Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:24 PM Mar 2014

Shanesha Taylor, Homeless Single Mom, Arrested After Leaving Kids In Car While On Job Interview

by Andres Jauregui
3/28/14

A homeless single mother in Arizona who struggled to make ends meet is in jail after she allegedly left her children in her car while she went on a job interview.

Shanesha Taylor was arrested on felony child abuse charges after Scottsdale police discovered her two kids, aged 2 years old and 6 months old, in a locked car.

Scottsdale police responded after a witness reported a child crying from inside a Dodge Durango parked at an office complex on March 20. Police said that two children were left along in the car with the engine off and the windows slightly cracked. The car was left parked in the sun and all the doors were closed.

AZFamily reports that the kids had already been in the car for 30 minutes when police arrived. Police said 35-year-old Taylor returned from her job interview about 45 minutes after officers came to the scene. She said she didn't have anyone else to care for the kids while she was on an interview at an insurance company.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/28/shanesha-taylor-homeless-mom-arrested_n_5050356.html

This is a sad story all around. I hope that she doesn't lose custody of her children. The one good thing is that someone started an online fundraising drive to help with her legal expenses and they had already raised $27,000.

81 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Shanesha Taylor, Homeless Single Mom, Arrested After Leaving Kids In Car While On Job Interview (Original Post) Beacool Mar 2014 OP
I wish I knew her and others in that position. JimDandy Mar 2014 #1
I feel terrible for this woman. Beacool Mar 2014 #2
every city in the US has huge numbers of unemployed questionseverything Mar 2014 #17
Yes, that would be a solution. Beacool Mar 2014 #19
i see two sides to the forced volenteer thing questionseverything Mar 2014 #34
In NJ, they put them to work in parks Beacool Mar 2014 #39
Sad that she found herself in these circumstances... Lancero Mar 2014 #3
Desperate people do desperate things. Beacool Mar 2014 #4
I agree. She shouldn't have left those kids in her car. But she did it out totodeinhere Mar 2014 #9
That is sad in many ways. justhanginon Mar 2014 #16
Sadly being homeless she would have less access to resources that would allow her to totodeinhere Mar 2014 #18
Exactly!! Beacool Mar 2014 #20
The car is all the home they have and with that comes a reality of few resources TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #5
I saw a documentary some years ago about homeless women. Beacool Mar 2014 #24
A national sin, Bea. This is a symptom of who we are structurally TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #49
Yes, many of the homeless are veterans. Beacool Mar 2014 #70
I would have done the exact same thing. I will shamelessly admit that given Ed Suspicious Mar 2014 #11
I thought the same thing. Beacool Mar 2014 #21
And if it was summer? Lancero Mar 2014 #35
Was it? I don't know. I would make my best judgement at that time. If it were a cool summer Ed Suspicious Mar 2014 #36
So you'd think... Lancero Mar 2014 #48
Failure to provide food and shelter risks a child's life, too TroglodyteScholar Mar 2014 #52
I have sat in a parked car for 15 minutes. I lived to tell the tale. Ed Suspicious Mar 2014 #59
I think it's a fair guess that you are not an infant. LisaL Apr 2014 #74
Are you suggesting I owe my life to my advanced age? In my experience, the young are those Ed Suspicious Apr 2014 #75
If you overheat you can get out of the car. LisaL Apr 2014 #76
It's a good thing infant and I both survived the risk. Ed Suspicious Apr 2014 #77
I would have brought them to the interview TorchTheWitch Mar 2014 #50
I interview people from time to time yeoman6987 Mar 2014 #58
Maybe, it is my observation that more likely even if she were allowed to interview she'd be destined TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #66
and none of that is a valid reason to leave your kids in the car TorchTheWitch Mar 2014 #67
You may want to look up your local homeless shelter or battered women's home.... peace13 Apr 2014 #79
These stories never mention the father exboyfil Mar 2014 #6
Totally agree. And to think kcr Mar 2014 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author lumberjack_jeff Mar 2014 #14
Who knows? Beacool Mar 2014 #25
I would pay for her babysitter... Helen Borg Mar 2014 #8
Are there any charities that offer free babysitting services to folks like this IronLionZion Mar 2014 #10
There definitely should be. nt cyberswede Mar 2014 #12
The sad thing is Horse with no Name Mar 2014 #44
all this outrage over her leaving her kids in the car but none for the fact that they LIVE in azurnoir Mar 2014 #13
I'm hoping that it will, since it says that her legal bills should be around $9,000. Beacool Mar 2014 #26
Her kids should not have been taken in the first place they were after all left at home azurnoir Mar 2014 #28
I get the feeling that now that her situation has become public, that she'll receive help. Beacool Mar 2014 #31
+1 nt Live and Learn Mar 2014 #53
Lack of Money is Punished with Zero Tolerance n/t LarryNM Mar 2014 #15
hideously bad judgement but Skittles Mar 2014 #22
Oh yeah? What should she have done then? TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #40
Call a friend, parent, etc? n/t JesterCS Mar 2014 #69
SHE AND HER CHILDREN LIVE IN A CAR TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #71
Is it really that easy to judge? nt Live and Learn Mar 2014 #54
We are quickly becoming a society with... 99Forever Mar 2014 #23
Indeed, we are. Beacool Mar 2014 #27
I, at times wonder if I didn't step into an alternate reality. 99Forever Mar 2014 #33
I think that people are on information overload. Beacool Mar 2014 #37
They quickly recover empathy and sensitivity if somebody says something they don't like about their TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #42
+1 nt Live and Learn Mar 2014 #55
Moms that don't live near family (their moms, grandparents, cousins, etc.) have a really hard time Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2014 #29
Moms on the streets or trying to live out of a car are in a world of shit whatever the location of TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #43
Yup. And most anyone can end up homeless. Being in a country that has few social programs... Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2014 #46
Well she does. LisaL Apr 2014 #73
Poverty (which leaves a person no spare time or resources) might contribute to this too I suppose. Sarah Ibarruri Apr 2014 #81
'How noble the law, in its majestic equality, elleng Mar 2014 #30
Perfect! Ed Suspicious Mar 2014 #61
Very sad. But you just can't do that LittleBlue Mar 2014 #32
Yes, something could have happened to them. Beacool Mar 2014 #38
What should she have done, hung with the car until it was out of gas or impounded and TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #41
Bootstraps steeped overnight in poverty juice make an amazingly nutritious and tasty broth n/t Fumesucker Mar 2014 #45
You're blessed and cursed empathy. I love your posts in this thread. Ed Suspicious Mar 2014 #62
I've had a taste of it, I can't wrap my head around the clawing, desperation of having kids TheKentuckian Mar 2014 #64
If I was on the jury, she wouldn't be convicted of anything. nt stevenleser Mar 2014 #47
Yeah, these people want a hand out from the government so badly they leave their kids kelliekat44 Mar 2014 #51
That struck me too treestar Mar 2014 #65
High temp on that day was only 83 degrees F. Live and Learn Mar 2014 #56
The temp inside the car was 100 degrees. tammywammy Mar 2014 #57
i know a couple of women who have no local family support system dembotoz Mar 2014 #60
She has an extended family. LisaL Apr 2014 #72
sad story Liberal_in_LA Mar 2014 #63
Oh God, this is so heartbreaking Number23 Mar 2014 #68
What do you think? LisaL Apr 2014 #78
13 days late and all you've got to contribute to this thread is a bunch of needless nasty? Number23 Apr 2014 #80

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
2. I feel terrible for this woman.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:39 PM
Mar 2014

She's homeless and probably couldn't find anyone to watch her kids. So she must have figured that, since it was only an interview, that she wouldn't be gone too long. Unfortunately, someone reported seeing the children and she was arrested. There went the job prospects and even maybe her children too. I'm hoping that since there are now people aware of her situation, that someone helps her to find a job and a place to live. That would probably be a prerequisite to get her kids back.

questionseverything

(9,656 posts)
17. every city in the US has huge numbers of unemployed
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 03:36 PM
Mar 2014

and tons of empty building that could easily be converted to "emergency day care"

since Clinton changed welfare every1 receiving benefits has to volunteer if they do not have a paying job

we have everything we need to fix this except the political will

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
19. Yes, that would be a solution.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:30 PM
Mar 2014

BTW, I have no problem with people having to volunteer to get benefits. In some cases, it may even train them to have a skill that could be useful to gain employment.

questionseverything

(9,656 posts)
34. i see two sides to the forced volenteer thing
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 07:25 PM
Mar 2014

it can give experience that may lead to a real job as you said

it can provide a feeling of self worth that can lead to positive things

on the negative side

in Illinois for a $357. benefit they have to volunteer 120 hours a month...less than 3 bucks an hour seems like slave labor

too many of the "approved" places to volunteer are very right wing religious centers where the clients are literally forced into praying several times a day...conditions of help should not depend on accepting another's religious views (in my opinion)

but staffing a crisis nursery with volunteers to help poor mothers in this kind of situation would be a noble goal

Lancero

(3,003 posts)
3. Sad that she found herself in these circumstances...
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:39 PM
Mar 2014

But locked in a car for a half-hour, and didn't show up until that and half later?

I'm sure she had good intentions, but I fail to see how anyone could think locking two small children in a car for a hour and fifteen minutes is a good idea. The only good thing is that it isn't summer yet, but even then parked right in the sun at this time of year can still prove fatal if left for a while. Not to mention the chance of someone with less then good intentions seeing them.

Road to hell's paved with good intentions.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
4. Desperate people do desperate things.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:43 PM
Mar 2014

I've heard of stories of mother's leaving the kids in cars their whole shift at work and coming out to check on them because they had no one to leave the kids with and not going to work was not an option.

This woman did something stupid out of need. I just hope that she doesn't lose custody of her children.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
9. I agree. She shouldn't have left those kids in her car. But she did it out
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:14 PM
Mar 2014

of desperation trying to find a job so she could support those same kids. Some people just don't understand how difficult it is to be homeless.

justhanginon

(3,290 posts)
16. That is sad in many ways.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 03:19 PM
Mar 2014

It is hard if not impossible for most of us to feel the level of hopelessness that must accompany people in these circumstances. Homelessness transcends being poor. It means you have virtually nothing left and nowhere to go. We have all probably experienced dire or near dire situations but few have had homelessness thrust on them and I wonder what we would do..
I also wonder where the hell the father is and if he can be located and made to accept some of his responsibilities to those children.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
18. Sadly being homeless she would have less access to resources that would allow her to
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 03:38 PM
Mar 2014

search for the father if she doesn't know his whereabouts. It's a vicious cycle.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
5. The car is all the home they have and with that comes a reality of few resources
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:54 PM
Mar 2014

and support systems from society all the way down to the family and individual level.

Doesn't she have to find some way for her and her kids to get out of that car before summer and as soon as possible? If she has a lead on a job doesn't she have to pursue it?

There were no "good" choices to make, the least bad was to take a chance that might give them a shot at a home or at least keep gas in car and food in their bellies.

What choices should she have made with the had dealt?

The fact that we have homeless population is a societal failure and a pretty deep on but rather than face that we always try to find ways to punish the victims complete with lectures from folks that are used to the menu with not only a good option but often a plethora of them.

You ever been reduced to living in the car? It means you've got few options. Shit, the folks just out there think the car people are living the life of Riley, if you don't get out of that car and go in somewhere everyday eventually you will probably find out why because you will eventually lose the car.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
24. I saw a documentary some years ago about homeless women.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:43 PM
Mar 2014

These are women that had been functioning in society, but unexpected circumstances led them to be homeless. One lived in a rented U-Haul truck. One middle aged lady tried to park in a cemetery at night because she felt safer. There were other women's stories too. The sad thing is at the end of the film they told you what happened to these women, and I think it was the one who lived in the rented U-Haul, committed suicide. She couldn't cope anymore with her situation.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
49. A national sin, Bea. This is a symptom of who we are structurally
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 02:14 AM
Mar 2014

Feeding that murders us all in many cruel ways, casting these people aside and then criminalizing them to shift the blame not the least of the growing daily impacts.

Huge numbers of our homeless are the veterans we prattle on about endlessly and then cut their services. We have now millions of homeless children, many without the relative safety of a car. I think many, including some who call themselves liberal would rather see an end to all life on Earth than to actually do anything that possibly would largely end such outcomes.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
70. Yes, many of the homeless are veterans.
Mon Mar 31, 2014, 04:03 PM
Mar 2014

It's a disgrace. I remember reading that in the 80s a homeless veteran died of exposure in Lafayette Park, right by the WH. How sad......

Death in the Cities

The press played its part in publicizing the homeless crisis, often focusing on the tragic suffering of street people during the winter months. It was pointed out that on the morning Ronald Reagan delivered his second inaugural address -- indoors under the Capitol dome due to inclement winter weather -- a homeless man was found frozen to death in a derelict house just a few miles away. (Inaugural party goers and caterers donated leftovers to Washington homeless shelters; Waiters in tuxedos from Ridgewell's catering service supplied 1,000 homeless with hams, shrimp, quiche and crab claws.) Three years earlier, a decorated World War II veteran died of exposure on a bench in Lafayette Park, across the street from the White House. In Philadelphia, Pittsburgh and other cities, police removed the homeless from the streets when temperatures plummeted to a dangerous level. But when Mayor Koch of New York City -- where nearly 30 displaced persons had perished over the course of several winters -- implemented a similar plan, the New York Civil Liberties Union denounced it as an unconstitutional restraint on personal freedom.

http://eightiesclub.tripod.com/id343.htm



Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
11. I would have done the exact same thing. I will shamelessly admit that given
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:38 PM
Mar 2014

her circumstances and her options, I would have had my kids sit in the car until I was done with the interview. Full stop.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
36. Was it? I don't know. I would make my best judgement at that time. If it were a cool summer
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 08:13 PM
Mar 2014

morning I suppose I would. If it were hot I wouldn't risk my kid's lives. I'm a pretty sensible person, Lancero. I would weigh the risks just like everyone else would.

Lancero

(3,003 posts)
48. So you'd think...
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 11:52 PM
Mar 2014

That the risks of leaving children in a car for a hour and 15 minutes are negligible? Even in good weather?

Even in good weather, doing such is risking a child's life.

TroglodyteScholar

(5,477 posts)
52. Failure to provide food and shelter risks a child's life, too
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 06:02 AM
Mar 2014

Of course I hate all the stories in the national news that depict children being neglected by selfish parents. But this is clearly not one of those cases. It's just sad for everyone involved.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
59. I have sat in a parked car for 15 minutes. I lived to tell the tale.
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 08:08 AM
Mar 2014

I suppose my good fortune was the result of a confluence of nonlethal factors such as moderate ambient temperatures, cracked window, cool breeze, shade, and a grip on reality allowing for normal heart rate and low levels of stress hormone coursing through my veins allowing the imminent myocardial eruption to be held at bay.

Why you coming at me bro? I'm aware of the potential danger.

In my world, I'm fortunate to not have to make the decision as my kids, despite all odds, have made it to their teenage years and are strong enough in body and will to crack the door should they need some fresh air.

The point is, fortunately, time spent in a parked car is not necessarily in all cases a direct cause of death.

I think we can comfortably stop short of painting the lady as some reckless homicidal maniac and acknowledge she was simply doing the best she could with the tools she had.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
75. Are you suggesting I owe my life to my advanced age? In my experience, the young are those
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 06:49 PM
Apr 2014

gifted with resilience.

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
77. It's a good thing infant and I both survived the risk.
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 07:00 PM
Apr 2014

I take your point. I'm having a hard time with the sanctimony.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
50. I would have brought them to the interview
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 04:57 AM
Mar 2014

And apologized profusely for having to do so but explained if I didn't I'd have to leave them in a car unattended. It happens that people even in good living circumstances have something last minute come up where they need to take their kid or kids to a job interview, and I've never known it to be an issue. Several times I've worked in places where staff had to babysit a kid or two while their parent was in an interview, and everyone in the office loved the novelty of having the unexpected diversion of having a kid or two to entertain though truth be told it was the staff being entertained by the kid(s). All in all I think the interviewer is more impressed with the good parenting in that the interviewee wasn't willing to put their child in a dangerous situation letting an interview take precedence over the welfare of their child. Shows an ability to prioritize what is most important. Frankly, I wouldn't want to hire anyone that was willing to let their young kids remain in the car unattended so they could go to a job interview - to me that shows gross irresponsibility and an inability to prioritize what is most important.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
58. I interview people from time to time
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 07:47 AM
Mar 2014

Typically everyone is really flexible. If this woman would have called and said, "I am sorry but I cannot come at the allotted time, can we change it to another time?" Perhaps that would have alleviated her situation and lack of a babysitter.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
66. Maybe, it is my observation that more likely even if she were allowed to interview she'd be destined
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 04:09 PM
Mar 2014

for File 13 due to the fact that she cannot even arrange child care for a brief interview then it is unlikely she'll be able to make the job first priority and may be a problem moving forward.

Companies are fairly ruthless, not all but a great many. It is cut throat out here and the lower down the rungs you are the more so it is that way. The understanding one gets in one environment is very much absent in others because the employees aren't actually valued, applicants are a dime a dozen.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
67. and none of that is a valid reason to leave your kids in the car
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 04:50 PM
Mar 2014

There's no question that this woman was stuck between a rock and a hard place. Just being homeless is about as stuck between a rock and a hard place as one can get. Regardless, it doesn't justify leaving the kids in the car while you attend a job interview. As I said, the best thing she could have done was to bring the kids into the building with her, apologize for the circumstances and make the best of it. The employer would be more apt to hire her had she done that than learning she'd left her kids in the car.

I'm well aware of how cut throat it is looking for a job. I'm flat broke and have been looking for a job unsuccessfully for longer than I care to admit. It doesn't mean you get a pass in endangering your children in order to go to a job interview especially when doing so means jail, a huge fine you can't hope to pay and a record that will follow you everywhere as well as the very real possibility of losing custody of your children.

Like I said, I would be more apt to hire someone that acted responsibly in a difficult situation, and I'd never hire someone that was so horribly irresponsible as to leave their children in the car to attend an interview.

 

peace13

(11,076 posts)
79. You may want to look up your local homeless shelter or battered women's home....
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 08:08 PM
Apr 2014

...and volunteer to watch some children. Helping one another is the only answer. Deciding for others from a perfect world looking glass won't cut it here in America!

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
6. These stories never mention the father
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 12:59 PM
Mar 2014

Where is he? The journalists at least should ask the question. He is equally responsible for the welfare of the children and equally culpable in the desperate situation faced by this woman.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
7. Totally agree. And to think
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 01:06 PM
Mar 2014

We have people whining about child support and calling for the ability for men to be able to claim no responsibility because women can just have abortions if they want to. What a great idea that would be, as we can see. Even more cases like this.

Response to exboyfil (Reply #6)

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
25. Who knows?
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:44 PM
Mar 2014

That's a huge part of the problem. Far too many fathers just inseminate the women and then take a hike.

IronLionZion

(45,454 posts)
10. Are there any charities that offer free babysitting services to folks like this
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 02:16 PM
Mar 2014

or nonprofit day care for low-income workers? I'd like to support such organizations if they exist.

Horse with no Name

(33,956 posts)
44. The sad thing is
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:46 PM
Mar 2014

in Arizona...they have shredded the social safety net worse than in most states.

A friend told me that if you aren't already in the system...they aren't taking new people.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
13. all this outrage over her leaving her kids in the car but none for the fact that they LIVE in
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 03:07 PM
Mar 2014

that very same car, something is very wrong here

Too bad the $27,000 couldn't be used to help her find a place to live

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
26. I'm hoping that it will, since it says that her legal bills should be around $9,000.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:46 PM
Mar 2014

I'm hoping that someone in her area helps her to get a job and a place to live. That way she can get her kids back.

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
28. Her kids should not have been taken in the first place they were after all left at home
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:50 PM
Mar 2014

or what was home for them at the time

but I'm glad that there will be money left over and hopefully it cn be used for something positive like housing for this family so they do not face this again

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
31. I get the feeling that now that her situation has become public, that she'll receive help.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 06:01 PM
Mar 2014

She will probably receive more than $27,000 by the time the fundraising efforts are over.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
22. hideously bad judgement but
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:39 PM
Mar 2014

I hope she is shown some compassion and receives the help she so desperately needs......she surely is not the only culprit here

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
71. SHE AND HER CHILDREN LIVE IN A CAR
Mon Mar 31, 2014, 11:51 PM
Mar 2014

That means help is already very thin, at the very best.

The response means that you aren't really trying to get into those shoes.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
23. We are quickly becoming a society with...
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:43 PM
Mar 2014

... neither a heart or a soul. This is a direct result of unfettered capitalism, in all of it's supreme glory.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
27. Indeed, we are.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:47 PM
Mar 2014

Remember the story of the cop who gave a woman a summons because she fished less than $2 from a fountain to get something to eat?

Who would have thought these stories would be so common in one of the wealthiest nations in the world?

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
33. I, at times wonder if I didn't step into an alternate reality.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 06:21 PM
Mar 2014

This nation's loss of it's humanity is the legacy that we leave behind.

It didn't have to be like this.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
37. I think that people are on information overload.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:17 PM
Mar 2014

We can't disconnect, so we find out every little tragedy everywhere. After a while, people become desensitized to human tragedy.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
42. They quickly recover empathy and sensitivity if somebody says something they don't like about their
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:42 PM
Mar 2014

millionaire politician.

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
29. Moms that don't live near family (their moms, grandparents, cousins, etc.) have a really hard time
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:50 PM
Mar 2014

Those that live near family have it easier.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
43. Moms on the streets or trying to live out of a car are in a world of shit whatever the location of
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:44 PM
Mar 2014

their relations.

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
46. Yup. And most anyone can end up homeless. Being in a country that has few social programs...
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 11:13 PM
Mar 2014

and in which family is so distant, is a huge problem.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
73. Well she does.
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 05:59 PM
Apr 2014

One of the things she told police is that she's lived with her mother for the last year.

"It's unclear precisely what her circumstances are, as Taylor is declining interviews. She told police she was often homeless and that they'd stayed the previous night in a Wal-Mart parking lot, yet she also told them she's lived with her mother for the last year. She told police she's unemployed yet court documents indicate she worked part-time as an office aide for a medical house call service."
http://www.azcentral.com/story/laurie-roberts/2014/04/11/shanesha-taylor-arizona-child-abuse/7565687/

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
81. Poverty (which leaves a person no spare time or resources) might contribute to this too I suppose.
Sun Apr 13, 2014, 11:42 AM
Apr 2014

I suppose I always judge everything by my own Latin-Spain families, and there's lots of family support there. Different cultures, though. Shouldn't compare at all with the U.S. culture.

elleng

(130,974 posts)
30. 'How noble the law, in its majestic equality,
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 05:55 PM
Mar 2014

that both the rich and poor are equally prohibited from sleeping under bridges.' Anatole France

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
32. Very sad. But you just can't do that
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 06:08 PM
Mar 2014

With a teenager, okay. Not with a 2-year-old and a 6-month-old. They can die.

Also, like others have said, it's a shame the government doesn't provide some kind of temporary babysitter to homeless people looking for work. Hopefully the judge takes mercy on her and can find some kind of arrangement with a charity.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
38. Yes, something could have happened to them.
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:19 PM
Mar 2014

It just shows the level of desperation, she risked it all in the hopes of getting a job.

Sad.........

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
41. What should she have done, hung with the car until it was out of gas or impounded and
Sat Mar 29, 2014, 10:38 PM
Mar 2014

begin a path to a life truly on the street for her children?

And guess what? The same motherfuckers slamming this woman now would be saying they would have done ANYTHING to make sure they went to that job interview if wind was caught of it being missed.

Pull your self up by your bootstraps but remember no bootstraps allowed!

Democrats are becoming as heartless and clueless as the dumpster fires across the aisle. No, wonder our leadership is fucked up, it is coming from the roots up and then top back down in a cascade of callous failure and slicing our own throats dressed up as phony pragmatism.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
64. I've had a taste of it, I can't wrap my head around the clawing, desperation of having kids
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 03:57 PM
Mar 2014

Just the trepidation factor alone has to push the bounds of holding one's mind together and the hopelessness. Damn, how it must gnaw at a person.

What goes through the minds of the children, I fear to even imagine. They are so sensitive, if the parent is hanging on by their fingernails then the odds are they pick up on that and are vexed. The other kids can be so cruel too, it was hard being just poor.

 

kelliekat44

(7,759 posts)
51. Yeah, these people want a hand out from the government so badly they leave their kids
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 05:41 AM
Mar 2014

in a car alone while they desperately look for the next welfare check.

Just another reason to dislike the GOP.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
65. That struck me too
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 04:02 PM
Mar 2014

She was looking for a job. Every right winger in the world ought to defend her for that.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
56. High temp on that day was only 83 degrees F.
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 06:49 AM
Mar 2014

Article doesn't state the time but even at the high the kids weren't likely in any danger.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
57. The temp inside the car was 100 degrees.
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 07:17 AM
Mar 2014
According to court documents, the temperature outside was about 82 degrees and the temperature inside the car exceeded 100 degrees.

It is estimated the children were in the vehicle for at least 30 minutes.

The 6-month-old was wearing two T-shirts, one of which had long sleeves, and was covered with a blanket, according to court paperwork. He was crying hysterically.

Police said all four windows of the SUV had been rolled down about 1 inch.

Court documents say that officers entered the car through the unlocked driver's door and found the keys in the ignition. The engine was not running but the blower motor was pumping hot air into the SUV.


http://www.azfamily.com/news/Police-Mother-left-infant-toddler-in-hot-car-during-job-interview-251571521.html

Thankfully, the children weren't hurt, but if someone hadn't called police it could have been a lot worse.

dembotoz

(16,808 posts)
60. i know a couple of women who have no local family support system
Sun Mar 30, 2014, 08:55 AM
Mar 2014

the kids are older now and situation not as dire

extended family just doesn't exist for a lot of folks.

just doesn't.


one of them knows that i have her back no matter what.

we worry more about stray cats and dogs than stray humans
and that is just



wrong

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
72. She has an extended family.
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 05:57 PM
Apr 2014

One of the things she told police is that she's lived with her mother during the last year.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
80. 13 days late and all you've got to contribute to this thread is a bunch of needless nasty?
Sat Apr 12, 2014, 09:21 PM
Apr 2014

Seriously?

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Shanesha Taylor, Homeless...