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Baitball Blogger

(46,758 posts)
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:15 PM Nov 2013

Who can read right wing body language?

Twice I observed some strange body language that I haven't quite seen anywhere else. In short, the men bobbed their heads like those little dog toys you see in the rear car window and the overall feeling was swagger. Seriously, I felt like it was some kind of man message that seemed wholly inappropriate.

Should I be concerned?

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Who can read right wing body language? (Original Post) Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 OP
What was the context? nt Deep13 Nov 2013 #1
This maybe? Initech Nov 2013 #4
Similar, but they were more in control. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #5
Were you talking to them? nt Deep13 Nov 2013 #13
Absolutely not. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #15
hard to know what they were thinking. Deep13 Nov 2013 #22
That sounds about right. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #24
It's likely someone using a technique called the McCabe nod. I had to remember the name of it okaawhatever Nov 2013 #29
It's usually my cue to retreat. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #31
Wow, I had no idea what a skilled break-dancer Limbaugh is. Deep13 Nov 2013 #9
That was his imitation of Michael J. Fox, mocking his Parkinson's. Shrike47 Nov 2013 #27
Yeah, I know. Deep13 Nov 2013 #28
Could it be the universal body language of "ditto heads"? Marie Marie Nov 2013 #2
Must be. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #7
Really? snooper2 Nov 2013 #3
No earplugs and there was direct eye contact. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #6
Okay, so more like Regulators snooper2 Nov 2013 #12
You're making it out to be more cool than it actually is. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #18
I am very good at judging people's politics by their looks and mannerisms. HijackedLabel Nov 2013 #8
true. nt Deep13 Nov 2013 #10
People with dead eyes creep me out. Blue_In_AK Nov 2013 #11
Some of them wink too snooper2 Nov 2013 #14
Some defy explanation pinboy3niner Nov 2013 #16
I'll go with the scowl and dead eyes. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #19
100 percent correct: Indignation Populist_Prole Nov 2013 #26
Should you be concerned by men bobbing their heads? I would say "no". (nt) Nye Bevan Nov 2013 #17
I think you have to see it to get a better grasp of what's going on. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #20
Where I come from they call that "a nod". lumberjack_jeff Nov 2013 #25
This one wasn't benign. Baitball Blogger Nov 2013 #32
I could... SummerSnow Nov 2013 #21
They were trying to stop a thought from rolling out their ears. rug Nov 2013 #23
Did you jostle their Truck Nutz™ by accident? Warren DeMontague Nov 2013 #30

Baitball Blogger

(46,758 posts)
15. Absolutely not.
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:57 PM
Nov 2013

They recognized me, before I recognized them. And I've learned to keep my distance for good reason.

okaawhatever

(9,462 posts)
29. It's likely someone using a technique called the McCabe nod. I had to remember the name of it
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 04:53 AM
Nov 2013

so I googled it and found someone who posted this in response to a person going for a job interview. it included the definition so i'm copying it here for you.

Don't forget the McCabe Nod. This works really well when asked a question and you start of with a positive statement that turns into a cooperative statement.

"I think we'd agree that a strong willingness such as mine is a powerful benefit."

(during the time that you make the statement, begin to nod up and down, slightly)

Try this one on people you know and watch how many of them start to mimic your behavior.

As someone once said, "if I can change your body language, I can change your mind."



I have used the "McCabe Nod" many times, with many positive outcomes.

Just make sure you don't sound "forced" when you use it

Deep13

(39,154 posts)
9. Wow, I had no idea what a skilled break-dancer Limbaugh is.
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:42 PM
Nov 2013

I still hate his guts, but credit where it's due.

Deep13

(39,154 posts)
28. Yeah, I know.
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 04:40 AM
Nov 2013

Diane Rehm on NPR said that Limbaugh should have gotten on his knees to beg Fox for forgiveness.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
3. Really?
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:35 PM
Nov 2013

You do know that sometimes you're just walking around, in a store, down the sidewalk, an all of a sudden-



California Love just pops in your head like an ear-worm- Give folks a break!





 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
12. Okay, so more like Regulators
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:44 PM
Nov 2013

by the way, to bob your head and have some swagger you don't need headphones,

I know this by heart

 

HijackedLabel

(80 posts)
8. I am very good at judging people's politics by their looks and mannerisms.
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:42 PM
Nov 2013

A lot of conservatives have permanent scowls, stiff postures and dead eyes.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
14. Some of them wink too
Thu Nov 14, 2013, 11:46 PM
Nov 2013

This thread is going to be hilarious




FYI, some of them look like innocent old turtles

Baitball Blogger

(46,758 posts)
19. I'll go with the scowl and dead eyes.
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 12:00 AM
Nov 2013

But I think with their movements they're trying to relay indignation.

Baitball Blogger

(46,758 posts)
20. I think you have to see it to get a better grasp of what's going on.
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 12:03 AM
Nov 2013

Definitely it came across as a sign of disapproval.

Baitball Blogger

(46,758 posts)
32. This one wasn't benign.
Fri Nov 15, 2013, 10:56 AM
Nov 2013

Happened on three separate occasions from three different individuals who were part of a community conspiracy, or supported those who were.

This is the first scenario: My husband's young cousin had come to visit us and during the week he was ready to leave to continue on his travels. My husband was out traveling so I had the kid follow me to Denny's for one last decent breakfast. Except, there was no Denny's. It had closed sometime earlier. So the kid gets his I-Phone out and finds another breakfast place. It's up the road. We drove in separate cars because he was near the interchange and had no reason to come to the house since he could say his good-byes from the restaurant.

The place was a greasy spoon. There were four patrons on one table which had been observing us when we walked in. They were two couples, probably early sixties. One of them, who reminded me of Fat Bastards thinner brother, began quizzing the boy, wanting to know where he was from. Even after we sat down to eat the man sat with his arm on his hip, bobbing his head in an obvious look of disapproval.

It was disgusting. It was not a nod. And it was not benign.

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