Most conservatives are good people.
We are accustomed to responding to dittoheads and crazy bigots, but there are some Republicans that are not insane and do not listen to Limbaugh incessantly. We may not agree with them on a lot of issues but that does not mean they are not good people.
They go to work and work hard. They will watch the football game this Sunday and some will drink more than their share of brewskis. Some may even imbibe in a hit off the old bong, from time to time?
All conservatives do not think alike, just as all liberals do not think alike.
I only point this out to show where the division is actually coming from and how we contribute to the division by reacting in the manner we do.
This political division is bad for all of us and we need to end it.
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........I find myself everyday having to remind them to wad the paper up before they use it, not after.
My parents are "good" people. Nice enough, pleasant to be around, normal "country folk" with simple good-old-fashioned American values.
They also believe that AIDs is God's way of killing of gays, that illegal immigrants should be deported kids and all, that anybody who doesn't belong to the particular congregation that they attend on Sundays is "going to hell", and that killing A-Rabs and Ter-OR-USTs is just fine and dandy, as in "send them all to hell."
Yep. Good people. Good and f'ing stupid. God bless them and their gentle hearts...
If you can believe in the CRAP that is the essence of conservatism, you are not a good or moral person especially economic issues that with hold food from hungry people.
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As you can see, that goes for the fans of both teams. 
You did say most and not all, so that would be why. There are self righteous right wingers the same as there are self righteous left wingers... both who refuse to try and who are completely self absorbed in their own rightness. Both are a damn joke and both are embarrassing and not worth talking to. An asshole is an asshole regardless of party or affiliation.
Look on this thread alone... No PASS! No! BAD!!!!!111! It's rather amusing really because I'm not sure anyone is asking for a pass from them let alone gives a shit.
All conservatives are alike in one way... they believe lies wrapped in the bible and the flag with a dash of the promise of money. Some conservative issues can be legitimate meaning a person honestly believes in that way, but most are lies that the average conservative has accepted because it makes them feel good/secure.
Yes, I'm aware I'll shortly be flamed. 
A lot of DUers think all Republicans must be either a) evil, or b) willfully ignorant -- that is, they either "support evil things" or "turn a blind eye to things they know are evil."
I know conservatives that don't fit either of those two narrowly-defined, barely different categories. They are, in fact, "good people" who follow their hearts, but have been slowly led down the Republican primrose path, which is carefully landscaped so as to appear all-American and full of flowers and good things. I don't even know any aggressive Republicans who get up in the morning wondering, "Hey what evil policies can I support today?" But... they all do believe that Democrats and liberals in general are a kooky, crazy bunch who pursue their own OBVIOUSLY 
flawed and anti-American policies.
There's a reason it's taken 30 years for the Republican machine to reach this point: they orchestrated a decades-long campaign to mold the hearts and minds of the people through religion and media growth and local-level issues that are divisive BUT made to look like common-sense apple pie kind of stuff. Your rank-and-file "good Republican" has been raised to simply not notice that a lot of shit stinks; in fact, they think it's flowers. So they don't "throw their support" behind evil things.. but they DO "support" it through voting, because they simply don't know any better or any different.
This is also why you can't change their minds.
But many of them DO support charities and community work and such at the local level, and make a HUGE positive difference in the lives of many around them. It's only at the bigger picture level -- those realms affected by the politicians they vote for -- that their efforts get all bent to the will of mammon.
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If you don't believe me, check out my threads for the last 13 years.
But I have come to the conclusion that we are headed to a very bad place if we do not change direction.
We can never surrender to bigotry and hatred but we need to change how we fight it. Picking up guns and going to battle is not an option, in my opinion.
However, we must show by our actions and our words that we are the more rational, the more sensible, and the more "uniting" Party. Simply hurling words and stones across the river at each other and we end up like the Hindus and the Muslims in India in 1947, as depicted in the movie, Gandhi.
Also, and more importantly, this is the best way for us to win the political battle. We can show a clear distinction between the liberals and the conservatives. It does not mean that we surrender anything that we believe in. We know they are wrongheaded and racist in many of their views. We can only hope that there are some common sense, rational Republicans that will reject those ideas, if given the chance. I think we should give them the chance.
Granted, it may not work. Sensing victory, they may only double-down with their hateful rhetoric? But the alternative is taking us all to a very bad place, in my opinion.
Because, frankly, all the conservatives I know are racist and sexist.
Oh, sure, if you're a white person they're pleasant and jovial (until they tell a sexist "joke" -- "but don't be sensitive, sweetheart!"
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