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liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:42 PM Dec 2013

my husband's retired guide dog just died and my husband is out of town.

It was very sudden and unexpected. He was out playing in the grass and he just dropped and never moved again. My father was here with him. I was out running errands. My husband is devastated and won't be back until Thursday.

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my husband's retired guide dog just died and my husband is out of town. (Original Post) liberal_at_heart Dec 2013 OP
Was the dog very old? randome Dec 2013 #1
... Liberal_in_LA Dec 2013 #2
Aw, hollysmom Dec 2013 #3
I am so sorry get the red out Dec 2013 #4
Oh my, tugging at my heart here. SummerSnow Dec 2013 #5
It sounds like a heart attack Warpy Dec 2013 #6
Hugs to everyone who loved that sweet doggie…. Tikki Dec 2013 #7
We've had him all along. He was my husband's guide dog. When he couldn't perform liberal_at_heart Dec 2013 #9
A life time of love and devotion both ways…. Tikki Dec 2013 #11
That's very sweet. Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2013 #23
So sorry for your families loss warrior1 Dec 2013 #8
Poor baby...although he went quickly and didn't suffer, and that's best, I think, joeybee12 Dec 2013 #10
I am sorry for your loss Gothmog Dec 2013 #12
He didnt suffer so please take solace in that....so sorry though, pet loss hurts Demonaut Dec 2013 #13
I am so sorry for your loss, I know it hurts like hell no matter what anyone says. I still mourn louslobbs Dec 2013 #14
Poor dog LittleBlue Dec 2013 #15
I'm so sorry mynaturalrights Dec 2013 #16
:~( Triana Dec 2013 #17
In a universe of justice most dogs would live longer than humans. hunter Dec 2013 #18
So sorry for your loss. Glimmer of Hope Dec 2013 #19
So sorry to hear tcfrogs Dec 2013 #20
... Mnemosyne Dec 2013 #21
I am so sorry. Your dog was a hero. He helped someone all his life. Hug your family for me roguevalley Dec 2013 #22
: >(( glinda Dec 2013 #24
This is so sad.... llmart Dec 2013 #25
I'm so sorry TDale313 Dec 2013 #26
I am so sorry this happened. hrmjustin Dec 2013 #27
I'm sorry for your loss - TBF Dec 2013 #28
I'm so sorry for your painful loss. UtahLib Dec 2013 #29
so sorry liberal_at_heart Skittles Dec 2013 #30
So sorry! cilla4progress Dec 2013 #31
Just think all good dogsgo to heaven kimbutgar Dec 2013 #32
So very sorry for your loss Cairycat Dec 2013 #33
I am so very sorry for your loss, lib_at_heart. LisaLynne Dec 2013 #34
thank you everybody. liberal_at_heart Dec 2013 #35
... LisaLynne Dec 2013 #36
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
1. Was the dog very old?
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:44 PM
Dec 2013

[hr][font color="blue"][center]A ton of bricks, a ton of feathers. It's still gonna hurt.[/center][/font][hr]

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
3. Aw,
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:44 PM
Dec 2013

in some ways it is easier to not be there, in other ways it is worse. But the dog died doing something it loved to do, playing in the yard. take some comfort that is died in a loving home where it was very happy.

Warpy

(111,359 posts)
6. It sounds like a heart attack
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:46 PM
Dec 2013

during something he was enjoying, not a bad way to go. It's just harder on everybody he left behind.

Tikki

(14,559 posts)
7. Hugs to everyone who loved that sweet doggie….
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:47 PM
Dec 2013

So sad…sounds like that doggie retired into a loving devoted home..



Tikki

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
9. We've had him all along. He was my husband's guide dog. When he couldn't perform
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 05:59 PM
Dec 2013

his duties anymore we kept him as a pet.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
10. Poor baby...although he went quickly and didn't suffer, and that's best, I think,
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 06:04 PM
Dec 2013

especially for animals because they don't understand when they're not feeling well.

louslobbs

(3,238 posts)
14. I am so sorry for your loss, I know it hurts like hell no matter what anyone says. I still mourn
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 07:09 PM
Dec 2013

the loss of my two min pins (Hana & Ipod), sisters who died within two weeks of each other, ten years ago. I loved those two like they were my kids and though I rarely take time off from work, I literally could not function for about a week and could not work because I kept bursting out in tears just thinking about them and yearning to see their wagging tails and beautiful happy faces.....and up until they passed, I had never seen my partner cry and he cried like a baby. I wish you all well during this very painful time.
Lou

hunter

(38,328 posts)
18. In a universe of justice most dogs would live longer than humans.
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 07:39 PM
Dec 2013

That's what makes me think there is a better place beyond and the good dogs get there much sooner.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
22. I am so sorry. Your dog was a hero. He helped someone all his life. Hug your family for me
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 08:33 PM
Dec 2013

i believe dogs are among the greatest animals ever. I still miss all six of mine last group like it was yesterday but it will get easier some day.

llmart

(15,555 posts)
25. This is so sad....
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 08:45 PM
Dec 2013

he wasn't just any dog - he was a guide dog! They are very special dogs. I was a puppy raiser for two dogs who went on to become guide dogs for blind people. Was this your husband's first guide dog? Does he have another one now?

I just happen to have a special place in my heart for guide dogs for obvious reasons. Just remember that your dog has a special place in doggy heaven.

TBF

(32,102 posts)
28. I'm sorry for your loss -
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 08:56 PM
Dec 2013

and know how hard it is. We've lost 2 Labs and they were like family members.

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
29. I'm so sorry for your painful loss.
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 09:08 PM
Dec 2013

Sounds like you will have many happy memories of very sweet and special companion.

Skittles

(153,202 posts)
30. so sorry liberal_at_heart
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 09:18 PM
Dec 2013

perhaps you could request your vet do a necropsy; sometimes it helps to know the cause of death

kimbutgar

(21,211 posts)
32. Just think all good dogsgo to heaven
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 09:53 PM
Dec 2013

That said sorry for your loss.

Once my sister went on vacation and I watched her 2 cats. I went over to feed them and the friendly one keep meowing and wouldn't leave me alone. I left and something told me to come back because I didn't see the older cat. I found it dead under my suster's bed. I called my Dad and he came over to take it to the ASPCA. When my sister came back 5 days later she called me from the airport and the first thing she asked were how were the cats. I told her the truth on the phone. She started sobbing and I felt so bad. If you can wait until your spouse gets home and tell him then. Otherwise he will be distressed on his business trip. It would have ruined my sisters vacation if I told her when it happened.

Cairycat

(1,707 posts)
33. So very sorry for your loss
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 10:30 PM
Dec 2013

Guide dogs are such special dogs. All dogs have unique personalities, but the aspect of being a working dog adds another dimension. It's a very special relationship, and it must be so hard to part.

My sister just told me that she expects her guide dog to only be able to work another couple years. But Kayla, as I suspect your husband's dog was, is a cherished member of the family, and will always remain so.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
34. I am so very sorry for your loss, lib_at_heart.
Tue Dec 3, 2013, 10:36 PM
Dec 2013

My thoughts are with you and your family. It's easier for the one who passes when it's fast and unexpected, but it's harder on those left behind.

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