must be a lot of fun at parties HERVEPA Aug 2014 #77
Yes, but . . . gratuitous Aug 2014 #89
I suppose if it were at some place other than Starbucks. davidpdx Aug 2014 #2
How about tea? Agschmid Aug 2014 #3
On a very rare occassion davidpdx Aug 2014 #6
Tea at Starbucks sucks. Neoma Aug 2014 #61
That's annoying! Agschmid Aug 2014 #64
You can make your own tea pretty easy anyways. Neoma Aug 2014 #66
After an Occupy protest in L.A., some other DUers and I popped into a McDonalds pinboy3niner Aug 2014 #4
That really moving, Agschmid Aug 2014 #7
that's really cool! frylock Aug 2014 #9
I think I was with you that time. Was it after the M1GS protests in Downtown? U4ikLefty Aug 2014 #11
That's right, The Three Amigos at M1GS :) pinboy3niner Aug 2014 #12
What a great day!!! I totally forgot about it until you posted about it. U4ikLefty Aug 2014 #15
That was really sweet of you. In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #52
Absolutely! Flyboy_451 Aug 2014 #5
Idiots... Never... EVER, go to the drive thru!!! VScott Aug 2014 #8
LOL ! BlueJazz Aug 2014 #10
Out of those 400 people, only one was actually generous. Xithras Aug 2014 #13
+1 linuxman Aug 2014 #14
lol. For me it would feel too awkward ecstatic Aug 2014 #43
How do you end up with the exact same amount of cash you start out with? nt kelliekat44 Aug 2014 #20
Simple. Xithras Aug 2014 #91
Exactly. It is pointless. LisaL Aug 2014 #23
And Starbucks shouldn't be doing this to begin with. LisaL Aug 2014 #24
+1 magical thyme Aug 2014 #30
human beings interacting on any level in a positive manner is NOT POINTLESS. KittyWampus Aug 2014 #51
+1,000,000 Trajan Aug 2014 #71
Thank you. Very well said. HERVEPA Aug 2014 #78
That's a matter of perspective, I guess. Xithras Aug 2014 #97
Buying the next person's coffee is considered "helping others"? Iron Man Aug 2014 #112
+1 - This is bullshit. chrisa Aug 2014 #70
The jerk isn't the woman who broke the chain the 1st day. It's the blogger who did it on the 2nd day Gormy Cuss Aug 2014 #90
+1 Agschmid Aug 2014 #95
Right on, Xithras! LloydS of New London Aug 2014 #100
That would only be true if evetyone's order cost the same... PoliticAverse Aug 2014 #102
No, the second did. They pulled up and their coffee was paid for. treestar Aug 2014 #103
Exactly. This whole thing is stupid alarimer Aug 2014 #109
I like your answer. Iron Man Aug 2014 #111
the lady's Niceguy1 Aug 2014 #16
No more Mr. Niceguy. JaneyVee Aug 2014 #17
Good point. Also, someone has to be last eventually. JVS Aug 2014 #19
This was a great story and gesture. I wish we could get a pay forward chain in a grocery store for kelliekat44 Aug 2014 #18
You do understand what a chain means? LisaL Aug 2014 #25
Don't just Ask your supermarket or grocery store. merrily Aug 2014 #68
Ridiculous to call one person a jerk. Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #21
I don't think it's unique to Catholicism. Or even to Christianity. merrily Aug 2014 #47
Not the Jews. Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #58
Jury Results: stevenleser Aug 2014 #72
Wow! Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #74
The issue was that your comment wasn't clear. stevenleser Aug 2014 #82
Thank you for for the careful consideration. Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #86
I wouldn't play it forward. LisaL Aug 2014 #22
Let me get this straight: merrily Aug 2014 #26
Wa it the last customer of the day? Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2014 #27
It does not matter if Drucilla was the last customer of the day or not, merrily Aug 2014 #31
The reason I brought up exact change was that my assumption Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2014 #53
I don't think the story was about paying for the next customer's order in full, only a free cup of merrily Aug 2014 #57
Oh, in that case, Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2014 #60
I am starting to wonder how much of the story ever happened. merrily Aug 2014 #65
+1 I was thinking the same thing. nt Javaman Aug 2014 #28
What if I just wanted a $2 cup of coffee tammywammy Aug 2014 #29
sounds like not so much of a jerk as a dummy treestar Aug 2014 #32
She didn't ask anybody to pay for her order. LisaL Aug 2014 #33
She didn't get the concept of the chain treestar Aug 2014 #37
Well, I get the concept of the "chain." LisaL Aug 2014 #38
Well then people are going to consider you a killjoy treestar Aug 2014 #40
See if I care. LisaL Aug 2014 #45
The real dummy was the manager. merrily Aug 2014 #46
Where is the goldmine? LisaL Aug 2014 #56
A potential goldmine in goodwill. Ever own a business? merrily Aug 2014 #59
We do this at a Starbucks near where I live - TBF Aug 2014 #34
Jeezus, people, it's not the $2.25, it's the feeling of connecting. Gidney N Cloyd Aug 2014 #35
Hey it's so unfair! Their order might have been a quarter more! treestar Aug 2014 #41
Have you seen starbucks prices? LisaL Aug 2014 #42
It worked for several hundred people treestar Aug 2014 #44
No one is knocking connecting. The math bit comes in merrily Aug 2014 #55
I didn't know it was possible to buy anything at $tarbuck$ for $2.25 Orrex Aug 2014 #67
So let me get this straight... pipi_k Aug 2014 #36
The chain did get broken, but not by the customer who paid for her own coffee. merrily Aug 2014 #49
i'd not call her a jerk, just wanted to pay for her own coffee by herself. What did she ruin? uppityperson Aug 2014 #39
First world problem LannyDeVaney Aug 2014 #50
She may not have had enough money to pay for someone else's Evergreen Emerald Aug 2014 #54
Or maybe she just didn't want to do it. LisaL Aug 2014 #62
that's why I wonder how it worked so long treestar Aug 2014 #93
Starbucks is expensive so usually I feel like the more affluent go there... Agschmid Aug 2014 #96
If you want to pay it forward, you don't do it by paying for pricey coffee at a trendy Skidmore Aug 2014 #63
Kind of dishonest, the person said they just wanted to pay for their drink. dilby Aug 2014 #69
I don't know what to call a bunch of Starbuckers buying gifts for each other. NCjack Aug 2014 #73
That's a good story. Agschmid Aug 2014 #75
+1 nt Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2014 #76
Agreed. But, Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #79
True treestar Aug 2014 #94
Isn't that a standard scam? oberliner Aug 2014 #106
No, for the same reason I don't participate in "waves" at stadiums... brooklynite Aug 2014 #80
Lol, you sound like a blast! nt Logical Aug 2014 #83
Funny, I was going to mention the wave upthread. Demit Aug 2014 #85
Except that the pleasant visual is a distraction from the game.....which is why I'm at the stadium. brooklynite Aug 2014 #88
Oh, right, the frenetic pace & nonstop action of baseball. Demit Aug 2014 #92
LOL! Friend has a story he was watching a baseball game on tv and channel surfed KittyWampus Aug 2014 #107
No bigwillq Aug 2014 #81
Sorry to ruin the feel good circle-jerk, but I just want to pay for my own stuff and leave. Throd Aug 2014 #84
Classy lingo nt Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #87
Regarding the untenable jury decision reached re NOT hiding a certain post, IrishAyes Aug 2014 #98
What if the next person ordered three drinks or pastries and drinks together? oberliner Aug 2014 #99
exactly, my drive thru starbucks sells expensive sandwiches and brownies Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #101
Being the drive through I'm assuming it was mostly just coffee treestar Aug 2014 #104
Even so - some drinks are double the price of others oberliner Aug 2014 #105
My guess - an upscale neighborhood where treestar Aug 2014 #108
I'll find something else to be upset about. Iron Man Aug 2014 #110

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
48. She said she wanted to pay for her own drink
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:25 AM
Aug 2014

Other than the first guy no one really did a fucking thing with this pay it forward bullshit.

Everyone paid for a drink just supposedly it was the next guys.

Stupid shit that some mistake for a charitable act.

You want to do an act of kindness make a donation at a homeless shelter and get on with your fucking life.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
89. Yes, but . . .
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:28 AM
Aug 2014

It's one of those things that bring people together, and while it ain't gonna bring world peace, maybe (maybe, maybe, maybe) it makes us feel a little better about each other. Heaven knows there are enough things going on that make us all feel worse about each other, strongly aided and abetted by certain people who profit enormously by mutual suspicion and bad feelings.

Neoma

(10,039 posts)
61. Tea at Starbucks sucks.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:42 AM
Aug 2014

They use boiling hot water without paying attention to temperature whatsoever which in turn burns the tea leaves and makes every single order of tea that I get bitter as hell.

Neoma

(10,039 posts)
66. You can make your own tea pretty easy anyways.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:53 AM
Aug 2014

I have my own electric kettle that shows the temperature and I only really use loose tea... I bought a hard plastic mug that looks like the cup they hand you when you order tea/coffee anyways. But if I want to cheat I do know a proper tea shop to fill my cup back up.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
4. After an Occupy protest in L.A., some other DUers and I popped into a McDonalds
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:34 PM
Aug 2014

When I paid for our drinks, I also paid for coffee for a Skid Row resident who didn't have enough coins to buy it.

The homeless man promptly put all of his coins into the donation box for Ronald McDonald's House...

U4ikLefty

(4,012 posts)
11. I think I was with you that time. Was it after the M1GS protests in Downtown?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 01:16 AM
Aug 2014

We were with Fire, right?

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
12. That's right, The Three Amigos at M1GS :)
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 01:24 AM
Aug 2014

I'd completely forgotten about it until I was looking for a photo from that day recently and stumbled onto an old post where I described those events.

I think McD's was the only place we could find that was open.

U4ikLefty

(4,012 posts)
15. What a great day!!! I totally forgot about it until you posted about it.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 01:37 AM
Aug 2014

I remember I was exhausted & my feet hurt, but my heart was happy. So many great memories of OLA...the people power was amazing!!!

We've GOT to meet up again sometime. Shoot me a PM when your going to attend an action down this way. I'll do my best to show up so we can hang.

BTW, have you seen or heard from Fire lately?

Flyboy_451

(230 posts)
5. Absolutely!
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:35 PM
Aug 2014

In 2012 I started a pay it forward event as a Christmas celebration on another forum that I visit regularly. This particular event featured cigars. A list was assembled of those interested in participating. I sent the first package of three cigars to the first person on the list. They in turn sent three cigars to the next person on the list, and so on, down the line. When the bottom of the list was reached, we just started at the top again.

This event is still in action and the third year is rapidly approaching. Not only have we all enjoyed the cigars, we have made new friends and learned more about each other on a personal level that is not often seen on Internet forums. Great fun!

 

VScott

(774 posts)
8. Idiots... Never... EVER, go to the drive thru!!!
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 12:04 AM
Aug 2014

Want to know why?...



Edit to add... it's actually a pretty sad commentary, evidence regarding the laziness/sloth of some people.

I'm 58, live in the NE, and can easily count the number of times I've gone through a drive thru on one hand.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
13. Out of those 400 people, only one was actually generous.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 01:26 AM
Aug 2014

Put 50 people in a circle. Ask them to each pull out a $5 bill and hand it to the person next to them. Is that generosity? Not really...it's just a slightly more complicated way to pay for your own purchase. Everyone ends up with the exact same amount of cash they started with.

The only person in the chain who was actually generous was the first woman who started it all. She is the only person who actually gave money away in the transaction.

And I wouldn't consider the woman at the end to be a jerk either. If she'd taken the free coffee, paid for by the previous car, and THEN refused to pay it forward, she would have been a jerk. She didn't take the free money, and instead simply spent her own funds. That's not greed...she simply declined to participate in what was essentially a pointless mathematical exercise designed to make people "feel generous" without them having to actually give anything up. It's the Starbucks version of slacktivism.

 

linuxman

(2,337 posts)
14. +1
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 01:30 AM
Aug 2014

The ultimate self licking ice-cream cone.

If someone in front of me buys my coffee, I;ll take it, enjoy it, then go on with my day. Thanks for the coffee. The end.

ecstatic

(32,707 posts)
43. lol. For me it would feel too awkward
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:17 AM
Aug 2014

I don't accept gifts from strangers, although I'd have no problem helping someone in need (if short on change, etc).

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
91. Simple.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:49 AM
Aug 2014

As I said. Put 50 people in a circle. Ask them to each pull out $5 and hand it to the person next to them.

Because it's a circle, as you hand your $5 away, the person on the other side of you will be handing YOU $5. You are giving a $5 gift, but you are receiving a $5 gift from someone else. The net change is $0. You have been "generous" without actually making any kind of sacrifice or actually helping anyone.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
24. And Starbucks shouldn't be doing this to begin with.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:32 AM
Aug 2014

If somebody volunteers to pay for a purchase for someone else, that's fine. But what Starbucks was doing is asking people whether they want to pay for someone's order. That doesn't seem right, and I wouldn't even want to shop there if they were asking me whether I want to pay for someone's order.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
30. +1
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:35 AM
Aug 2014

One person simply skipped her place in line. Only the first person actually gave anything away...

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
51. human beings interacting on any level in a positive manner is NOT POINTLESS.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:29 AM
Aug 2014

I have to say your post exposes something that goes much deeper than cynicism.

It seems to touch on a lack of connectivity and societal awareness.

In a world where there are forces trying to keep us divided, anything that can bring us together even for a second at a cash register is positive.

And I already hear your high-brow retort about how that isn't REALLY interacting. It isn't REALLY positive. These people should all be doing XYZ as if you even know what any of them do or don't do to contribute and help others.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
97. That's a matter of perspective, I guess.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 12:12 PM
Aug 2014

And I'd suggest that the reason you "already heard" my "low brow retort" was that you already realized its truth yourself. It's a silly game, and is less "interaction" than you and I are having right now.

I generally detest slacktivism of any type, even if it's something as minor as fake generosity. It's the moral and ethical equivalent of putting a Greenpeace sticker on your SUV, or signing an online petition to your Senator to complain about some evil bill that will actually kill people\starve people\destroy lives. It's an action designed to make you feel good without actually requiring you to do anything at all. I don't particularly care if people want to waste their time on pointless exercises like this one, but it's certainly not something I'd respect or participate in.

To answer the question in the OP....I'd take my free coffee, take my $5 outside, and hand it to the homeless guy looking for lunch. That's how normal people interact with other human beings and help people out.

chrisa

(4,524 posts)
70. +1 - This is bullshit.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:13 AM
Aug 2014

The woman at the end wasn't a jerk - she didn't actually take anything. Nothing was actually ever given either, minus the first woman's donation. Basically, they all paid for their own teas anyways.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
90. The jerk isn't the woman who broke the chain the 1st day. It's the blogger who did it on the 2nd day
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:29 AM
Aug 2014

The woman just chose not to participate and no one should call her a jerk for that.

The second day it started up again and a male blogger went to the Starbucks specifically to break the chain as a protest. He accepted the free drink, paid for a second, and drove off. Now THAT's a jerk.

Later he claimed that he had tipped the barista $100. (see link to second article for the whole story.)

I agree with you that this isn't really an act of charity other than the first person's offer, but apparently it made people feel good to participate so all good.

PoliticAverse

(26,366 posts)
102. That would only be true if evetyone's order cost the same...
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 05:06 PM
Aug 2014

What if you were buying a $3 drink and the person behind you were buying $10 worth of drinks (or the reverse) ?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
103. No, the second did. They pulled up and their coffee was paid for.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 05:09 PM
Aug 2014

They could have accepted the free coffee and left, no chain. Second person must have felt like they didn't need the favor so they'd pass it to the next one. Each person pulled up not having to pay anything and chose to pay for the next one. Though whenever the workers starting telling them about it, they started doing it to keep the chain going perhaps, and would have accepted the free coffee had they not known that.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
109. Exactly. This whole thing is stupid
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 11:37 AM
Aug 2014

Like the ice bucket thing. I'm pretty sick of that too. Sick of the videos, that is. I'm glad people are donating to that cause, but they can lose the ice bucket grandstanding anytime.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
16. the lady's
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 04:24 AM
Aug 2014

Order was only for $2.25.

There is no fing way I am going to pay for someone elses large order.... I used to buy my beans there, and have jad $25 dollar orders on a regular basis.

 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
18. This was a great story and gesture. I wish we could get a pay forward chain in a grocery store for
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:12 AM
Aug 2014

WIC and other members of the poor and middle class in poorer neighborhoods. Just for one day all over the nation it would make a huge difference for families with children starting back to school.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
25. You do understand what a chain means?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:36 AM
Aug 2014

Nobody is benefiting since they have to pay for someone's order instead of their own.
Where is the benefit? The only way somebody does benefit if they don't "play it forward."
In which case someone is going to call them a "jerk."

merrily

(45,251 posts)
68. Don't just Ask your supermarket or grocery store.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:03 AM
Aug 2014

At my supermarket, they used to ask, before they hit "Total" if you wanted to add a dollar toward a bag of items for the needy. (You can't get all your supermarket needs from a food bank.)

If you said yes, they added a dollar. I don't know if this is ideal because it forces some people to say no where people can here them. I saw the bags of free groceries waiting for their delivery guy. Win win win.

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
21. Ridiculous to call one person a jerk.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:21 AM
Aug 2014

The concept of pay it forward is not based on guilt.

That's Catholicism.


 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
72. Jury Results:
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:21 AM
Aug 2014

I was juror #6


On Fri Aug 22, 2014, 06:54 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

Not the Jews.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5428009

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Catholics pay it forward, but Jews don't?

Sounds very much like a stereotype about Jews being rich and cheap? Am I misinterpreting?

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:19 AM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Alerter is misinterpreting.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Stupid stupid "joke", I think. But, let the other posters expose the stupidity and thus give the poster a chance to acknowledge....
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I'm not understanding what the post is trying to say. It could be a stereotype, but let's have that as part of the discussion instead of censoring it outright.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: That was my initial impression too alerter and I was getting ready to vote to hide. Then I went back a few more times just to make sure and what the poster is saying is that Jews wield guilt. Which while a stereotype, like Catholics wield guilt, isn't really an insulting or offensive one.
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Un-effin'-believable someone would post such garbage.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
82. The issue was that your comment wasn't clear.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:06 AM
Aug 2014

I suspected that you had no malicious intent and might in fact be Jewish but it took me a while to understand exactly what you were saying.

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
86. Thank you for for the careful consideration.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:14 AM
Aug 2014

All my posts in this thread were meant as humor.

That Catholics have guilt and Jews wield it are a constant joke in my very mixed religion family. I myself am a Catholic Jewish Episcopalian if you get technical. Figure that one out.

Anyhow, the alert took me by surprise as to how one could extrapolate 'cheapness' and whatever the other term was from my obviously poorly articulated joke.

Cheers!

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
22. I wouldn't play it forward.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:28 AM
Aug 2014

What is the point? You are not getting anything if you are paying for someone's order. You might as well just pay for your own order.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
26. Let me get this straight:
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:52 AM
Aug 2014

The Starbucks manager was willing to pay forward the payment by the last customer of the day, but the last customer ruined everything? Hold on and let me see if I got the story straight

Next to last customer of the day, let's call her Godmother, got a free coffee but paid anyway, so the person behind her could also get a free coffee. So far, the Starbucks is $2.25 ahead of the game, right?

Next, the last customer of the day pulls up, the alleged jerk, let's call her Drucilla, pulls up to the window. She says she will pay $2.25 for her own coffee, but not for anyone else's. So, she coughs up $2.25 for her own coffee and drives off. Is that right?

Didn't Starbucks close that night still $2.25 ahead of the game? So, who was actually responsible for ending it that night and not giving the first customer of the next morning a cup of coffee? Drucilla or the manager of that Starbucks, who had been watching his employees get diverted by the running tally all day?

BTW, just for the record, it was a cute event/game, but no one really paid anything forward, except for the first customer who paid for her own cup and the next person's.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
27. Wa it the last customer of the day?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:11 AM
Aug 2014

I missed seeing that stated explicitly, although it's certainly possible.

But what would they do if somebody pulled up with only exact change? Not carrying credit cards, just the exact amount to pay for what they were ordering? Would they simply offer to 'pay forward' exactly that amount, telling the next car, 'The car before you paid 2.25 of your order'?

Once or twice, I've done something similar in a grocery store, when I noticed somebody with food stamps behind me, handing the cashier (whom I've known for years, and therefore trust not to simply pocket the cash) an extra $20 and told her to use it for the person behind me. But I don't expect them to simply pass that money along in some weird 'chain' gesture. I offered it for them to use, not for the ultimate recipient to be some random person who might very well be far more well off than myself.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
31. It does not matter if Drucilla was the last customer of the day or not,
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:39 AM
Aug 2014

except that it made the issue of carrying it over to next day easier to illustrate. Besides, the article does not tell us what happened after Drucilla left. There is only the claim, which seems totally false, that Drucilla was the jerk who ended it all.

As for your question, the article seems to ask us--implicitly ask us--to believe that everyone in line at that Starbucks that day ordered a coffee of the same aize and kind and accepted the free coffee. That, too, seems bogus to me. I believe some ordered bigger sizes of coffee or no coffee at all. I even believe that some, offered a free coffee, declined to take any coffee at all.

But, sticking to the main premise of the article--namely, that Drucilla was the jerk who ended it all, even that does not seem to be true. If she had accepted a cup paid for by someone ahead of her AND also refused to pay for her own, you could say she ended it. Even then, it would have been the store manager's decision whether to start over by handing out a cup on the house to the next customer and asking that customer to "pay it forward."

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
53. The reason I brought up exact change was that my assumption
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:32 AM
Aug 2014

was that in order to 'pay it forward' on orders of probable uneven sizes, you'd need each person to be paying with credit card, and to swipe the card and leave the order open until the next person came through to see what to put on it. Then close that order and open the next order with that person's credit card before they left. You also couldn't 'skip' cars if that's how you were doing it, unless you had another cash register right there, since you'd have to close off the prior order. You also can't simply leave somebody's credit card order open all night long on some types of POS software - I don't know if it's possible on Starbucks' particular machines - to 'start' the chain up again the next day.

I don't think she's a jerk, but she might have 'ended the chain' simply by being unwilling to simply leave her credit card open to whatever charge might be put on it next, IF that's how they were keeping the 'chain' going.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
57. I don't think the story was about paying for the next customer's order in full, only a free cup of
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:37 AM
Aug 2014

coffee and only the same size as the first customer had. I don't know that anyone did or did not pay by credit card

The story is a little skimpy on specifics, to say the least.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
60. Oh, in that case,
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:42 AM
Aug 2014

I'm amazed the chain lasted nearly as long as it did. I can't see even wanting a free cup of plain coffee if I actually was there to order something else. At that point, the 'chain' is more like somebody saying 'give the person behind me a free cup of coffee' and all of the people in the chain saying 'I really didn't want this, just pass it along to the person behind me'.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
29. What if I just wanted a $2 cup of coffee
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:20 AM
Aug 2014

And they're asking me to buy the person behind me who has a $6 drink. Yeah, no thank you. I'd pay for my own.

The whole thing is silly.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
32. sounds like not so much of a jerk as a dummy
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:46 AM
Aug 2014

she wanted to pay for her order. Yet it was already paid for.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
37. She didn't get the concept of the chain
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:05 AM
Aug 2014

People were having fun whatever, with the chain. She didn't get it. Her order was paid for already.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
40. Well then people are going to consider you a killjoy
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:10 AM
Aug 2014

If you don't like this game, or any other game people are playing. Not much you can do to stop that.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
46. The real dummy was the manager.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:22 AM
Aug 2014

I can see a driver pulling up to a Starbucks window not being in the mood, after a day's work, to try to understand what was going on and/or not feeling like playing the game of "Of course, I'll take this *wink* free *wink* cup of coffee AND pay its price so the person behind me can also get a *wink* free *wink* cup."

But a store manager, who was $2.25 anyway, using what she said as a pretext to end this potential goldmine for his or her store? Now, that was dumb.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
56. Where is the goldmine?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:36 AM
Aug 2014

Nobody is getting anything out of this game, since instead of paying for their order, they are paying for someone's order. Starbucks is getting paid for all of its orders, but that's it.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
59. A potential goldmine in goodwill. Ever own a business?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:40 AM
Aug 2014

Even my inlaws don't pick apart everything I say as much as you have been trying to do this morning..

Something tells me Starbucks and cigarillos are not your beef with me.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
34. We do this at a Starbucks near where I live -
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:53 AM
Aug 2014

I've had it happen a half dozen times this year. I have my money ready so I just pay it forward.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,840 posts)
35. Jeezus, people, it's not the $2.25, it's the feeling of connecting.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:58 AM
Aug 2014

Just enjoy it and not reduce it to a math problem.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
41. Hey it's so unfair! Their order might have been a quarter more!
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:12 AM
Aug 2014

Sounds like conservatives. That's their first concern. Every single cent must be perfectly just! I'm paying for someone else's birth control! Oh the horrors (well it's OK if they paid for my hernia surgery, that's what insurance is, but they never notice that and boycott the insurance companies in favor of straight payments for procedures.)

treestar

(82,383 posts)
44. It worked for several hundred people
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:20 AM
Aug 2014

I would tend to say if you are at Starbucks, you have enough money. But since so many did it, no one found the price of the following car too high. Probably just varying drinks in the same price range.

If this lady was followed by someone who ordered coffee beans and it was $30, then it would make sense that ends the chain.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
55. No one is knocking connecting. The math bit comes in
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:34 AM
Aug 2014

because the wrong person is being blamed for breaking the chain. Someone in the store made a decision to end it, and some (fake? real?) customer is getting blamed wrongly for ending it and is getting called a jerk to boot.

Perhaps worse, some DUers chime in, taking he OP at face value without thinking about it. In general, that is not a great way to approach any kind of news story.

Orrex

(63,215 posts)
67. I didn't know it was possible to buy anything at $tarbuck$ for $2.25
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:59 AM
Aug 2014

I thought that a napkin was $6.50, for cryin' out loud!

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
36. So let me get this straight...
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:04 AM
Aug 2014

She's a "jerk" because she wanted to pay for her own (with her own money), which means that she didn't use the money the person in front of her intended to be for her, meaning the money would skip over her and go to the next person after her, who would benefit from it as if the lady in front of him or her had never gone through the line.

The lady who paid for her own didn't get something for free. The person after her got the benefit.

The lady isn't a jerk, and no chain got "broken". It just skipped a link, that's all.

Geez, the things that piss people off...



merrily

(45,251 posts)
49. The chain did get broken, but not by the customer who paid for her own coffee.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:26 AM
Aug 2014

Someone in the store made the decision to end it.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
39. i'd not call her a jerk, just wanted to pay for her own coffee by herself. What did she ruin?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:07 AM
Aug 2014

The only one who actually paid ahead was the first person, unless they paid more than their drink was worth.

That said, I have paid more in the past, paid double so the next person did not have to. But unless each person did that, they simply passed on the extra without paying ahead.

Evergreen Emerald

(13,069 posts)
54. She may not have had enough money to pay for someone else's
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:32 AM
Aug 2014

Maybe one day a week she grants herself that tiny tiny luxury in her hectic minimum wage job. And, although it is difficult, she saves for that five dollar cup of coffee and simply cannot afford to purchase another.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
62. Or maybe she just didn't want to do it.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:43 AM
Aug 2014

I don't see why someone going to Starbucks (or whatever else) should be made obligated to pay for someone's order. Unless they want to do it.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
93. that's why I wonder how it worked so long
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:53 AM
Aug 2014

If the next person's is more than yours was going to be, it didn't make much difference that your cup was already paid for. So I'm surprised someone didn't have that happen and object. Most of the people in the line must have been well off in that some of them must have paid somewhat more than they were going to for themselves. Then others got to pay less than they were going to for themselves. So it must have been lots of cars with only one driver only getting one drink, and the differences weren't enough to get anyone ticked off.

Calling this lady a jerk would be less called for if we had the information on how much was the order for the next passenger.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
96. Starbucks is expensive so usually I feel like the more affluent go there...
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:58 AM
Aug 2014

Or anyone who wants good coffee I'm 50-50 Dunkin/Starbucks usually I start off at Starbucks but by the end of the pay week I'm back at Dunkin.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
63. If you want to pay it forward, you don't do it by paying for pricey coffee at a trendy
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 09:43 AM
Aug 2014

shop frequented by others likely in your income bracket. You take your money, time, and mouth to a place where true need exists and quietly start contributing to those who would truly benefit.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
69. Kind of dishonest, the person said they just wanted to pay for their drink.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:09 AM
Aug 2014

She paid $2.25, it's not like she took a free drink.

NCjack

(10,279 posts)
73. I don't know what to call a bunch of Starbuckers buying gifts for each other.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:26 AM
Aug 2014

A real "pay it forward" is assistance to someone in need. For example, a friend of mine was traveling in Africa. In the morning of his departure, he was asked by a causal acquaintance that he had first met and visited with at the hotel. The man (Muslim) had been robbed the night before and asked for a loan of $30 to pay for the taxi to the airport. He had asked all of the men (Muslims) in the lounge for a loan and was refused. One mocked him and said "ask the American." So, he did. My friend had just enough cash for both to share a taxi to the airport. The borrower began a discussion on making arrangements to repay by purchasing a money order in Tripoli and sending it to my friend in the US. My friend said "no, the transaction costs to send $30 are too high -- promise to help others who are need and ask only that in return they promise to help others in need. That is the meaning of "pay it forward." "Pay it forward" is an act of kindness to someone in need that is repaid to another person in need, who repays ...

brooklynite

(94,596 posts)
80. No, for the same reason I don't participate in "waves" at stadiums...
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:56 AM
Aug 2014

...It's an annoying stunt with no value or purpose. The "pay it forward" meme was developed to encourage people to pay for something that someone else couldn't. A double-tall caramel latte doesn't fall into that category.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
85. Funny, I was going to mention the wave upthread.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:14 AM
Aug 2014

It certainly does have a value—it's a pleasant visual to watch, that undulating action. And that is its purpose. You do your (very minimal, lol) bit so that you can enjoy the visual once it has passed you. It also demonstrates the power of a group of people to have an effect, if you want to get philosophical. And that is a purpose as well.

One could use your logic to defend not voting in elections, since one vote has no practical value. But if everyone did vote, we could effect great change.

brooklynite

(94,596 posts)
88. Except that the pleasant visual is a distraction from the game.....which is why I'm at the stadium.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:28 AM
Aug 2014
 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
92. Oh, right, the frenetic pace & nonstop action of baseball.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:53 AM
Aug 2014

LOL! That's when people generally start a wave, or hit a beach ball around. That's why they created the San Diego Chicken & the Phillie Phanatic years ago, to entertain the crowd during lulls in the action. Of course, if you're annoyed that you can't watch the relief pitcher walk in from the bullpen, & see every warmup pitch he throws, because people stood up in front of you for a second, I guess I understand. You must be beside yourself when they delay action for tv commercial breaks

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
107. LOL! Friend has a story he was watching a baseball game on tv and channel surfed
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 07:05 PM
Aug 2014

found a basketball game and watched it to completion and then turned back to the baseball game… it was the same inning.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
81. No
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 10:57 AM
Aug 2014

not in this situation. I am basically only spending what I would've spent on the item already. This makes no sense.

Throd

(7,208 posts)
84. Sorry to ruin the feel good circle-jerk, but I just want to pay for my own stuff and leave.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 11:13 AM
Aug 2014

This kind of stuff makes soft-headed folks feel like they have accomplished something meaningful.

People buying overpriced coffee and scones for each other from a giant corporation is an odd thing to pat yourself on the back about.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
98. Regarding the untenable jury decision reached re NOT hiding a certain post,
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 04:46 PM
Aug 2014

One juror voting Leave It offered this lame explanation: "what the poster is saying is that Jews wield guilt. Which while a stereotype, like Catholics wield guilt, isn't really an insulting or offensive one."

Speaking as an Irish-American Catholic who believes no one can be a Christian w/o being Jewish because we're grafted onto THEIR tree, not vice verse, I can assure the juror that quite a few of us take legitimate offense. I don't really care for stereotypes in general, especially not the orgy of Irish bashing that goes on every St. Patrick's day in the U.S. People claim 'it's just a joke' but they reveal throughout the year that they really do believe those things.

Would they indulge in such buffoonery on Juneteenth? Probably so if they thought they could get away with it.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
99. What if the next person ordered three drinks or pastries and drinks together?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 04:54 PM
Aug 2014

If I am in the chain and agree to pay it forward, am I on the hook for everything that the next person orders? If my drink only costs two dollars and change and the next person's is over five dollars - how does that work out?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
104. Being the drive through I'm assuming it was mostly just coffee
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 05:11 PM
Aug 2014

Or it would not have lasted so long, due to exactly that.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
105. Even so - some drinks are double the price of others
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 05:34 PM
Aug 2014

I am wondering how this logistically was handled.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
108. My guess - an upscale neighborhood where
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 11:26 AM
Aug 2014

the thrill of continuing the chain trumped the relatively few more dollars they might have paid, until they got to the lady with the 2.25 order. And maybe the person behind her was a lot more and she wasn't a person who could afford that.

 

Iron Man

(183 posts)
110. I'll find something else to be upset about.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 11:41 AM
Aug 2014

Someone not paying for someone else's coffee isn't on my list of things to get upset about when there are more things to worry about.

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