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ZRT2209

(1,357 posts)
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 03:43 PM Nov 2013

Mom who lost custody of her children because she had an abortion

A mother-of-two who lost custody of her children because she had an abortion after she was divorced said the process has made her feel like she was 'beaten and raped'.

Lisa Mehos, 38, was married to Houston banker Manuel Mehos for five years before they split in 2011. She had sex with a friend a year later, fell pregnant and terminated the pregnancy.

Now a judge is using this against her and has deemed her an unfit mother, handing temporary custody to her ex husband, who is the founder and CEO of Houston’s Green Bank.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2513310/Mother-Lisa-Mehos-lost-custody-children-abortion-speaks-out.html


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Mom who lost custody of her children because she had an abortion (Original Post) ZRT2209 Nov 2013 OP
What possible relevance does this have? etherealtruth Nov 2013 #1
and apparently the father paid for sex and the judge said that was "irrelevant" ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #3
Sickening etherealtruth Nov 2013 #11
the mother had a legal medical procedure ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #4
Poor woman. This is fucked up in so many ways. LuvNewcastle Nov 2013 #2
Really, wonder if they can ask for him to be recused from her case as he obviously has some uppityperson Nov 2013 #7
That is bizarre - particularly since the judge ruled that his sexual actions weren't relevant. nt el_bryanto Nov 2013 #5
Well, you just never know, she killed 1 unborn child, what's to say she will treat the born ones any uppityperson Nov 2013 #6
That judge is unfit to hear these kinds of cases. Comrade Grumpy Nov 2013 #8
It seems to me something is missing from the story. HappyMe Nov 2013 #9
Don't you think that a "Houston banker" would have the wherewithal to find out Lydia Leftcoast Nov 2013 #10
Meh. 'Houston banker' could mean just about anything. HappyMe Nov 2013 #13
Maybe she said she had an abortion gollygee Nov 2013 #12
Apparently, the judge allowed the subpoena of Lisa Mehos medical records etherealtruth Nov 2013 #14
That makes no sense sakabatou Nov 2013 #21
None of it does to me either ... etherealtruth Nov 2013 #22
I think he accessed her medical records in some legal maneuver. Comrade Grumpy Nov 2013 #18
His lawyer subpoenaed her medical records according to the article. 1monster Nov 2013 #25
Leave a rich man EC Nov 2013 #15
I hope that publicity of this injustice will cause it to be corrected ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #16
please tweet this story to @TexasTribune @HoustonChron ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #17
'Earlier this year, Mr Mehos was arrested for battering his wife jsr Nov 2013 #19
Jesus. ZRT2209 Nov 2013 #23
The outcome of this case tells us that women who have abortions are bad and unfit mothers. Avalux Nov 2013 #20
I am glad that this is not a Houston Judge Gothmog Nov 2013 #24

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
1. What possible relevance does this have?
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:00 PM
Nov 2013

I know what Manuel Mehos attorney say ... I simply can't believe a judge or any rational person could make a relevant link.

American Taliban - Christian Sharia ... no shit!

LuvNewcastle

(16,846 posts)
2. Poor woman. This is fucked up in so many ways.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:02 PM
Nov 2013

That judge has no business on the bench or even practicing law.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
7. Really, wonder if they can ask for him to be recused from her case as he obviously has some
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:11 PM
Nov 2013

prejudices that are influencing his ruling in a negative manner.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
6. Well, you just never know, she killed 1 unborn child, what's to say she will treat the born ones any
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:10 PM
Nov 2013

better (sarcasm, very strong sarcasm rather than beating my head on a wall).

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!! WtF does it matter? Undermines her being Catholic which is what they based custody on? W.T.F? ARGHHHH!!!!!!!

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
9. It seems to me something is missing from the story.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:25 PM
Nov 2013

How the fuck would anybody find out she had an abortion?

I don't know, something is fishy.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
10. Don't you think that a "Houston banker" would have the wherewithal to find out
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:27 PM
Nov 2013

anything he wanted to know?

A private detective here, a well-placed bribe there, and he provides the information to his lawyer.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
13. Meh. 'Houston banker' could mean just about anything.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:39 PM
Nov 2013

If it was the people at the clinic, that's a serious damn problem.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
12. Maybe she said she had an abortion
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:39 PM
Nov 2013

Is she required to keep it secret in order to not have her children taken away?

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
14. Apparently, the judge allowed the subpoena of Lisa Mehos medical records
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:40 PM
Nov 2013
After subpoenaing Mrs Mehos' medical records to show that she indeed had an abortion, Ms Alter used the procedure to suggest she was a hypocrite for asking to have custody of her two children over Easter.

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etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
22. None of it does to me either ...
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 05:36 PM
Nov 2013

Why would the subpoena of these records be allowed ... why would an abortion be relevant to anything .... ?

EC

(12,287 posts)
15. Leave a rich man
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 04:44 PM
Nov 2013

and this is one of the possiblities...they would have used any reason they could find to take the kids from her anyway. She should fight, but it's likely going to be useless. This is what rich men threaten their wives with if they want to leave...you'll never get the kids.

jsr

(7,712 posts)
19. 'Earlier this year, Mr Mehos was arrested for battering his wife
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 05:23 PM
Nov 2013

charges that were later dropped due to insufficient evidence after he claimed her black eye was from a Botox injection, not physical violence'

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
20. The outcome of this case tells us that women who have abortions are bad and unfit mothers.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 05:27 PM
Nov 2013

It makes me sick to my stomach that this happened to her; I can't even imagine what she's going through. That judge needs to be removed from the bench.

Gothmog

(145,313 posts)
24. I am glad that this is not a Houston Judge
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 06:16 PM
Nov 2013

When I first read this story, I was afraid that this divorce was pending in Houston since the husband/father has banks here in Houston. I actually bank at one of these banks. This is clearly the type of stupidity that one would expect from a GOP judge in Texas but I was glad to see that this was a New York City judge.

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