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librechik

(30,676 posts)
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:43 PM Apr 2014

Guns don't, knives don't--ANGER kills people!

all public school children children should be required to take anger management classes of an appropriate learning level every day they are in class. Just like reading and math. Private schools should be encouraged to do likewise.

Adult anger management groups should be free and open in every municipality, like firehouses.

Since we have to have guns, could we please have fewer messed up angry people around us?

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Guns don't, knives don't--ANGER kills people! (Original Post) librechik Apr 2014 OP
But an angry man with a gun will kill way more malaise Apr 2014 #1
Of course, and I am for legislation advancing strong regulation of all that librechik Apr 2014 #7
Very good point. Autumn Apr 2014 #2
yes- 2 year olds need anger management Beaverhausen Apr 2014 #3
we should try to get them as early as possible. Once a generation of parents have learned librechik Apr 2014 #8
My parents taught me how to act, Go Vols Apr 2014 #28
yeah, I know librechik Apr 2014 #30
Actually guns and knives do kill people. Tommy_Carcetti Apr 2014 #4
duh--I was being somewhat facetious, obviously. librechik Apr 2014 #10
No, guns kill people. Donald Ian Rankin Apr 2014 #5
uh huh, see post #7 n/t librechik Apr 2014 #12
Bull. Anger plus availabily of guns kills. HERVEPA Apr 2014 #6
obviously, availability of guns is horrific. But do you think we could lessen their impact a little librechik Apr 2014 #16
Who would be doing this education you propose? HERVEPA Apr 2014 #27
Truth is it will be difficult--I guess I'm talking about my fantasy that will never happen librechik Apr 2014 #29
BTW, I was respectful to you. librechik Apr 2014 #17
Guns demonstrably do kill people - firearm accidents chrisa Apr 2014 #9
But we could seriously cut the number of gun deaths if we cut the number librechik Apr 2014 #13
I don't think that would help. chrisa Apr 2014 #23
As have said many times in this thread, of course I am in favor of gun control librechik Apr 2014 #25
Sure it's only part of the problem, but not a trivial part, I'd say. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2014 #34
Pharmaceutical Companies will love that! Boom Sound 416 Apr 2014 #11
yes, and so will psychiatrists and counselors. librechik Apr 2014 #14
So would parents, family and friends... LanternWaste Apr 2014 #19
Because Boom Sound 416 Apr 2014 #21
You don't need to even know what the child's issues are. Anger management education librechik Apr 2014 #26
Good point...and there's so much to be angry about. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2014 #15
guns do kill people, regularly and efficiently, despite the rantins of the gun fetishists. bowens43 Apr 2014 #18
yes of course, so let's try to think outside the box librechik Apr 2014 #20
I'm angry all day and no one ever dies from it. Iggo Apr 2014 #22
There's nothing wrong with anger. As long as you know how to control it librechik Apr 2014 #24
Likewise. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2014 #33
Anti-social behavior kills people. GeorgeGist Apr 2014 #31
bingo--that is why Anger Management etc. will never be an element of our curriculum, like Hygiene librechik Apr 2014 #32

malaise

(269,182 posts)
1. But an angry man with a gun will kill way more
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:44 PM
Apr 2014

particularly if it has one of those magazines with lots of bullets

librechik

(30,676 posts)
7. Of course, and I am for legislation advancing strong regulation of all that
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:47 PM
Apr 2014

if we can ever get it. Which I doubt.

I think we have to start earlier, and with a different approach, since we will be surrounded by guns (and knives) for all the foreseeable future.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
8. we should try to get them as early as possible. Once a generation of parents have learned
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:48 PM
Apr 2014

they will pass it along to their kids.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
28. My parents taught me how to act,
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:19 PM
Apr 2014

it was the schools job to provide "book learning".But it seems that over the last 30 years alot of parents are to busy/don't care, and pass little to their kids that is positive,and the schools don't do much better.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
30. yeah, I know
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:29 PM
Apr 2014

I actually homeschooled my kids, so this is a fictional imaginary public school system that actually works, that in my fantasy would have some psychological therapy element, in the same we schools include Hygiene classes. For the public health.

Actually Cognitive Therapy for example, there's nothing personal about it. it's just a regimen you learn so your brain doesn't turn to shit.

But it would never happen anymore than we can afford to go around and seize people's weapons.

I'm just trying to have a discussion about another stupid strategy that apparently will never work. Cuz it's too painful if I don't at least try.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
5. No, guns kill people.
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:45 PM
Apr 2014

To be precise, they kill a bit over 30,000 Americans every year, or about one American in 10,000 every year.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
6. Bull. Anger plus availabily of guns kills.
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:46 PM
Apr 2014

Anger plus availability of knives kills far fewer.
Anger plus no weapon very seldom kills.
Why don't you just take your crap back to the gungeon.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
16. obviously, availability of guns is horrific. But do you think we could lessen their impact a little
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:55 PM
Apr 2014

I f we educated our children how to respond to provocation on such a wide scale that virtually no one would even think to grab a gun in anger?

I don't think we can remove guns from the US.

But I think education about dealing with others could in time have a gigantic effect if we took it seriously.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
27. Who would be doing this education you propose?
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:17 PM
Apr 2014

The good parents already do it.
The bad parents won't.
The schools won't help much if the home contradicts the school by its behavior.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
29. Truth is it will be difficult--I guess I'm talking about my fantasy that will never happen
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:24 PM
Apr 2014

like others have a fantasy that we could have sensible gun reform laws and that would help . And even others fantasy that if we have sensible gun reform laws that means that OBAMA and the UN ail come and get our guns, now that they know where they are.

No, it'll never happen because nobody gives a flying fuck about education in this country, and it shows.

I'm just saying, in a fantasy world where we had a decent public education system and effective mental health care, They might have an anger management element in the curriculum, and that would be a positive thing.

I think there would be fewer deaths from anger and conflict domestically.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
13. But we could seriously cut the number of gun deaths if we cut the number
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:51 PM
Apr 2014

of ANGRY assholes. With guns and knives, duh.

chrisa

(4,524 posts)
23. I don't think that would help.
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:04 PM
Apr 2014

If you're concerned about gun deaths, why not have free gun safety programs and effective gun control?

Your premise that gun deaths are an issue with anger is flawed. That's only one part of the problem.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
25. As have said many times in this thread, of course I am in favor of gun control
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:09 PM
Apr 2014

the more severe and restrictive the better. I even advocate for liability insurance for all gun owners.

But the other part, the education needs to be expanded to include how to handle your anger so that it doesn't wind up in a gunfight.

Of course there would be gun deaths from accidents and so on. But I believe far less. Maybe not. Maybe there is no hope.

But the two remedies you mentioned, realistically, we'll never get those nationwide.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
34. Sure it's only part of the problem, but not a trivial part, I'd say.
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:39 PM
Apr 2014

No single factor dominates the causes of violent crime, no single solution will solve it.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
26. You don't need to even know what the child's issues are. Anger management education
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:12 PM
Apr 2014

is pretty standard for all humans. And we manage to pay for sports arenas for high school kids, perhaps a bit better money management is called for as well.

Either way--I'm not gonna get it. And we're gonna go on killing each other and wring our hands helplessly.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
15. Good point...and there's so much to be angry about.
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 12:53 PM
Apr 2014

Living in a frantically-paced, inequitable, collapsing society drives folks around the bend. The need to address this with effective anger management education is enormous.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
20. yes of course, so let's try to think outside the box
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:00 PM
Apr 2014

we obviously can't stop guns from killing people.

Is there a way we can stop people from wanting to kill people quite so much?

Maybe if we taught our children how to deal better with anger and conflict, we could make a small dent in the number of deaths.

It would take a long time, but I believe that is an additional strategy we could advance, in addition to forwarding sane regulation efforts.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
24. There's nothing wrong with anger. As long as you know how to control it
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:05 PM
Apr 2014

instead of letting it fester and explode. We know how to teach people to control their anger. We just need to do it a lot more. IMO.

librechik

(30,676 posts)
32. bingo--that is why Anger Management etc. will never be an element of our curriculum, like Hygiene
Wed Apr 9, 2014, 01:35 PM
Apr 2014

because the rich wish to normalize sociopathic behavior so that war they do seem okay, and the common folk are too beleaguered to stop them.

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