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yuiyoshida

(41,862 posts)
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 02:36 PM Nov 2013

NJ Diner Leaves Anti-Gay 'Tip' for Lesbian Waitress

A New Jersey waitress and former Marine says she was "offended" after a customer left an anti-gay note on a check in place of a tip because she is a lesbian.

Dayna Morales, a server at Gallop Asian Bistro in Bridgewater, N.J., said a family dining at the restaurant Wednesday night skipped the tip on their $93.55 bill and scribbled an explanation why.

see more..http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/nj-diner-leaves-anti-gay-tip-lesbian-waitress-122024953--abc-news-topstories.html?vp=1


Is it me? Or, does it seem like we are seeing this more and more, lately?

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NJ Diner Leaves Anti-Gay 'Tip' for Lesbian Waitress (Original Post) yuiyoshida Nov 2013 OP
How are all these customers determining the sexual orientation of their servers? . . . Journeyman Nov 2013 #1
I wish I could have posted the video.. yuiyoshida Nov 2013 #3
lame bigots. nt Sheri Nov 2013 #2
Despicable. Rex Nov 2013 #4

Journeyman

(15,041 posts)
1. How are all these customers determining the sexual orientation of their servers? . . .
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 03:05 PM
Nov 2013

I just can't wrap my mind around it.

I can't, even with reasonable doubt, conclude much of anything about another human being in the very few minutes they might be next to me while they take my food and drink order. There's just not enough interaction, not enough time, to learn much of anything about a server beyond "are they pleasant?", and more importantly, "can they do their job"? And even there, I cut waitstaff a lot of slack, since I don't know everything going on for them at that moment.

Damn. I'd make a terrible bigot.

yuiyoshida

(41,862 posts)
3. I wish I could have posted the video..
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 03:14 PM
Nov 2013

It goes into a lot of detail in the news story.. I guess people will have to watch it at the link.

Edited to add another video I found on this

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
4. Despicable.
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 03:53 PM
Nov 2013

People with no class should be forced to wear a sign in public, "I have no class". Just to warn the rest of us.

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