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global1

(25,263 posts)
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 12:58 PM Jul 2014

Just Heard From A Friend Of Mine That Voted For Obama & Is Now Disillusioned......

he said he'd vote for Chris Christie in 2016 - because he is a decisive leader and Obama isn't.

I think he drank the Koolaid.

He said he might consider Hillary - but she screwed up in Benghazi.

I really don't know how to respond to people that think like this. I probably won't acknowledge his e-mail and just ignore his comments lest I get more upset.

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Just Heard From A Friend Of Mine That Voted For Obama & Is Now Disillusioned...... (Original Post) global1 Jul 2014 OP
I can understand the disillusionment to a certain extent CJCRANE Jul 2014 #1
No pony yet? lpbk2713 Jul 2014 #2
Get a better friend mwrguy Jul 2014 #3
+1, n/t RKP5637 Jul 2014 #27
It's very clear that your friend lacks the ability to think analytically. HERVEPA Jul 2014 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author woo me with science Jul 2014 #5
Your friend sounds extremely frustrated. woo me with science Jul 2014 #6
Stongly disageee. Picking someone because (s)he is decisive, HERVEPA Jul 2014 #7
Well, complicity is often misrepresented and misunderstood as indecision. woo me with science Jul 2014 #11
Say what? HERVEPA Jul 2014 #19
I think that was very clear. woo me with science Jul 2014 #20
Many reasons perhaps to be disgusted and/or frustrated. HERVEPA Jul 2014 #21
Yeah, yeah, we know. Lesser of two evils. Blah, blah, blah. woo me with science Jul 2014 #22
OK. Then fucjk the LGBT folks, minorities, poor, and any other disadavantaged, and the planet. HERVEPA Jul 2014 #32
There's that purity word again. Quite a word to use woo me with science Jul 2014 #37
I give up. If you want my kids and grandkids to live in an even more fucked-up world HERVEPA Jul 2014 #39
Frustrated must be a new way of calling him brain dead Capt. Obvious Jul 2014 #44
Yeah, making bad decisions quickly is a sign of being decisive. Aristus Jul 2014 #8
+++1,000. Really looking hard to find a bus.....nt kelliekat44 Jul 2014 #15
AMEN AND AMEN!!! uponit7771 Jul 2014 #36
I'm sure your friend has reasons they are disillusioned. NCTraveler Jul 2014 #9
True. Your friend is probably hooked on Faux Noise. Louisiana1976 Jul 2014 #35
It's not just from Faux Capt. Obvious Jul 2014 #45
Remind your friend Obama can't run in 2016 and to wait to see who dilby Jul 2014 #10
Not wait. Work to expose the Third Way and replace them with real liberals in our party, woo me with science Jul 2014 #12
Good idea. Louisiana1976 Jul 2014 #31
He must miss The Decider. GeorgeGist Jul 2014 #13
+1 lunasun Jul 2014 #16
Let's see, Putin is supposed to be a decider too. Wonder if he would like Putin, a RKP5637 Jul 2014 #28
+1 million Louisiana1976 Jul 2014 #34
He sounds like an uninformed moron LordGlenconner Jul 2014 #14
Yup HERVEPA Jul 2014 #18
Yes, lets vote for the repuke who will crash the ship of state quickly NightWatcher Jul 2014 #17
Hillary screwed up in Benghazi? This person watches faux news... cry baby Jul 2014 #23
Remind him that the economy is improving. Liberal_in_LA Jul 2014 #24
Just call him stupid Capt. Obvious Jul 2014 #25
LOL. woo me with science Jul 2014 #38
You know, we're talking about the real world and real people who will suffer HERVEPA Jul 2014 #40
And I think it's absolutely Orwelllian that you would attempt to lecture me in this vein, woo me with science Jul 2014 #41
Did he actually vote for Obama? Zambero Jul 2014 #26
2016 is 2 years away. it's 2014 that matters now 0rganism Jul 2014 #29
Sounds like she's lying about voting for Obama. tridim Jul 2014 #30
Voted for Bush twice, felt bad, maybe voted for Obama reluctantly ... returning to the nest. JoePhilly Jul 2014 #33
What, specifically, is it that Chris Bridge-blocker Christie would allegedly do that Obama didn't? KurtNYC Jul 2014 #42
This was NEVER an Obama voter. You got played. Tarheel_Dem Jul 2014 #43
yup, the Benghazi thing was an easy give away for that JI7 Jul 2014 #48
Exactly. Dems never questioned the rational account of what happened there. So, global1 got played Tarheel_Dem Jul 2014 #49
He's a LIER......... a kennedy Jul 2014 #46
You had me going until Benghazi McCamy Taylor Jul 2014 #47

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
1. I can understand the disillusionment to a certain extent
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:01 PM
Jul 2014

but I can never understand why anyone would think Chris Christie or any Repub would be better.

They are obviously a major part of the problem.

Response to HERVEPA (Reply #4)

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
6. Your friend sounds extremely frustrated.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:26 PM
Jul 2014

People often start lurching back and forth between bad options when they realize that neither of the options available is truly working for their interests.




The record shows aggressive, proactive pursuit of a corporate agenda.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=3202395

CUT THE CRAP! Your Month in Review from the most "progressive" administration ever.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025006297

Study: Obama's "Trade" Deal (TPP) Would Mean a Pay Cut for 90% of U.S. Workers
http://citizen.typepad.com/eyesontrade/2013/09/the-verdict-is-in-the-trans-pacific-partnership-tpp-a-sweeping-free-trade-deal-under-negotiation-with-11-pacific-rim-coun.html

Obama’s Latest Betrayal of America and Americans in Favor of the Big Banks: TISA
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/06/26/1309671/--Obama-s-Latest-Betrayal-of-America-and-Americans-in-Favor-of-the-Big-Banks-TISA-by-Bill-Black




When the DLC connections to the Koch Bros. became well known, they just rebranded the infiltration
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4165556

When you hear "Third Way", think INVESTMENT BANKERS
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024127432

GOP Donors and K Street Fuel Third Way’s Advice for the Democratic Party
http://www.democraticunderground.com/101680116

The Rightwing Koch Brothers fund the DLC
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x498414

Same companies behind the GOP are behind the DLC
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=132x1481121

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
7. Stongly disageee. Picking someone because (s)he is decisive,
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:29 PM
Jul 2014

regardless of the positions the person takes, is just plain dumb. One can be frustrated by some of Obama's choices and not express a desire to make a ridiculous choice.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
11. Well, complicity is often misrepresented and misunderstood as indecision.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:35 PM
Jul 2014

That has absolutely nothing to do with the likely role of legitimate frustration here.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
20. I think that was very clear.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 02:26 PM
Jul 2014

Read my post for context, if it helps.

People have lots of reasons to be disgusted and frustrated. Corporate money drives major policy in the Democratic Party, too.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
21. Many reasons perhaps to be disgusted and/or frustrated.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 02:59 PM
Jul 2014

No reason to vote for any rethug candidate over an Dem.
And certainly not because someone was decisive. Hitler was decisive, Stalin was decisive.
Sorry, but it's just dumb.

What things are you friend disgusted about concerning Obama. Unless a right-winger, no chance Christie would be better on any of them.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
22. Yeah, yeah, we know. Lesser of two evils. Blah, blah, blah.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 03:11 PM
Jul 2014

We know that excuse by heart, even as Obama's TPP and TISA are on the horizon, our internet is being handed to corporations, drilling and fracking are being escalated, our schools are under assault, our media and online are overrun with manipulation and propaganda, and our own "Justice" Department is being used to defend mass spying and assaults on dissent and real journalism.

I would say that tired, defensive, apologistic response....the immediate leap to, 'Well, the other guys would be worse!' is a big source of the very frustration we are talking about.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
32. OK. Then fucjk the LGBT folks, minorities, poor, and any other disadavantaged, and the planet.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 03:54 PM
Jul 2014

who would be much worse under Rethugs so one can have a temper tantrum for your ideological purity.
What bullshit.
Yes, a lot of things about Dems sucks.
Yes, they are 100 times better than the thugs.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
37. There's that purity word again. Quite a word to use
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 04:18 PM
Jul 2014

in the context of THIS horrific list:

Obama's TPP and TISA are on the horizon, our internet is being handed to corporations, drilling and fracking are being escalated, our schools are under assault, our media and online are overrun with manipulation and propaganda, and our own "Justice" Department is being used to defend mass spying and assaults on dissent and real journalism.


I just can't wait to see the status of women and minorities in this country when we are all working for Third World wages, these trade agreements have ramped up corporate power and the ability of corporations to override our laws, and dissent in the new corporate America has been crushed.

The very best response in this thread is from Captain Obvious.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
39. I give up. If you want my kids and grandkids to live in an even more fucked-up world
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 04:37 PM
Jul 2014

than it will already be, I can't stop you.

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
44. Frustrated must be a new way of calling him brain dead
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 06:07 PM
Jul 2014

The OP needs to tell his friend, "Hey loser, use your fucking brain for once."

If he doesn't switch his vote back to D then trying being aggressive with him.

Aristus

(66,440 posts)
8. Yeah, making bad decisions quickly is a sign of being decisive.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:30 PM
Jul 2014

It's also a sign of being an idiot.

President Obama takes his time over the decisions that require time and consideration. I'll take that any day over a 'leader' who immediately jumps on the decision most likely to have the worst possible outcome...

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
9. I'm sure your friend has reasons they are disillusioned.
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:30 PM
Jul 2014

Their thoughts on voting and Benghazi do not make them an idiot as some would suggest. Sounds like they are getting their news from a single source like du but from the other side. When one does that it leaves them with a very myopic worldview and often wrong. Try suggesting a different news source or two.

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
45. It's not just from Faux
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 06:10 PM
Jul 2014

Granted most of it starts there but people on the street (like say, this guy at work I hate) who spout these things never watch Faux or any of the news channels.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
10. Remind your friend Obama can't run in 2016 and to wait to see who
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:31 PM
Jul 2014

the Democratic Candidate will be before they make a hasty and dumb decision.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
12. Not wait. Work to expose the Third Way and replace them with real liberals in our party,
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:37 PM
Jul 2014

and make sure we don't anoint another corporatist in a Democrat suit.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
28. Let's see, Putin is supposed to be a decider too. Wonder if he would like Putin, a
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 03:47 PM
Jul 2014

hardliner ready to crush descent, questioning or thinking.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
17. Yes, lets vote for the repuke who will crash the ship of state quickly
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 02:24 PM
Jul 2014

Lets be 100% wrong, hard, and fast.

Obama righted the recession over 6 years, lets pick a repuke who will blow the whole fucking thing up in five minutes.

Obama has worked for 6 years to end conflicts in the Middle East, lets pick a puke who will start one big fucking war on Day One.

I truly hope your friend is not stupid.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
40. You know, we're talking about the real world and real people who will suffer
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 04:46 PM
Jul 2014

And yes, ideological purity would be responsible. So nice for you you can stay in your little fucking dream world. If people are offended and pissed off by the real world, that's a damn shame.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
41. And I think it's absolutely Orwelllian that you would attempt to lecture me in this vein,
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 04:48 PM
Jul 2014

given the content of our conversation above.

Zambero

(8,965 posts)
26. Did he actually vote for Obama?
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 03:40 PM
Jul 2014

Some of these people make that claim then say they'll vote GOP from now on, in order to demoralize their opposition. The intended response: "Gosh, we progressives are losing support with voters, best just give up!" I would be a bit skeptical, with all the usual RW talking points being trotted out.

0rganism

(23,965 posts)
29. 2016 is 2 years away. it's 2014 that matters now
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 03:52 PM
Jul 2014

Let him flip flop around until after the primaries. then see what he thinks.

Tarheel_Dem

(31,237 posts)
49. Exactly. Dems never questioned the rational account of what happened there. So, global1 got played
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 07:02 PM
Jul 2014

by his/her "friend".

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
47. You had me going until Benghazi
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 06:56 PM
Jul 2014


If you had said he can't vote for Hillary because of her pantsuits, I might have believed it.
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