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Anyone else alone on xmas Eve? (Original Post) Katashi_itto Dec 2013 OP
My dog Toby and I are cat sitting for avebury Dec 2013 #1
Thanks! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #2
Merry Christmas to both of you madokie Dec 2013 #37
I am. Vashta Nerada Dec 2013 #3
Well hang it there, I find after so many similar ones. It makes the good ones so much more Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #7
I wish I were. roody Dec 2013 #19
I've been living a hermit life for some time passiveporcupine Dec 2013 #46
Yep dipsydoodle Dec 2013 #4
Awesome movie! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #8
I am....and working to boot.. VanillaRhapsody Dec 2013 #5
Thats rough, but put some music on! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #10
Yes, my mom's sick today. tammywammy Dec 2013 #6
Hopefully mom will be better soon Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #12
Just a stomach bug, I was more than happy to reschedule. :) tammywammy Dec 2013 #20
:) Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #21
I'm playing this game that came with the PS3, The Last of Us. tammywammy Dec 2013 #31
I've heard thats a great game. I got Outlast, set in an insane asylum Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #40
I am sick with the flu that I came down with yesterday. It has been nice (to the extent that Dustlawyer Dec 2013 #49
I hope you feel better soon. tammywammy Dec 2013 #56
Well you have all of us in the virtual world nadinbrzezinski Dec 2013 #9
Thank you very much! That means alot to me Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #11
Working as usual but I get off at suppertime here so can go home and hang out with Mr, a book, uppityperson Dec 2013 #13
I am but it's fine firsttimer Dec 2013 #14
Well I am now maindawg Dec 2013 #15
I am as well - although I have a dog for company. nt el_bryanto Dec 2013 #16
I wish you a speedy recovery and a merry christmas eve. Little Star Dec 2013 #17
you too! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #18
I am, but it's a big work night for me anyway hfojvt Dec 2013 #22
For you: Brigid Dec 2013 #62
I love that musical version. Feel better soon! Kurovski Dec 2013 #23
I am alone now and have been most of my adult life but LiberalArkie Dec 2013 #24
Huh? hydrocodon and valium help. Are you in pain? I hope you don't take those recreationally. Hope okaawhatever Dec 2013 #50
I usually have real bad back pain but I ignore it most of the time. So I treat myself to LiberalArkie Dec 2013 #58
Oh back pain sucks. Hope you have a merry Christmas and get a chance to hit the weight bench. nt okaawhatever Dec 2013 #60
Happy Holidays! Overseas Dec 2013 #25
I might as well be. LumosMaxima Dec 2013 #26
Yeah -- sons are at their mom's house. I'm on my own, cooking, hanging out, villager Dec 2013 #27
Oh your poor mother. I'm glad you can visit her. I'm sure that will make all the difference and okaawhatever Dec 2013 #52
Thanks. One of my two sisters lives at home.... villager Dec 2013 #54
My Cat And I Wish You A Speedy Recovery cantbeserious Dec 2013 #28
It's me and my cat. GoCubsGo Dec 2013 #29
I'm sorry renate Dec 2013 #59
Thanks. GoCubsGo Dec 2013 #66
that's so sad renate Dec 2013 #68
He wasn't completely well to begin with. GoCubsGo Dec 2013 #70
I have myself for company, so I'm never alone. westerebus Dec 2013 #30
Yes, but I met someone today. tridim Dec 2013 #32
Hanging out here, listening to the story of Jesus on CNN, eating candy canes. Bliss applegrove Dec 2013 #33
You're not alone. 99Forever Dec 2013 #34
Merry Xmas to you too! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #42
I am this year earthbot1 Dec 2013 #35
Sometimes I wish ... LisaLynne Dec 2013 #36
What a nice idea! Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #43
I am Bennyboy Dec 2013 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Dec 2013 #39
:) Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #45
No, got my family and my cat sakabatou Dec 2013 #41
I'm alone tonight vlyons Dec 2013 #44
For your consideration kristopher Dec 2013 #47
I had a knee replacement in August and am alone, too! rury Dec 2013 #48
I am boomerbust Dec 2013 #51
just my cat and me. my neighbor sent dinner over. DesertFlower Dec 2013 #53
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. 41 years, wow. That's awesome. nt okaawhatever Dec 2013 #57
thank you. nt DesertFlower Dec 2013 #72
I am. I have two dogs and neither would do anything like walker races with me. One has unconditional okaawhatever Dec 2013 #55
Merry Christmas Katashi_itto! polly7 Dec 2013 #61
Alone too, at least for tonight. Brigid Dec 2013 #63
I am, mostly. But it is good :) The Straight Story Dec 2013 #64
I am. H2O Man Dec 2013 #65
Merry Christmas! :) Demo_Chris Dec 2013 #67
well.. my grand daughter is sleeping madrchsod Dec 2013 #69
Just me and my cats. justiceischeap Dec 2013 #71
I'm up here on the 2naSalit Dec 2013 #73
I'm not alone (I'm with my parents) tabbycat31 Dec 2013 #74
Hang in there! You Have a Good Christmas Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #75

avebury

(10,952 posts)
1. My dog Toby and I are cat sitting for
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 06:39 PM
Dec 2013

a friend. The housing development she lives in is in a more rural area so it is really really quiet. The temperature rose up enough today to start melting the ice on the trees from last Friday's ice storm. All the furbabies are getting along really well. I have told my friend that I think that one of her cats now wants a little doggie friend to play with.

Merry Christmas to you too!

madokie

(51,076 posts)
37. Merry Christmas to both of you
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:57 PM
Dec 2013

Merry Christmas to all people where ever you are, what ever you're doing. I love you all

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
46. I've been living a hermit life for some time
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:05 PM
Dec 2013

And am fine with it, but I understand where you are coming from. When I was younger, healthier, and alone, I fixed my loneliness on Christmas by making a Christmas dinner and inviting single coworkers to share it with me. It was always fun and heartwarming.

Now my body won't let me fix big meals, or I'd still be doing it.

Don't be afraid to reach out to others. Instead of sitting back and being lonely, go out and try to help others. You will be so glad you did.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
4. Yep
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 06:43 PM
Dec 2013

By choice - could've gone out for a drink. Always fine on my own. Multitasking as usual - watchin' Man of Steel ', playing with the cats, sorting out banjo parts and fiddlin' about here.

Hope your hip's fine soon - I settled for steroid jabs.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
6. Yes, my mom's sick today.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 06:46 PM
Dec 2013

I was going to spend the day with her, but she's sick. She said we'll do our Christmas on Friday. I'll spend part of tomorrow with my dad and stepmom.

The upside is I bought myself a PS3 for myself and it was delivered today, so I'm playing with that.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
31. I'm playing this game that came with the PS3, The Last of Us.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:44 PM
Dec 2013

Entertaining so far. I've had a Wii for years and mostly played the Lego games, so this is out of the norm.

Dustlawyer

(10,495 posts)
49. I am sick with the flu that I came down with yesterday. It has been nice (to the extent that
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:37 PM
Dec 2013

my family and friends dropped off medicine and soup) to see that I am loved so much! It makes feeling like a train has run over me just a little better. Lol. Happy Holidays everyone!

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
9. Well you have all of us in the virtual world
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 06:47 PM
Dec 2013

I am sure the cat is far more entertaining though.

Merry Christmas and may you heal soon. If we were in the same town I would bring you dinner, no serious I mean it. Hell, I might bring some to the Guard on duty tonight.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
13. Working as usual but I get off at suppertime here so can go home and hang out with Mr, a book,
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 06:56 PM
Dec 2013

a glass of home made eggnog. I hope to get presents mailed this week, am very late.

Merry happy to you.

 

firsttimer

(324 posts)
14. I am but it's fine
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 07:04 PM
Dec 2013

I'm sort of a loner anyways , I have my dog and a cat I found (or she found me)
at my back deck . I live out in the country so people think it's okay to drive from the suburbs and dump animals off .










Hope you feel better

 

maindawg

(1,151 posts)
15. Well I am now
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 07:12 PM
Dec 2013

I was going to share Christmas eve with my eccentric neighbor[and dear friend]. When I walked in the door, I said what the hell it smells like puke in here ! She said 'oh, i through up egg nog earlier' I am just getting over the flu and nearly retched myself as I was high tailing it the heck out of there. So that is my Christmas eve for you.
I think I will just watch Scrooge.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
22. I am, but it's a big work night for me anyway
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 07:54 PM
Dec 2013

I have to dress up as Santa, put antlers on my dog and then go break into all the houses and steal all the presents, decorations, and food and then take them up to the top of Mt. Crumpet ...

It's more work than people give me credit for.

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
23. I love that musical version. Feel better soon!
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 07:56 PM
Dec 2013

I will very soon not be alone and I will hear "Why isn't all this work done, it's that goddam internet, right?!!"

LiberalArkie

(15,719 posts)
24. I am alone now and have been most of my adult life but
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:25 PM
Dec 2013

I have 4 cats and a dog and the last few years 2 days of Doctor Who to keep me comfy. Taking hydrocodon and Valium helps me through the holidays also.

okaawhatever

(9,462 posts)
50. Huh? hydrocodon and valium help. Are you in pain? I hope you don't take those recreationally. Hope
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:43 PM
Dec 2013

you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and whatever pain you're feeling goes away.

LiberalArkie

(15,719 posts)
58. I usually have real bad back pain but I ignore it most of the time. So I treat myself to
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:57 PM
Dec 2013

a good recreational buzz every couple of weeks and then hit the weight bench while I am numbed up and the muscles won't hurt real bad. My spine looks like an elongated S.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
27. Yeah -- sons are at their mom's house. I'm on my own, cooking, hanging out,
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:33 PM
Dec 2013

getting ready to watch Charlie Brown, I think, and some dinner later, with perhaps a walk and a cigar after.

Will catch up with eldest son tomorrow, when he cooks with a friend. Not sure when I'm seeing my social butterfly of a youngest son, who is also going away with some family friends for a few days -- maybe not until our road trip north to see my mom...

...who had her leg amputated (!!) earlier this fall, two weeks after my dad's memorial.

It's been... quite a year...

okaawhatever

(9,462 posts)
52. Oh your poor mother. I'm glad you can visit her. I'm sure that will make all the difference and
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:45 PM
Dec 2013

brighten her spirits.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
54. Thanks. One of my two sisters lives at home....
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:49 PM
Dec 2013

She thought she was "done" for awhile, after nursing my dad through so much of his illness.

Then this!

But yes, I'm glad I can visit her and help out too, from my usual perch some 400 miles away... !

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
29. It's me and my cat.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:39 PM
Dec 2013

Normally, I prefer it this way, but I had a godawful day today, and wish someone else was here to distract me from it.

renate

(13,776 posts)
59. I'm sorry
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:01 PM
Dec 2013


When I need a little distraction, watching videos on YouTube can be helpful... you can travel the world from your armchair.

Hope tomorrow is a lot better for you.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
66. Thanks.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:25 PM
Dec 2013

But, I'm not sure tomorrow will be much better due to this: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018540537

There was also a lot of weird shit that went down around where I live today, too (home invasion w/ shooting, and shoplifter killed in car chase). Just a really crappy day. Some of that will be better, but I'm still going to have to go back and tend to two freaked-out kitties who are missing their brother.

renate

(13,776 posts)
68. that's so sad
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:35 PM
Dec 2013

It happened to a friend of mine (i.e., it was her dog that died while she was away and she got the sad phone call). It's hard, of course, but I'm sure that your sadness and compassion will make it easier for your friend--I think it will really make a difference to know that someone else is sharing in their sorrow.

I wish your environment felt a little more settled; it must be disconcerting to have gone through your bad time while other bad things are happening around you.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
70. He wasn't completely well to begin with.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:54 PM
Dec 2013

He had some sort of immune system problem, and his people knew his lifespan was going to be shortened, despite the fact that he's been doing well. He also had urinary tract issues, and I suspect he may have gotten blocked, although he wasn't showing any of the symptoms. They actually took it better than I did.

I think things around me will be okay, although I'll feel better when they catch those home invaders. Meanwhile, I'm watching a show I hadn't seen before, "Bones". It's pretty good, and fairly distracting. Not much else on tonight that I want to watch. I probably should have stuck to my original plan to watch "Monty Python and the Holy Grail", but I just don't feel like it...

westerebus

(2,976 posts)
30. I have myself for company, so I'm never alone.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:39 PM
Dec 2013

Now the cat to whom I belong will tell you that as humans go, I'm acceptable company.

Take care and a speedy recovery.

Merry and Happy

earthbot1

(77 posts)
35. I am this year
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:49 PM
Dec 2013

I hope to not be next year, but I am okay with it for now. I did just get health insurance, so one less thing to worry about.
I hope the cat let's you win a race now and then! Me and the cat tonight...although she is sleeping yet again!
Wish you a speedy recovery!

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
36. Sometimes I wish ...
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:54 PM
Dec 2013

all of us who are alone could move to the same city and form a kick-ass support network.

Speedy recovery! Glad the cat is doing it's part to help by racing you!

 

Bennyboy

(10,440 posts)
38. I am
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 08:57 PM
Dec 2013

First Christmas without my Mom and my family is a ways away. But my roommies are gone and I have the house to myself, something that doesn't happen often.

I've got two fresh crabs, a loaf of sourdough bread and sixer of moose drool, so no worries.

Response to Katashi_itto (Original post)

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
44. I'm alone tonight
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:02 PM
Dec 2013

and I'm really ok with that. I'm playing a computer game (Grepolis), drinking a little wine, reading stuff at various favorite blogs and just being ok about everything.

I'm content, my bills are paid, my health is ok, not pissed at anyone, and just generally grateful to be live and well. May all beings be from suffering and from the causes of suffering. May all beings know happiness and the causes of happiness.

Merry Christmas, God lives within you as you.

kristopher

(29,798 posts)
47. For your consideration
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:05 PM
Dec 2013

You were probably expecting this...


Film Review: Reeves comes off bogus in 'Ronin'
LOS ANGELES (AP) -- In Japan, the story of the 47 ronin is so central to the country's national identity that a special word exists for the act of retelling it: Chushingura. But despite this long tradition of flexible reinterpretation, the Hollywood-backed "47 Ronin" takes such liberties with the underlying legend that a different term comes to mind, one better suited to American actor Keanu Reeves' involvement: "bogus." So far, Japanese audiences have been slow to embrace a CG-heavy version of the story that offers Keanu as a previously unsung "half-breed" accomplice. Meanwhile, domestic crowds are being deliberately misled to think he's the star -- a high-stakes bait-and-switch sure to backfire on this narratively stiff but compositionally dazzling production.

In theory, director Carl Rinsch's considerable visual talents should have been the draw, with the expectation that the first-time director would deliver on the promise of his dazzling short film "The Gift." Sure enough, in his hands, "47 Ronin" rivals the epic martial-arts films of Tsui Hark or Zhang Yimou in terms of sheer spectacle.

But as the budget crept ever skyward, reportedly reaching as high as $225 million, Universal's marketing department shifted into panic mode, opting to disguise the fact that the true heroes of this epic Japanese legend were themselves Japanese, and positioning Reeves' character -- described as the shameful "love of one night" between an English sailor and a local peasant girl -- as a superficial ploy to attract international crowds.

Like all Chushingura, "47 Ronin" recounts the tragic Ako incident (spoilers ahead), during which Lord Asano (Min Tanaka) was forced to commit seppuku after illegally striking an unarmed royal guest, leaving the 47 samurai who had been under his command without a master. After more than a year adrift, these ronin (as disgraced samurai are known) returned, staging a daring night raid in which they took their revenge, vindicated their master and were ultimately forced to sacrifice their own lives in punishment.

Sanada...

http://mainichi.jp/english/english/features/news/20131225p2g00m0et011000c.html

We're going to go see it, but when we saw the previews both our jaws hit the floor. I don't know if we can ignore the title and pretend it's just another tall tale or not.

boomerbust

(2,181 posts)
51. I am
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:44 PM
Dec 2013

But that's ok. Just spent a week back home over Thanksgiving. Didn't end well. You know, the old left-right smackdown.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
53. just my cat and me. my neighbor sent dinner over.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:48 PM
Dec 2013

hubby passed away 19 months ago. we were together almost 41 years. i miss him sooooo much. going to a friend's tomorrow. i could have gone to the neighbor's house but both their families are there and i wouldn't feel comfortable. i don't know the families.

okaawhatever

(9,462 posts)
55. I am. I have two dogs and neither would do anything like walker races with me. One has unconditional
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 09:50 PM
Dec 2013

love for me, the other not so much. Let's just say there are conditions. Definitely conditions and they mostly revolve around food and attention.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
61. Merry Christmas Katashi_itto!
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:04 PM
Dec 2013

I hope your hip is healing well. I have company, but they're snoozing in front of the tv and I'm sitting here trying to forget for a bit there are two counters full of dishes to do.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
63. Alone too, at least for tonight.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:08 PM
Dec 2013

Headed for Mass and Christmas dinner at church in the morning. Rereading "A Christmas Carol" and hanging out with the cats right now.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
64. I am, mostly. But it is good :)
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:11 PM
Dec 2013

My daughter is with her mom in California for the holidays. She made the trip safely, though both of them (and myself) have bad head colds.

That she made it OK is my Christmas gift.

I plan on hanging out with my son tomorrow and playing 7 days to die, eating dinner, and then going over to a friend's place because he is all alone for the holidays. If I feel a bit better.

Tonight though, going to play some of my game and watch some Downton Abbey, Dr Who, and the Fades.

H2O Man

(73,559 posts)
65. I am.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:23 PM
Dec 2013

There are two large dogs here with me (Rocky, who is 1/2 huskie, and 1/2 German Shepherd; and Sam, a boxer mix).

I'm working on a legal document for a labor case that will be filed in early 2014. I take breaks, and check in on DU, and play with the dogs. Then back to work. I'll have a big chunk of it done by morning.

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
69. well.. my grand daughter is sleeping
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:38 PM
Dec 2013

the dog is passed out on the bed,and the wife is working..i guess two out of three ain`t bad.

happy holidays and get better !!!

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
71. Just me and my cats.
Tue Dec 24, 2013, 10:58 PM
Dec 2013

I didn't even think to get anything to make a dinner for myself tomorrow. I kept forgetting it was Christmas.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
73. I'm up here on the
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 12:04 AM
Dec 2013

mountain and listening to a recorded reading of the original Story of the Nutcracker of Nuremberg... couldn't find it online, unfortunately, it's almost 3 hours long and read by one person with incidental orchestral flourishes, a really good production. Don't have the credits on the bootlegged tape i made! Wish I could find it online so I could share!

It's my years-long tradition since I usually spend the holidays alone by choice.

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
74. I'm not alone (I'm with my parents)
Wed Dec 25, 2013, 12:09 AM
Dec 2013

But to be honest we aren't even celebrating. My grandfather passed away on Saturday and we've spent the better part of the last few days (and them more, since I had to work through Saturday then travel to see them on Sunday) planning a funeral.

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